Indian Guy, PRC Girl
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I dont understand lar
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cos i was referring to your earlier 'atb' - i dont understand
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
cos i was referring to your earlier 'atb' - i dont understand
means china women
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Thanks :)
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
As it ever occurred to you that your u are being divisive as and it is apparent (and palpable) that you seem to be harbouring some latent discontent with u.
However, that is your predicament. And you are free to spout all that comes to you - it is you and u are being u what u type here. To reject outrightly, what one knows not or lacks insight is the highest form of ignorance.
By judging - u are not defining what another is (in this instance, me) or . .. but defining what you are.
Like i mentioned before, i offer my views, opinions n what have u. u are free to be u just as others are. If it does not resonate of u or does not with u - lump it.
PS - One's mirror that is thick with the dust of the past, cannot see clearly what is. One only sees what one wants to see, hence one misses! One cannot respond to what is. One merely reacts and all one does is use the past. Of course, the past is dead, it is only alive in the mind. The wise knows and accepts that the illusion of certainty cannot co-exist with existential uncertainty. At the most, one is clutching at straws of certainty!
Oh please until you are in that shoes and walk the walked....you can stop posting here.
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well.. thanks for all your repsonses folks..
things seem pretty bad right now :(
after a few missed calls from my end spread over a few days a nd a few smses from her explaining her phone was lost/left somewhere etc, i sent her an email telling her how much i enjoyed our date and giving her an open invitation to join me for dinner over th enext few days. i also causally mentioned about whats going on at my work and asked how she was doing.
she responded by explaining how busy she was at work and over the next few days (i know she's not just blowing me off and is *really* busy because my friend also works in the same establishment as her).
then she congratulate sme on the good stuff going on at my work... and thats it!
no mention of the date or of going out again :(
and well.. even though i like her and all, im not a crazy person or a stalker.. so i just sent her an email telling her that i spent a fun filled weekend and thanking her for her well wishes for my career .. and told her to not work too hard and have fun.
and thats it.
I dont get this girl's behaviour... on the one had she spent 7 hours holding hands and .. other stuff.. sharing intimate details with me and making plans to meet up later for a host of activities.. and now its like.. weird.
<very very confused>
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Originally posted by Awesomeazing:
well.. thanks for all your repsonses folks..
things seem pretty bad right now :(
after a few missed calls from my end spread over a few days a nd a few smses from her explaining her phone was lost/left somewhere etc, i sent her an email telling her how much i enjoyed our date and giving her an open invitation to join me for dinner over th enext few days. i also causally mentioned about whats going on at my work and asked how she was doing.
she responded by explaining how busy she was at work and over the next few days (i know she's not just blowing me off and is *really* busy because my friend also works in the same establishment as her).
then she congratulate sme on the good stuff going on at my work... and thats it!
no mention of the date or of going out again :(
and well.. even though i like her and all, im not a crazy person or a stalker.. so i just sent her an email telling her that i spent a fun filled weekend and thanking her for her well wishes for my career .. and told her to not work too hard and have fun.
and thats it.
I dont get this girl's behaviour... on the one had she spent 7 hours holding hands and .. other stuff.. sharing intimate details with me and making plans to meet up later for a host of activities.. and now its like.. weird.
<very very confused>
its possible that she is really busy. if you really are serious about her, just hang on a bit and approach her again by asking her out again. but just do it once more and if you get stonewalled, just back off. if she is really sincere, she'll go out with you eagerly or have a really really good reason, and she will make sure she gives that reason to you in a keen way.
let's just say: if a girl reciprocates and likes you very much, you will be hardpressed NOT to know it.
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if you need more tips just rent the movie "he's just not that into you" from ezyvideo.. It applies to both men and women. :)
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Originally posted by Awesomeazing:
well.. thanks for all your repsonses folks..
things seem pretty bad right now :(
after a few missed calls from my end spread over a few days a nd a few smses from her explaining her phone was lost/left somewhere etc, i sent her an email telling her how much i enjoyed our date and giving her an open invitation to join me for dinner over th enext few days. i also causally mentioned about whats going on at my work and asked how she was doing.
she responded by explaining how busy she was at work and over the next few days (i know she's not just blowing me off and is *really* busy because my friend also works in the same establishment as her).
then she congratulate sme on the good stuff going on at my work... and thats it!
no mention of the date or of going out again :(
and well.. even though i like her and all, im not a crazy person or a stalker.. so i just sent her an email telling her that i spent a fun filled weekend and thanking her for her well wishes for my career .. and told her to not work too hard and have fun.
and thats it.
