Can anyone Advise? Thanks alot
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that is being very myopic... "marriage" should be as accommodating as possible and not as restrictive as possible...Originally posted by MiX Metal:There !! no point being married if that how we feel. -
If somebody claims to love someone to the point of marrying them and is not happy when the other party is enjoying life... all I can say is:Originally posted by passerbyJIA:great minds think alike
What? Marry someone so you can exercise your power over them? -
Maybe I did not put it correctly .....Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I don't agree... this part... she should just inform him rather than asking for his permission... of course if he is not happy, then he should say it but he should not expect her to require his permission... I'm not saying she needs the permission of her husband, I jus feels that she should have given her husband the basic respect of telling him her plans and not doing it first and only when he calls her then she tells him.
In the first place if she allows him to get to know her friends better I don't think this would have happen. -
Mikki,
I think you are walking on thin ice.
If you think your husband cannot live without you, think again.
If you think your husband can tolerate your selfishness forever, think again.
Honestly, do you really love your husband ? It seems you don't care about his feelings.
That Finland guy, is he the one you truly desire ?
If that is so, then let your husband go, seek greener pastures. -
For this case, cannot really "see" that the husband "exercise his power over them"...............................................Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:If somebody claims to love someone to the point of marrying them and is not happy when the other party is enjoying life... all I can say is:
What? Marry someone so you can exercise your power over them? -
I think you dont find your husband fundamentally worth spending time with alone. Right Mikki? Your male friends (or boy friends) must be fun! A lot of my Ang Mo friends are going out with girls like you and I must admit that they just have what it takes to make young women like you happy because they dont need to commit or be serious about anything.
How I wish I could be one of them or be like you! -
ya... tat is the skill. Can u predict when he will blow his top that once??? Surely there is some kind of signs when he is going to blow... And when he is going to blow, do learn to take cover... lolOriginally posted by mikki1980:he will blow his top once in awhile.... we will have a argument, i will ask him.... so what u want me to do???? he will said nothing, u can do what u want, i just want to let u know how i feel about.....then things cool down,,, he will let me do my things again....
How to make him blow his top less often ?
U really need to study him more often... ><
Tat is the skill that I talk abt -
I dun think the husband is being unhappy about her enjoying her life ..... I think he is mad because she did not respect him as her husband enough to do the very basic thing as telling him about her plans.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:If somebody claims to love someone to the point of marrying them and is not happy when the other party is enjoying life... all I can say is:
What? Marry someone so you can exercise your power over them?
And NO ! of cos it doesn't gives you the right to exercise your power over someone even if you're married to them. Its simply one thing, "RESPECT" -
Originally posted by ispyyy:ya... tat is the skill. Can u predict when he will blow his top that once??? Surely there is some kind of signs when he is going to blow... And when he is going to blow, do learn to take cover... lol
How to let him blow his top less often?
U really need to study him more often... ><
Tat is the skill that I talk abt -
Please respect me..... all my friends are all purely friendship only....
Not all guys behave and think like u.
Originally posted by passerbyJIA:I think you dont find your husband fundamentally worth spending time with alone. Right Mikki? Your male friends (or boy friends) must be fun! A lot of my Ang Mo friends are going out with girls like you and I must admit that they just have what it takes to make young women like you happy because they dont need to commit or be serious about anything.
How I wish I could be one of them or be like you! -
Mikki,
When you married to your husband when you are 24, have you completed your U yet ? Did he supported you throughout your studies ?
Did you marry him, so that you can make use of him to get away from your country?
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised the world is so much more fun, so much more tempting.
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised you don't NEED your husband anymore, that's why you don't give a damn about his feelings. Right ??
I believe you are a vietnamese.
First we have the dragon ladies from China.
Now this.
When will SG guys ever learn ? -
*speechless*Originally posted by jojobeach:Mikki,
When you married to your husband when you are 24, have you completed your U yet ? Did he supported you throughout your studies ?
Did you marry him, so that you can make use of him to get away from your country?
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised the world is so much more fun, so much more tempting.
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised you don't NEED your husband anymore, that's why you don't give a damn about his feelings. Right ??
I believe you are a vietnamese.
First we have the dragon ladies from China.
Now this.
When will SG guys ever learn ?
Errr... I have many friends that married oversea girls and living happily ever and after -
Sorry to inform u......
I completed my U then I get married, I dont need his support.
I'm from a more wealthy family than my husband.
I dont need to "get away" from my own country.
I'm neither from China or Vietnam.Originally posted by jojobeach:Mikki,
When you married to your husband when you are 24, have you completed your U yet ? Did he supported you throughout your studies ?
Did you marry him, so that you can make use of him to get away from your country?
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised the world is so much more fun, so much more tempting.
Now that you can "support" yourself, you realised you don't NEED your husband anymore, that's why you don't give a damn about his feelings. Right ??
I believe you are a vietnamese.
First we have the dragon ladies from China.
Now this.
When will SG guys ever learn ? -
You married him becos of love 3 yrs ago. So what happen ? Where has that flame gone to ??Originally posted by mikki1980:Sorry to inform u......
I completed my U then I get married, I dont need his support.
I'm from a more wealthy family than my husband.
I dont need to "get away" from my own country.
I'm neither from China or Vietnam. -
Mikki,
OK, so where's your country of origin ? -
???? ME ??? why are asking me ?? I'm not the TS mah .....Originally posted by jojobeach:OK, so where's your country of origin ? -
Well your husband is treating you like the princess you are used to beingOriginally posted by mikki1980:Sorry to inform u......
I completed my U then I get married, I dont need his support.
I'm from a more wealthy family than my husband.
I dont need to "get away" from my own country.
I'm neither from China or Vietnam.
However, you need to understand that he is your husband and not yr parents
He needs your assurance in return
He needs your love in return and feel wanted and appreciated as well
From what you wrote, I don't think he is demanding much from you
Only that you give him some respect and to know that he still have a place in your heart
I bet if you just make the effort to spend a little time with him, he will be the happiest guy in the world. Just keep him updated on your activities. It is not reporting to him but letting him know out of respect so that he can be assured that you are safe and in good hands. -
I think TS is IndonesianOriginally posted by jojobeach:OK, so where's your country of origin ? -
I think so tooOriginally posted by elindra:I think TS is Indonesian -
Typical asian gals who fuel the media sterotype of White men superioty.Originally posted by passerbyJIA:I think you dont find your husband fundamentally worth spending time with alone. Right Mikki? Your male friends (or boy friends) must be fun! A lot of my Ang Mo friends are going out with girls like you and I must admit that they just have what it takes to make young women like you happy because they dont need to commit or be serious about anything.
How I wish I could be one of them or be like you!
White sell out.
Happy filling ur pu sy with fat D!ck -
Hey mikki.
Why do you want to keep your husband from knowing your friends? -
come on, thats uncall for.Originally posted by boka:Typical asian gals who fuel the media sterotype of White men superioty.
White sell out.
Happy filling ur pu sy with fat D!ck -
her behaviour is more like of a phillipino maid...after marrying local..Originally posted by elindra:I think TS is Indonesian -
Opss sorry, that was meant for Mikki.Originally posted by MiX Metal:???? ME ??? why are asking me ?? I'm not the TS mah ..... -
I don't think the race or country of origin of TS is very relevant in this discussion so please stick with the original discussion of this thread.
Also, please refrain yourself from insulting others or making racist remark.
Thank you for your cooperation!