Cheating Girlfriend
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very chim, dont understand..Originally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: When you throw a frog into a pool of water at boiling point, the frog will jump out instantly. But when you place the frog into a pool of water and gradually heat the water, the frog will slowly boil itself to death without escaping. This is the frog theory of karmic relationship - of both first and third person perspective. Boundary regression is triggered until a point of maximum stretch length before it snaps like a wooden ruler - in karmic relationship, that result often signifies a partial payment of cosmic debt (CloUdiSm - Yunhaier).
Cheers -
one word. leave her
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DO YOU REALLY NEED TO TAKE SUCH A LONG TIME TO THINK ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP?
She betrayed your trust.
She lied to you. Can you really trust her to take care of her children next time?
She had sex behind your back.
Yet she still had the cheek to ask for a patch-up. Worse, you even accepted her bullcRap!
Listen, Im not anti-women but I feel that women's words are not to be taken at face value.
Bro, GET RID OF HER! IMMEDIATELY! PERIOD.
doko -
One more thing,
All's fair in love and war; I support you in hacking that email when you feel something's wrong.
Thank you lucky stars you are not married to her.
doko -
My gf hacked my forum account once.
anyways.. kelian TS.. -
I'd say confront her.
If you love her and she repents, forgive her.
If you love her and she doesn't repent, let her go.
If she repents and you forgive her, bear no grudges.
If she doesn't repent and you let her go, don't end up a bitter person.
All in all, be it this or that - it's a difficult time, take your time to recover. -
She is someone so close and dear to you and yet she is doing all those evil acts?
how can you tolerate that?
Confront her! make her life mserable! SHame her! -
I feel for you.
But hey. Be a man. -
I have a feeling that you are a ger.... coz normally only them are that scary... that is why i never offend a ger/lady whenever I can.Originally posted by Clandestine:Step-by-step guide
1)Import all the e-mail conversations into a thumbdrive.
2)Once you have done that,Be extra nice to her over the next week...send her flowers....sweet sms's...watever that isn't too "over-the-top"
3)Plan a get together...with your friends and her friends and especially her colleagues...invite the "3rd party guy" and be extra nice to him throughout...
4)In the middle of the get-together, tell everyone that you've prepared a special slide show JUST for her...to show how much you love her.
5)Project e-mails onto the wall, and leave the party.
OR along the same lines......
3)Leak all the e-mails via watever intranet system that they use to circulate internal mails at the office.
4)Sit back and watch the show...or.....make a gracefull exit with a smile.
OR for added Ooomph......
5)Remember to send a copy of the "explicit" e-mails to all family members concerned... -
andrewtvp,
Since you are such a forgiving guy.
Surely you wouldn't mind raising a kid as your own.
An innocent kid who belongs to another man and mothered by your gf/wife.
How many times do you want to put that green hat on ?
Perhaps you can also parade around in that green hat while happily hugging your gf/wife while rejoicing your fortunate circumstances, telling all your friends and relatives how much you really cannot live without her ? -
Revenge is sweet, but, why drag along the kids and suffer with him?Originally posted by boka:should u want to feel good then continue being with her,marry her and one day when your children are grown up,expose your facade.
Tell them that mom was a whore and had affairs.
revenge is like wine.
They sweeten with age. -
Yes. And also risk getting a retort back when the mother replies withOriginally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:Revenge is sweet, but, why drag along the kids and suffer with him?
" Yah, and he is also not your biological father." -
Hi Doko,Originally posted by dokono:One more thing,
All's fair in love and war; I support you in hacking that email when you feel something's wrong.
Thank you lucky stars you are not married to her.
doko
I do have great appreciation for your posts and suggestions and I think you give good and mature interpretation. But this time I do not agree with you. Privacy intrusion is shld NOT be supported,n esp just bcoz u FEEL something is nt right!!
So,TS confessed he did that , i hope he knows its not right! but I admired his ability to keep it inside his heart n kept mum about it . I admire TS's maturity in this issue and tryin to handle it in a less confrontational way.
I believe it is very hard for you right now, coz that is really quite Over, but give yourself n her sometime to think if it is suitable to carry on. No point pushing.
I am sure she isnt feeling too well too...
