how long does it take to get over someone?

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 03:57

  Originally posted by icymeatball:

  thank you, i really needed that. 

  
  an advise..don't ever use hate to forget people..it will make u very miserable..because when both of u were together, there was love...hate may seem like quick remedy..in fact it is...but it will creep up to u over time...u will harbour grudges, vengeance...these will not only affect u, it will affect people ard u..it will give people an impression that u are a sore loser in a lost r/s..trust me...tho i only had one long r/s, i have seen and experience many things..

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 03:59

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  *looks around*

  not many special people here lei...unless u mean those special ed ones....

  jkjk la please dun flame me :P

   

  too late..

  *me flicks on lighter and aim hairspray at missbonk face

• Noahtay

  3 Apr 10, 03:59

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  Hmmm bad?? Coz you look older than your age?? That's y must prove it ma :P

  EH dun BUAYA la

  lol

  y must prove u ask that easy cos they dun belive lol

  BUAYA who did i BUAYA le

  anyway if u wan to know the answer no harm join us for outing

  we r nice pple we dun bite we just chew

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 04:00

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  y must prove u ask that easy cos they dun belive lol

  BUAYA who did i BUAYA le

  anyway if u wan to know the answer no harm join us for outing

  we r nice pple we dun bite we just chew

  
  >.< if she comes i die liao...

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 04:01

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  too late..

  *me flicks on lighter and aim hairspray at missbonk face

  
  

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 04:03

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  y must prove u ask that easy cos they dun belive lol

  BUAYA who did i BUAYA le

  anyway if u wan to know the answer no harm join us for outing

  we r nice pple we dun bite we just chew

  Dun wan lei...me shy shy...

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 04:04

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  Dun wan lei...me shy shy...

  
  heng arr...

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 04:05

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  heng arr...

  
  -_-"

  Who cares about you

  diaoz

   

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 04:08

  yawns...gonna slp le...see u guys online tml..

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 04:12

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  an advise..don't ever use hate to forget people..it will make u very miserable..because when both of u were together, there was love...hate may seem like quick remedy..in fact it is...but it will creep up to u over time...u will harbour grudges, vengeance...these will not only affect u, it will affect people ard u..it will give people an impression that u are a sore loser in a lost r/s..trust me...tho i only had one long r/s, i have seen and experience many things..

  i dont think i will use that method because i doubt i can hate him. lol thank you.

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 11:15

  Originally posted by icymeatball:

  i dont think i will use that method because i doubt i can hate him. lol thank you.

  thats very good...take ur time ba...this kind of things the more u rush, the more it clings onto u...time will not heal u but it will help u get over it...just rmb that u don't have to walk alone..u can always post here or if u think its too paiseh to let everyone know, u can always pm people whom u are comfortable talking with over here...

• goofyzell

  3 Apr 10, 11:36

  took me 1 full year to forget or rather get over my ex-gf of 5 years 1 month.

  We are about to book ROM date in 2 months then.

   

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 11:41

  Originally posted by goofyzell:

  took me 1 full year to forget or rather get over my ex-gf of 5 years 1 month.

  We are about to book ROM date in 2 months then.

   

  
  >.<...i have a long way to go then

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 15:15

  Originally posted by goofyzell:

  took me 1 full year to forget or rather get over my ex-gf of 5 years 1 month.

  We are about to book ROM date in 2 months then.

   

  oh dear i'm sorry to hear that. but thats quite a feat lor! 1 year already, i still havent get over my rs of 3 years zz 

• iwanplaeplae

  3 Apr 10, 21:58

  get a job... spend all ur time on it

• dangerboi

  3 Apr 10, 23:08

  you don't get over someone, u merely find another to replace it and another to replace the previous one...it's a cycle till you find the right one

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 23:53

  Originally posted by dangerboi:

  you don't get over someone, u merely find another to replace it and another to replace the previous one...it's a cycle till you find the right one

  haha then what happens when you feel like you cant love anybody.

• Yunhaier

  3 Apr 10, 23:55

  Originally posted by icymeatball:

  he was my first love. it has been more than a year since we broke up, but i still feel the pain everyday. i really dont know what should i do..everytime i try to make a stand, something about us just comes back and makes me feel that maybe one day we will be together again. my heart cant take this anymore..just how the heck do you get over somebody? 

  What causes the break up?

  Cheers

• quicksandd

  4 Apr 10, 00:26

   

  only time will heal. don't think about it too much. be around friends & family who loves you.

  go get a new one to brighten up your days again :)

• ChoCoChips

  4 Apr 10, 04:27

  i dont understand why is it so hard for some people to forget someone.

   

• maskedangel

  4 Apr 10, 08:01

  

• maskedangel

  4 Apr 10, 08:21

  aniways threadstarter(ts), u are wlcomed to join us over at singles club (:

• littlemissbonkers

  4 Apr 10, 15:21

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  i dont understand why is it so hard for some people to forget someone.

   

  You heartless jerk

  

• Noahtay

  4 Apr 10, 16:29

  of cos it is not hard for those who never put in any feeling in a R/S

  qutoe from Ghosts of Girlfriends Past

  The power in a relationship lies with whoever cares less

• Detached

  4 Apr 10, 16:51

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  i dont understand why is it so hard for some people to forget someone.

   

  
  Then you probably don't understand how is it to have truly loved and lost