The stupid gal
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I also keeps a blog. at first i blog about some thoughts about the past, and stuff.. and I can see that it's moving towards my own daily life and other thoughts..
it's good..
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
I know i seem to have no self-respect. Like so cheap since he has chosen to leave but i still keep holding on to him.
Take little steps towards it each day :)
It is very true that you have to love and respect yourself before you can expect the same from another person.
I know it won't happen straight away, but persist on and a year later you will surprise yourself.
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Originally posted by rainee:
Take little steps towards it each day :)
It is very true that you have to love and respect yourself before you can expect the same from another person.
I know it won't happen straight away, but persist on and a year later you will surprise yourself.
this one a bit jia lat.. I also started to love myself.. then I loved myself too much now.. and can't bring myself to love another because I scared to fail again.. for me around 9 months soon.. -
Originally posted by cuddles:
this one a bit jia lat.. I also started to love myself.. then I loved myself too much now.. and can't bring myself to love another because I scared to fail again.. for me around 9 months soon..Thanks for reminding me tat love hurts.
I hav almost fallen into love again, phew! -
Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Thanks for reminding me tat love hurts.
I hav almost fallen into love again, phew!
is this sarcasm? lol.. -
Originally posted by cuddles:
this one a bit jia lat.. I also started to love myself.. then I loved myself too much now.. and can't bring myself to love another because I scared to fail again.. for me around 9 months soon..ya to me love is scary now.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
ya to me love is scary now.
hai.. maybe should gather all the heart break people here gather at esplanade park and all kneel one direction and cry.. can create a phenomenon.. lol.. -
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
Why should i?
I hate third party myself. I would not do such a thing. I hate that gal alot super lot. There's alot of things that she did which is unbelivable. She would have her retribution one day.
Or maybe she is really that good way better than me and my relationship just wasn't strong enough.
:P Ju....i`ll tell u an example...!! Nobody wants to stand on a hard ground which can lead their leg some injury...but on a soft ground...!! He stepped u over..cuz he thought u can be stepped on...!! That`s the way....!! Now he`s connecting u ...cuz he thought u might be easy for him...than other girls....!! What a shame u brought to urself....if u go out.then u r gone...!! Just ignore....or response...to his calls...!! FWD his sms to his Gf....!!! ok..??.then he won`t dare to do next time.....!! Just report everything to his Gf....!! U don`t need feel mercy upon him....!!! Ur second Paragraph that i made bold letter show how soft u r....!! Be a tough girl....!! It`s not u that `s not good...but him...!! Don`t let down urself...Head up.....n speak up u r strong......!!!
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Originally posted by cuddles:
is this sarcasm? lol..No sarcasm, cross my heart!
I hav almost forgotten wat issit like to get hurt & tempt to fall in love again..Thank goodness i hav been reminded.
It's definately safer to close the door to the heart. -
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
ya to me love is scary now.
Then stay away from him & put all so-called fond memories of u & him at the furthest back of ur mind. Those memories are nothing but barriers for u to move on. Selfish pple like ur ex need not be bothered abt.
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
No sarcasm, cross my heart!
I hav almost forgotten wat issit like to get hurt & tempt to fall in love again..Thank goodness i hav been reminded.
It's definately safer to close the door to the heart.
I guess I'm the same as u.. recently.. :(then I remind myself again.. but of course.. this hurts not only me.. but her too.. haiz.. a single haunting past can cause such an impact on ur life..
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Originally posted by cuddles:
I guess I'm the same as u.. recently.. :(then I remind myself again.. but of course.. this hurts not only me.. but her too.. haiz.. a single haunting past can cause such an impact on ur life..
Hell no, mine's a string of bad r'ships tat made such an impact!
All different bad r'ships taught me many things..It feels rotten to be the one who hurts and the one who be hurt.
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Hell no, mine's a string of bad r'ships tat made such an impact!
All different bad r'ships taught me many things..It feels rotten to be the one who hurts and the one who be hurt.
I only got 1 serious relationship lo.. reddy quite popular hor..
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Then stay away from him & put all so-called fond memories of u & him at the furthest back of ur mind. Those memories are nothing but barriers for u to move on. Selfish pple like ur ex need not be bothered abt.
No offends but most guys now seems so heartless. Maybe even gals are. Why do people change in like days i sometimes wonder.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
No offends but most guys now seems so heartless. Maybe even gals are. Why do people change in like days i sometimes wonder.
someone told me yesterday..heart and mind..
girls follow heart..
guys follow mind..
when the heart stronger than the mind, for guys, they will go haywire.. because the mind will fight back telling him A and B side stories..
thats why guys feels so contradicting in terms of relationship..
