What's your opinions on women who....

• BadzMaro

  14 Apr 09, 14:27

  well.. yeah..

  still..

  anyways, i just know from family experience thats all.

   

• NeverSayGoodBye

  14 Apr 09, 15:44

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Not rocket science mah.

  The woman has nothing to lose.

  
  .....the woman lost her dignity and value

• NeverSayGoodBye

  14 Apr 09, 15:45

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  all i can say meet at the wrong time n place be it his/her life

   

  
  .....a good excuse?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  14 Apr 09, 15:48

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

  
  Who's lower? 

  The woman who stay by his side cos of love / money? 

  Or man who allows a woman to enter his life at the risk of his family for sex?

  
  .....both are low and cheap!

• Sfirstnameong

  14 Apr 09, 15:48

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  there's a logic flaw

  a prostitute or someone who works at a nightclub who entertains customers, do entertain married men too.

  so i don't see a difference.

  what i see is, everyone wants to be loved and treated special, and to pursue that feeling of love, they are willing to compromise other people's happiness to get their own happiness.

  You still dare to say you're a Christian.Christians can use NIV and support wrecking other people's family?!Get away from me you fake Christian!

• NeverSayGoodBye

  14 Apr 09, 15:50

  Originally posted by Ms.shells:

  I think the man is wrong. Let's say if the woman want to be with him only for his money, then the man can be smart enough to just walk away and stay away from this kind of women or seduction, right?

  
  .....too bad, this man is weak

• Jianye

  14 Apr 09, 20:18

   

  No one is at fault.......The parties involved must wake up to the fact they are of different status and to continue in such a relationship is damaging to everyone.....

   

• jojobeach

  14 Apr 09, 22:50

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....the woman lost her dignity and value

  Lost dignity and value ?

  Noooo.... she gained self-confidence.

  It's all about control.. and taking what belongs to others.

  That means.. she is MORE attractive than his wife.

  That means she is MORE desirable than the woman he married.

  It's all feeling good about herself.

  Note: While you guys think you're farking her.. what makes you think she's not farking you ?

  If you think only men has physical needs to fulfill, you are forgetting women are also human.

   

   

• seyKai

  14 Apr 09, 23:13

  ever wonder why "women" = woo men

  why they like to wear tight tight, short short, low low, sexy sexy?  

  showing off?

   

• nanren4ever

  15 Apr 09, 08:24

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  
  .....why can't they choose an unmarried man? Knowing that she might destroy a loving family or a relationship? Don't think women like these are victims, most likely suffering from low self-esteem? Isn't it sad?

  
  Look at it this way. When you fall for someone, u fall for someone. Its all up to the individual to determine if he/she should end the relationship should the person they love turned out to be someone already married. It is only when you go all out to wreck someone's marriage/relationship just so u can be with that person do i disapprove totally.

  Besides, if the married person knows well enough where his/her priorities lie, then they would never end the relationship/marriage just to be with someone else. Temptations are everywhere, its only in times of crisis do we know one's true strengths.

   

• la luce nella piazza

  15 Apr 09, 12:16

  I know we might be quick to judge the woman, but a part of me thinks it might be incredibly passionate.

  But that's probably only if the woman's not eyeing the guy's money. If it's for love, or that's the guy is so charismatic, I don't know, it does seem that the woman is so in love that she is willing not to be recognised legally as a spouse just to be with him.

  It's quite passionate.

• EarlNeo

  15 Apr 09, 13:40

  they always said; " all the good men are either gay or taken....."

  no wonder some gers goes after married men.....

  morally wrong..... but finding happiness at the expand of others isnt that uncommon....

  so why bother finding out the real cause or who to blame, when it had happen....

• RedizAlertz

  15 Apr 09, 15:27

  Originally posted by EarlNeo:

  they always said; " all the good men are either gay or taken....."

  I think there is some misconcept in tis statement... (not flaming u)

  Being seduced he may be, but a good man shld not be sabotaging his family by giving in to the temptation.  I duno abt gays, but there's a high possiblity that the "taken" man is not a good one either. 

• Jianye

  15 Apr 09, 20:34

   

  Lol!....interesting analysis by RedizAlertz!!

  Looking at all the replies, i realize there are many factors at play, the most obvious being both sex are attempting to boost their own EGO either consciously or unconsciously.

• NeverSayGoodBye

  16 Apr 09, 14:13

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Lost dignity and value ?