Ask urself if you can really forgive her for her mistake. That is most important. -
you said she had a history of lying and is still lying now.
you and she had promised each other to a monogamous relationship and she broke that promise.
you said you cant believe her words anymore.
she is lying to you, she had betrayed you and you cant trust her anymore.
even if you are able to forgive what she did, you will still be suspicious of whatever she do in the future. do you want to live like this and with such kind of woman like her?
seriously, why are you even considering salvaging such a relationship?
there is nothing worth saving this relationship for. love? love is dead between the two of you when she lied and betrayed you continuously and when you had your distrust in her.
side note... if you plan to take up the earlier suggestion of screwing that woman as much as possible before breaking up, remember to wear condom.
who knows that guy is also screwing around with other girls and has aids.
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oh come on, leave her for goodness sake.
she can sleep with tat office guy, she can oso sleep with the toilet man.
im sure she will cheat again.
endure this break up pain for now or endure this stressful, disheartening pain for as long as u want.
im sure she will break up with u after she finds her bastard other half.
bitch always goes well with bastard.
ya, b4 u break up,
fark her like ter is no tmr afterwhich u may give her a tight slap! -
Dude,
I don't normally comment on these kind of issues but, having gone through similar experiences myself, my only advise to you is, cut losses and get out of the r/s. Its not going to do any good to any of you if you hold on. -
Actually I do not see the point of even advising the TS.Originally posted by turdkenstien:Dude,
I don't normally comment on these kind of issues but, having gone through similar experiences myself, my only advise to you is, cut losses and get out of the r/s. Its not going to do any good to any of you if you hold on.
He knows his gf is sleeping around but he just simplily refuse to let go.
For love? -
go ahead and patch up with her man!
2 months later she say she's pregnant, you are gonna be a father!... be only she knows it's not your child... -
Hi ilovethesunOriginally posted by ilovethesun:Hi Doko,
I do have great appreciation for your posts and suggestions and I think you give good and mature interpretation. But this time I do not agree with you. Privacy intrusion is shld NOT be supported,n esp just bcoz u FEEL something is nt right!!
So,TS confessed he did that , i hope he knows its not right! but I admired his ability to keep it inside his heart n kept mum about it . I admire TS's maturity in this issue and tryin to handle it in a less confrontational way.
I believe it is very hard for you right now, coz that is really quite Over, but give yourself n her sometime to think if it is suitable to carry on. No point pushing.
I am sure she isnt feeling too well too...
Ask urself if you can really forgive her for her mistake. That is most important.
I know a lot of people will complain that this is an intrusion of privacy but I stand by my comment.
Im not saying you should always spy on your partner but when you can tell things are not right, I think you can go ahead and do it.
I support them 100%.
After all, who wants a cheating girlfriend/boyfriend right ? The first thing I would do is get rid of them. Sorry it sounds harsh but yeah, that's how it works.
Hey, they had sex behind his back remember?
doko -
Hey TS, look at yourself in the mirror...
Are you still a guy ? Where's your pride ?
Being kind doesn't pay. She'll just keep cheating on you. -
Yes doko, I second your stand.Originally posted by dokono:Hi ilovethesun
I know a lot of people will complain that this is an intrusion of privacy but I stand by my comment.
Im not saying you should always spy on your partner but when you can tell things are not right, I think you can go ahead and do it.
I support them 100%.
After all, who wants a cheating girlfriend/boyfriend right ? The first thing I would do is get rid of them. Sorry it sounds harsh but yeah, that's how it works.
doko
That's what Private Investigators are for. -
Exactly. If you let her know you can take her back, she knows she can still cheat behind your back.Originally posted by Sagara:Hey TS, look at yourself in the mirror...
Are you still a guy ? Where's your pride ?
Being kind doesn't pay. She'll just keep cheating on you.
You allowed her after all. She's doesn't respect you at all. This is a dysfunctional relationship to begin with.
Her good friend huh?
What a joke! Just a good sex friend right?
doko -
You know what mate...be happy that u found out now. Cuz bf/gf can break up...who also dun owe who anything. Imagine u sign-on with her, wanna break-bond. She gets 1/2 of ur everything man...and also monthly you must pay her allowance. She can just stay home, enjoy relac and open leg for other guys. Imagine that...how you feel?
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brother...
if i were u,
i would hint her that i know and maybe i would download all mail to a thumbdrive and maybe if she do not want to stop, i would forward her mail to her and that it...
and i would do more things that will make her regret...
and most importantly i would hook on her friend and treat her friend more better and let her know.. -
great moveOriginally posted by gforce199:and most importantly i would hook on her friend and treat her friend more better and let her know..