The stupid gal
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
yup i agreed. and all guys out there now goes for looks and not how much the gal love them. not how good the gal is but how pretty she is. if she's pretty no matter how bad she is they sure can accept even if treat them no good also nvm.
bullshit.
you don't tag all guys in that way lo.
not all guys go for looks lo.
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Originally posted by cuddles:
bullshit.
you don't tag all guys in that way lo.
not all guys go for looks lo.
oki. im sorry my apologies. Not all but most guys.
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Originally posted by cuddles:
bullshit.
you don't tag all guys in that way lo.
not all guys go for looks lo.
but Ju is right to a certain extent
most guys will tend to have a 'higher tolerance' level for a pretty girl compared to an ugly girl.
well Ju, face the fact. the world is unfair afterall
but as the old saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
yup i agreed. and all guys out there now goes for looks and not how much the gal love them. not how good the gal is but how pretty she is. if she's pretty no matter how bad she is they sure can accept even if treat them no good also nvm.
no la not all guys fall for it... love still matters in the end... -
Originally posted by Chris1988:
but Ju is right to a certain extentmost guys will tend to have a 'higher tolerance' level for a pretty girl compared to an ugly girl.
well Ju, face the fact. the world is unfair afterall
but as the old saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I never say most guys is wrong. she say all.I for one will never tolerate those girls with f up attitude lo pretty or not.. I also don't trust pretty girls. most of them make use of their prettiness nia.
that is just me la. other guys are still loving all the pretty girls.
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Originally posted by cuddles:
I never say most guys is wrong. she say all.I for one will never tolerate those girls with f up attitude lo pretty or not.. I also don't trust pretty girls. most of them make use of their prettiness nia.
that is just me la. other guys are still loving all the pretty girls.
Sorry Cuddles, i slip my words too fast. i mean no offend against anyone.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
Sorry Cuddles, i slip my words too fast. i mean no offend against anyone.
No offense will be taken by any of them, guys & gals alike They r all nice pple.
But yea, higher tolerance will be the better word..
& Im surprise tat they can tolerate their beautiful half better than any other things in life.
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Originally posted by cuddles:
reddy is girl? omg! I tot u guy!Me aint Reddy..There's oready a "reddy" somewhere...
Me RA.
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u are heartbreak because u cannot let go at this matter right now . its jsut happen
of couse u will miss him , u will think of him. u will cry, u feel like u wan to die. but gal its all normal. cause u have feeling for him right now
most ppl will say time will heal, sometimes it true, sometimes its not
i have the same experiance as u
i chase this gal for 8 years till she decided to accept me. but just when she decided to accept me i choose to run away from this relationship causing deep scar to both of us. from there no she decided to ignore me. no matter how much letter i wrote to her, how many times i call her. she wont listen to me.
8 years later she married and have a child with other person.
i still love her and miss her and even though its been 8 years , i still think of her and the happy time we have together.
this 8 years isnt easy for me to pass by and sometimes its really hurts been alone.
"time will heal" other say so. but 8 years didnt heal me.
wat my friends say is time to find another gal.
u are suffering now because u have became alone . that Y u are thinking of the happy past time u have with him
but i know that once u have a new guy in yr life. u will be able to slowly forget the jerk that hurt u.
it might not be possible for u to find 1 new guy now . but take yr time
its ok to cry gal.
just learn to let go.
and u are the only 1 feeling the sorrow right now. just remember there is some1 that is also feeling down together with u.
u are not alone.
be strong.
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dat's how the world is run, life is so much easier if u hav gd looks
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Originally posted by rafTiger:
dat's how the world is run, life is so much easier if u hav gd looks
no lo.. ur other half will keep worrying when u will run off.. despite assurance and reassurance.. -
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
yup i agreed. and MOST guys out there now goes for looks and not how much the gal love them. not how good the gal is but how pretty she is. if she's pretty no matter how bad she is they sure can accept even if treat them no good also nvm.
not all guys go for looks, some go for characteristic. don't judge all guys so like this because of your set back. Well since your case is kinda like over already, time to move on and get ahead of your new life
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
Yes i know like you say i should let go of the rope cause he's no longer holding on. I wanted to and am trying my best. But it's seems so hard so hard.
