why is he taking so long to hold my hands?
-
Yes there's nothing wrong with seeing him as a close friend but you said he was your boyfriend which is completely different.Originally posted by world_peace:what is so deluded about wanting to confirm the status of a r/s? will it then be just (or alright) to continue seeing him every weekend -- as a close friend? -
sorry peace.. misread.. thought you asked him about it and it wasn't to be..
good luck tomorrow
-
kns i think he dumb is it.If its me the gal accept me as her bf,1st thing i will do is hold her hands tightly and run man
-
Originally posted by ispyyy:
you just stole my line...
NICE... Go ahead... U will have my spiritual support ><
[b]LIVE WITH NO REGRETS
[/b]
the one in red... -
What talking you lao xiong?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:kns i think he dumb is it.If its me the gal accept me as her bf,1st thing i will do is hold her hands tightly and run man
Why can't single men and women be just friends? Where got rules say the moment a man ask the woman out that means he is chasing after her and must immediately make her his special? Why can't the woman loosen up instead of thinking that the moment a man ask her out that means he wants a special relationship? Why must the woman be so kan cheong and so desperate for? Men wants confident women not aggressive women. Aggresive women scare men off. So relaxlah!
-
it will happen when u ask him. "when are u willing to hold my hand." "when are u going to kiss me" " cause if u are not going to do any of that. i am going to change a new boyfren."Originally posted by world_peace:i have been dating my bf for about 1 year, he has not hold my hands, how will I make him do that? If i initiate the hand holding what will my bf thinks?
of course, we have also not kiss yet, when will it happen? -
Aye, seriously I cant stop laughing. She sounded so serious at the start with her problem but the rest of the thread is just so ridiculously funny.
How old is this TS and the guy? Are they really young? Like 8 or 9 years old. -
Yeah my thoughts exactly till I later realised that he's not really her boyfriend I don't think.Originally posted by tingal79:Aye, seriously I cant stop laughing. She sounded so serious at the start with her problem but the rest of the thread is just so ridiculously funny.
How old is this TS and the guy? Are they really young? Like 8 or 9 years old. -
It will not be funny if you are in her shoes.Originally posted by tingal79:Aye, seriously I cant stop laughing. She sounded so serious at the start with her problem but the rest of the thread is just so ridiculously funny.
How old is this TS and the guy? Are they really young? Like 8 or 9 years old. -
TS must be having lunch with her guy friend now
Hope everything goes well 
-
Your bf is scared lah.......... He is afraid you'll scream molest if he does it. You can take the initiative like when you both are crossing the road, just take his hand gently as you both cross...... Be more physical with him - make more physical contact with him..... That should awaken him that it's all right to take the r/s to a higher level............. When all these fail, just go ahead and rape him lah!
-
On that I agree, but I did not say that her situation was funny. I meant the replies from the rest.Originally posted by zeny:It will not be funny if you are in her shoes. -
I agree with Precious. You should just molest him.Originally posted by :Your bf is scared lah.......... He is afraid you'll scream molest if he does it. You can take the initiative like when you both are crossing the road, just take his hand gently as you both cross...... Be more physical with him - make more physical contact with him..... That should awaken him that it's all right to take the r/s to a higher level............. When all these fail, just go ahead and rape him lah! -
what happen to TS le? no news liao.
-
I cant believe i tracked this thread... u guys crack me up with ur molestations and supports... -
erm.. i took me almost half a yr to pluck up enuff courage to hold my 1st gf's hand.. haa.. i'm such a chicken..
-
first love?Originally posted by VivId CrItiQuE:erm.. i took me almost half a yr to pluck up enuff courage to hold my 1st gf's hand.. haa.. i'm such a chicken.. -
Two possibilites -Originally posted by freedom4ever:what happen to TS le? no news liao.
