Pls help.. personal relationaship problems..
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Learn to see people not by impression. Since ancient times - powerful generals and people, etc all have problem trying to dispel womanly magic cast by them - till now, in the future and forever down the road, this will still stand true.Originally posted by harryryan:can't blame pple like us cos they seem more attractive n understanding than most singaporean gals but that's only first impression lah...after a few dates than they.....
As long as you fell for it - you can't never say that singaporean lack of good girls around, because they are all over - you chose to go for that kind of girls you want. Noticed that why their charm will fail to some men? Cause such men see through their spell in a single or gradually glance.
But in the end - it all falls under karmic relation with the other party, which we have little control over.
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power sia...u speaking from experience huh?me no big general...just a small fry soldier...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Learn to see people not by impression. Since ancient times - powerful generals and people, etc all have problem trying to dispel womanly magic cast by them - till now, in the future and forever down the road, this will still stand true.
As long as you fell for it - you can't never say that singaporean lack of good girls around, because they are all over - you chose to go for that kind of girls you want. Noticed that why their charm will fail to some men? Cause such men see through their spell in a single or gradually glance.
But in the end - it all falls under karmic relation with the other party, which we have little control over.
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gals e same age as us think we are childish compared to them....but china gals...as long as u good to them....they dun grumble that much...at least that's what i see.Originally posted by loneryu00:Wat U meant is: we sporean guys lost faith in sporean gals? (my tots...) Dats Y we wld go for chi-nas (china gals...)
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I am also only a pawn in this chess game, but whenever I see friends succumbing to womanly scheme - it is normally 'those' kind of guys - nag them a million times also the same. Guess it came together with their life.Originally posted by harryryan:power sia...u speaking from experience huh?me no big general...just a small fry soldier...
Waiting to see if there is any really skilled lady who will blind me too.
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than we can give advice but u will forever blindly refuse to see e light....Originally posted by Yunhaier:I am also only a pawn in this chess game, but whenever I see friends succumbing to womanly scheme - it is normally 'those' kind of guys - nag them a million times also the same. Guess it came together with their life.
Waiting to see if there is any really skilled lady who will blind me too. -
Hahaha... wait until if there is such a day anot bah..Originally posted by harryryan:than we can give advice but u will forever blindly refuse to see e light....
Then remember to post this topic site for to me to recall eh? -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
ha...ha...save it down first...than when u asking for help on e forum...i use it to remind u ....that this was u x months or x years ago.
Hahaha... wait until [b]if there is such a day anot bah..
Then remember to post this topic site for to me to recall eh? [/b] -
Haha....ask Yun.Originally posted by loneryu00:U noe... I really curious...
Wats " "???
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Female when in relationships, being 'skilled' or 'intelligent' is almost non existent.Originally posted by Yunhaier:I am also only a pawn in this chess game, but whenever I see friends succumbing to womanly scheme - it is normally 'those' kind of guys - nag them a million times also the same. Guess it came together with their life.
Waiting to see if there is any really skilled lady who will blind me too.
Only men can be distracted enough to fall fall blindly, anyway...men who are strong enough to resist the advancement of women is also to 0.1% existance...
Yun....maybe you're one of the 0.1%
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U forgot to add mee~~~~~~!!!!!! Me oso resistant!Originally posted by M©+square:Female when in relationships, being 'skilled' or 'intelligent' is almost non existent.
Only men can be distracted enough to fall fall blindly, anyway...men who are strong enough to resist the advancement of women is also to 0.1% existance...
Yun....maybe you're one of the 0.1% 
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1st point. You tends to think too much? Many of your suspicions won't be so easily answered... If you CHOOSE to trust your bf for now, you should stand by him and ACCEPT whatever consequences that might follow.... Like always said, nothing venture nothing gain.... Probably only time can give you the answers to your questions now.... If you DON'T trust him at all and find that there really isn't much point to give him a 2nd chance, you should be able to easily leave him without regrets....Originally posted by ~GaL~:now, my bf says he hates her now...cos looking back, it seems to him tat all along, she's just playing with us, and trying to seperate us..i dun know how he manages to deduce tat, or is it tat he's jus trying to make me feel better, but how is it possible for someone to hate a person whom he claims to "love" within such a short time?
2nd point. From the way you've described the way you visualise things.... I'll urge you to seek professional psychologist or psychiatist's counciling if you can...? Else, give yourself much more REST (don't think too much...).... Whether your bf's gonna be with you for good or he might go to other girl (or the same china girl) now is NOT the main issue... It's kinda OBVIOUS as to what the China girl is trying to do to you...? It's an indirect mental torture for you.... You scrumble to this, you LOSE IT BIG.....
3rd point. PERSONAL OPINION. I SENSED that your bf might be really trying hard to have you back with him... But whether you forgive him or not is an issue which lies between the 2 of you... I can't guarantee as to what kinda bf is he gonna be for you in the future, but chances are he COULD be genuine for now...? The FACt that the China girl is trying to DRILL into your head for 'revenge' (?) indirectly shows that she's not getting her ways with your bf.... Having any difficulty getting over things? Talk it out with him.... (if you've decided to accept him as your bf...) Afterall, he's the one who started it all? He should be eager enough to help you out of it if he's GENUINE and CONCERNED enough...? And if it's really the relationship that you wanna save (which I certainly hope so?), try NOT to keep bringing up the PAST and BLAMES on him (since you've decided to forgive him?) and allow him to work out the relationship into the BETTER for BOTH of you...?
Not to add additional pressure on you but adding on 'unneccessary' pressure and blames on him would only further push him OFF the track for the RECOVERY of your relationship.... In NO WAY would this be of advantage to either of you....
