I'm really scared of her
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Originally posted by kuehtutu:
what do u mean by it over? are u saying that u already know that she likes u too, or dont like u? if what u said is really true. then theres only 3 possible reasons that i can think of for her recent frownings when u see her.
1) She's really in a bad mood.
2)She is frustrated that u are not "man" enough to take the initiative to talk to her.
3)She doesnt like u and dont want to send the wrong signals to u.
im not sure how she will react because I didnt talk to her in a long time and she often frown. im not sure about those 3 reason u said but i think im getting ahead of myself of thinking that she likes me. but i know one thing, i know she knows that i like her. Thats what i mean by over but I dont wanna make a relanstionship with her i just wanna hang out with her. now im really got this worried feeling. i wish u all know how i feel. this kind of scared feeling of talking to a girl who knows that u like her
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Originally posted by -Wanderer-:
First the TS says he thinks he likes her. Then now he is scared of her. Hey brudder, wake up your idea! If you like her then go for it! You wouldn't know what can happen unless you try. Why? Scared of rejection ah?
its not rejection im afraid. Its herself. you see we keep on ignoring each other when we pass by a couple of times but i got this feeling that deep inside we're waiting for each other to talk.THIS REALLY SUCKS
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Really? You are not afraid of rejection? I don't get you. ok so what if she likes you? That's the point isn't it? so what? so what if the whole building knows you like her? Im not trying to put you down but I feel you are not confident in yourself. Seriously, in my humble opinion, that is a turn off to girls. Either you get her or you don't. Stop hanging around and hoping for things to happen. Stop wishing. Make things happen. If they don't, so be it. Remember, you don't need a girl's approval to feel validated. Come from a position of offering value, not hoping she will come and fill your empty cup.
ok, having said that, next time see her, look her in the eyes and smile with your heart. Say something, anything.
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
im not sure how she will react because I didnt talk to her in a long time and she often frown. im not sure about those 3 reason u said but i think im getting ahead of myself of thinking that she likes me. but i know one thing, i know she knows that i like her. Thats what i mean by over but I dont wanna make a relanstionship with her i just wanna hang out with her. now im really got this worried feeling. i wish u all know how i feel. this kind of scared feeling of talking to a girl who knows that u like her
i definitely know what kind of feelings u are going through cause i've been there, more or less. if u are worried then find a chance to talk to her, it will REALLY sucks if somehow she approaches u first and talk, trust me. please be content that u are able to see her everyday......
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
its not rejection im afraid. Its herself. you see we keep on ignoring each other when we pass by a couple of times but i got this feeling that deep inside we're waiting for each other to talk.THIS REALLY SUCKS
Be firm in ur beliefs and trust in ur instincts, most of the time it may be right, so what if its wrong, u want to talk to her anyway.
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Originally posted by RHluvW:
Im not trying to put you down but I feel you are not confident in yourself. Seriously, in my humble opinion, that is a turn off to girls. Stop hanging around and hoping for things to happen. Stop wishing. Make things happen. Come from a position of offering value, not hoping she will come and fill your empty cup.
next time see her, look her in the eyes and smile with your heart. Say something, anything.
What he said.
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Better don't get yourself involve in office romance..
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
its not rejection im afraid. Its herself. you see we keep on ignoring each other when we pass by a couple of times but i got this feeling that deep inside we're waiting for each other to talk.THIS REALLY SUCKS
then talk to her
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lol.. at least say hi la...
start with the greetings.. then casual talk.. then date her out... do it step by step... not everything within a day...
later u scare her away..
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If you are scared then ask her out for a group outing first.
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If you are scared then ask her out for a group outing first.
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well i talked to her and i never been this happy and so free. Thanks guys for the advice
Her PC is acting up strange frequently so i was sent down there to help her. Yeah we talked BUT the topic is all related to the PC problem. But there was some laugh and smile.
Its a start.....
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
well i talked to her and i never been this happy and so free. Thanks guys for the advice
Her PC is acting up strange frequently so i was sent down there to help her. Yeah we talked BUT the topic is all related to the PC problem. But there was some laugh and smile.
Its a start.....
you purposely make her PC act up one is it? -
there is a reason why ppl dun shit where they eat...
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
well i talked to her and i never been this happy and so free. Thanks guys for the advice
Her PC is acting up strange frequently so i was sent down there to help her. Yeah we talked BUT the topic is all related to the PC problem. But there was some laugh and smile.
Its a start.....
woah thats some really good news. since u'd talked to her now its even easier to say a casual hi everytime u see her. good luck bro.
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Originally posted by AhChye:
you purposely make her PC act up one is it?
i tried making her IP conflict several times but she didnt call about that problem knowing that she still can surf the net. I give up already so I just leave it at there.Few weeks later, her PC which was just now was acting up through no fault of mine
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maybe shes laughing together with you since her PC is fixed and she can surf the net again, lol!
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Originally posted by kuehtutu:
woah thats some really good news. since u'd talked to her now its even easier to say a casual hi everytime u see her. good luck bro.
Thanks to you the most you helped me alot. Hopefully now i dont lose it and ignore her this time -
Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
Thanks to you the most you helped me alot. Hopefully now i dont lose it and ignore her this timelol im glad i helped, though im struggling with the same problem too, ahaha!
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Originally posted by Ms.shells:
Better don't get yourself involve in office romance..
Because you have experienced it before?
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
there is a reason why ppl dun shit where they eat...
i second that, don't eat where you shit. it's better for the long run. [:
but there're always exceptions in every issue.
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hmm.....TS must rly enjoying talking to her!! he stop posting the moment it's solved
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Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
... but I really got this feeling that she likes me too....
... I got the feeling she hates me....
so she likes u or she hates u? so confusing...btw, she might be staring at u cos u act funny ard her... she might be laughing at YOU and not wat u say... just a thot...
are u more confused now? :P
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Originally posted by tare:
so she likes u or she hates u? so confusing...btw, she might be staring at u cos u act funny ard her... she might be laughing at YOU and not wat u say... just a thot...
are u more confused now? :P
have u not read the full paragraph for that line of why i got the feeling she likes me? btw, it doesnt matter anyway. At least i got talked to her. now all i need is to talk to her anything besides job related. And i need to smile at her more often -
Originally posted by boi_cant tahan:
have u not read the full paragraph for that line of why i got the feeling she likes me? btw, it doesnt matter anyway. At least i got talked to her. now all i need is to talk to her anything besides job related. And i need to smile at her more oftenSo...are you going to continue to 'just talk to her', or are you going to think about your next step?