Beaten and left for dead..
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here is my story.
Many years ago ( 2002), i used to be in love with my poly schoolmate , lets call her Amy. I have hang ut with Amy a few times before and this Amy used to be an innocent gal . In fact i was the first guy she knew at the time. Things were normal and she had a good impression of me.. Then end of poly days, had to go to NS. Things went downhill
Amy went to work while i am charging up the hill in Tekong with my rifle. During this time, Amy got exposed to outside world and has changed quite a lot to what we call materialistic woman. I was shocked , because i never ever thought that a gal like her will change so drastically to the opposite character. I didnt prepare for the worst and kept to myself too much thinking on how to just contact her in a positive scenario
I knew this will come because the last few years, nothing been happening. I had a job but could not face AMY as she is a degree holder, and me just Poly cert.
and this year, When i checked Amy's facebook, there were marriage photos of her , judging from the grand looking photos supposedly married to a well to do guy.
I feel beaten and left for dead. Now how do i face the world?
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now u surely can get back to yr feet and move on with life?
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oh... I tot u kenna beaten when u play left 4 dead...
title misleading...
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Move on lah! She obviously ain't bothered by you nor anything.
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Well that b|tch aint the right one for u. So what if u married her, she would make u spend lots of $$ on her every month. People always feel sad about not attaining a gal, but they dont think about what happens after that. Attaining something is easy, but maintaining it is another issue.
TS, just move on. Take it as a good thing cos now u know that she is not interested in u. If she was she wouldn't have married that guy.
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Dont let emotion or memories take charge of u. Dont feel any remorse or regret cos in life its like up and down. U dont give a sh*t about it.
Start to hate it and u will find life is more manageable. besides, that gal , u dont know how it will turn out to be, For all u know she will be divorced or separated down the road and will be feeling like sh*t just like u.
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Like that only TS call it "beaten and left for dead".......? Don't be a wussbag!!!
Move on, man! The best way for you to take your "revenge" is by making and living your life even better than it was during your time with her!
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A strong man doesn't not feel any emotions. He only sees the event that has happened as a fact, accept it an move on.
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From http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/401321:
"what should i do, was in love with her even before she married. But she is not interested in me. Now she is married, i am still in love with her."
You didn't ask her to be your girlfriend. The other guy did. It's already 8 years and you're 25 now. Stop wasting your life waiting fruitlessly. Move on.
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Ts go get a prettier one than her and marry her..
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haizz...
1st post... >___>
"go out with her a few times" doesn't means u know her completely... >__>
and u're the first guy she knew? I'm sorry but how did u end up with tat conclusion???
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
haizz...
1st post... >___>
"go out with her a few times" doesn't means u know her completely... >__>
and u're the first guy she knew? I'm sorry but how did u end up with tat conclusion???
cos i know abt her inside out, she dont lie to me..if she doesnt want to reveal anything , she will not. After NS had tried to contct her a few times. She did talk and all but getting nowhere..
Anyway i am in civil service job and is that considered successful rite..just i dont take home 5 k pay. its around 2.5k
that gal does not take home 5 k either, but after reading the response i feel a bit better.. in fact i start to hate her already.
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ts is nothing better then a bloody stalker...
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Originally posted by JumRam:
cos i know abt her inside out, she dont lie to me..if she doesnt want to reveal anything , she will not. After NS had tried to contct her a few times. She did talk and all but getting nowhere..
Anyway i am in civil service job and is that considered successful rite..just i dont take home 5 k pay. its around 2.5k
that gal does not take home 5 k either, but after reading the response i feel a bit better.. in fact i start to hate her already.
Hate her. Good for u and right thing to do. Its the only way to remove any trace of her in yr life and forget. it shows u are still sane. dont worry, u will soon forget about her..
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ahahahahaha..
sorry but... AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
because she's got a degree and had a grand wedding, she's a "materalistic girl"
or is it a case of sour grapes?
looks like it...
get over it..
you're not her boyfriend.. and from the looks of things, you were never her boyfriend...
and stop stalking her.. you're being creepy...
or maybe, all this is your warped imagination..
