Should her friends tell me she's cheating on me?
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u can start to fuck around and tell her about equality of sexes
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why caused so much misery to yourself? you need not find out...u need not even ask...just start to fuck around...esp with her frens...and do yourself justice to our lopsided system of equality
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Forbiddensinner: Actually, she wouldn't lose both friends.. cos now the boy truly feels indebted to her and has decided to stick with her..
"Last of all, though she knows she will get to keep neither of them as her friend in the end, she will rather be the villain to both of them, rather than to be a hypocrite pretending to be a friend for the rest of her life. This is really a tough decision for her, and I believe it also hurt her badly to make such a decision. She probably has some regrets, but she did what she believe was the best decision." -
I like this paragraph. I can tell ya, she has no regrets, cos she did what she believed was the right thing to do.
parn: "I don't care if you suddenly felt like you want to have some honour to your name or not."
Why would it be wrong to have honour and integrity in everything you do?
"YOU SHOULD FORGET WHAT YOU HAVE HEARD OR KNOW." - I guess you can call this minding your own business, but this is a gd friend you're talking abt here, and you sitting at the sidelines watching as this episode unfold. Can you slp at night knowing that a friend is being cheated upon?
Where do we draw the line between minding your own business and care and concern for a friend.
Some say friends don't judge each other. But i'm sure you wouldn't have a hooligan, arrogant bastard, or big a-hole as your friend rite? So I guess that everyone chooses your friends to a certain extent. Would you have a friend who has no self respect and cheats on her bf? If a leopard doesn't change his/her spots, would she one day cheat on you? maybe steal your bf from you?
storywolf: hey dude, actually she could have told me a long time ago.. i didn't have to wait so long. next if i were to speculate your reply, "at least you found out now than b4 you got married have kids and bought a house etc rite?"
in response to that, lemme give you an analogy. One day a boy got 50/100 for chinese, the teacher comes up to him and says, "it's ok, your classmate there, scored 0/100 for chinese, so you should be happy".
I think in life we never aim for mediocrity. We always aim to be the best we can be and we try our best at it? so don't tell me to be relieved that I only found out now when i could have found out a long time ago..
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
why caused so much misery to yourself? you need not find out...u need not even ask...just start to fuck around...esp with her frens...and do yourself justice to our lopsided system of equality
omg! u mixed up love and politics! -
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
wah then ask me lah, i want to date you out ah... when u free, let's go pak tor...
show me yr money first...got pak?? for what??/ feed mosquito ar?? -
Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
Forbiddensinner: Actually, she wouldn't lose both friends.. cos now the boy truly feels indebted to her and has decided to stick with her..
"Last of all, though she knows she will get to keep neither of them as her friend in the end, she will rather be the villain to both of them, rather than to be a hypocrite pretending to be a friend for the rest of her life. This is really a tough decision for her, and I believe it also hurt her badly to make such a decision. She probably has some regrets, but she did what she believe was the best decision." -
I like this paragraph. I can tell ya, she has no regrets, cos she did what she believed was the right thing to do.
parn: "I don't care if you suddenly felt like you want to have some honour to your name or not."
Why would it be wrong to have honour and integrity in everything you do?
"YOU SHOULD FORGET WHAT YOU HAVE HEARD OR KNOW." - I guess you can call this minding your own business, but this is a gd friend you're talking abt here, and you sitting at the sidelines watching as this episode unfold. Can you slp at night knowing that a friend is being cheated upon?
Where do we draw the line between minding your own business and care and concern for a friend.
Some say friends don't judge each other. But i'm sure you wouldn't have a hooligan, arrogant bastard, or big a-hole as your friend rite? So I guess that everyone chooses your friends to a certain extent. Would you have a friend who has no self respect and cheats on her bf? If a leopard doesn't change his/her spots, would she one day cheat on you? maybe steal your bf from you?
storywolf: hey dude, actually she could have told me a long time ago.. i didn't have to wait so long. next if i were to speculate your reply, "at least you found out now than b4 you got married have kids and bought a house etc rite?"
in response to that, lemme give you an analogy. One day a boy got 50/100 for chinese, the teacher comes up to him and says, "it's ok, your classmate there, scored 0/100 for chinese, so you should be happy".
