Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
You think its a real case and she will be out here yaking only about how someone is trying to fight for a girl, instead of mentioning about how everyone on the internet tries to cheat her?
hahahah, you are trained as a police and yet have no proof that i mentioned everyone cheat me on internet. YOu are very good to put words into people's mouths.
Very evil woman you are.
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I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Miracles, never listen to someone who acts a thief to snatch a good friend's love interest. By the way, he himself is a retard and think others are the same. He never grow up, a painarse! Even he reaches 21 also no use, still will not grow up, he a mentally retarded case. He is sowing discord here and this is how he will work out his plan of victimization, do not fall into his trap. He always seizes opportunity to sow discord when he reads about forumers disagreeing with me. Do not let him use you as his tool to get at people which he has been doing so.
Wow...it must be me that have started it ehh.
When one person does not know how to automatic, she think others should be?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
hahahah, you are trained as a police and yet have no proof that i mentioned everyone cheat me on internet. YOu are very good to put words into people's mouths.Very evil woman you are.
I have proof about how you were alledging that you were a innocent party, and how the boys were sexually harrassing you for sex.
And that you agree to meet them, but later found out you were had. That neither one of them was seriously meeting you for whatever you want them to meet you for.
And there is copied version of your comments, both in SB and in various other threads about your accusation.
BTW, I still have the pm where you lied to me about you being a Miss Wong and that you have a boyfriend that will beat up the boys.
Now......since you suggested use of criminal force on boys. Maybe your b/f will like to be more honourable to take responsibility for your actions instead.
Because its always been that case that you pretended that you are un-trace-able and that you are such a wonderful person, that everyone will love to love.
That is what I meant by honour.
A honour to believe that one person is responsible and prepared to face up to their mistakes, failures and their wrongs. Which I so far do not see you in ever been able to face up to.
I am not just a police officer. I am a woman, who have no problems putting my face to my name, nick and what I do in life or in the internet.
When you can understand that, then you may qualify to tell me to mind my own business.
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
I have proof about how you were alledging that you were a innocent party, and how the boys were sexually harrassing you for sex.And that you agree to meet them, but later found out you were had. That neither one of them was seriously meeting you for whatever you want them to meet you for.
And there is copied version of your comments, both in SB and in various other threads about your accusation.
BTW, I still have the pm where you lied to me about you being a Miss Wong and that you have a boyfriend that will beat up the boys.
Now......since you suggested use of criminal force on boys. Maybe your b/f will like to be more honourable to take responsibility for your actions instead.
Because its always been that case that you pretended that you are un-trace-able and that you are such a wonderful person, that everyone will love to love.
That is what I meant by honour.
A honour to believe that one person is responsible and prepared to face up to their mistakes, failures and their wrongs. Which I so far do not see you in ever been able to face up to.
I am not just a police officer. I am a woman, who have no problems putting my face to my name, nick and what I do in life or in the internet.
When you can understand that, then you may qualify to tell me to mind my own business.
Only people who are dumb will believe in all you hallucination above.
Evil vicious woman. Hahahahha! Bitch!
Originally posted by Fantagf:Only people who are dumb will believe in all you hallucination above.
Evil vicious woman. Hahahahha! Bitch!
And only people that is intelligience will likely understand what it actually meant and where is the stupid one.
hahaha so insecure must prove she is better than others:
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about 'Expecting and about to go through a divorce'.
Does it pass as being mean?
Originally posted by Fantagf:hahaha so insecure must prove she is better than others:
They are welcome to inspect my credentials.
You however, have what to show except all the lies you were hiding from yourself and others?
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
They are welcome to inspect my credentials.You however, have what to show except all the lies you were hiding from yourself and others?
I need not subject myself for your approval. Go on create lies and accuse me of lying, heaven knows what is going on. You are not happy with your life, your marriage fail, you have lots of problems. Now in sgforums you are imposing your problems on others. Please, i have people telling me how nasty, bitchy , evil you are to victimise them.
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I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
I need not subject myself for your approval. Go on create lies and accuse me of lying, heaven knows what is going on. You are not happy with your life, your marriage fail, you have lots of problems. Now in sgforums you are imposing your problems on others. Please, i have people telling me how nasty, bitchy , evil you are to victimise them.
Then next time, learn from what they tell you.
And stop crossing me with your posting against any body.
Otherwise, you are just about as intelligient as what most people tell me you are.
go hallucination. Your words are not commands that I should act on, stupid bitch!
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about 'Expecting and about to go through a divorce'.
Does it pass as being mean?