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Originally posted by rainee:
Listen to the I Will Survive song...it will make you feel stronger.
I recommend the song 'I am woman'(Helen Reddy) for a woman and 'I will survive'for those working in Johore Road -
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
It's been nearly a year since we broke off. But i am still struck here on the same point where he left me.
He gave me all sorts of reason saying that he wants a breakup pushing all the blame to me. 2days later when i went to look for him again to try and save our relationship, i saw a lovebite on his neck. That kind of pain in my heart was undescrible. He already has a new gf.
The reason we quarrel and ended breaking up was because i found out that he have been chatting with this gal. I didnt expect things to turn out like that. Moments before we quarrel he was still lovingly holding my hand.
Being with him for 4 and a half year. We have even thought of starting our own family. We have even went to apply for a flat together. Little did i expect him to have a change of heart. Just moments after he break off with me. Maybe 4 years plus wasn't long but we have gone through so much ups and downs together, how would a guy say forget, let go and leave just like that?
He's happily with the gal now but here i am couldnt move on. I thought i had already let go. Trying not to think but he kept calling me and ask me out. He doesnt have any intention in patching back. He just need someone's accompany when his gf is working. His calling and all, triggered the love i had for him that i had all along tried to hide and not to think, i kept telling everyone that i am oki and i have already forgotten him. In fact, i am just lying to myself.
I cried everytime i think of him, everytime i thought of all our memories, all the promise that he has once made, everytime when i passby the places we have went to before. There is so much so much memories everywhere.
I wanted to move on and forget about him but i just couldnt stop thinking. I donno if i am still waiting for him to come back. I am so confused myself. What a useless gal.
Forget him by thinking of all the bad times cuz he aint coming back.
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Ju, don't be the stupid girl you claim to be and embrace yourself for a whole new life. you know you can but all you need is time.
you leave the past behind and don't try to make up for the wrongs you've done in the past. if he has decided to let go of the rope you should too
so come on ju, lift your head up high and walk. you know you can do it, with just a lil time.
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Originally posted by Chris1988:
Ju, don't be the stupid girl you claim to be and embrace yourself for a whole new life. you know you can but all you need is time.
you leave the past behind and don't try to make up for the wrongs you've done in the past. if he has decided to let go of the rope you should too
so come on ju, lift your head up high and walk. you know you can do it, with just a lil time.
Yes i know like you say i should let go of the rope cause he's no longer holding on. I wanted to and am trying my best. But it's seems so hard so hard.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
Yes i know like you say i should let go of the rope cause he's no longer holding on. I wanted to and am trying my best. But it's seems so hard so hard.
its good to hear from you that you're trying your best. so don't stop trying its a maze you're getting out from now. just keep right and move in one direction. ultimately you'll find your way out. slowly but surely, i know you'll be fine soon -
Originally posted by cuddles:
I only got 1 serious relationship lo.. reddy quite popular hor..
..Cos i used to "love like i hav nvr been hurt before" mah...Now i hav learnt my lesson...I hav learnt not to take guys seriously. 
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:No offends but most guys now seems so heartless. Maybe even gals are. Why do people change in like days i sometimes wonder.
Both genders are the same, Ju.. It's bcos they hav more & better choices nowadays & so, the belief of "eternal love" is gone with the wind~
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:..Cos i used to "love like i hav nvr been hurt before" mah...Now i hav learnt my lesson...I hav learnt not to take guys seriously.
Both genders are the same, Ju.. It's bcos they hav more & better choices nowadays & so, the belief of "eternal love" is gone with the wind~
reddy is girl? omg! I tot u guy! -
Originally posted by RedizAlertz:..Cos i used to "love like i hav nvr been hurt before" mah...Now i hav learnt my lesson...I hav learnt not to take guys seriously.
Both genders are the same, Ju.. It's bcos they hav more & better choices nowadays & so, the belief of "eternal love" is gone with the wind~
yup i agreed. and MOST guys out there now goes for looks and not how much the gal love them. not how good the gal is but how pretty she is. if she's pretty no matter how bad she is they sure can accept even if treat them no good also nvm.
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think positive and pamper yourself. go have a good time.
let him see you're fine without him.
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Originally posted by BrUtUs:
ya say is easy... so u need to take actions else u will continue trap in the web... seriously hes probably laughing at u in tis state... even tho ur 1st attempt to move on din quite go well but tis time get the right frens(do a gd session to purge everything out) to help u...
Sacrilegious murderer! The citizens of Rome will not forget the the evil deeds you have commited! You will not escape the furies' wrath, boy.