It takes time..lots of time. You can't expect to heal overnight.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
Thank you so much for sharing such a meaningful song with me. I hope i can survive.
you can survive.
are looking to survive.
if not why are you posting here and sharing the load with fellow forumers?
cheers, and move on.
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1st question: did you guys f*ck?
no offence.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
you can survive.
are looking to survive.
if not why are you posting here and sharing the load with fellow forumers?
cheers, and move on.
yes i want to survive and forget.
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Originally posted by trendz:
1st question: did you guys f*ck?
no offence.
No offence to you too but why are you asking me all this personal question? I am here to share my relationship problem an get advice not here to talk about all this. Sorry but i just want to make my intention clear. Not interested to talk about all this. In relationship , i guess sex is not the main point, to me it's the feeling and love you had for the other party.
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Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
No offence to you too but why are you asking me all this personal question? I am here to share my relationship problem an get advice not here to talk about all this. Sorry but i just want to make my intention clear. Not interested to talk about all this. In relationship , i guess sex is not the main point, to me it's the feeling and love you had for the other party.
I agree.. some questions not relevant. trendz should be more tactful.
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of coz got lah.
dun ask toopid qn lah.
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he's not showing any respect for you.
why cry for him?
you really deserve someone better, someone who will only make you smile, not cry.
dun hurry yourself to go into another relationship, u will not only hurt urself but also hurt the other party.
meanwhile, let time do the healing job, mix ard with ur frens. be strong, live up to ur full potential and make him regret like sh|t!
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
of coz got lah.
dun ask toopid qn lah.
lmaoooo basket HK.. -
Originally posted by Ju lyn83:
It's been nearly a year since we broke off. But i am still struck here on the same point where he left me.
He gave me all sorts of reason saying that he wants a breakup pushing all the blame to me. 2days later when i went to look for him again to try and save our relationship, i saw a lovebite on his neck. That kind of pain in my heart was undescrible. He already has a new gf.
The reason we quarrel and ended breaking up was because i found out that he have been chatting with this gal. I didnt expect things to turn out like that. Moments before we quarrel he was still lovingly holding my hand.
Being with him for 4 and a half year. We have even thought of starting our own family. We have even went to apply for a flat together. Little did i expect him to have a change of heart. Just moments after he break off with me. Maybe 4 years plus wasn't long but we have gone through so much ups and downs together, how would a guy say forget, let go and leave just like that?
He's happily with the gal now but here i am couldnt move on. I thought i had already let go. Trying not to think but he kept calling me and ask me out. He doesnt have any intention in patching back. He just need someone's accompany when his gf is working. His calling and all, triggered the love i had for him that i had all along tried to hide and not to think, i kept telling everyone that i am oki and i have already forgotten him. In fact, i am just lying to myself.
I cried everytime i think of him, everytime i thought of all our memories, all the promise that he has once made, everytime when i passby the places we have went to before. There is so much so much memories everywhere.
I wanted to move on and forget about him but i just couldnt stop thinking. I donno if i am still waiting for him to come back. I am so confused myself. What a useless gal.
You attempt to use credits of the past to justify harboring
excessive emotions into the now-defunct relationship. In Love's concept
of time (CloUdiSm - Law of Time), I quote: 'What's dead cannot be
revived and what's revived will not be original. What's original will
be in the past and what's passed will remain dead.' Death is often misunderstood - often liken to a form of some massive evil that lurks in dark, abominable to all existence. In fact, it's like an entrance; when one pushes the door, the other side appeared to be pulling - creating one-effect-two-perception situation. This simple relation between life and death in relationship is but our quintessential cosmic growth that expands our higher learning in Love. Neither existence nor non-existence of a relationship contributes to the success/failure of relationship; it's merely a continous process.
In fact, throughout the lifespan of a relationship - it could gone through several process of 'death and rebirth', as Love evolved through the vicissitude of a relationship, shaped by the couple themselves.