I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
go hallucination. Your words are not commands that I should act on, stupid bitch!
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about 'Expecting and about to go through a divorce'.
Does it pass as being mean?
I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Aiyah....connection problem and my posting is lost.
Nber mind. Turn focus back on TS.
TS. I as mentioned by fanta g/f.
Is divorced.
However, just very recently, like Tues nite. A gentleman went on bended knee and proposed.
He is single, matured, with a very stable and good carreer, tall, good looking and is not a ah pek type.
I would say, love is not impossible in the future. But that timing will not be as what you expected or wanted.
On keeping your child, then you need to believe, that your timing will be different, because when your child is born. He/she will be the love of your life. And no matter how......they will love you back unconditionally.
And that itself, beats find love from any opposite sex.
why you all still arguing? piang eh.. 2 older then me, more elder then me acting so....
cannot shake hands be friend meh?
Originally posted by youyayu:why you all still arguing? piang eh.. 2 older then me, more elder then me acting so....
cannot shake hands be friend meh?
Impossible.
Because she dont dare to show face wan.
I think she got the secretive mysterious thing going on for her.
So dont wish for what you cannot have, especially on your birthday.
But if she does dare to show her face, then you know how to contact me and arranged that. I will buy you donuts and kopi.
Originally posted by youyayu:why you all still arguing? piang eh.. 2 older then me, more elder then me acting so....
cannot shake hands be friend meh?
i have been avoiding her and have not gotten into any deliberate arguments, quarrel with her but she keeps attacking. a nasty person will not repent. REad below you will know why she do it. sue sue sue eee, pui
I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
i have been avoiding her and have not gotten into any deliberate arguments, quarrel with her but she keeps attacking. a chup cheng will always be a chup cheng. REad below you will know why she do it.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
When you try to suggest that I am a chup cheng.
Which unless you want to dispute that it did not mean that my mother had sex with a dog and produced me.
You will be looking at a proper lawsuit against yourself.
Shall we go on?
I believe, in such a event. I have full legal right to demand for your contact details and your real name and trace you for a living address where a decent civil suit can be delivered, and you and your family, including your father and mother, will have to face me in court.
I am glad that you made this silly mistake. Got you.
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:When you try to suggest that I am a chup cheng.
Which unless you want to dispute that it did not mean that my mother had sex with a dog and produced me.
You will be looking at a proper lawsuit against yourself.
Shall we go on?
I believe, in such a event. I have full legal right to demand for your contact details and your real name and trace you for a living address where a decent civil suit can be delivered, and you and your family, including your father and mother, will have to face me in court.
I am glad that you made this silly mistake. Got you.
go and die. forever ceasing opportunity to bully people.
I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
go and die. forever ceasing opportunity to bully people.
Wont die as yet.
I still have a happy good man to live my life with.
And you to teach a good lesson to.
We shall start then.
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Wont die as yet.I still have a happy good man to live my life with.
And you to teach a good lesson to.
We shall start then.
Anyone who is sensible and mature knows what you are up to. Below is good enough to tell of your nastiness.
I am now being really mean, vicious and nasty to fantagf in the Aunt Agony Thread about "Expecting and about to go through a divorce".
Does it pass as being mean?
- viciouskitty74 responding to thread in Chit Chat: How bad are you?
Everyone already knows.
And everyone will likely now know how stupid you have been.
I leave it up to you now.
Ether you provide your contact details and apologise with a full page advertisement in the Straits Times now.
Or you can expect yourself and your family members to face me in court to know exactly what I intend or how I play things.
You think I know how to teach you things, I dont know how it actually works?
1. I am deeply moved that you care so much for the life inside your womb. He/she is innocent and must never be deprived of a chance at life.
2. As your hubby is irresponsible and unlikely to change for the better, take this opportunity to make a clean break with him now. Your marriage in registered in Singapore and Singapore laws applies. It very much favours womenhood, as it rightly should, for often, the women are sorely disadvantaged against in other countries.
3. You must secure a job, to prove to the courts that you have the financial capabilities to provide for your child, as well as prove your capabilities that your child would be looked after when you are at work.
For this to happen, you must accept help from each and any sources. Contact your family or relatives for help. THey may not had been in good terms with you for marrying this irresponsible rascals, but they are human too, and can be moved if you make that appeal to them. Singaporeans may seem calculative and aloof, but their hearts are made of flesh. I know them well, for I too am a human.
To provide for a baby child in Spore is of not much costs. Govt clinics usually would help defray medical expenses. Food and lodging are actually minimal.