THINK of what I've just said...?
By the way... What's your star sign girl...?
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Gentlemen...? Control yourselves a little...?
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Y not? Wif love comes hate... If yr bf hate her, meaning he still cannot forget her & wat she did... If he can forget her, wats there to hate? He can focus all on U liao dis wae...Originally posted by ~GaL~:now, my bf says he hates her now...cos looking back, it seems to him tat all along, she's just playing with us, and trying to seperate us..i dun know how he manages to deduce tat, or is it tat he's jus trying to make me feel better, but how is it possible for someone to hate a person whom he claims to "love" within such a short time?
Now all U need is as wat many here said... TAKE A BREAK... paranoia is not a solution... & do U really have to focus on dis r/s? U can divert yr attention to other things like work, hobbies, interests... anything to make U tink LESS... -
I'm Virgo, he's taurus...the girl is also taurus..
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No wonder... U r corrupted as virgos shldn't be...Originally posted by ~GaL~:I'm Virgo, he's taurus...the girl is also taurus..
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huh?Originally posted by loneryu00:No wonder... U r corrupted as virgos shldn't be...
Well... take a break.
wad corrupted? Actually i not sure how virgoens shd be like...etc... -
Virgos seems to have a common problem of thinking too much I think that's what Loneryu00 meant by corrupted.
<-------Virgo
Though if you are particular about star signs you might be comforted to know that Virgos and Taurus make excellent partners.
Both are materialistic, practical, admire efficiency, and are homebodies.
As a Virgo i understand your problem when the little demon in your mind start reminding you of bad memories. My solution is either to pack up my stuff and just go out and take a good long walk alone or find something occupying to do(Jogging, a good book..etc). Once you've spent the time working off that excess energy you will
realise it is better to believe in yourself than in what your little demon tells you. Virgos tend to get obsessive in their thoughts too easily but you should always have a stop switch in your mind that tells you to think of something else when bad memories pop up.
Of course i'm a guy so my solution might not work as well since guys are well knowned to be dense and gals to be more emotional.
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to everyone who replied on this thread...thanks for all your advice and explaination...seems clearer to me as to wad i shd do...maybe time will do its job best.. sigh...
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anyway, jus curious...how accurate is this horoscope thingy? when u say tat virgos and tauruses goes well together...how accurate is this statement??..
oh..and wats the characteristics of a taurus, both in general and in love matters?
And virgo le?
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Originally posted by ~GaL~:
I'm not sure if you've mentioned this... But how old are the both of you again...? If both of you are rather young, there's a chance that this relationship may not last....? If he's working, may I know the kinda job he's working as....?
anyway, jus curious...how accurate is this horoscope thingy? when u say tat virgos and tauruses goes well together...how accurate is this statement??..
No offence... Personally, I think usually such statements don't stand much....
oh..and wats the characteristics of a taurus, both in general and in love matters?
And virgo le?
Thanks...cos i really know nothing abt horoscopes...
Mind if I ask you 2 ADDITIONAL questions? What's your blood group...? And what's his...?
Hmm... He probably attracts you much... But.... Why ya choose him anyway...? And reasons for your previous break ups...?
Hmm... HIDDEN FACTORs...? -
Calling me?Originally posted by Devil1976:Gentlemen...? Control yourselves a little...? Thanks... -
I'm 23, he's 25...he is still in Uni..I just graduated and finding a job... i think his blood type is O+, mine is B+..Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm not sure if you've mentioned this... But how old are the both of you again...? If both of you are rather young, there's a chance that this relationship may not last....? If he's working, may I know the kinda job he's working as....?
Hmm... He probably attracts you much... But.... Why ya choose him anyway...? And reasons for your previous break ups...?
Hmm... HIDDEN FACTORs...?
He actually not good looking, not much good factors...but dunno why, just like him the way it is...
As for my previous break-ups, 1st one (lasted 8mths) was mainly due to his parents think we were too young (I was just 15).., and the 2nd one (lasted 10mths) was due to his parents wants him to concentrate on his studies (he had to repeat his O levels).. So tat are mainly the reasons tat I know of...unless they kept the real reasons to themselves la.. -
Well accuracy i can't say. There's no exact numbers on it.
anyway, jus curious...how accurate is this horoscope thingy? when u say tat virgos and tauruses goes well together...how accurate is this statement??..
oh..and wats the characteristics of a taurus, both in general and in love matters?
And virgo le?
But to the question on Taurus.:
I won't deceive you - he's no one's idea of a tempestuous lover. Patient but forceful would be a better description. He will take his time deciding what he wants But he will never give up until he gets it
His passions are slow to focus, but when he finally has you clearly in view - look out! You may have to scramble if you want to get out of the way. You'll probably prefer to stay there and enjoy it.
Don't waste coquetry on him. He'll know you're just being coy. The more you try to con him, the more obstinate he becomes.
If you've know your man for any time, you know he is stubborn. This is in fact the more stubborn sign of the zodiac. Don't lock horns with him, because he is not going to yield. He may try to use persuasion if he has an intellectual turn of mind, but if neccessary he will finally command. If he is the physical type and you are being difficult, he will communicate his needs even more forcefully. The taurus male IS physical. This is part of his attraction, He is earthly, lusty and sensual.
Well there's a lot more. I'm copying off a book.
If you like toss me an email and i'd type up the rest in an email.
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wow...tat description is quite accurate sia..
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Hehheh... Different people have different ways of doing things... Don't get too carried away...?Originally posted by M©+square:Calling me? 