Can you forgive him if he hired an escort and had sex too?
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diaos.. everyday wake up only go work whr got difference...
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Originally posted by Aang:
diaos.. everyday wake up only go work whr got difference...
U can choose to go work happily or being grouchy, isn't it?
Of cos with abit of sleepiness.
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
U can choose to go work happily or being grouchy, isn't it?
Of cos with abit of sleepiness.
of cus go to work happily... but wont sleepy.. since my work start at 9am -
Originally posted by Aang:
of cus go to work happily... but wont sleepy.. since my work start at 9amLol, okok .. Let go back to the topic..
Sorry for hi-jacking.
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Lol, okok .. Let go back to the topic..
Sorry for hi-jacking.
lols they wont mind..thread-jacking
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some posts are biased.. surely men will support men and women will support women.. unless they are..
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Originally posted by lamb chop:
just wanted to clear up the misunderstanding. wish u all the best whatever your decision is. and have a fruitful life ahead. =)
Thank you.
The act of throwing a lifebuoy may not require much effort but to the person who's clinging on it means the world. To everyone who posted I'm grateful that you bothered to. I couldn't cry yesterday but now I've got some of it out my system and I guess it's a start to recovery.
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I am a guy and i totally look down on that guy.
Ts, cry it out .. U will feel better .. Cry all u wan today but make sure it's a new you tomolo morning when u wake up. Cheeers
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Some things, once lost, can never be recovered.
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Originally posted by Deadweightheart:
Thank you.
The act of throwing a lifebuoy may not require much effort but to the person who's clinging on it means the world. To everyone who posted I'm grateful that you bothered to. I couldn't cry yesterday but now I've got some of it out my system and I guess it's a start to recovery.
There will always be a better tomorrow.
Everyday passes would be better.
Your destiny lies in your hands.You will find a better man.
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Lawl, this theory is so damn simple .. U just wan to complicated it .. Ok i will play along with u.
Your logic is the same as anyone with a beard is your dad as long your dad got a beard. So this make sense? U dun label ppl this way, mate.
If u notice.. One thing happen BEFORE ts and the guy got together and another thing happen AFTER they got together .. There's a reason for the words "before" and "after" to be in the dictionary.
I sleep with my ex gf and flings before i got into a relationship with future girlfriend is not even close to being unfaithful .. When u are IN a relationship and u go sleeping ard is UNFAITHFUL.
Everyone has their past and hey the thing that guy did is during the "present" of their relationship.
Fact of life - your present is affect and make up of your past !!!
Your father sleep with your mum last time = past.
Now uncle sam sleep with your mum = present.
So if based on your theory let forget the past = let wipe of all the past .... who your real daddy = uncle sam ???
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Originally posted by storywolf:
Fact of life - your present is affect and make up of your past !!!
Your father sleep with your mum last time = past.
Now uncle sam sleep with your mum = present.
So if based on your theory let forget the past = let wipe of all the past .... who your real daddy = uncle sam ???
Another example of complicating matters.
Obviously, there's so many factor affecting the result isn't it? Or r u just plain goondu?
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Originally posted by storywolf:
Fact of life - your present is affect and make up of your past !!!
Your father sleep with your mum last time = past.
Now uncle sam sleep with your mum = present.
So if based on your theory let forget the past = let wipe of all the past .... who your real daddy = uncle sam ???
logic wrong leh
His real daddy is still the one who gave him some genes.
It is still present that his genes come from his real daddy.
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Originally posted by eagle:
logic wrong leh
His real daddy is still the one who gave him some genes.
It is still present that his genes come from his real daddy.
Ignore him la .. His logic totally dun make sense.
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Originally posted by eagle:
logic wrong leh
His real daddy is still the one who gave him some genes.
It is still present that his genes come from his real daddy.
Yes you are right eagle - if based on midlusionz theory - then things will be real messy !!!The past make up the present - thus his genes is from his real daddy !!!
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Another example of complicating matters.
Obviously, there's so many factor affecting the result isn't it? Or r u just plain goondu?
Sorry son - did your mum forgot to tell you - we actually wanted to name you "Goondu"!!! -
Originally posted by storywolf:
Yes you are right eagle - if based on midlusionz theory - then things will be real messy !!!The past make up the present - thus his genes is from his real daddy !!!
Since when life is that "simple" ?
Let's sum things up .. U are saying that TS got no rights to find fault cos she had sleep with her ex bf of her past relationship which serisouly happen before she met "the guy" while "the guy" went to call for an escort while he's in a r/s with TS which deem as an unfaithful act.
Choices make in the past is what u r today, am i right to said this, storywolf?
That above logic does apply to our life BUT not EVERYTHING.
So back then does TS even know that she is going into a r/s with "the guy"? And her that-time bf wun be the one she is ending up with. No one can predict the future.
Try telling a lady about your logic and see wat's her response.
Unfaithful
Adjective
1. Not true to duty or obligation or promises; "an unfaithful lover".
2. Having sexual relations with someone other than your husband or wife, or your boyfriend or girlfriend; "her husband was unfaithful".
At that point of time, "the guy" wasnt even TS's BF .. And no, she's not been deem unfaithful by her actions cos the one she is with is her at-that-time BF.
Now do u see the diff?
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Originally posted by storywolf:
Sorry son - did your mum forgot to tell you - we actually wanted to name you "Goondu"!!!Lawl, raged much already?
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Since when life is that "simple" ?
Let's sum things up .. U are saying that TS got no rights to find fault cos she had sleep with her ex bf of her past relationship which serisouly happen before she met "the guy" while "the guy" went to call for an escort while he's in a r/s with TS which deem as an unfaithful act.
Choices make in the past is what u r today, am i right to said this, storywolf?
That above logic does apply to our life BUT not EVERYTHING.
So back then does TS even know that she is going into a r/s with "the guy"? And her that-time bf wun be the one she is ending up with. No one can predict the future.
Try telling a lady about your logic and see wat's her response.
Unfaithful
Adjective
1. Not true to duty or obligation or promises; "an unfaithful lover".
2. Having sexual relations with someone other than your husband or wife, or your boyfriend or girlfriend; "her husband was unfaithful".
At that point of time, "the guy" wasnt even TS's BF .. And no, she's not been deem unfaithful by her actions cos the one she is with is her at-that-time BF.
Now do u see the diff?
You really take the trouble to explain lulzBut I dun think it's helping coz he cannot think logically
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though its good to forgive but, i suggest u dump him. He does not even care about your feelings by doing that. He is not respecting you as a gf. A partner is someone whom you have to spent your life with. you can afford to be choosy.Don't regret years down the road after you are married.
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Originally posted by storywolf:
Sorry son - did your mum forgot to tell you - we actually wanted to name you "Goondu"!!!
These words are not meant to be said even you are not in a good mood.This is not a way to clear things up...
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Midlu and storywolf, can u 2 pls take your discussioin somewhere and stick to the topic? Thanks!
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Nah, cbf about him anymore
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never forgive a cheating partner.
got one, got two..
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If you love a person, the very love is enough unto itslef, is enough security. If you love a person, you know he/she cannot go to anybody else.
And if he/she goes, he/she goes; nothing can be done. What can you do? You can force, cajole, hoodwink another to stay or even kill the person, but a dead person will not be of much use.
When you love a person you trust (in your love) that he cannot go to anybody. If he goes, there is no love and nothing can be done.
Love brings forth this understanding. There is no jealousy.
So if jealousy, fear and needs are there, know well there is no love. One is playing a game, one is hiding sex behind love. Love is just a painted n decorated as a word, the reality is sex, fear of loss of oneSELF!