Only issue would be infant care, for the child's behaviour would take some time to adjust to human hours, and would be a strain to you if you have to work the next morning should he/she cry all night over some medical issue. This you must prepare in advance and most certainly with help from someone else.
Being a single mom in Spore carries little or no stigma at all, for our Singaporean women had proven themselves intelligent and fully capable at all levels of society.
The only stigma is your perception of the guilt you feel over a divorce, which is of no fault of yours, but a mistake made, which all humans made too in many other ways. None of us are perfect.
There are men who will love you and your child, only that such men are not listed on the phone directories or simply a face you can find on the street. It takes time, and you must seriously seive them out, not look for another bum who would only take advantage of you and your kid. You too need love and concern, but you must be careful and wary, not make the same mistake of giving yourself to another wrong guy.
In the meantime, do what you can, survive as best as you can for your child, do not be afraid to seek for help. SOme will turn away from you, but not all, for we are still humans. Be strong for your child and start saving up for your future. No need college plans at the moment, but at least food on the table, roof over your head and some left over for leisure you and your baby would deserve from time to time.
You are not alone, nor will ever be, as long as you live within a civilise society such as ours. Good luck and cheers, it aint the end of the world yet.
Originally posted by shma:I am a 24 year old. At the moment, I am expecting after barely 4 months of marriage. I married a foreigner, who took off saying he is scared. He has quoted so many things that he is scared of among which is he does not have a job. We have been fighting so much since we got married, and I told him that I cannot live on like this, I feel like dying. He is mentioning this as a reason that I might complicate him in a police case now. He is giving new reason everyday from not contacting his parents often enough. I know in me that it is not true. Someone who is so scared of getting arrested, only takes off when he learns the wife is expecting. I find that hard to believe.
Now, he has told me he wants a divorce because nothing will work out between us. I am at a crossroad. I am unsure how I am going to bring up this baby. And what life would be after the marriage dissolves. Singapore is a rather closed community. Would anyone date a mom with a little baby. There are just a million thoughts in my head at the moment. I feel so lost. I feel I should give up on this marriage. I know my husband (soon to be ex) will keep finding reasons to avoid responsiblity and his family will continue to back him up as if he is still a little boy.
Feel so stupid for agreeing to marry him..
Hi shma,
I deeply sympathise you, but you must move on now, especially since you intent to keep the child. Since he wants a divorce, and you have no more feelings for such a heartless and useless man like him, then let him have his way and get the divorce over with.
Planning ahead, you may want to seek help ahead of your delivery from your parents, and have them look after your child for you after giving birth, unless you are earning enough yourself to employ a nanny.
Do not feel guilt or regret your decision, for you will be better for without such a man in your life. As for your future, you need not worry too much about it. As women, we have to be strong on our own and not always rely on men, though I will be lying if I were to say I don't appreciate having someone who will comfort me when I am down and give me his shoulder to lie on when I need it.
Thus, it will be better to leave everything to fate and see if a good man comes your way, and focus on planning ahead for your child first.
Cheers.
thanks to those who gave me their heart felt advice. I am alot braver and confident to face whatever that is ahead. I do not have control over what happens on his side. But the last I can do is to keep myself happy and start planning for the future.
I will keep you guys updated. Take care.
I am not willing to forget this guy but not forgive him.
Take care.
God bless...
Originally posted by flapdoodle:U married a bloody srilankan from a 3rd world country? WTH?
And he lives in Africa? Another 3rd world country.??!!
From what i know of is they were former rebel LTTE group members who escaped to Australia and other countries. This is the reason why he keeps talking about being arrested ?
Wow that's a very elitist statement -.- And Africa is a continent, not a country, for your information.
Originally posted by shma:thanks to those who gave me their heart felt advice. I am alot braver and confident to face whatever that is ahead. I do not have control over what happens on his side. But the last I can do is to keep myself happy and start planning for the future.
I will keep you guys updated. Take care.
I am not willing to forget this guy but not forgive him.
Take care.
God bless...
I hope you mean you are willing to forget that guy and forgive him.
You were scammed. That's it.
The marriage is genuine for you, for him it is a marriage of convenience. That is why he is afraid of the police in Singapore. He thinks that such marriage is illegal and he has fled.
Do not harbour any ill feelings. At your self or at him.
Seek proper legal help, consider this case as abandoment, and see what your options are.
Relegate him to history, concentrate on you and your child for the future.
Don't focus on you marriage opportunities for the future. What's the point of having the greatest opportunity for marriage, when you only need one spouse. That will always be within your means, not matter what your circumstances are.
But please be more circumspect next time, ya?