Yunhaier's Love Question
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I'm a guy who still await for my Fairy Tale Story.Originally posted by Yunhaier:WOOHOO!!!!
/me runs far back and dashed towards MCsquare - WO AI NI!.... erm... I mean your reply... hahaha...
Hug Hug HuggieS
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Nearly reached for XLN's chopper.Originally posted by M©+square:Haha....i think you want to vomit blood liaoz..... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:*WooHoooOooOoOoooOoo*
It's all just a dream, which can make all things well.
But it could never be, in real. -
I think my Signature By Picasso speaks alot.
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Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:MC square u gt my point
Heeeee! You also think that way? -
I can assist to make your dreams become reality... or at least come close... if you believe me...Originally posted by M©+square: It's all just a dream, which can make all things well.
But it could never be, in real.
/me brings out his dusty unorthodox manuel. -
If that's the case. Then can i see your dreams come true?Originally posted by Yunhaier:I can assist to make your dreams become reality... or at least come close... if you believe me...
/me brings out his dusty unorthodox manuel. -
Come true already lar!Originally posted by M©+square:If that's the case. Then can i see your dreams come true? -
well, if going into the 2nd relationship(r/s), i think it wont be fair to 1st r/s cuz you knew the flaws of 1st r/s that you have to improve on the 2nd r/s.....
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Ya, it does...Originally posted by M©+square:I think my Signature By Picasso speaks alot.
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Since I'm only fated to have 2 relationships I would love to have them BOTH... To go through what has to be ended so that i'll learn to treasure my 2nd relationship even more... And though I already knew that the 1st's gonna be a sad story.... I still don't want to just give up on it without even TRYING... And I'll always keep something in my mind as I'm having this 1st relationship... That is it probably (100%) ain't gonna last... So I'm gonna TREASURE every single day I'll get to have with her....
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me answer same wif mc square......
to love the first girl teaches u how to love the second one....
to correct the mistakes u made on the first one and let the second one in ur life to benefit from it....
memories r part of life..... i rather gone thru all the ups and downs then when i old slowly recap and laugh my way to death... -
I will choose to go through the phase 1. IT maybe sad but it did leave behind some good memories to look back at in the future. People learn and grow with experience. Don't escape reality. I believe in fate. If 2 are destined to be together, their path crosses each other no matter how you try to evit.Cheer.Originally posted by Yunhaier:I have decide to pop the ultimate question to defend the name of Love - which many people in this forum have comdemn, spit and curse at its doing that has led to their emotional turmoils which they are undergoing.
Scenario:
It is predicted that you will have only two relationships this lifetime.
If you have a choice and it has already predicted (you were told and you knew) that your first relationship relationship wouldn't last to the end of time or marriage (whichever seemed more applicable), BUT however, spiritually and emotionally you will grow from the departure of this relations...
And (you already knew) that your second marriage will be the partner that will be with you till death do you apart...
Question is... WOULD you people choose to escape phrase 1 of your relationship and just enter the later relationship KNOWING fully well you wouldn't have to go through all those postive and negative aspect of the lost first relationship and KNOWING fully well that the later relationship will be the guy/girl you will eventually marry?
Or you rather choose to enter first love relationships - to grow, mature, to experience different sort of emotions that relationships could give to you? And finally the second relation which you will indeed treasure?
Variable that are kept constant: Two guys/girls are your style of partners. The reasons why you cannot be with your first love is because he/she has to move overseas and won't be coming back. You can't go over with her - this relationships has to end. (Fated lar, but in a very good sense, not as in he/she dump you for another person, etc)
What you will choose? -
Me would rather not go through the pain...
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How would you know it would be painful.Originally posted by lilogirl:Me would rather not go through the pain...
You can choose your path. It's always Fate that brings you to meet the person. But it's your choice which decide whether how you want the relationship to end.
Let it end for a good cause. It's A Decision....not Fate. -
One or Two Relationships ?
It is like asking someone if he prefer to eat one "char siew pau" or eat the second "char siew pau" also.
There is such a thing as "diminishing return" in most things.
The first relationship is good, then sometimes, the second relationship can even be better.
However, if you can eat both, do it, but make sure you can digest both - either one at a time, or both at the same time.
Don't get choked though... -
will be going through the first one....
so i'll know what to expect and give...
and also i'll be more emotionally
prepared for whatever problems
that may surfaced during the 2nd
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Hmm....interesting analogy...Originally posted by Atobe:One or Two Relationships ?
It is like asking someone if he prefer to eat one "char siew pau" or eat the second "char siew pau" also.
There is such a thing as "diminishing return" in most things.
The first relationship is good, then sometimes, the second relationship can even be better.
However, if you can eat both, do it, but make sure you can digest both - either one at a time, or both at the same time.
Don't get choked though...
But eat Two char Siew Bao will allow you to grow and nuture into a better person meh? Can it make me realise the value of living? The importance of Love?