1) TS got the positive answer she wanted and enjoying her new status as a confirm gf for the last 3 days by holding hands with confirm bf now. That is why she can't type here. Hands are tied
2) TS got the negative answer and is so embarrasss, frustrated or angry that she is hiding somewhere to licking her wound and planning to get rid of the potential boyfriend. Watch out for news in the local newspaper for 'Woman claimed guy as bf but guy said she was mistaken. Woman flew into a rage and killed man off then dump body parts into Kallang River after chopping it up to appease her anger' -
haha nice but got one more possibilitesOriginally posted by FocusPoint:Two possibilites -
1) TS got the positive answer she wanted and enjoying her new status as a confirm gf for the last 3 days by holding hands with confirm bf now. That is why she can't type here. Hands are tied
2) TS got the negative answer and is so embarrasss, frustrated or angry that she is hiding somewhere to licking her wound and planning to get rid of the potential boyfriend. Watch out for news in the local newspaper for 'Woman claimed guy as bf but guy said she was mistaken. Woman flew into a rage and killed man off then dump body parts into Kallang River after chopping it up to appease her anger'
3) TS did not get answer from guy. She still hangs on and life goes on. -
Well thanks for all the concerns and attention from all of you.
I didnÂ’t manage to meet him on Sunday, because he sprained his ankle and had to rest at home. However I managed to lunch with him alone yesterday and asked him the question. He said hand holding is just a gesture, when couples hold hands, it does not mean they are truly together. He said there have been many young couples holding hands in the streets, but that does not mean they will really end up together either. He said at this age (i.e. 33), he prefers to go slow; he didnÂ’t say he loves me but he just said he likes me. Then he wondered why I have started to ask him these questions, he asked if I am seeing someone else. I replied no, and that ended our discussion.
There wasn't much time to discuss further after lunch.
Not sure what to think, looks like there will be a period of slow moving before we hold hands. -
World_peace,Originally posted by world_peace:Well thanks for all the concerns and attention from all of you.
I didnÂ’t manage to meet him on Sunday, because he sprained his ankle and had to rest at home. However I managed to lunch with him alone yesterday and asked him the question. He said hand holding is just a gesture, when couples hold hands, it does not mean they are truly together. He said there have been many young couples holding hands in the streets, but that does not mean they will really end up together either. He said at this age (i.e. 33), he prefers to go slow; he didnÂ’t say he loves me but he just said he likes me. Then he wondered why I have started to ask him these questions, he asked if I am seeing someone else. I replied no, and that ended our discussion. There wasn't much time to discuss further after lunch.
Not sure what to think, looks like there will be a period of slow moving before we hold hands.
I think he's right. Even couples who have sex don't mean anything, let alone holding hands. Why do you want to rush him into a relationship when he's still coming to terms with himself?
He still goes out with you alone. It's not as if he's trying to avoid you. What more do you want? If you are in a rush to get a boyfriend, then a husband, I suggest you look for other options available.
So at least you have sort of thrashed things out. Sooner or later you will have the answer as to whether the relationship is confirmed.
doko -
I don't think he even regards you as his girlfriend. He's just keeping you around like a spare tyre until a better girl turns up. That's why there are no moves, no commitment, just nice friendly time spent together.
Let's be honest and realistic. If a man cannot make up his mind about you after one year, he's just not that into you. If a man really wants you, he'll get serious very quickly.
You'd better move on ASAP before he finds someone he really likes and kicks you away with the excuse of "We're not that close really, we've never even held hands "Originally posted by world_peace:Not sure what to think, looks like there will be a period of slow moving before we hold hands. -
I once had a bf who didn't hold my hand too... and I wondered if he was being shy or slow.
Later I found out he was too busy holding a 2nd gal's hand, while still going out with me.
So my advice to TS is: Ditch this guy and seek better pastures elsewhere. -
BACK TO SQUARE 1 ><Originally posted by world_peace:Well thanks for all the concerns and attention from all of you.
I didnÂ’t manage to meet him on Sunday, because he sprained his ankle and had to rest at home. However I managed to lunch with him alone yesterday and asked him the question. He said hand holding is just a gesture, when couples hold hands, it does not mean they are truly together. He said there have been many young couples holding hands in the streets, but that does not mean they will really end up together either. He said at this age (i.e. 33), he prefers to go slow; he didnÂ’t say he loves me but he just said he likes me. Then he wondered why I have started to ask him these questions, he asked if I am seeing someone else. I replied no, and that ended our discussion. There wasn't much time to discuss further after lunch.
Not sure what to think, looks like there will be a period of slow moving before we hold hands. -
Getting to know someone better in steps slowing.