I dont get this girl's behaviour... on the one had she spent 7 hours holding hands and .. other stuff.. sharing intimate details with me and making plans to meet up later for a host of activities.. and now its like.. weird.
<very very confused>
If that girl is of decent quality , she'll know she's worth it, and she will probably want to consider her options first before taking a more serious route with you.
What you like, others will also like. You are probably not the only suitor pursuing her right now.
The last thing you want to do, is to let your big ego get the better of you.
Continue your show of interest in her until she makes up her mind. That may take a few weeks, or a few months, just be patient.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
If that girl is of decent quality , she'll know she's worth it, and she will probably want to consider her options first before taking a more serious route with you.
What you like, others will also like. You are probably not the only suitor pursuing her right now.
The last thing you want to do, is to let your big ego get the better of you.
Continue your show of interest in her until she makes up her mind. That may take a few weeks, or a few months, just be patient.
I'll second that.
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ok.. so how about:
I'll say nothing for about a week.. and then next monday maybe drop her an sms\email asking her how she's doing and what would be a good time during the next week to meet up?
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flapdoodle, how do your pictures help the topic starter's predicament?
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Originally posted by SomebodyInSG:
flapdoodle, how do your pictures help the topic starter's predicament?
TS will go back to Indi and use his life story for a Bollywood movie.
The PRC girl watcheds it and tried to contact TS and they get together and live happily ever after..
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Kuch Na Kaho !! ( dont say a word!)
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Originally posted by Awesomeazing:
ok.. so how about:
I'll say nothing for about a week.. and then next monday maybe drop her an sms\email asking her how she's doing and what would be a good time during the next week to meet up?
Do not be foolish. You don't have to give her the silence treatment just to prove anything.
Do you not understand the meaning of " continuous" ?
Do you want her to think that you'd keep in touch with her only when you want to hold her body ?
Let your sincerity flow like a river.
Too much scheming on your part only makes a mockery out of your true intentions.
A smart woman knows when a man is playing mind games. And that is a huge turn off.
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Originally posted by flapdoodle:
TS will go back to Indi and use his life story for a Bollywood movie.
The PRC girl watcheds it and tried to contact TS and they get together and live happily ever after..
Doesn't make sense, and your advise is hardly helpful nor practical.
Would you do that for yourself if it were you?
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many people regards indian in singapore as a low level type of human being, sad to say that. that happens because most of the indian or bangala come to singapore to work as construction worker. the image of Indian in singapore is lousy. Indian is treated like criminals, we chinese call them AH NEY or KI LING KWEI, just nasty name, or ba bu.
it's not racist, it's the culture of singapore. and our indian have get used to it. it is very true so this answered on of your question.
For PRC, they are pretty and cheap. and yes, 3 date u can screw her in any position, they love $$$. they will run off for another richer machine.
so these information is good for u to move on. 2 questions answered. and it's 100% correct.
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Originally posted by SomebodyInSG:
Doesn't make sense, and your advise is hardly helpful nor practical.
Would you do that for yourself if it were you?
yes!!
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Originally posted by Fire Cracker:
many people regards indian in singapore as a low level type of human being, sad to say that. that happens because most of the indian or bangala come to singapore to work as construction worker. the image of Indian in singapore is lousy. Indian is treated like criminals, we chinese call them AH NEY or KI LING KWEI, just nasty name, or ba bu.
it's not racist, it's the culture of singapore. and our indian have get used to it. it is very true so this answered on of your question.
For PRC, they are pretty and cheap. and yes, 3 date u can screw her in any position, they love $$$. they will run off for another richer machine.
so these information is good for u to move on. 2 questions answered. and it's 100% correct.
tell this to our president can or not. Fool
Next time think before u talk.
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Originally posted by flapdoodle:
yes!!
Then what are you still doing here?
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Originally posted by Awesomeazing:
So... we had a nice long romantic date - and basically just talked for 7+ hours... (extremely unusual experience)
only thing is she doesn't seem willing to initiate stuff.. if i hold her hand, she responds.. if i ask her to dance, shes ok... if i mention future plans together, she agrees... but nothing from her side..
should i *again* be the one to ask for another date? isn't that kinda needy and weird... on the other hand, isnt it childish to play such mind games? <confused>
Dei Thamby,Yes it is childish to play anymore mind games with her so kindly ask her for a Guud Fark! the next time -
thamby is living in Bollywood
