I need to read her mind. It's killing me.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
@93'guy, Me know :) Thanks again. And Damn this 5 minute interval of posting limit crap.
@toyota-corolla, I wont tell her to lie, lol. And she's mostly with her friends all the time, and i dont have the guts to confess infront of her friends. Especially when you know at least two of them likes you and the fear of rejection being witnessed by a crowd, altogether with the embarassing atmosphere that will pressure her.
Been contacting for two months, i went to her house a few times to help her with some delivery of stuff haha. And yea, go get some gals :D
OH SHIT! TWO MONTHS ONLY AH?! Then like that pls ignore what I just mention as above, two months still early lah dey. Give more time. You can't judge everything base on two months;
Who knows is just passing clouds (Means puppy love), that will die down sooner or later.
And nah, not for me, I'm not yet ready to be tied down. I'm still young, despite being four years older than you. I still wanna play! :D
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Lolll!! Haha, yeah i was wondering if i should drag on it, but almost all my close friends tell me i should actually go for it instead of dilly dally-ing cuz girls dont like it? Mehhh... See why i'm so confused?
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Alternatively, Just have fun, dey, you still young lah, I was once 15, I know how it feels, can't wait to hold hand, kiss, get on bed make love. Even today I still have the urge to do so, but hey, I'm still fucking young! There's many fishes in e sea. Don't worry man, you will find the right one, one day eventually.
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Lol i agree that we're young, but y'know how it feels to want to be with the girl you love. I'm not in it for the lust. I seriously do admire her and we really hit off very well. And i'm not trying to urge things. I'm trying to get advices on weather i should progress or drag.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Lol i agree that we're young, but y'know how it feels to want to be with the girl you love. I'm not in it for the lust. I seriously do admire her and we really hit off very well. And i'm not trying to urge things. I'm trying to get advices on weather i should progress or drag.
I agree. There's this girl I woo recently, took me 6 months, before we came to the conclusion we remain as friends.
She's the lady, I always wanted to be with, but you ought to respect one desicion when if one rejected you. Least she gave me a chance to woo her. We both were very appericatitive of each other action and commitement.
We hit off very well too. And it only took me like 10 months, before I announce my confession, despite we know each other for 5 years, we reconnected recently.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Lol i agree that we're young, but y'know how it feels to want to be with the girl you love. I'm not in it for the lust. I seriously do admire her and we really hit off very well. And i'm not trying to urge things. I'm trying to get advices on weather i should progress or drag.
I know how it feels, wait kay?
If things turn out smoothly, in a good way, then slowly you will auto be a couple.
So i suggest you take things slow and easy first.
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What can i say. Haha, thats how life is. I wanna enjoy time with her before O's come and then we'd have so little time to spare till its over. And then i may never have a chance to say hello to her in school everyday. Gahh being young sucks a lil sometimes.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
What can i say. Haha, thats how life is. I wanna enjoy time with her before O's come and then we'd have so little time to spare till its over. And then i may never have a chance to say hello to her in school everyday. Gahh being young sucks a lil sometimes.
Soon when you hit my age, you wanna go back to 15.
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why don't you stop texting her and see if she text you??? change the role lah....
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Yeah, life's like that de. Now i wanna go back pri sch or go up 20 :P
@Arapahoe, you think that'll work? I want to try it, but idk, we text everyday for two months. Wont it be weird if i didnt text her a day or two?
And finally the 5 minute post interval limit is away!
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Yeah, life's like that de. Now i wanna go back pri sch or go up 20 :P
@Arapahoe, you think that'll work? I want to try it, but idk, we text everyday for two months. Wont it be weird if i didnt text her a day or two?
And finally the 5 minute post interval limit is away!
that is precisely the point you slowly distance yourself see how she response......give a little cold response like you are busy.....
If it is just tired of excessive Texting....she would be curious to find out what u are doing....?
Slowly distance help to build relationship.....
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Just hope she doesnt think i'm losing interest for her if i do that. I'll try it during sat/sun, when i dont get to see her irl :P
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law of attraction no.1: showing constant interest does not mean she will like u back lol
law no.2: showing absence and creating anticipation can raise interest
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Abracadabra (Arapahoe no offence ah bro
) is right man. Sometime as a guy we must build a cold front.Otherwise the girl will think you are leading on her.
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if i am a nice girl, i will text back no matter how often the guy messages me, even if i have no interest in him. Its just basic courtesy. So it doesnt really mean anything at all.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Just hope she doesnt think i'm losing interest for her if i do that. I'll try it during sat/sun, when i dont get to see her irl :P
Sat/Sun don't text at all.
you are missing the point.....you want to move the courtship from Texting to Meeting lah............So you avoid Texting if she is curious she text you .... ask you....than you said something like .....come take a look....if you want to find out.
You create opportunity to meet lah....
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Kay i'll try.
And not that i mean showing constant interest will mean that she will like me back.
I meant that if by any chance, does she like me too, she might think i'm losing interest in her. So you reckon how i should end the convo and not text for how long? :)
I doubt she'd find me. My clique is always with me. I doubt ANY girl will do that.
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if a girl thinks that just becos u lose interest in her and she does likewise, then move on...very simple lol.
If she really likes u and then finds u losing interest in her, she will be even more interested in you. Thats provided shes interested in u la haha. I dunno abt girls these days but many of them during the 90s (my gen) tend to be quiet if they like a guy. Those pretty ones especially. Why? Because its a matter of face to them and they have guys chasing them all the time.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Kay i'll try.
And not that i mean showing constant interest will mean that she will like me back.
I meant that if by any chance, does she like me too, she might think i'm losing interest in her. So you reckon how i should end the convo and not text for how long? :)
I doubt she'd find me. My clique is always with me. I doubt ANY girl will do that.
Just don't sms dey. There's no way of ending a convo like that, just dunche reply. Whoooo.
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lolll suppose i'll try and take this leap lol.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Kay i'll try.
And not that i mean showing constant interest will mean that she will like me back.
I meant that if by any chance, does she like me too, she might think i'm losing interest in her. So you reckon how i should end the convo and not text for how long? :)
I doubt she'd find me. My clique is always with me. I doubt ANY girl will do that.
Look if she is not interest in you Now...there is nothing you can do....don't go beating your hearts out..........but after all both of you are still in the same school for another year or 2. Plenty of time to see her and look at other flowers at the same time. If this one don't fall. Don't waste tears over it.
Anyway you can meet in school library in the name of Study Lah....Create a "Study Buddy" ......
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Rule 1: Never assume what's in the mind of the gurls..most of the time it's always wrong.. Rule 2 : Never show that you are a despo, give her space and see whether she will reply you Rule 3: Build trust even if it takes years for a r/s to happen
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Her parents. Dont let -_-
Ok, SmRtFrEaks, will do.
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point to take note.....
You are just trying to get to know her and let her get to know you.
Relationship at your age must be fun not serious to stress out.
Must help in school work.
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Originally posted by Arapahoe:
point to take note.....
You are just trying to get to know her and let her get to know you.
Relationship at your age must be fun not serious to stress out.
Must help in school work.
Okay, but i'm serious though. Gahh.