I think in life we never aim for mediocrity. We always aim to be the best we can be and we try our best at it? so don't tell me to be relieved that I only found out now when i could have found out a long time ago..
Before you make me angry with your stupidity, I will ask you one more time ok?WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO BRING HONOUR TO?
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO DISHONOUR?
You are just another selfish person with no regards for other people.
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there should be no lies in any relationship...
A should've talk the gal out before deciding to inform the guy...
the truth sucks but its the more ethical thing to do...let both parties learn from this...
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This kinda relationship is very complicated.
But then does the friend know the relationship status of the boy and the girl?
These days, some relationships got differenct clauses de.
Some of these are OPEN relationship, EXPLORATORY relationship, and others are just DATING relationships.
Any other more open de would be FB or friends with benefits le.
So if the friend doesn't know the mutual agreement between the boy and girl, BETTER DON'T KAY KIANG!
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parn: I'm not stupid, and neither are you. It's an open discussion and everyone has their right to their own opinion.
I've elaborated my point quite clearly. Maybe you want to elaborate yours further?
I wasn't even talking about honouring or dishonouring whoever's name. totally don't get what you're driving at here, so if u wld care to elaborate here, it would be wonderful. =)
and in what way am I being selfish?
i think you might have gotten the story wrong.. but it's just my guess. so maybe you can elaborate first b4 i start to clarify.
Quinsy: Thats a very open minded approach to it and i agree. but in this instance, it was a serious r/s and were together for 5-6 yrs and were about to get married. And the gal knew all this, so i would say it was a well informed decision and tat she has weighed out her options.
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This is tough one. And most like you will think "WTF! Omg.. I wish I dont know nothing."
You normally have to balance out whether who is the better friend.. not to mention is the person really a good friend of yours and the repecussions of it. Because there are situations where, you would think you are good friends, but ur good friend just cant handle the truth.
Not to mention, there will also be times where A for instance, likes the girl/boy .. and when it comes to dispensing the information, their agenda is simple. Break them up then make up with her.
I was in this situation before, my ex was also in this situationa and HER ex was in it too.
What I did was, I just kept quiet. Mainly because :-
1) It is someone else's private affair.
2) Before one can comment, one has to understanding the situation FULLY. Unfortuntely, that takes time.. and lots of cafe sit-ins, not to mention the level of keponess can be very high. And if you are not a particulary kepo person, it can feel uneasy and tedious.
3) I dont want to be in a situation where, when she has to reveal source, I will be dragged in and oh my.. drama mama time.
4) If you guys are really that close, there will be opportunity where you can question her doubt. And eventually it will lead to the truth that she can discover herself. That is what I did.
Unless you want to know the outcome of my ex and her ex, I wont elaborate further.
Anyways.. any decision you make, you will make at least one enemy.
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Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
parn: I'm not stupid, and neither are you. It's an open discussion and everyone has their right to their own opinion.
I've elaborated my point quite clearly. Maybe you want to elaborate yours further?
I wasn't even talking about honouring or dishonouring whoever's name. totally don't get what you're driving at here, so if u wld care to elaborate here, it would be wonderful. =)
and in what way am I being selfish?
i think you might have gotten the story wrong.. but it's just my guess. so maybe you can elaborate first b4 i start to clarify.
Quinsy: Thats a very open minded approach to it and i agree. but in this instance, it was a serious r/s and were together for 5-6 yrs and were about to get married. And the gal knew all this, so i would say it was a well informed decision and tat she has weighed out her options.
I have already made my points clearly in page 1, go and refer back to it and read it as many times as you need to understand my post.As a friend to your good friend, you must be able to protect the relationship of your good friend without sacrificing their happiness.
Repentance is not about making corrections to their mistakes, it's about treasuring the second chance that others have made it possible for them.
