Shd I make my move?
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Its all up to you. As long as you feel that you wont have any regrets, cause i did.
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
its is better
if u just ask if she is single or not
then think later
Haha. Isn't that too obvious? I am worried that if I ask her directly, she might feel uncomfortaable and if she avoids me, i won't even have a chance to try to know her better.
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let her know but don't expect anything. say and leave it to her to decide.
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Let us know what happens, ya
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ya good luck
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Originally posted by brainerror:
well, finish your studies first.
brainy's best advice, singlehood is the best.
i lazy to read your wall of text*i hate being single
nobody help me peel prawns
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Originally posted by student 17:
Haha. Isn't that too obvious? I am worried that if I ask her directly, she might feel uncomfortaable and if she avoids me, i won't even have a chance to try to know her better.
ask her. are u willing to peel prawns for me for the rest of your life
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LoL..
Dun worry, the mistakes u make now will give u the necessary experience to succeed in the future.
;p
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Ok, thxs for all the advice. Really appreciate them.
Well, I guess I will try to ask her out soon. But she is very active in school(high-flyer) and I really do not know when she may be free. But I will let you all know the outcome if successful (I hope so).
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Originally posted by student 17:
Haha. Isn't that too obvious? I am worried that if I ask her directly, she might feel uncomfortaable and if she avoids me, i won't even have a chance to try to know her better.
never try
never know
later u hint until u almost die
then she " i attached, sorry"
then u will really die
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go ahead and try! I think you need a boost to your confidence and try to be more certain of what you want in front of her as well!
For the time being, dun go and think abt the point 2 and 3 first. There are other things that you might be more interested about her compared to your worries...dun u think so? for instance her likes/dislikes... if both of you can click apart from the same topics you talk abt...
Whatever it is, all the best to u!
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give it a try , u can test her , get close to her , ask her questions --> u will believe everything she say , but dun trust all!
like i say , she maybe a flirt and she study with a group mean that she is dating more than 2 guys at a time!
can you stand it, what if you know all about her, do u still love her! lol
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Originally posted by Sakuraflower:
give it a try , u can test her , get close to her , ask her questions --> u will believe everything she say , but dun trust all!
like i say , she maybe a flirt and she study with a group mean that she is dating more than 2 guys at a time!
can you stand it, what if you know all about her, do u still love her! lol
If she is really dating 2 or more guys simultaneously, I think it is really wrong and I am quite sure that if it is true, I will definitely forget about her. But I doubt so. As I said earlier, she (and her frens) gives me the impression that she is still single but just that she might be very friendly as some other forrumers opined.To fredex: Thxs for your encouragement. I will definitely give a serious thought as to what I really want and be more confident in front of her.
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Originally posted by student 17:
If she is really dating 2 or more guys simultaneously, I think it is really wrong and I am quite sure that if it is true, I will definitely forget about her. But I doubt so. As I said earlier, she (and her frens) gives me the impression that she is still single but just that she might be very friendly as some other forrumers opined.To fredex: Thxs for your encouragement. I will definitely give a serious thought as to what I really want and be more confident in front of her.
Dating means she hasn't decided. Steady means she's decided.My thinking.
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BEST ADVICE:
YOU NEVER KNOW TILL YOU TRY.
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From what I can see is that this girl is a very friendly girl. She mixed arnd with guys n is ok to go out with any of them. The likely reason that y she aint attached is because she havent found some1 that touches her heart. My suggestion is to befren more get to know her better. Maybe as u become her good fren u would know wat she truly looked for in a bf. Maybe you could be the one who touches her heart?
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Ok, not sure if this should be a new topic, but now if I decide to ask her out, how long notice should I give her? Like ask how many days in advance given that she is quite busy? And ask through sms/msn or call better?
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i'll say try calling her, if u sms her/msn her, she might ignore u cause shes really busy with something else and forgot to reply u. but to a guy, we might think that shes rejecting us by ignoring us.
The best way is to approach her in person and ask.
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Well ppl, I finally mustered enough courage to ask whether she is single. And fortunately, at least for now, she is. (My font in black, hers in grey)
anw, u still single right?
hahah u mean now?
yeah
haha
oh
u got bf before?
kan bu chu
hahaha
hahaha why!! cos i look like no one would want isit
thanks ah!
i did not say that ok
haha
but well, a lot og things very hard to say 1
hahahhahaha
okays get ur meaning!!!
well, i did not mean anything bad
really
dun take offense k?
haha
anw, i am single too
and well, being single does not mean anything bad
in fact i think most ppl would not want to rush into a relationship
hahha yeah thats true
nth wrong with being unattached
anw
ive gotta go
talk to u soon!
icic
sure
nite
sweet dreams to u
hahaha
will help u collect ur XX
hahha
thanks!
oh, yup
then i meet u one day to collect k
thxs!!
So what did she mean by the part in bold and underlined? Has she guessed my intentions? And how do I proceed from here?
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just do it. Chances dun come by that often.
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just do it. Chances dun come by that often.
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Originally posted by student 17:
Well ppl, I finally mustered enough courage to ask whether she is single. And fortunately, at least for now, she is. (My font in black, hers in grey)
hahah u mean now?
hahahhahaha
okays get ur meaning!!!
talk to u soon!
So what did she mean by the part in bold and underlined? Has she guessed my intentions? And how do I proceed from here?
isnt it obvious? look at what i quoted.
time to make ur move haha.
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just ask her out for a meal or coffee. you're reading too much into one conversation.
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Ok, so now if ask her out, how many days in advance should I ask? (She is quite busy) And ask via sms/msn/call?