should i go for it?
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Hi jojo jie jie,Originally posted by jojobeach:Hey Jackie girl,
Not very optimistic about this one eh ?
Hard to pin. My thoughts are based on how similar situations eventually developed for my friends and I. This is not a new story. What can there possibly be said that hasn't been done?
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Surely there be happy endings to some.Originally posted by jackdaniels:Hi jojo jie jie,
Hard to pin. My thoughts are based on how similar situations eventually developed for my friends and I. This is not a new story. What can there possibly be said that hasn't been done? -
she threw it to the dogs, they chewed it and spit it out .. and my balls tooOriginally posted by jojobeach:Where'd your guts go ?
Did your ex throw it to the dogs ? -
thanks for your advise, i havent heard of that song...Originally posted by jackdaniels:Hi fourfourtwo8 (car plate number?)
My nagging suspicion: When bragging rights and ego trips fizzle out, you'll eventually be singing Scar Tissue by The Red Hot Chili Peppers
bragging rights? - hmmmm...im not really bragging actually , i havent told anyone except online where nobody knows me.
i might be telling a tall tale for all you know isnt it?
ego trip - maybe -
maybe you are right as i said, thanks for your blessingsOriginally posted by smudgey:not when u anticipate it!
this is a classical situation where... TS obviously know what he wanna do, what he WILL do...
just wan ppl to agree with him!
i say you make your bed be prepared to sleep in it. -
Goodness... you are a ER case.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:she threw it to the dogs, they chewed it and spit it out .. and my balls too
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Yeaahhh... figured as much.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:thanks for your advise, i havent heard of that song...
bragging rights? - hmmmm...im not really bragging actually , i havent told anyone except online where nobody knows me.
i might be telling a tall tale for all you know isnt it?
ego trip - maybe -
maybe you are right but as i said , she likes me since she was younger, so it might be different in this case, i always thought that she was fond of me as an older brother..Originally posted by *bluee:i am a lady myself....
To start a r/s with age diff of that much dun really matters... as long as he loves me and can take care of me... this would be the key points i am looking for...
But sorry to say, such r/s might not start off with love... i am being more materialistic....
But this doesn't mean that i wun love this guy in future... love can be developed...
To have such thinkings, it can only endangered guys in 1 way only....
we want to be together not bcos of love, its the satability u can provide.... -
]]]Originally posted by jojobeach:Goodness... you are a ER case.
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FourFourtwo8,
I see that by the time I have sifted through the posts, you seemed to have made up your mind, with some prodding from jojobeach.
Or rather you seem to have appeared to relegate your doubts and concerns to the back of your mind, and thrusted the easy "have fun, why not" attitude to the forefront of your mind, not that it is anything inherently wrong.
I can identify with your cautious posts, and I really like your "I try not to have sex" statement. I think you should be aware that those doubts won't disappear, even as that you have decided to look at things from a slightly different viewpoint.
I think beautiful girls from the entertainment industry usually faces the problem of being pursued too much and hence losing confidence in men. They know a decent man when they see one. Hence your friend may be more serious in you than you think. Or at least she's willing to give it a shot.
She may be smart enough to know that when the curtain falls on her limelight career in some years time, she needs a reliable man more than ever.
From your posts, it seems that she's determined to catch hold of you (by initiating many intimate occasions, spa or tour) in case some other rival girl gets hold on you (It's a bit-chy industry she's in, I guess).
You know what, if you can withhold your sexual urges in the tour despite her seductions, she might give you more respect as a man of integrity.
Good luck, mate! -
yaOriginally posted by jojobeach:Goodness... you are a ER case.
ER XING
jhehehe -
i like your arguments and i agree with you , and im trying not to have any sexual encounter as long as possible , even kissingOriginally posted by ordinaryguy32:FourFourtwo8,
I see that by the time I have sifted through the posts, you seemed to have made up your mind, with some prodding from jojobeach.
Or rather you seem to have appeared to relegate your doubts and concerns to the back of your mind, and thrusted the easy "have fun, why not" attitude to the forefront of your mind, not that it is anything inherently wrong.
I can identify with your cautious posts, and I really like your "I try not to have sex" statement. I think you should be aware that those doubts won't disappear, even as that you have decided to look at things from a slightly different viewpoint.
I think beautiful girls from the entertainment industry usually faces the problem of being pursued too much and hence losing confidence in men. They know a decent man when they see one. Hence your friend may be more serious in you than you think. Or at least she's willing to give it a shot.
She may be smart enough to know that when the curtain falls on her limelight career in some years time, she needs a reliable man more than ever.
From your posts, it seems that she's determined to catch hold of you (by initiating many intimate occasions, spa or tour) in case some other rival girl gets hold on you (It's a bit-chy industry she's in, I guess).