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Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
parn: I'm not stupid, and neither are you. It's an open discussion and everyone has their right to their own opinion.
I've elaborated my point quite clearly. Maybe you want to elaborate yours further?
I wasn't even talking about honouring or dishonouring whoever's name. totally don't get what you're driving at here, so if u wld care to elaborate here, it would be wonderful. =)
and in what way am I being selfish?
i think you might have gotten the story wrong.. but it's just my guess. so maybe you can elaborate first b4 i start to clarify.
Quinsy: Thats a very open minded approach to it and i agree. but in this instance, it was a serious r/s and were together for 5-6 yrs and were about to get married. And the gal knew all this, so i would say it was a well informed decision and tat she has weighed out her options.
Betraying the trust of your GAL friend at the expense of sacrificing both the happiness of your GAL friend and the BOY (your friend also), DOES NOT MAKES YOU A BETTER FRIEND TO BOTH GAL AND BOY.So there is no reasonable explaination for your desire to reveal what you know from GAL to BOY, unless you are just out to satisfy your own righteousness in selfishness or you wish to destroy their relationship out of selfishness in the name of righteousness.
Which one it's going to be, it's entirely up to your own evil intentions which I will have no part or agreement in it.
You are selfish because your actions will only bring about the satisfactory result for YOURSELF. And neither the BOY or your GAL friend is going to be happy from what you are planning to do except for YOURSELF.
What kind of ending are you hoping for when you planned to become a friend-betraying selfish and bitchy slut?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
show me yr money first...got pak?? for what??/ feed mosquito ar??
aiyer... i have been unemployed for 3-4 years liao... even was on the newspaper some time back for my situation, lol... so sad, cannot pak tor with you then. i go feed mosquito ler. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
show me yr money first...got pak?? for what??/ feed mosquito ar??
His nick suggested play more free games online, where got time to pak pak? -
hhahaha
my intuition was correct, u did get the story wrong, just slightly. but before I clarify, i must ask why are you so worked up? were you in teh past on the other end of the deal? did someone destroy your r/s by tellin you the truth which u can't handle and after so long, is still coming to terms with?
anyway i'm nt the one who's telling on anyone.
i honestly don't see your point. I don't agree with what you said, but oh well, free world right, u can voice ur opinion all you want and the ones reading shall decide.
the only conclusion i got was Parn really enjoys getting worked up and angry. ><
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Originally posted by angel7030:
omg! u mixed up love and politics!let's called it apolitical love affair
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Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
hhahaha
my intuition was correct, u did get the story wrong, just slightly. but before I clarify, i must ask why are you so worked up? were you in teh past on the other end of the deal? did someone destroy your r/s by tellin you the truth which u can't handle and after so long, is still coming to terms with?
anyway i'm nt the one who's telling on anyone.
i honestly don't see your point. I don't agree with what you said, but oh well, free world right, u can voice ur opinion all you want and the ones reading shall decide.
the only conclusion i got was Parn really enjoys getting worked up and angry. ><
HahahahaYou have no idea what I did ...
If your intuition is your inability to express yourself, then I'm wrong and you're right.
I don't need intuition to tell me that you're the common type who are afraid of being seen in the wrong side.
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parn, think u needa get a hold of yourself dude, or babe? whichevre.
just an open discussion dont see why you're doing this, sounds like u're in some warzone or soemthing.
behave like gents and ladies lah,
why are you so hostile.
chill babe, or dude?
don't see the need to insult others .. ?
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Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
storywolf: hey dude, actually she could have told me a long time ago.. i didn't have to wait so long. next if i were to speculate your reply, "at least you found out now than b4 you got married have kids and bought a house etc rite?"
in response to that, lemme give you an analogy. One day a boy got 50/100 for chinese, the teacher comes up to him and says, "it's ok, your classmate there, scored 0/100 for chinese, so you should be happy".
I think in life we never aim for mediocrity. We always aim to be the best we can be and we try our best at it? so don't tell me to be relieved that I only found out now when i could have found out a long time ago..