  Noooo.... she gained self-confidence.

  It's all about control.. and taking what belongs to others.

  That means.. she is MORE attractive than his wife.

  That means she is MORE desirable than the woman he married.

  It's all feeling good about herself.

  Note: While you guys think you're farking her.. what makes you think she's not farking you ?

  If you think only men has physical needs to fulfill, you are forgetting women are also human.

   

   

  .....a woman who had self confidence will not go round snatching other people's husband, just to make herself feel desirable. The women you mentioned certainly had low confidence. Women with low confidence always find a way to make themselves look good by buying expensive and branded products. Ever look at women who bought buget stuffs i.e. bags, wallets or jewellery, they wear it and oozed so much of confidence...

  Agreed that guys got screwed sometimes. If the women have needs, there are ways to satisfy them.ie. one night stand or a fark buddy. No need to find a man who is attached...

• NeverSayGoodBye

  16 Apr 09, 14:14

  Originally posted by seyKai:

  ever wonder why "women" = woo men

  why they like to wear tight tight, short short, low low, sexy sexy?  

  showing off?

   

  
  .....to express themselves?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  16 Apr 09, 14:17

  Originally posted by Jianye:

   

  Lol!....interesting analysis by RedizAlertz!!

  Looking at all the replies, i realize there are many factors at play, the most obvious being both sex are attempting to boost their own EGO either consciously or unconsciously.

  
  hmmm...EGO, could be?

• jojobeach

  16 Apr 09, 14:36

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....a woman who had self confidence will not go round snatching other people's husband, just to make herself feel desirable. The women you mentioned certainly had low confidence. Women with low confidence always find a way to make themselves look good by buying expensive and branded products. Ever look at women who bought buget stuffs i.e. bags, wallets or jewellery, they wear it and oozed so much of confidence...

  Agreed that guys got screwed sometimes. If the women have needs, there are ways to satisfy them.ie. one night stand or a fark buddy. No need to find a man who is attached...

  You are correct. Just because a woman looks good on the outside.. does not mean she is just as flawless on the inside.

  Some women do suffer from self-confidence or self-esteem problems.

   

  One night stand or fark buddies are not always available. The easiest are the married ones who is ready for a extra marital affair.

  Let's face it.. married men are not as picky as single guys. Even a one night stand or fark buddies has a higher requirement than a married man. So yes.. married men are easier to bag.

  There's nothing to do with the woman's level of intellect, rather the level of self-centered thinking she possess.

   

   

   

• EarlNeo

  16 Apr 09, 14:39

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

  I think there is some misconcept in tis statement... (not flaming u)

  Being seduced he may be, but a good man shld not be sabotaging his family by giving in to the temptation.  I duno abt gays, but there's a high possiblity that the "taken" man is not a good one either. 

  kinda catch 22.....

  if u manage to win over a taken man...

  most prob he isnt good...

  but if he is good.....

  most prob u cant win him over....

  

• jojobeach

  16 Apr 09, 14:43

  Originally posted by EarlNeo:

  kinda catch 22.....

  if u manage to win over a taken man...

  most prob he isnt good...

  but if he is good.....

  most prob u cant win him over....

  

  Yes. It is true.

  The harder you are ( married man)  to get.. the more desirable you are to women.

  Easy come, easy go.. the same thing applies.

• Fugazzi

  21 Apr 09, 19:19

  She had her reasons, he had his reasons, and they could still be at it, whatever it means to them. It is nobod'ys business lar, all things pass and to label some one for an act that is considered socially deviant (which is relative in an ever changing world) is utterly dense. To each his own, its one's path, its one journey,

• xcSz3firaSx

  24 Apr 09, 22:22

  Why does the girl has this intention in the first place, the girl's are fault knowing the guy has a family soon,

  the guy has to control and reject the girl.

• Fantagf

  25 Apr 09, 12:14

  usually it is the men who offer.   my ex colleague initially rejected but later was so touched by his sincerity, showering of love, gentleness, care and concern, gave in.

  Know of another friend who worked in supreme court, one of the judges there offered to "bao" her.   She rejected.

  To me, if possible, try to stand in your own two feet, get a man to marry or . . . . .     I do believe there is exceptional case.

• gigabyte14

  26 Apr 09, 03:02

  crazy little thing called love

  cannot be explained 1

• SomebodyInSG

  26 Apr 09, 05:33

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  i think the problem is with the guy rite?

  Sweeping statement to always blame the guy.