BF breaks up to patch with ex and is marrying her

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 11:34

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  don't even think about getting even.. it's idiotic and in the long run, you'll feel pretty dumb about it...

  just walk away..

   

  
  already walked away le

• Mid9Sun

  27 Feb 09, 11:35

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  Yap, his sms (cutted short):

  u and i are not possible to patch.FYI i have patched with my ex. My ex is the one i love. We are getting married.Please dun call or sms me or else i will change my number

  
  Wow what a rude, unapologetic sms. Not an ounce of guilt.

  Anyway he is sowing bad karma for himself. I am not surprise he will contact you sometime down the road with sob stories or even beg for forgiveness.

  You should consider it a big blessing by ending the r/s now instead of later.

  Time heals....take it easy ok. Cheers.

• zoragirl

  27 Feb 09, 11:36

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  i can;t answer cos i love him too much, but the scars are already there

  Do you know of this ex existence ?

  Have you been asking him to choose side ?

• charlize

  27 Feb 09, 11:39

  Men. 

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 11:41

  Originally posted by zoragirl:

  Do you know of this ex existence ?

  Have you been asking him to choose side ?

  
  nope, i never did. When we juz starting out he always mentioned his ex the things they do and refer her as GF instead of ex GF. after we got more serious he stopped that. He however did bad mouth his ex that she was a worthless person to have as she could cheat and she always lie lie lie.

  I could understand that he and her shared too much and i never ever mention my insecurities and i understood that to forget her was impossible and understandable. I was willing to give him all the time he needed

• dragg

  27 Feb 09, 11:43

  good for you.

  at least you dont have to find out only after marrying him.

   

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 11:43

  Originally posted by Mid9Sun:

  
  Wow what a rude, unapologetic sms. Not an ounce of guilt.

  Anyway he is sowing bad karma for himself. I am not surprise he will contact you sometime down the road with sob stories or even beg for forgiveness.

  You should consider it a big blessing by ending the r/s now instead of later.

  Time heals....take it easy ok. Cheers.

  
  the hurt i got from this relationship is worse than any other i been through. as i mentioned, tues we were ok and still loving, thurs/fri he 100 degrees changed. means wed something happened already, juz one day it took 2 change everything

• zoragirl

  27 Feb 09, 11:48

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  nope, i never did. When we juz starting out he always mentioned his ex the things they do and refer her as GF instead of ex GF. after we got more serious he stopped that. He however did bad mouth his ex that she was a worthless person to have as she could cheat and she always lie lie lie.

  I could understand that he and her shared too much and i never ever mention my insecurities and i understood that to forget her was impossible and understandable. I was willing to give him all the time he needed

  you are such a nice gal....you will find your Mr right one day.

   

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 11:51

  Originally posted by zoragirl:

  you are such a nice gal....you will find your Mr right one day.

   

  
  he always said i was a 100% percent GF always said i super understanding,always thinking for him always guai guai listen to him,  but eventually he left me .

• honeymouse

  27 Feb 09, 12:02

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  he always said i was a 100% percent GF always said i super understanding,always thinking for him always guai guai listen to him,  but eventually he left me .

  That's his loss not yours!!!!

• CarterM

  27 Feb 09, 12:07

  Forget about that lousy guy. There are so many nice guys in Singapore and around the world. :)

• InnoHippo

  27 Feb 09, 12:08

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  he always said i was a 100% percent GF always said i super understanding,always thinking for him always guai guai listen to him,  but eventually he left me .

  10 years of relationship very difficult to let go .....

  how long u been with him?

   

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:08

  Originally posted by honeymouse:

  That's his loss not yours!!!!

  
  when we together i had the fear ex will come back one day. So i gave my bestest to him so that at least she come back he would still consider me. But nope but i did my best

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:09

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  10 years of relationship very difficult to let go .....

  how long u been with him?

   

  
  jus a few mths

• brainerror

  27 Feb 09, 12:11

  so what is done is done.. move on. pick yourself up no matter how deep your fall is.

• hisoka

  27 Feb 09, 12:11

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  I am awaiting to get a driving license get a car and use my car bump his car backside, then drive pass him and point middle finger at him

   

  don't do that. getting back in this way is no use. must use brains. if it doesn't benefit you, why get back at him in that manner?

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:13

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  don't do that. getting back in this way is no use. must use brains. if it doesn't benefit you, why get back at him in that manner?

  
  by the time i get a car already not angry,,sometimes really sad and frustrated so mus use some bad thought to overcome, but juz think lor

• brainerror

  27 Feb 09, 12:14

  honestly speaking, you'll be a fool is you go back to him.. you have had already waste so much of your time and effort and care and loved on him when you could actually waste it on someone else better lohs..
  think about it...

• InnoHippo

  27 Feb 09, 12:14

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  when we together i had the fear ex will come back one day. So i gave my bestest to him so that at least she come back he would still consider me. But nope but i did my best

  so u should be mentally prepared for this .....

  move on .....

   

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:16

  Originally posted by brainerror:

  honestly speaking, you'll be a fool is you go back to him.. you have had already waste so much of your time and effort and care and loved on him when you could actually waste it on someone else better lohs..
  think about it...

  
  we wun ever be together again, his that sms showed how firm he is, so i wun go and think about will i or not , cos that will never happen, he is gone for good and he is getting married

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:18

  Originally posted by zoragirl:

  you are such a nice gal....you will find your Mr right one day.

   

  
  hope so:)

• honeymouse

  27 Feb 09, 12:21

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  when we together i had the fear ex will come back one day. So i gave my bestest to him so that at least she come back he would still consider me. But nope but i did my best

  I read this somewhere before and hope it will make you feel better.....

  When you love something, let's set it free

  If it comes back, it is yours

  If it doesn't, it never was.

• InnoHippo

  27 Feb 09, 12:23

  Originally posted by honeymouse:

  I read this somewhere before and hope it will make you feel better.....

  When you love something, let set it free

  If it comes back, it is yours

  If it doesn't, it never was.

  mine never come back

   

• alwaysdisturbed

  27 Feb 09, 12:23

  hahaha,

  birds of the same kind ultimately flock together.

  a lier got back with another lier.

  you are better off without him, seriously.

• ButterCake

  27 Feb 09, 12:28

  Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:

  hahaha,

  birds of the same kind ultimately flock together.

  a lier got back with another lier.

  you are better off without him, seriously.

  
  :)