Dude if you ok that your girl sleeping around is ok, then why not follow the analgoy - and be happy whatever !!! Why are you bother by people telling you about it !!!
Stop trying to comfort yourself that you found out now or later ... blah !!! - You would not post here and blah about it if you can accept it.
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Originally posted by TuesdaysWithMorrie:
parn, think u needa get a hold of yourself dude, or babe? whichevre.
just an open discussion dont see why you're doing this, sounds like u're in some warzone or soemthing.
behave like gents and ladies lah,
why are you so hostile.
chill babe, or dude?
don't see the need to insult others .. ?
This is an open discussion?? Ok, have fun with your own discussion then.Next time post your open discussion in the correct forum, not in Aunt Agony where people contribute their opinions at the best interests to help the topic starter.
Even if you insist to have an open discussion, you should know it's polite for you to express your own opinions FIRST.
Sitting around and waiting to argue upon people's genuine opinions is just plain rude and ridiculous. This shows how little you know about starting an open discussion topic and your participation experience in any open discussion topics.
You're stupid to come to Aunt Agony forum to start a distress topic and tried to mutate it into an open discussion topic.
You're stupid to even tell people that this is an open discussion topic when you as the topic starter, have failed to share and express your genuine opinions FIRST when you began this topic.
You're stupid to even try to argue with other people's sincere opinions with the intentions to help/assist in this distress topic which you have started.
You're stupid because you are unable to express yourself clearly in your own topic, including your stance in the topic and your intentions behind this topic.
You're stupid to think that you could argue with people's opinions when they don't even belonged to you in the first place and these people were just trying to help you in your topic.
If you do not feel grateful or thankful towards the genuine opinions that many forumers here have taken the time to share with you in this topic, then you need to realise that your time in here will be a very short journey.
Because nobody is going to participate in any of your stupid distress topic, when it is only an open discussion topic in your stupid dictionary.
6 posts or 7 posts doesn't means a thing if you need to be ignored and banned until you hit puberty.
Don't waste my time with your stupid topic if you do not need any help. Be polite and have some manners to let people or moderators know that you do not need anymore help and take some initiative to request for the topic to be closed.
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i was walking around sgforums and hit a wall of text by parn, now my nose is bleeding...
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
i was walking around sgforums and hit a wall of text by parn, now my nose is bleeding...
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Originally posted by parn:
This is an open discussion?? Ok, have fun with your own discussion then.Next time post your open discussion in the correct forum, not in Aunt Agony where people contribute their opinions at the best interests to help the topic starter.
Even if you insist to have an open discussion, you should know it's polite for you to express your own opinions FIRST.
Sitting around and waiting to argue upon people's genuine opinions is just plain rude and ridiculous. This shows how little you know about starting an open discussion topic and your participation experience in any open discussion topics.
You're stupid to come to Aunt Agony forum to start a distress topic and tried to mutate it into an open discussion topic.
You're stupid to even tell people that this is an open discussion topic when you as the topic starter, have failed to share and express your genuine opinions FIRST when you began this topic.
You're stupid to even try to argue with other people's sincere opinions with the intentions to help/assist in this distress topic which you have started.
You're stupid because you are unable to express yourself clearly in your own topic, including your stance in the topic and your intentions behind this topic.
You're stupid to think that you could argue with people's opinions when they don't even belonged to you in the first place and these people were just trying to help you in your topic.
If you do not feel grateful or thankful towards the genuine opinions that many forumers here have taken the time to share with you in this topic, then you need to realise that your time in here will be a very short journey.
Because nobody is going to participate in any of your stupid distress topic, when it is only an open discussion topic in your stupid dictionary.
6 posts or 7 posts doesn't means a thing if you need to be ignored and banned until you hit puberty.
Don't waste my time with your stupid topic if you do not need any help. Be polite and have some manners to let people or moderators know that you do not need anymore help and take some initiative to request for the topic to be closed.
Relax bro...
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
let's called it apolitical love affair
this tickle my laughter juice...hahaha