Emptiness
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
You lead a busy lifestyle and you are pretty much occupied most of the time.
Yet, there are times when you still feel overwhelmed by a sense of emptiness in your heart. It is a feeling as if you are incomplete but you don't know why and how to fill up that part of your heart. And it is during times like this that you feel that you seem to be all alone.
Anyone ever experienced the above?
Yes. But it goes away after I eat something. -
i just try to tahan till i get back to my hometown
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Would you mind if I ask for your age?
Nope i dont. -
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:
sometimes its just a sense of emptiness.. the feeling ...
Sigh ~
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
ayiah, its PMS lah
case closed
I think so too. -
Originally posted by kopiosatu:
ayiah, its PMS lah
case closed
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
You lead a busy lifestyle and you are pretty much occupied most of the time.
Yet, there are times when you still feel overwhelmed by a sense of emptiness in your heart. It is a feeling as if you are incomplete but you don't know why and how to fill up that part of your heart. And it is during times like this that you feel that you seem to be all alone.
Anyone ever experienced the above?
Definitely. Initially I thought, it was real hollow gnawing loneliness.
Then I realised, this outburst of loneliness and withdrawal comes and goes once every month. Hormones can be so deceptive.
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Originally posted by methanol:
Definitely. Initially I thought, it was real hollow gnawing loneliness.
Then I realised, this outburst of loneliness and withdrawal comes and goes once every month. Hormones can be so deceptive.
PMS. -
Originally posted by av98m:
Yes. But it goes away after I eat something. -
the TS is echoing my feelings.
sometimes, i also ask myself, " for what purpose do i work so hard?"
well, that's life....
loneliness occurs to almost everyone at certain points in their lives, especially when he/she is nearing or at the peak of his/her career ( or biological clock, whichever comes first). parental and/or peer pressure also play a part.
the desire to settle down will naturally rain down on him/her.
some people eventually find a suitable partner and settle down, while others may continue to tread the lonely path for the rest of their lives.
that's life.... if it's yours, it will be yours. what's meant to be, will be. what's not, shall never be.
in that case, just be a busy bee, and not a busybody. lol
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Yeah, me. I'd always had this feeling, and i just can't get rid of it.
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I think people are going to flame me but what the heck
Imo the emptiness in any man's heart can only be filled by God.
Human being cannot be satisfied by what is finite no matter how abundant. The void in our heart can only be filled by God. By knowing that in our life we are never alone. Never really. If one is favored by God one may be blessed with an overwhelming feeling of peace. On condition that that state can only be sustained by living free of any attachment to sins(attachment to sins is not sins) and having no unconfessed/unrepentant grave sins. There are many blessings to people who sincerely search for the living God. But that peace imo is the hardest to get yet the most precious because it stays with you all the time to any situation to any place you walk into or any situation you encounter. It can win you hearts. Not even the wealthiest person on earth could feel that good or that calm or that confident or that wealthy. It literally put a smile on your face every second of it. It changes your heart to be so gentle. It makes you feel like you have a little fiery wind in your heart. Physically you would stop sweating and hence feel that you are clean all the time. And it is free yet it cannot be bought.
Though the search of God involves eventually in getting involved in religion, it is not about religion. Having a relationship with God is not the same with having a religion.
And I've lost it, the last time it lasted for about 2 full months. So shun me. I'm still struggling with a particular sin. After awhile I tended to take this extraordinary peace for granted.
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all i need is a paso-con . Do you need one too? Call 1900-paso-con.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Is it really the need for companionship?Because I don't believe in being in a relationship for the sake of companionship.
Imagine, yr birthday being remember and celebrated and plan by yr belove partner. All the anticipation of festival suddenly become very significant cos someone is close beside going thru all those festive.No matter how hard is yr work and tough it is. The anticipation of yr next outing and close moment with yr loved one makes it all worth while and no aimless....
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Loneliness is knowing that you only revolve around the world, not the world revolving you.
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Same here, it is especially strong when you are alone.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
You lead a busy lifestyle and you are pretty much occupied most of the time.
Yet, there are times when you still feel overwhelmed by a sense of emptiness in your heart. It is a feeling as if you are incomplete but you don't know why and how to fill up that part of your heart. And it is during times like this that you feel that you seem to be all alone.
Anyone ever experienced the above?
because you lose track of your goals, desires, interests, loves..
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You need to...
join the Otaku club
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Emptiness is an unpleasant state. If you could both get rid of the emptiness and also have something enjoyable to do, then you have two values. Take aspirin for a headache only has one value, getting rid of the headache.
Emptiness is one of the most powerful emotions though few psychologists would classify it as such. Contribution can get rid of the boredom and give the plus of involvement and achievement. To treat emptiness only with further distraction is more like the aspirin. The headache goes away only while the aspirin is working. You may need stronger and stronger aspirin just as you may come to need stronger and stronger distraction if that is your only cure for emptiness.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
You lead a busy lifestyle and you are pretty much occupied most of the time.
Yet, there are times when you still feel overwhelmed by a sense of emptiness in your heart. It is a feeling as if you are incomplete but you don't know why and how to fill up that part of your heart. And it is during times like this that you feel that you seem to be all alone.
Anyone ever experienced the above?
Yea, all human will experience that some times. & It's abt fullfilling own's desires/needs/wants.
Some people want to have the Special Someone to fill their void.
Others desire freedom, freedom to go to wherever they like & whenever they want.
Minority craves for knowledge/experience of Life itself.
But perhaps, most of us need companions. Need not neccessary be a life partner, it can be a very good fren who is always make it a point to be there for us or a soul mate whom we have nver met before. Why, but we can also fill our emptiness by filling up other's emptiness first.
Im feelin emptiness now simply because I am searching for my desires/needs/wants.
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Yea, all human will experience that some times. & It's abt fullfilling own's desires/needs/wants.
Some people want to have the Special Someone to fill their void.
Others desire freedom, freedom to go to wherever they like & whenever they want.
Minority craves for knowledge/experience of Life itself.
But perhaps, most of us need companions. Need not neccessary be a life partner, it can be a very good fren who is always make it a point to be there for us or a soul mate whom we have nver met before. Why, but we can also fill our emptiness by filling up other's emptiness first.
Im feelin emptiness now simply because I am searching for my desires/needs/wants.
I hope you find them soon. -
Originally posted by cherrycola:
I hope you find them soon.Thank u, dearie!
Have u found urs yet?
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
You lead a busy lifestyle and you are pretty much occupied most of the time.
Yet, there are times when you still feel overwhelmed by a sense of emptiness in your heart. It is a feeling as if you are incomplete but you don't know why and how to fill up that part of your heart. And it is during times like this that you feel that you seem to be all alone.
Anyone ever experienced the above?
yes.
maybe we do want someone who would understand us. Not necessarily a bf/gf but someone significant and will be there constantly for us, which makes bf/gf the easiest and best candidates.
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i still insist we all all need a paso-con each
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Thank u, dearie!
Have u found urs yet?
Maybe I am still searching.