Cheating Girlfriend
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ya no point. Even if you marry her, you will still feel gutted that she sleeps with so many guys but you only sleep with her. Eventually you will become unfaithful as well and sleep with others. So it will end up either you getting AIDS from her or from your flings.
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Hi, i really empathise with your situation cos i was in your shoes a few months back..but i guess such stuff should be settled asap, and you guys ought to have a heart to heart talk about this issue..there's not much point dragging it on, cos u'll get hurt deeper even more when she lies further, and she'll sink further in her mistake..
if you do confront her, and ur gf evades, comes up with lotsa excuses, and doesn't even feel a tinge of guilt, let her go..i guess she just doesn't cherish the relationship enough to know that she has made a mistake..
but if ur gf really apologises and proves to you by actions that she is sorry..i guess you could consider giving her another chance..
but the main thing is that behind this cheating incident, is there a deeper issue in ur relationship that caused this incident? perhaps communication or something else? try to find out what the cause of the incident is when u guys have a heart to heart talk..
if you guys eventually get back tghr, do understand that trust is definitely shaken, and u would have to ensure that u can forgive ur gf wholeheartedly, else with trust issues popping up all the time, the relationship wouldn't survive too..
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How old are you sia?
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How many guys do you wanna share you girl with?
Think larhhs. THERE'S ONE HUGE FOREST OUT THERE AND YOU WANT ONLY THIS PATHETIC DIRTY TREE?
USE YOUR BRAIN PLEASE?! -
GIVE HER UP!!!!!!!!
SHE cannot make it one -
Wake up from ur fucking idea...Originally posted by andrewtvp:
i dunno.... cos i love her too much?
i spoke with a few close friends. the guys told me to dump her.
there was a girl whom said something
"..that if you love her, you shouldnt even consider breaking up.."
im confused on what i should do. could he be a fling? sigh... i am confused. i dont know what to believe.
:'(
U want ur wife to be someone who flirt around with guy meh? Worse still have sex with another guy when u are her bf... WTF... U are a man, not a wimper dude.
Don't hold on to this girl, she will drag u to living hell. Trust me.
Give up and try new target. -
actually hor... gals always say guys are not faithful, flower heart or horny horny just cannot resist a free fcuk.... but hor... acutally... gals are just the same if not worst.... why i say that?? cos i am flings with so many gals that have bf.... or even husband.... and... sometimes it's so easy to hook them on lor.. i am really not a handsome, or rich or super romantic guy lor.. but they just kena con by me....and trust mi.. these are not those cheap char bor that go clubbing and look for ONS kind of gals lor.. most are very decent gals....but.... they are more unfaithful than guys lor...... and i know.. u guys sure say i will have my karma one right?? and yes... i believe so too.. as i see all the gals now.... i wont be surprised if any of them will be con by other guys once i got no time for them lor...
so conclusion.... gals are worst than we guys lah....even more horny lor.. just die die dun wan to admit it... so take it easy... there's still alot of tree out there in the forest lah...
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what are you waiting for? ditch her...
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AGREES AGREES!Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):actually hor... gals always say guys are not faithful, flower heart or horny horny just cannot resist a free fcuk.... but hor... acutally... gals are just the same if not worst.... why i say that?? cos i am flings with so many gals that have bf.... or even husband.... and... sometimes it's so easy to hook them on lor.. i am really not a handsome, or rich or super romantic guy lor.. but they just kena con by me....and trust mi.. these are not those cheap char bor that go clubbing and look for ONS kind of gals lor.. most are very decent gals....but.... they are more unfaithful than guys lor...... and i know.. u guys sure say i will have my karma one right?? and yes... i believe so too.. as i see all the gals now.... i wont be surprised if any of them will be con by other guys once i got no time for them lor...
so conclusion.... gals are worst than we guys lah....even more horny lor.. just die die dun wan to admit it... so take it easy... there's still alot of tree out there in the forest lah...
Though I may be female, there's really quite a huge no. of cheap girls, real cheap. DISGRACE! -
WHy would they wanna have flings with u even though they are married or have bf??Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):actually hor... gals always say guys are not faithful, flower heart or horny horny just cannot resist a free fcuk.... but hor... acutally... gals are just the same if not worst.... why i say that?? cos i am flings with so many gals that have bf.... or even husband.... and... sometimes it's so easy to hook them on lor.. i am really not a handsome, or rich or super romantic guy lor.. but they just kena con by me....and trust mi.. these are not those cheap char bor that go clubbing and look for ONS kind of gals lor.. most are very decent gals....but.... they are more unfaithful than guys lor...... and i know.. u guys sure say i will have my karma one right?? and yes... i believe so too.. as i see all the gals now.... i wont be surprised if any of them will be con by other guys once i got no time for them lor...
so conclusion.... gals are worst than we guys lah....even more horny lor.. just die die dun wan to admit it... so take it easy... there's still alot of tree out there in the forest lah... -
sweet talks lorOriginally posted by snowstar:WHy would they wanna have flings with u even though they are married or have bf?? -
Originally posted by gigabyte14:sweet talks lor
not always lah.. not very sweet too what.. sometimes act cool too.. -
Probably they're looking for attention too.Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
not always lah.. not very sweet too what.. sometimes act cool too.. -
teach me some of ur methods sometimeOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):
not always lah.. not very sweet too what.. sometimes act cool too.. -
Ya la Ya la....Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
not always lah.. not very sweet too what.. sometimes act cool too..