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I think the problem lies with National Service. Had it been 2 years of non-interruptive wooing or working, she'd have been your girl.
Since she's settled down and left you for dead, you're gonna need an angel to resurrect yourself :P
Learn the lesson, and don't let your son be killed by NS as well.
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Ts is not entirely wrong when he said he wanted to meet and contact her after being established
the ladder theory is useful
There is so much pain in the world because Guys, when they meet a beautiful girl, will keep telling themselves "she's the special one. she's my one. i will spend the rest of my lives wooing her. i must marry her."
However, the brains of women are unfortunately not wired this way.a woman puts a man on a ladder in the first 10-20 mins of their encounter. , however, finding out out which ladder and how high being puts on is hard though not impossible
This ladder theory is not always correct though. it also depends on the woman and her character. Not all woman will want to go for rich handsome men. There will always be a handful who are not into such things
Does tell us one thing - NS is disruptive to our lives. I have heard many stories similar to TS one and some gfs left guys because of NS issue
Maybe TS would had a better chance if he went on to do uni along with her. At least She would have an impression of him and know about his ongoing plans to achieve in life..
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blame society.. blame the woman.. blame NS..
blame everyone and everything but himself..
typical..
too much oxygenated water
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Originally posted by JumRam:
cos i know abt her inside out, she dont lie to me..if she doesnt want to reveal anything , she will not. After NS had tried to contct her a few times. She did talk and all but getting nowhere..
Anyway i am in civil service job and is that considered successful rite..just i dont take home 5 k pay. its around 2.5k
that gal does not take home 5 k either, but after reading the response i feel a bit better.. in fact i start to hate her already.
C'mon lah TS, a person still in school has not seen the world as it is yet, hence students being naive etc. It is only when one steps out from school into the world does one "grow up". She has grown in a direction you would not want. But it's her choice.....Move on..... she may have been a plum target but she won't be your only target.
There's no necessity to hate her but you should count yourself lucky not being with her now that you know her shitty character.
Who knows if you might meet someone better.....?
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Originally posted by Frustrated_guy:
I think the problem lies with National Service. Had it been 2 years of non-interruptive wooing or working, she'd have been your girl.
Since she's settled down and left you for dead, you're gonna need an angel to resurrect yourself :P
Learn the lesson, and don't let your son be killed by NS as well.
Well Ts mentioned her character has changed, It shows me a gal with a weak mind. easily influenced by environment and social norms
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Well u all cant deny the fact that the NS issue played a big part too..
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Originally posted by ☃®:
Well u all cant deny the fact that the NS issue played a big part too..
pardon me but u meant the girl's current husband didn't do NS?
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Originally posted by ☃®:
Well u all cant deny the fact that the NS issue played a big part too..
in which way?they hung out a few time (see what he wrote)
did that suddenly make them an item, was that commitment between them for the rest of their lives?
or did they just hang out, talk some rubbish, share a few laughs?
after that, he went to NS... he didn't even have the cajones to go ask her to be his girlfriend...
so she got on with her life..
the world doesn't revolve around him...
her life doesn't revolve around him...
if you really think so, i pity the women in your life...
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What i mean is the natural order of love is being disrupted by NS.In other countries many people fall in love in high school. so the term "high school sweetheart". When leaving final year, ppl know their priorities in life...
the period of our lives when ppl are least corrupt and innocent and a chance toknow the person as his/her real self. When Such a thing called NS come in. its disrupted. many of u here will agree with me, especially men and some ladies too..
Though she have married a guy , probably older than her and finished his NS, that guy may also had a similar incident in his life too
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Originally posted by the Bear:
blame society.. blame the woman.. blame NS..
blame everyone and everything but himself..
typical..
too much oxygenated water
Society is also to be blamed. The current state of things in Singapore and how its being run also plays a huge part in marriage and birth rates, do u agree.
How did the GCP phenomenon came about then?
In the past as recent as in the 1990s, women did not think much about financial asset when choosing a guy, they chose according to their heart. But now, can the same thing be said?
There has been research showing that females choose their partner according to the environment they are in. So blame the environment