Nobody says it's easy to move on; but the difference lies in our concept of acceptance, as well as our grieving process. Those that deny their circumstances often find it a struggle to cope with the demands of reality against incongruous delusion that they are trying to upkeep. Many times, the delusion is inherent and self generated, as our false belief strengthen to corroborate with the lies we have gorged ourselves till the point of insanity.
You perpetually questioned yourself with all the mundane 'why', which incarcerate you with heaps of nonsense and fettered you from moving on. Allow me to shatter some zealous beliefs you have held so dearly - why must a four-and-a-half years of relationship be of something to him as well?
You must understand that this value, in which you have emotionalize, is exclusive to your own personal belief and does not necessarily means the same on his side. His action suggested a strategy of hook-bait-reel-release technique in retention initiative and if you are foolish enough to buy the tale of the 'I-like-the-other-woman-but-I-love-you' crap - then don't weep if you ultimately realize the poignant truth that could ruin all good memories, which is probably all you have left right now.
You cannot judge the future based on the rules of the past. You will always be miserable if you cling onto expired game rules that disallow you to unlock your gate to freedom.
To move on, you don't have to run. You just need to draw your first step.
Start walking: a step in a day will mean ten steps in ten days and a hundred steps in a hundred days.
Remember, we are responsible for our own happiness and misery. If you choose to dwell, nobody can coerce you to climb out, other than yourself.
Cheers
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Originally posted by Yunhaier: You attempt to use credits of the past to
justify harboring excessive emotions into the now-defunct
relationship. In Love's concept of time (CloUdiSm - Law of Time), I
quote: 'What's
dead cannot be revived and what's revived will not be original.
What's original will be in the past and what's passed will remain
dead.'
Death is often misunderstood - often liken to a form of some massive evil that lurks in dark, abominable to all existence. In fact, it's like an entrance; when one pushes the door, the other side appeared to be pulling - creating one-effect-two-perception situation. This simple relation between life and death in relationship is but our quintessential cosmic growth that expands our higher learning in Love. Neither existence nor non-existence of a relationship contributes to the success/failure of relationship; it's merely a continous process.
In fact, throughout the lifespan of a relationship - it could gone through several process of 'death and rebirth', as Love evolved through the vicissitude of a relationship, shaped by the couple themselves.
Nobody says it's easy to move on; but the difference lies in our concept of acceptance, as well as our grieving process. Those that deny their circumstances often find it a struggle to cope with the demands of reality against incongruous delusion that they are trying to upkeep. Many times, the delusion is inherent and self generated, as our false belief strengthen to corroborate with the lies we have gorged ourselves till the point of insanity.
You perpetually questioned yourself with all the mundane 'why', which incarcerate you with heaps of nonsense and fettered you from moving on. Allow me to shatter some zealous beliefs you have held so dearly - why must a four-and-a-half years of relationship be of something to him as well?
You must understand that this value, in which you have emotionalize, is exclusive to your own personal belief and does not necessarily means the same on his side. His action suggested a strategy of hook-bait-reel-release technique in retention initiative and if you are foolish enough to buy the tale of the 'I-like-the-other-woman-but-I-love-you' crap - then don't weep if you ultimately realize the poignant truth that could ruin all good memories, which is probably all you have left right now.
You cannot judge the future based on the rules of the past. You will always be miserable if you cling onto expired game rules that disallow you to unlock your gate to freedom.
To move on, you don't have to run. You just need to draw your first step.
Start walking: a step in a day will mean ten steps in ten days and a hundred steps in a hundred days.
Remember, we are responsible for our own happiness and misery. If you choose to dwell, nobody can coerce you to climb out, other than yourself.
Cheers
Thank u you for your advice. I get what you are trying to say. Ya it only mean so much to me but not to him at all.
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Dun waste your time here talking about these shits, reminding yourself of him only....
you shld be enough of all these unneccessary reminders...
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ppl himself is having fun with his current gf and why the fcuk are u here reminding yourself of the past, simi can't let go... blah blah n blah...
oh ya...btw, u dun even need to prove to him anything...i.e. that you're able to survive with or without him...etc..
he's nothing.