should i go for it?
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4428,
Ok kid.
You've got it all figured out.
Run along now... don't get too many people here jealous yah ?
Enjoy the ride..... -
hmmm...interesting posts..
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well , hopefully i want to make it a permanent ride, and im pretty sure im older than you by at least a few yearsOriginally posted by jojobeach:4428,
Ok kid.
You've got it all figured out.
Run along now... don't get too many people here jealous yah ?
Enjoy the ride.....
yes im enjoying it now that i have let go of the thoughts of my ex ever coming back...
so im free -
Tsk.. so what if your ex wants to come back....you've got yourself a newer model.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:well , hopefully i want to make it a permanent ride, and im pretty sure im older than you by at least a few years
yes im enjoying it now that i have let go of the thoughts of my ex ever coming back...
so im free -
i still love her and think of her all the time but thanks to you i decided to let go and commit myself to the new one..the feeling will never be the same as the old one but i will adjust myself to fit her as time goes by , its a pity as the older one was 150% fitOriginally posted by jojobeach:Tsk.. so what if she does....you've got yourself a newer model. -
i still love her and think of her all the time but thanks to you i decided to let go and commit myself to the new one..the feeling will never be the same as the old one but i will adjust myself to fit her as time goes by , its a pity as the older one was 150% fitOriginally posted by jojobeach:Tsk.. so what if she does....you've got yourself a newer model. -
Excuse me ? 150% fit ?Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:i still love her and think of her all the time but thanks to you i decided to let go and commit myself to the new one..the feeling will never be the same as the old one but i will adjust myself to fit her as time goes by , its a pity as the older one was 150% fit
If she is so fit.. both of you would still be together. Duh~
Don't thank me.....you made your own decision. -
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timing is important sometimes.Originally posted by jojobeach:Excuse me ? 150% fit ?
If she is so fit.. both of you would still be together. Duh~
Don't thank me.....you made your own decision. -
If she ever comes back, it's up to you to force a rethink..Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:timing is important sometimes.
Sentimental men sometimes find it harder to let go... in that aspect, ladies sometimes fare better..
In the meantime, life goes on until it hits a crossroads, and maybe that crossroads will never come. -
Yes. It is.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:timing is important sometimes.
Now do yourself and your new beau a favor.
Remove all traces of your ex from your home/offices.
Photos, souvenirs, things that reminds you of her.
I know some items may be expensive or sentimental (souvenirs from travels).
But, it's most important you wipe her existence out of your life.
You are now going on a new journey with a new partner. -
new one here doesnt mean you erase the old one memoryOriginally posted by jojobeach:Yes. It is.
Now do yourself and your new beau a favor.
Remove all traces of your ex from your home/offices.
Photos, souvenirs, things that reminds you of her.
I know some items may be expensive or sentimental (souvenirs from travels).
But, it's most important you wipe her existence out of your life.
You are now going on a new journey with a new partner.
no
im not going to do that -
ouch... i don't think everybody can handle situations the same way u do..Originally posted by jojobeach:Remove all traces of your ex from your home/offices.
Photos, souvenirs, things that reminds you of her.
I know some items may be expensive or sentimental (souvenirs from travels).
But, it's most important you wipe her existence out of your life. -
That's kinda selfish isn't it ?Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:new one here doesnt mean you erase the old one memory
no
im not going to do that
How would your new one feel when she sees how much you'd hold on to your past ?
Ain't an easy pill to swallow... bitter going down that pretty lil throat of hers... I bet. -
Necessary evil......Originally posted by thumbelina:ouch... i don't think everybody can handle situations the same way u do.. -
on the contraryOriginally posted by jojobeach:That's kinda selfish isn't it ?
How would your new one feel when she sees how much you'd hold on to your past ?
Ain't an easy pill to swallow... bitter going down that pretty lil throat of hers... I bet.
well, i told her everything about the old one
and i told her also im letting the past go -
I think 4428 is very much like Linghu Chong, if you know that character from Louis Cha's novels.Originally posted by jojobeach:That's kinda selfish isn't it ?
How would your new one feel when she sees how much you'd hold on to your past ?
Ain't an easy pill to swallow... bitter going down that pretty lil throat of hers... I bet.
She might admire his steadfastness in love instead... -
Originally posted by jojobeach:Necessary evil......
u call that necessary evil ? -
not necessaryOriginally posted by jojobeach:Necessary evil......
just your choice -
Letting the past go... is not just talking is it ?Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:on the contrary
well, i told her everything about the old one
and i told her also im letting the past go -
Why not ?Originally posted by BadzMaro: u call that necessary evil ? -
i dont understand, what do you mean?Originally posted by jojobeach:Letting the past go... is not just talking is it ? -
Letting the past go may mean different things to different people.
If the past interferes in the current relationship, e.g. the amount of love/attention given, then it's bad.
But some wonderful memories may never be erased, particularly if the past relationship doesn't end in bad blood, e.g. due to relocation.
On the other hand, the rightful place for items belonging to a hurtful past relationship is best relegated to the bin/incinerator as soonest as possible, and all traces removed ruthlessly ... -
Well, maybe its not doing something bad for the greater good ?Originally posted by jojobeach:Why not ?
Forgetting and 'wiping' out all traces and memories is not such an easy thing. N those memories and thoughts or material things are not necessarily something .... bad or evil to be shut out off lo.
Maybe not necessary but rather to accept the fact and look towards other opportunities , other chances, other hopes and another future. -
She's suggesting you're paying lip service in terms of promise to your new gf.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:i dont understand, what do you mean?
That, you are telling her u are letting the past go, but telling us it may never be done...