You know what, if you can withhold your sexual urges in the tour despite her seductions, she might give you more respect as a man of integrity.
Good luck, mate!
so i will try my best but you know im a man ... -
I know fully well how you feel...Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:i like your arguments and i agree with you , and im trying not to have any sexual encounter as long as possible , even kissing
so i will try my best but you know im a man ...
I know the feeling of being seduced by women, but probably not half as stunningly beautiful as yours, so you're perhaps at a harder level.
It's in short, pleasurable yet agonizing to resist.
Keep up the spirit, mate! -
thanks, you caught the whole essence of my feelingOriginally posted by ordinaryguy32:I know fully well how you feel...
I know the feeling of being seduced by women, but probably not half as stunningly beautiful as yours, so you're perhaps at a harder level.
It's in short, pleasurable yet agonizing to resist.
Keep up the spirit, mate! -
hmmm that sounds like vegetarian going to a seafood buffet telling everyone that he will try as hard as he can not to eat seafood or meat...Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:i like your arguments and i agree with you , and im trying not to have any sexual encounter as long as possible , even kissing
so i will try my best but you know im a man ... -
I think more or less u have the answer even b4 u start this post, just like wat smudgey had said.... u just wan more supports...Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:maybe you are right but as i said , she likes me since she was younger, so it might be different in this case, i always thought that she was fond of me as an older brother..
Way to go then...!!!!!!
Since decided... just go ahead enjoy the togetherness between the 2....
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got mushroom mahOriginally posted by smudgey:hmmm that sounds like vegetarian going to a seafood buffet telling everyone that he will try as hard as he can not to eat seafood or meat... -
I'm glad you can find some common ground with my posts, and I hope it helps you...Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:thanks, you caught the whole essence of my feeling
Maybe it may also interest you that, while I succeeded in walking away from the seductions "as a whole", every biological cell in my body is cursing me for walking away from pleasure, but as I type this message, I am proud to say I did it.
All the best, mate!
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Pardon me.
Are you going to hold your guard and beat the hard wood to slumber , when she throws herself naked into your arms ?
Are you going to turn your head away, when she pouts her little lips at you, and let her suck some air instead ??
Gimme a break....
RAVISH HER... Make her YOURS.....sigh..... where'd all the men go ?
God oh God.. why'd you forsaken us with all these pussies instead ? -
yes,,i will,,,,,unless she tie me down and rape me....Originally posted by jojobeach:Pardon me.
Are you going to hold your guard and beat the hard wood to slumber , when she throws herself naked into your arms ?
Are you going to turn your head away, when she pouts her little lips at you, and let her suck some air instead ??
Gimme a break....
RAVISH HER... Make her YOURS.....sigh..... where'd all the men go ?
God oh God.. why'd you forsaken us with all these pussies instead ? -
Hmmm.. why did you walk away from the seductions ?Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:I'm glad you can find some common ground with my posts, and I hope it helps you...
Maybe it may also interest you that, while I succeeded in walking away from the seductions "as a whole", every biological cell in my body is cursing me for walking away from pleasure, but as I type this message, I am proud to say I did it.
All the best, mate!
She's Miss FUgly?
Having problems with your equipment ?
She charging you too much ?
Why? Do tell. -
Oh, jojobeach, you are such a temptress.Originally posted by jojobeach:Pardon me.
Are you going to hold your guard and beat the hard wood to slumber , when she throws herself naked into your arms ?
Are you going to turn your head away, when she pouts her little lips at you, and let her suck some air instead ??
Gimme a break....
RAVISH HER... Make her YOURS.....sigh..... where'd all the men go ?
God oh God.. why'd you forsaken us with all these pussies instead ?
I am not telling Fourfourtwo8 to turn away from his beautiful friend, I am just trying to give advice (not that i am an expert) on the importance of the balance between ravishment and consequence.
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maybe because he is a real man and not a beast?Originally posted by jojobeach:Hmmm.. why did you walk away from the seductions ?
She's Miss FUgly?
Having problems with your equipment ?
She charging you too much ?
Why? Do tell.
you want a beast for a boyfriend -
though i may give in if she give me a lapdance in a gstring....Originally posted by jojobeach:Pardon me.
Are you going to hold your guard and beat the hard wood to slumber , when she throws herself naked into your arms ?
Are you going to turn your head away, when she pouts her little lips at you, and let her suck some air instead ??
Gimme a break....
RAVISH HER... Make her YOURS.....sigh..... where'd all the men go ?
God oh God.. why'd you forsaken us with all these pussies instead ? -
Because she has a bf, and I'm married.Originally posted by jojobeach:Hmmm.. why did you walk away from the seductions ?
She's Miss FUgly?
Having problems with your equipment ?
She charging you too much ?
Why? Do tell.