should i go for it?
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Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:though i may give in if she give me a lapdance in a gstring....
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The trick is to not come to that. Prevention is better than cure.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:though i may give in if she give me a lapdance in a gstring....
once you come to the point when she's in nothing but a gstring and in the mood for a lapdance, I'm sorry to say that unless you are Jesus, Gandhi, or Tang sanzhang, there's no way back.
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i applaud u.. probably respect u too.. men like u are a dying breed!!!!! ur wife must be very pleased and probably working herself out to 'pleasure' u so u won't look elsewhere anymore.Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Maybe it may also interest you that, while I succeeded in walking away from the seductions "as a whole", every biological cell in my body is cursing me for walking away from pleasure, but as I type this message, I am proud to say I did it.
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Ah well... let's put it this way...Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Oh, jojobeach, you are such a temptress.
I am not telling Fourfourtwo8 to turn away from his beautiful friend, I am just trying to give advice (not that i am an expert) on the importance of the balance between ravishment and consequence.
Although I agree that romantics wouldn't like the latter...
I ain't no Miss goody two shoes...the man I want , I get.
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i'm flattered, and slightly embarrassed.Originally posted by thumbelina:i applaud u.. probably respect u too.. men like u are a dying breed!!!!! ur wife must be very pleased and probably working herself out to 'pleasure' u so u won't look elsewhere anymore.
Guys like us are not infallible. In fact, we are very fallible.
Knowing we are fallible is the first crucial step in averting danger.
Well, as for my wife, she doesn't know about it very much, but I would like to say that I didn't seek actively for the seduction.
And I like to think I can pleasure her more than she does to me.
Actually Fourfourtwo8 has a different scenario.
His scenario is somewhat light-gray, but mine is black and white. Falling to another woman's charms is adultery and downright wrong. -
I see.Originally posted by jojobeach:Ah well... let's put it this way...
I ain't no Miss goody two shoes...the man I want , I get.
I know many people live like that, and I don't detest them for it.
In fact, Miss FUgly is exactly like you.
I know people like you hate to be preached about the correctness and wrongness of cause and effect of actions.
But I would like to say that the end goal of human life is happiness, and sometimes we forget that consequence to our actions have a big impact on our happiness. -
Just a sidetrack, if Fourfourtwo8 doesn't mind.
Hope I didn't misunderstand your nick, Fourfourtwo8, but just out of curiosity, which football club do you support?
I am a Gunner. -
Ahem... thank you for the compliment.. or not....Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:I see.
I know many people live like that, and I don't detest them for it.
In fact, Miss FUgly is exactly like you.
I know people like you hate to be preached about the correctness and wrongness of cause and effect of actions.
But I would like to say that the end goal of human life is happiness, and sometimes we forget that consequence to our actions have a big impact on our happiness.
I prefer eligible single men...
Poor Miss Fugly, didn't her mother teach her not to touch someone else's property ? Shame on her. -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
I'm sure there are many eligible lucky stars out there waiting to hit on you.
Ahem... thank you for the compliment.. or not....
I prefer eligible single men...
Poor Miss Fugly, didn't her mother teach her not to touch someone else's property ? Shame on her.
And I hope the ones you fancy don't hold back like pussies!
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LOL....I have no wish to argue with you.Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:I'm sure there are many eligible lucky stars out there waiting to hit on you.
And I hope the ones you fancy don't hold back like pussies!
Good luck!
Behold ! My lucky star is sitting happily within my grasp. -
I have no idea that you thought this is an argument, I, in my rationalistic skewed male outlook, didn't think so.Originally posted by jojobeach:LOL....I have no wish to argue with you.
Behold ! My lucky star is sitting happily within my grasp.
but the above statement sounds dangerously like an argument!
My sincere apologies for any mild/major offence caused.
Congrats! I am sure your star is more of a real man to you than anyone else you have conversed with so far in the last hour.
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Buy the ticket take the ride. Let's hope this is an easy one.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:thanks for your advise, i havent heard of that song...
bragging rights? - hmmmm...im not really bragging actually , i havent told anyone except online where nobody knows me.
i might be telling a tall tale for all you know isnt it?
ego trip - maybe
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no clubOriginally posted by ordinaryguy32:Just a sidetrack, if Fourfourtwo8 doesn't mind.
Hope I didn't misunderstand your nick, Fourfourtwo8, but just out of curiosity, which football club do you support?
I am a Gunner.
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LOL, it seems that I, a hammer, tend to look upon everything as a nail...
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Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:FourFourtwo8,
I see that by the time I have sifted through the posts, you seemed to have made up your mind, with some prodding from jojobeach.
