BF breaks up to patch with ex and is marrying her
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
we wun ever be together again, his that sms showed how firm he is, so i wun go and think about will i or not , cos that will never happen, he is gone for good and he is getting marriedwrong. given his past actions. there is a good chance he will try to coem back if the wife does something funyn again.
You need to be clear that he is an inappropriate person and not for you. You need to be firm and sure that you will not even bother about him.
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Originally posted by InnoHippo:
mine never come back
awww.... but it means it's never meant to be yours. One day you'll look back and feel happy that it happened.
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Originally posted by hisoka:
wrong. given his past actions. there is a good chance he will try to coem back if the wife does something funyn again.
You need to be clear that he is an inappropriate person and not for you. You need to be firm and sure that you will not even bother about him.
he wun, cos he told my frn ask me not to bother him further, alsoKnowing him and his pride, that sms will stop him from doing so
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Originally posted by honeymouse:
awww.... but it means it's never meant to be yours. One day you'll look back and feel happy that it happened.
still waiting for that one day to come ....
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Life is like a gamble.
If you would have won, you won a great guy.
But life is never smooth.
Dont give up.
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
he can't, cos he told my frn ask me not to bother him further, alsoKnowing him and his pride, that sms will stop him from doing so
so the msg is clear, rite?
so move on ........... -
Songs recommended to heal:
1. Leona Lewis - Better in Time
2. My Chemical Romance - I don't love you
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Hm... sure there are lots more of such songs, but these 2 are my favorite... All are welcomed to add in... :) -
yesteday when things got crazy, i am glad that i had 4 frns who came down in the middle of Their working hours, frn's support really helps cos i feel better today. Still miserable but can cope..
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Originally posted by CarterM:
Songs recommended to heal:
1. Leona Lewis - Better in Time
2. My Chemical Romance - I don't love you
Hm... sure there are lots more of such songs, but these 2 are my favorite... All are welcomed to add in... :)3. fen shou kuai le
4. yi ge ren de jing cai
5. lang ren qing ge6. bu zhi de
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
yesteday when things got crazy, i am glad that i had 4 frns who came down in the middle of Their working hours, frn's support really helps cos i feel better today. Still miserable but can cope..
there you go! things are not as bad as they seem. now you know your circle of friends you can DEPEND on! -
Originally posted by cassie:
there you go! things are not as bad as they seem. now you know your circle of friends you can DEPEND on!
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try the song as sung by GN'R in their horrific The Spaghetti Incident..
=> I Don't Care About You - Guns N' Roses
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Originally posted by the Bear:
try the song as sung by GN'R in their horrific The Spaghetti Incident..
=> I Don't Care About You - Guns N' Roses
wah noisy song but i like the part : i don care about u fxxk u :o -
Originally posted by CarterM:
Songs recommended to heal:
1. Leona Lewis - Better in Time
nice song!
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
i will try to shorten the story. Sometime back met this wonderful guy and things were really looking bright. I love him deeply and he did too.11 feb we were still fine and as per normal but by 13feb he discarded our plans for valentines day (later realised he had to keep some1 else accompany as he could definately could not half himself).
Valentine days he broke off with me, citing reason as he could not forget his ex who was with him for 10yr (she had repeatedly lied to him & cheated on him) and asked me to give him time.
we did remain in contact as friends and he once told me (after we brokeup) he love me
but today he sent me an sms saying he had already patched with his ex and they were going to get married.. The ex was the one he love.
Turns out all the while he was lying and lying and lying....
Told me to never call him ever again------------------------------------
You are not the only one who went through this kind of betray and hurts.
My ex BF is more worst.. he was assigned on an oversea project and need to be away for 1 yr. I thought it was ok. And we are still seeing each other on off when he fly back. But after 3 months.. he told me he busy can't fly back.. or even he back we meet for a cup of coffee... then he start to disappeare, no call no sms, no email.
Until he was caught by my bestfriend, he confessed he was back about more than 6 months patch with ex and planning to get marry. He never tell me he wanted to break up at all. And i was waiting for him to return to sg.
Don't be sad you are not alone.. i was with that moron for 3yrs. Wasting my time. Haiz..
There sure a nice guy out there waiting to take care of you.
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Originally posted by Bubblyl3:
You are not the only one who went through this kind of betray and hurts.
My ex BF is more worst.. he was assigned on an oversea project and need to be away for 1 yr. I thought it was ok. And we are still seeing each other on off when he fly back. But after 3 months.. he told me he busy can't fly back.. or even he back we meet for a cup of coffee... then he start to disappeare, no call no sms, no email.
Until he was caught by my bestfriend, he confessed he was back about more than 6 months patch with ex and planning to get marry. He never tell me he wanted to break up at all. And i was waiting for him to return to sg.
Don't be sad you are not alone.. i was with that moron for 3yrs. Wasting my time. Haiz..
There sure a nice guy out there waiting to take care of you.
You must have taken alot to get though it all and recover...glad u managed to
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Be strong. Life must go on anyway. :)
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Originally posted by CarterM:
Be strong. Life must go on anyway.
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
You must have taken alot to get though it all and recover...glad u managed to
hanor hanor ...Super heart pain and feel so stupid.. But after all, if he is mine will be mine if not also cannot force de la.
Just can say must be smarter the next time. And learnt from mistake. And eyes must open big big to see lor.
If i get to see my that asshole ex. i will tell him i am happier without you.
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Originally posted by Bubblyl3:
hanor hanor ...Super heart pain and feel so stupid.. But after all, if he is mine will be mine if not also cannot force de la.
Just can say must be smarter the next time. And learnt from mistake. And eyes must open big big to see lor.
If i get to see my that asshole ex. i will tell him i am happier without you.
yap super super heartpain, yesterday went hysterical, hope it all goes away fast fast.yes i feel stupid lor for ignoring the warning signs and hoping i was wrong. turns out all my guesses were rightBTW, when he wanted to breakoff with me he hid away, don dare answer my call or sms and don even wan to say he wan wat. only after 24hr i finally got him to return my sms.
Yesterday also just hide again
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trying to be very very strong...trying to smile and hold on...Then suddenly will burst into tears and miss him very very much , however i can feel myself being more patient and civil to the people around me, maybe cos i am ironically feeling numb too. Faithless in love at the point :l
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Move on and don't look back...you deserve better
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
Move on and don't look back...you deserve better
trying to let numb feeling overcome other emotions -
and yesterday night was supposed to be exam for my degree. did not go. he knw i having exam he still choose yesterday to tell me such cruel words
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Originally posted by ButterCake:
and yesterday night was supposed to be exam for my degree. did not go. he knw i having exam he still choose yesterday to tell me such cruel words
are you feeling better alrdy? =)