Why did guy reject girl after one meet-up?

• bigthumbfoot

  8 Apr 10, 20:26

  BUT he dont even wanna nurture....

  Either they have super high expectations..or i am super fugly..that they will write off instantly

• bigthumbfoot

  8 Apr 10, 20:28

  some men fat ugly, old and poor still have super high expectations

• littlemissbonkers

  8 Apr 10, 20:29

  Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:

  BUT he dont even wanna nurture....

  Either they have super high expectations..or i am super fugly..that they will write off instantly

  Like what the other forumers said...just forget him!

  It's not like you guys were even dating or anything...so why the hang up??!?!

  Instead of whining about how he did not even give u a chance...why don't you start trying to improve yourself?!!

  By improving yourself you'll be able to attract better guys...so get cracking!

• multipleviews

  8 Apr 10, 20:29

  Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:

  BUT he dont even wanna nurture....

  Either they have super high expectations..or i am super fugly..that they will write off instantly

  
  tell u la... u know our foreign talents from construction industry?? I know a lot of them like chinese sp gal one... if u r willing to accept them as ur other half den u can have a fairytale love story.. many princes waiting for u... however, if u r choosy and refuse to then u cannot blame other guys from rejecting u....

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 20:30

  it's their choice, nothing wrong?

  that % of men never take a look at the mirror

  it also apply to certain % of women also

   

• multipleviews

  8 Apr 10, 20:32

  another way is to be very rich... recently in wanbao got 2 women looking for husband.. one woman from china and other from thailand... the thailand one vry popular though nt pretty.. cos she's rich.. tats another route u can try...  

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 20:34

  be a career man or woman

  there are many happy singles in Singapore

  some people are born to be with "thick skin" would conspire with some horrible and terrible cretin to bug or pester

  just some gone and nut case people

• Mr Milo

  8 Apr 10, 20:35

   

  Actually, i am very curious why after 1 meet up the girl so obessed with the guy....

  this raises the possibility of the girl having scared the guy off during their date....

• bigthumbfoot

  8 Apr 10, 20:38

  cos the girl wanna know why the guy writes her off in the first meeting..without even wanting to know her better,.and make a firm conclusion..that he will only forever wanna remain friens

   

  the girl feel that she is not fat or ugly or looks like the elephant man. wonder why the guy finds her so objectable..immediately without even considering..

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 20:38

  some are just f desperate to just get married

   

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 20:40

  there are many reasons

  that guy not obliged to inform

  this is called city life

  nothing new

• littlemissbonkers

  8 Apr 10, 20:42

  Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:

  cos the girl wanna know why the guy writes her off in the first meeting..without even wanting to know her better,.and make a firm conclusion..that he will only forever wanna remain friens

   

  the girl feel that she is not fat or ugly or looks like the elephant man. wonder why the guy finds her so objectable..immediately without even considering..

  Know alr so wat?

  Dun like means dun like lor...

  Get on with your life la...

  Some people 真的是讲��。。。

  In fact since you wanna noe so much then go and ask the guy la...

• multipleviews

  8 Apr 10, 20:44

  Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:

  cos the girl wanna know why the guy writes her off in the first meeting..without even wanting to know her better,.and make a firm conclusion..that he will only forever wanna remain friens

   

  the girl feel that she is not fat or ugly or looks like the elephant man. wonder why the guy finds her so objectable..immediately without even considering..

  
  would u even want to meet my construction industry FTs if i were to intro them to u?? U wont right.. Uwont even give ppl a chance.. the guy was already gd enough to meet u once... so wats there to complain???

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 20:45

  i am not interested in you

  inform you for wtf

  later, that guy gonna label as abcde

  this is Singapore, what you expect

  miracle to happen

  that person really make herself look cheap

  pls get out of my uncaring face

• Mr Milo

  8 Apr 10, 20:47

   

  TS,

  Ask the girl join sgf outing lah....like SC outing....etc

• maskedangel

  8 Apr 10, 21:02

  Known fact that 1st impression counts, whether you peeps like it or not.
  Debatable fact, personality plays a part.
  
  Dear threadstarter, you might be ignorant on your part, regarding your looks and your  personality. First thing first, when you say they choose to be in the friend zone, you mean you're still contacting them still, or are they just a name on your list that you prolly still remember?
  
  Call me a bastard or wadever, hell no i'm meeting a girl the second time if all i've already known about you on your 100word  on herr facebook profile is all im gonna know each time im gonna meet her.

   

  
  Guy: Harry potter was awesome!
  Girl: yeah . . .
  
  Guy: which part you like best? I find the part where . . . . . blahblah blah pretty sweet don you tink?
  Girl: okok lah. . .
  
  Guy: ouh, ok. . . u read the book rite? i still find the 1st book's the best. It captured me to a whole new magical level. What about you?
  Girl: yeah. . . . . .  all also okok la.
  
  Guy: . . . .
  
  
  You might be communicating with him, but the conversation is kinda pointless to him if all he's getting is yeah, ok, no, allright, u get the drift. I do not know what is your case, but im just giving you an example.
  
  No one is perfect, everyone has their flaws. Make up for it one way or another.
  You're not gonna win the lottery without buying a ticket first.
  
  Cheers.

• maskedangel

  8 Apr 10, 21:05

  Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:

  some men fat ugly, old and poor still have super high expectations

  fat, ugly, old and poor, but got a wicked personality, defintely have chance.
  Chance doesnt gurantee one anything, but it's a start.

• ChoCoChips

  8 Apr 10, 21:13

  i believe i speak for everyone when i say

   

  ts pls post ur pic here.

   

  

   

• littlemissbonkers

  8 Apr 10, 21:17

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  i believe i speak for everyone when i say

   

  ts pls post ur pic here.

   

  

   

  Oh ya...你�少通�

  TS got hope le!!

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 21:19

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  Oh ya...你�少通�

  TS got hope le!!

  
  

• ChoCoChips

  8 Apr 10, 21:19

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  Oh ya...你�少通�

  TS got hope le!!

  haha

  dont b crazy.

  i haben �你

  so until i �掉你

  i wont look at other things.

  *shows the 色伯伯look

• CheckmateA1

  8 Apr 10, 21:19

  some just loath clingy people

   

• maskedangel

  8 Apr 10, 21:21

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  i believe i speak for everyone when i say

   

  ts pls post ur pic here.

   

  

   

  x2

• littlemissbonkers

  8 Apr 10, 21:22

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  haha

  dont b crazy.

  i haben �你

  so until i �掉你

  i wont look at other things.

  *shows the 色伯伯look

  

  Oh mi gawd!!

  Got 色伯伯

  Wanna eat me also must pass my test first ok....and...

  YOU FAIL

  

• _Da_Dood_

  8 Apr 10, 21:24

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  haha

  dont b crazy.

  i haben �你

  so until i �掉你

  i wont look at other things.

  *shows the 色伯伯look

  
  Ooo....i go �掉 msbonkers first...leave u bo chun wif anything...