U are the best of the best.
No money,not handsome still can con alot of decent girl. We guys worship u like god....
HAPPY and satisfy yr ego?
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we shud dedicate a shrine to shi fu i-like-flings.
think of a scenario in which you can catch them in the act. put spycam in your girlfren bedroom or something then collect it nxt time.
jus forget her and move on man. if suay suay meet her on the street jus ignore her. she doesnt deserve you. lucky haven marry yet. -
x10Originally posted by Clandestine:Step-by-step guide
1)Import all the e-mail conversations into a thumbdrive.
2)Once you have done that,Be extra nice to her over the next week...send her flowers....sweet sms's...watever that isn't too "over-the-top"
3)Plan a get together...with your friends and her friends and especially her colleagues...invite the "3rd party guy" and be extra nice to him throughout...
4)In the middle of the get-together, tell everyone that you've prepared a special slide show JUST for her...to show how much you love her.
5)Project e-mails onto the wall, and leave the party.
OR along the same lines......
3)Leak all the e-mails via watever intranet system that they use to circulate internal mails at the office.
4)Sit back and watch the show...or.....make a gracefull exit with a smile.
OR for added Ooomph......
5)Remember to send a copy of the "explicit" e-mails to all family members concerned...
do this. she deserves it. she's such a bitch man! -
Originally posted by andrewtvp:my gf has been in her new job for 2 months now. and i suspect she is having an affair and cheating behind my back.
history: we have known each other for 2years+ and have been together for 1yr+. she started in this new job for 2months already and i started noticing that she has sorta been distancing in the things we talk about and in the schedule of her daily life. so for the past 2 months i trusted her and spent time with her as usual. there was a period of 2weeks where i was super busy and couldnt meet up with her, she didnt even call OR sms me unless i initiated it. i felt we were drifting apart.
she had a history of lying to me about things previous, small matters, white lies in her own words.
but yesterday i guessed her email password and managed to get in.
she has been having a private correspondence with a guy in office, chatting over email, 100s a day.
as i started prying deeper.
they had sex on many ocassions. (i recalled and on those days she said she was tired and slept as early as 9pm)
their conversations were explicit. detailed.
he asked her if they were dating. she said yes. (inside i was hurting)
they flirted with each other. courted each other. called each other nick names. stole kisses and groped each other when no colleages were around.
my god i was hurt. and am still hurting so bad.
i felt i needed to confront them. but am afraid of losing this relationship...
how should i go about this??
depressed.distressed.dejected.
the hardest part is to hold a forced smile when i see her. sigh.
we had plans to get married next year. we had so many plans. but she couldnt even resist this simple temptation. while i have been holding on ever SO staunchly to this rs. sigh. he was in the right place. at the right time. i guess that was stronger than the 2years of bond we have built.
many times she said he was just a colleague, one that gives her a lift to work everyday. i cant. cos i live too far. on the other end of the island.
he sends her home everyday too. sometimes they head to the beach afterwork. sometimes they go back to their place. and coincidentally her last sms to me would be "fone low bat, ttyl!".
and the emails on the next day would be full of explicit details. which i shall spare you guys of.
we had promised each other to a monogamous relationship. but now that i cant even believe her words, what is there left?
please help me salvage us...
It's not about losing grip on the relationship; chances are - you have already lost it.
The man is very much a parasite exploiting a woman who has probably lost much interest in the man she probably only calls as boyfriend in name. However, the desire is mutual. Her personality kinda aid the concoction of seduction to his advantage as your woman has the propensity to indulge in deception of some sorts (afflicted Neptune).
You are still clinging onto the promise of the past, while she has already absconded from that era. Using discolored memories of the past and superficial words that have been said previously are now cast void and null - taking that into consideration to decide how you want to steer your future will likely to guarantee you poignant misery and the fate of having your emotions permanently crushed and shattered into a million of crystal fragments.
You displayed strong evidence of some avoidance-apt attitude towards love and relationship. You forcefully deny all blatant sign of perfidy and chuck it behind your unconscious, thinking that that would enable you to lead your life 'normally' once again.
The truth is that after your revelation: life will NEVER go back to normal. There isn't a 'normal' to return to now - everything else is an aftermath.