Or rather you seem to have appeared to relegate your doubts and concerns to the back of your mind, and thrusted the easy "have fun, why not" attitude to the forefront of your mind, not that it is anything inherently wrong.
I can identify with your cautious posts, and I really like your "I try not to have sex" statement. I think you should be aware that those doubts won't disappear, even as that you have decided to look at things from a slightly different viewpoint.
I think beautiful girls from the entertainment industry usually faces the problem of being pursued too much and hence losing confidence in men. They know a decent man when they see one. Hence your friend may be more serious in you than you think. Or at least she's willing to give it a shot.
She may be smart enough to know that when the curtain falls on her limelight career in some years time, she needs a reliable man more than ever.
From your posts, it seems that she's determined to catch hold of you (by initiating many intimate occasions, spa or tour) in case some other rival girl gets hold on you (It's a bit-chy industry she's in, I guess).
You know what, if you can withhold your sexual urges in the tour despite her seductions, she might give you more respect as a man of integrity.
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or she could think of me with no balls, anyway we have move on to holding hands and she initiated that when we went grocery shopping togetherOriginally posted by de_middle:
she was touching my hand all the time and finally it move on to holding hands, im trying to resist kissing -
how old are you >Originally posted by jojobeach:Ah well... let's put it this way...
I ain't no Miss goody two shoes...the man I want , I get. -
Judge me not on the numbers of my age.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:how old are you >
But by the contents I post. -
Yep.. no balls.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:or she could think of me with no balls
Just go with the flow bro.
If you keep resisting her.
She'd get insulted and figures you are not interested in her afterall. -
I think you're doing just fine, mate...Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:or she could think of me with no balls, anyway we have move on to holding hands and she initiated that when we went grocery shopping together
she was touching my hand all the time and finally it move on to holding hands, im trying to resist kissing -
I don't think anyone of us will disagree on that at all.Originally posted by jojobeach:
Yep.. no balls.
Just go with the flow bro.If you keep resisting her.
She'd get insulted and figures you are not interested in her afterall.
A good start wins half the race, be it sprinting or relationships.
For the latter, establishing a foundation of trust is important before diving in to reap the delights.
I think Fourfourtwo8 is trying hard to keep a fine balance between handling the advances of his beautiful gf and establishing the tone for the relationship.
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yes , i want this to last, anyway last night i had a work appointment and she said she want to go out with her friends for a drink and i told her you can do anything you want , im cool with that. your life shouldnt change just because of me,Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:I don't think anyone of us will disagree on that at all.
A good start wins half the race, be it sprinting or relationships.
For the latter, establishing a foundation of trust is important before diving in to reap the delights.
I think Fourfourtwo8 is trying hard to keep a fine balance between handling the advances of his beautiful gf and establishing the tone for the relationship.
Passionate sex can come last, and will taste 100 times better.
but instead she came to my house and waited for me . and she said "i didnt want to go because now i know even with you i have the option to do whatever i want
and because i have the option, i feel that my friends can wait..if you were unhappy and indicated that you didnt like it, i would have want to go badly instead"
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im not resisting and im not pushing ,Originally posted by jojobeach:Yep.. no balls.
Just go with the flow bro.
If you keep resisting her.
She'd get insulted and figures you are not interested in her afterall.
in fact i don thave to do much , in the car she is always touching my hand brushing my face with her hand,,,
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I think at the age of 21, freedom is still sacred. From her experiences in life, a restrictive relationship is still no-no.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:yes , i want this to last, anyway last night i had a work appointment and she said she want to go out with her friends for a drink and i told her you can do anything you want , im cool with that. your life shouldnt change just because of me,
but instead she came to my house and waited for me . and she said "i didnt want to go because now i know even with you i have the option to do whatever i want
and because i have the option, i feel that my friends can wait..if you were unhappy and indicated that you didnt like it, i would have want to go badly instead"
it was kind of sweet..
From her point of view, a man that gives her freedom to roam like a pretty butterfly but yet gives her the security of being loved and cherished when the party is over is hard to come by.
A man who is good in character and is secure to not feel jealous/upset at her partying is really rare. Money, age and status aren't important here at all.
That explains her intensive efforts.
For a smart girl, looks is a means to an end.. And at the end of the day, she needs an anchor someday with someone. And that person, she thinks, is you.
When your relationship is mature enough, maybe different challenges will manifest themselves. Maybe you would want her to show more commitment. But I suppose that's another futuristic scenario to discuss next time.
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I think 2 weeks is a realistic timeline for it all to happen.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:im not resisting and im not pushing ,
in fact i don thave to do much , in the car she is always touching my hand brushing my face with her hand,,,
i think im getting weak