there are gd friends, close friends or even best friends and also those friends that can only share your happiness but cannot share your pain.
i have friends that belongs to the last category. I still remembered i was in hospital when i was 14 +. my so called best friends did not even come to the hospital to visit me once and one of them even bully me when i was discharged.
But then i still believe there are still people that i can trust in and friends that stay through every phase of life because i have friends like that and i'm grateful for that too.
I have friends who i have not met for very long time but yet still have that bond with them when we meet again. i'm grateful for that too.
learn to read the signs of a betrayer
The differences between passers by and lifelong friends.
I like my friends because they are genuine upfront, so am I. They dare to show their true colours even if we have met just a couple of days ago. i respect them for doing so because they are honest with their feelings. That way I am able to learn to choose my words wisely before bringing it up in front of them.
None the less, choose your friends carefully, though you have to always keep an open mind. Pick up the qualities which you deem desirable from your friends, and stick with them, because most of the times they have been able to help me out of my shithole.
Originally posted by HiAy3Captain:its hard to find one lasting friendship
disagree!
i got a a friend who is my friend for nearly 7 years :)
beware.
i have learnt that.... nv commit into a friendship, nv trust ur friends, nv joke too much, nv be too nice, always betray ppl, solitude is better than crowding, do not get influenced by them, and must always be selfish
this is the thing i have learnt after getting hurt and betrayed and left in the lurch for dunno how many times...
IA
to add on... i learnt not to believe wat anyone say... if not i will feel very very very very down... those suckers... made me look like a fool, made me feel like a stray dog, made me feel like a downright loser.... just because i am more successful than them in many ways..
finally i know how to judge things on my own.. without them giving those useless and sarcastic comments
IA
Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:i have learnt that.... nv commit into a friendship, nv trust ur friends, nv joke too much, nv be too nice, always betray ppl, solitude is better than crowding, do not get influenced by them, and must always be selfish
this is the thing i have learnt after getting hurt and betrayed and left in the lurch for dunno how many times...
IA
to add on... i learnt not to believe wat anyone say... if not i will feel very very very very down... those suckers... made me look like a fool, made me feel like a stray dog, made me feel like a downright loser.... just because i am more successful than them in many ways..
finally i know how to judge things on my own.. without them giving those useless and sarcastic comments
U must be a lone ranger?
Originally posted by Deino:learn to read the signs of a betrayer
.....this one comes with experience. Must get bitten a few times first
friendship is over-rated. ![]()
Originally posted by rlsh07:there are gd friends, close friends or even best friends and also those friends that can only share your happiness but cannot share your pain.
i have friends that belongs to the last category. I still remembered i was in hospital when i was 14 +. my so called best friends did not even come to the hospital to visit me once and one of them even bully me when i was discharged.
But then i still believe there are still people that i can trust in and friends that stay through every phase of life because i have friends like that and i'm grateful for that too.
I have friends who i have not met for very long time but yet still have that bond with them when we meet again. i'm grateful for that too.
.....this is the best kind of friendship!
Do you have many friends like this?
A good friend bails you out from jail , but a true friend will be sitting beside u saying 'Man.. we fu*ked up!*
Originally posted by BadzMaro:A good friend bails you out from jail , but a true friend will be sitting beside u saying 'Man.. we fu*ked up!*
I did rather have my friend bailed me out of jail, than stuck together with me in jail...
Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
I did rather have my friend bailed me out of jail, than stuck together with me in jail...
i rather my frens with me ![]()
Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
I did rather have my friend bailed me out of jail, than stuck together with me in jail...
Dun worry, u will have lots of friends to bail u out.
But how many are willing to go with u all the way.. cause he believe in what u do is right and wont let u go at it alone.
Aint gonna let u go down in a blaze of glory alone. Its go at it together, n out together.
Or die trying.. now THATS BROTHER man..
Thats what i meant by 'we fucked up' .
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Dun worry, u will have lots of friends to bail u out.
But how many are willing to go with u all the way.. cause he believe in what u do is right and wont let u go at it alone.
Aint gonna let u go down in a blaze of glory alone. Its go at it together, n out together.
Or die trying.. now THATS BROTHER man..
Thats what i meant by 'we fucked up' .
WOOOOOOTTZZZZ ![]()
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:WOOOOOOTTZZZZ
Really man..
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Dun worry, u will have lots of friends to bail u out.
But how many are willing to go with u all the way.. cause he believe in what u do is right and wont let u go at it alone.
Aint gonna let u go down in a blaze of glory alone. Its go at it together, n out together.
Or die trying.. now THATS BROTHER man..
Thats what i meant by 'we fucked up' .
*CLAP!* *CLAP!* *CLAP!* ![]()
Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
U must be a lone ranger?
the exact opposite... i am surrounded by at least a 2 hundred of hypocrites known as "friends"... of cuz there is one or two that is at least not so fake...
and i dun have any ppl named "close friends"... cuz i have been betrayed by my "close friends" or "best friends" too many times...
the IA famous for his cheerful attitude has been made crying for friendship problems for over ten times...
i am like from the cheerful and a person who tells about myself to a person who keep everything to himself and only cheerful to cheer myself up... i keep telling myself that i am the best friend of myself...
IA
that a friend in need is a pain in the ass...
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A friend with weed is a friend indeed. lol!
aight.. i go liaw. c yous all. =D
I think singapore lifestyle is too hectic. Maintaining frienship is quite tough.
You need to spend a big time of yr life maintening yr career and then u need to find gf/bf and patoh. And u still need to spend some time for yr family,right?
Where got more time for friends?
that's life
Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....this is the best kind of friendship!
Do you have many friends like this?
some friends