Hmm....Anyway....i enjoy reading your comment. No offence really. -
Originally posted by Fateseeker:me answer same wif mc square......
to love the first girl teaches u how to love the second one....
to correct the mistakes u made on the first one and let the second one in ur life to benefit from it....
memories r part of life..... i rather gone thru all the ups and downs then when i old slowly recap and laugh my way to death... -
i guess...juz go thru all tt is pathed out 4 me...although it will be heart-breaking...but at least i will know how to treasure what is in front of me...and i guess...all things r fated...its there to mould us into what we really r....Originally posted by Yunhaier:I have decide to pop the ultimate question to defend the name of Love - which many people in this forum have comdemn, spit and curse at its doing that has led to their emotional turmoils which they are undergoing.
Scenario:
It is predicted that you will have only two relationships this lifetime.
If you have a choice and it has already predicted (you were told and you knew) that your first relationship relationship wouldn't last to the end of time or marriage (whichever seemed more applicable), BUT however, spiritually and emotionally you will grow from the departure of this relations...
And (you already knew) that your second marriage will be the partner that will be with you till death do you apart...
Question is... WOULD you people choose to escape phrase 1 of your relationship and just enter the later relationship KNOWING fully well you wouldn't have to go through all those postive and negative aspect of the lost first relationship and KNOWING fully well that the later relationship will be the guy/girl you will eventually marry?
Or you rather choose to enter first love relationships - to grow, mature, to experience different sort of emotions that relationships could give to you? And finally the second relation which you will indeed treasure?
Variable that are kept constant: Two guys/girls are your style of partners. The reasons why you cannot be with your first love is because he/she has to move overseas and won't be coming back. You can't go over with her - this relationships has to end. (Fated lar, but in a very good sense, not as in he/she dump you for another person, etc)
What you will choose? -
..........Originally posted by hopy:i guess...juz go thru all tt is pathed out 4 me...although it will be heart-breaking...but at least i will know how to treasure what is in front of me...and i guess...all things r fated...its there to mould us into what we really r....
/me hug hopy.......'i hope you're ok' -
hmm... me wondering hwo to go to SECOND relationship if u dun go into the first one? there is no SECOND if there is no first. so u cant say u enter second relationship by giving the first a miss.. coz if u do enter the 'second' relationship, its actually ur 'first' rite? or did i interpret everything yunheir wrote wrongly? hahaOriginally posted by Yunhaier:I have decide to pop the ultimate question to defend the name of Love - which many people in this forum have comdemn, spit and curse at its doing that has led to their emotional turmoils which they are undergoing.
Scenario:
It is predicted that you will have only two relationships this lifetime.
If you have a choice and it has already predicted (you were told and you knew) that your first relationship relationship wouldn't last to the end of time or marriage (whichever seemed more applicable), BUT however, spiritually and emotionally you will grow from the departure of this relations...
And (you already knew) that your second marriage will be the partner that will be with you till death do you apart...
Question is... WOULD you people choose to escape phrase 1 of your relationship and just enter the later relationship KNOWING fully well you wouldn't have to go through all those postive and negative aspect of the lost first relationship and KNOWING fully well that the later relationship will be the guy/girl you will eventually marry?
Or you rather choose to enter first love relationships - to grow, mature, to experience different sort of emotions that relationships could give to you? And finally the second relation which you will indeed treasure?
Variable that are kept constant: Two guys/girls are your style of partners. The reasons why you cannot be with your first love is because he/she has to move overseas and won't be coming back. You can't go over with her - this relationships has to end. (Fated lar, but in a very good sense, not as in he/she dump you for another person, etc)
What you will choose?
anyway this my view:
yes i will enter both relationship. i then will learn from my mistakes and yes i will treat the first relationship as serious as the second one. only then will the first relationship gal will respect me cause i have given her everyhting even though she knew that i knew that we were fated to part some day. Therefore, since i really love her(tst y go into the relationship) i will treat her like a queen just like i will do to my second relationship gal. -
Yun, U seem to noe alot... Wats yr choice?Originally posted by Yunhaier:I have decide to pop the ultimate question to defend the name of Love - which many people in this forum have comdemn, spit and curse at its doing that has led to their emotional turmoils which they are undergoing.
Scenario:
It is predicted that you will have only two relationships this lifetime.
If you have a choice and it has already predicted (you were told and you knew) that your first relationship relationship wouldn't last to the end of time or marriage (whichever seemed more applicable), BUT however, spiritually and emotionally you will grow from the departure of this relations...
And (you already knew) that your second marriage will be the partner that will be with you till death do you apart...
Question is... WOULD you people choose to escape phrase 1 of your relationship and just enter the later relationship KNOWING fully well you wouldn't have to go through all those postive and negative aspect of the lost first relationship and KNOWING fully well that the later relationship will be the guy/girl you will eventually marry?
Or you rather choose to enter first love relationships - to grow, mature, to experience different sort of emotions that relationships could give to you? And finally the second relation which you will indeed treasure?
Variable that are kept constant: Two guys/girls are your style of partners. The reasons why you cannot be with your first love is because he/she has to move overseas and won't be coming back. You can't go over with her - this relationships has to end. (Fated lar, but in a very good sense, not as in he/she dump you for another person, etc)
What you will choose? -
His might be similiar as mine.Originally posted by loneryu00:Yun, U seem to noe alot... Wats yr choice?
But honestly....i think he'll rather not think about it. -
My choice is the same as Mcsquare. He ripped every single word from my mouth.Originally posted by loneryu00:Yun, U seem to noe alot... Wats yr choice?
Cheers