Instead of trashing it out on a serious note (probably with a ultimatum) and if she begs for forgiveness, it must be backed with actual proof of her course of action - effortlessly, you succumb to simple feminine tricks and gave in mindlessly.
You think that is love? I tell you that came from fear.
You have so much fear in your psyche that her one dramatic attempt at begging for your forgiveness appeared to hold more weight than a hundred signs of deceitfulness. In your mind, you held back communication and dialogue because you feared that that would mark the end of your love, but I can tell you, deep inside you are just praying that everything will just return back to normal and her infidelity will just cease miraculously.
Rubbish.
She might be stupid to lie, but you are silly to believe and the greatest fool to be able to deceive yourself with the most incomprehensible of reasons.
To catch her red-handed before you will let go?
Perhaps you are just delaying the inevitable: your constant refusal to accept that this act of promiscuity signified the final days of your relationship - akin to a dying soldier decapitated by three gunshot wounds, devoid of medical assistance and merely waiting for spiritual deliverence to release his soul from pain.
The difference is that your injury is an emotional one.
P.S: When you throw a frog into a pool of water at boiling point, the frog will jump out instantly. But when you place the frog into a pool of water and gradually heat the water, the frog will slowly boil itself to death without escaping. This is the frog theory of karmic relationship - of both first and third person perspective. Boundary regression is triggered until a point of maximum stretch length before it snaps like a wooden ruler - in karmic relationship, that result often signifies a partial payment of cosmic debt (CloUdiSm - Yunhaier).
Cheers -
Forget it ba,~~~ i rather u start a new life on yr own..but confront her 1st..see if she feels guilty...however even if she feels guilty...don bother about her liao...~~ forget la
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nice 1.. i found it vv trueOriginally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: When you throw a frog into a pool of water at boiling point, the frog will jump out instantly. But when you place the frog into a pool of water and gradually heat the water, the frog will slowly boil itself to death without escaping. This is the frog theory of karmic relationship - of both first and third person perspective. Boundary regression is triggered until a point of maximum stretch length before it snaps like a wooden ruler - in karmic relationship, that result often signifies a partial payment of cosmic debt (CloUdiSm - Yunhaier).
Cheers -
AGREE TO A LARGE EXTEND!!!Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):actually hor... gals always say guys are not faithful, flower heart or horny horny just cannot resist a free fcuk.... but hor... acutally... gals are just the same if not worst.... why i say that?? cos i am flings with so many gals that have bf.... or even husband.... and... sometimes it's so easy to hook them on lor.. i am really not a handsome, or rich or super romantic guy lor.. but they just kena con by me....and trust mi.. these are not those cheap char bor that go clubbing and look for ONS kind of gals lor.. most are very decent gals....but.... they are more unfaithful than guys lor...... and i know.. u guys sure say i will have my karma one right?? and yes... i believe so too.. as i see all the gals now.... i wont be surprised if any of them will be con by other guys once i got no time for them lor...
so conclusion.... gals are worst than we guys lah....even more horny lor.. just die die dun wan to admit it... so take it easy... there's still alot of tree out there in the forest lah...
U!! FULL MARKS!!!
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being in "love" makes people stupid.
stupid people always mistake commitment or companionship for "love"
stupid people do not know its better to b single and lonely thn to be attached n hurting.... -
Must be your tool too short, cannot satisfy your girl. Accept it as a way of life ba. Too bad you got the short end of the 'stick'. Now this will happen with any girl.
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I modify yr last sentence abit...Originally posted by skeujin:being in "love" makes people stupid.
stupid people always mistake commitment or companionship for "love"
stupid people love blindly. Being attached is wonderful if u bring yr conscious and senses into love! -
Haha very true I second that.Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):actually hor... gals always say guys are not faithful, flower heart or horny horny just cannot resist a free fcuk.... but hor... acutally... gals are just the same if not worst.... why i say that?? cos i am flings with so many gals that have bf.... or even husband.... and... sometimes it's so easy to hook them on lor.. i am really not a handsome, or rich or super romantic guy lor.. but they just kena con by me....and trust mi.. these are not those cheap char bor that go clubbing and look for ONS kind of gals lor.. most are very decent gals....but.... they are more unfaithful than guys lor...... and i know.. u guys sure say i will have my karma one right?? and yes... i believe so too.. as i see all the gals now.... i wont be surprised if any of them will be con by other guys once i got no time for them lor...
so conclusion.... gals are worst than we guys lah....even more horny lor.. just die die dun wan to admit it... so take it easy... there's still alot of tree out there in the forest lah...
When I was good no one wants me always kena dump cos they feel others are better.
When I became bad, more gals flock to me until I cannot handle.
sad world.
Only true words are "how far are you willing to go to get what u want?" -
plz
BE A MAN
no use hanging on to it