Are Singapore Chinese Guys really so "BAD"
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Well, the simple truth is bastards happen to be good-looking and only want SEX. Women can't help themselves.Originally posted by the Bear:imagine a nice guy with a heart of gold having to put up with the almost unreasonable demands and expectations of such a woman... and chances are, he'll break his back trying his damnest to satisfy the woman... and she'll still be unappreciative...
poor guy...
sometimes, i think some women deserve the "bad" men out there... especially those who seem to go out of their way to get them.
I think I'll be flamed but what the heck... sometimes the truth is butt-ugly...
Nice guys with heart of gold are usually plain looking, caring, and considerate but are always mistaken to be Mummy's Boy.
So what does Singapore Women want? That is the question. It's a LOST cause anyway. I don't think they know what they want.
If you kena flamed I'm also going to side you.
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No one is going to flame anyone
Face it, the singaporean ladies in singapore are totally putting us guys into their last choices.
Only when they hit the "age", then do they consider singaporean guys as life parther. Their golden years are spent to find the so called Dream Guys from some where.
So we became spare types to them, only no choice then find us.
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Dream guys... where do you find them?
To steal a phrase...
In their dreams...
alas...
oh well, i have found mine
i hope they find theirs...
to go into any relationship with expectations aplenty is silly..
I have said this and stand by it:
Love is love.. damn the consequences. -
erm that makes sg guys sound so pathetic...hahaOriginally posted by MagicOne:No one is going to flame anyone
Face it, the singaporean ladies in singapore are totally putting us guys into their last choices.
Only when they hit the "age", then do they consider singaporean guys as life parther. Their golden years are spent to find the so called Dream Guys from some where.
So we became spare types to them, only no choice then find us.
but please are sg guys putting sg girls as their 1st choice? it goes 2 ways. -
No, Singaporean Guys are not in a sorry state. It just that some ladies just don't find us gd ( vise versa ).
I confidence that singaporean guys are just as romance and caring as any ang mo, interm of looks singaporean guys althrough not very gd looking but still presentable.
It just ladies trend to look for oversea "goods", to fillin their vain feeling. -
by your words, you would not believe it even if the truth was YES.
and frankly, yes.. they do...
this is from a guy who hears the truth from other guys..Originally posted by Peppermint:erm that makes sg guys sound so pathetic...haha
but please are sg guys putting sg girls as their 1st choice? it goes 2 ways. -
Oi !!! Don't be like this LAH!!! My 3rd sis used to be like this but she ended with a good catch. Who's Singaporean, not cheap skate, Caring and Considerate, and is living happily right now.Originally posted by MagicOne:Face it, the singaporean ladies in singapore are totally putting us guys into their last choices.
Only when they hit the "age", then do they consider singaporean guys as life parther. Their golden years are spent to find the so called Dream Guys from some where.
So we became spare types to them, only no choice then find us.
I think only the really outspoken women out there are always putting men down. The rest of the singaporean women, which is a lot, are still very nice and friendly. Yah?
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That the stupid of the whole thing, singaporean ladies look for oversea husband and singaporean guys look for oversea ladies.
In the end, after a wild goose chase, they still have to look for potentionl parther in local community.
Why can't we be more down-to-earth and understand that flaw is in everyone of us, love the feeling not the physical. ( Profound )
Rest My Case -
Watz "MCP"???Originally posted by MagicOne:4.) Too MCP
/shan_cai scratches head...
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MCP = Male Chauvinist Pig... Attitude of superiority towards opposite sex......( From Previous thread )
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well....Originally posted by MagicOne: Are chinese guys in singapore really so bad, ladies would not considered them.
1.) Cheap Skate
2.) Not Gd Looking ( So they prefer malays and india guys )
3.) Not Caring and Considerate ( So they choose Ang Mo )
4.) Too MCP
5.) Just want Sex
There bound to be bad apples around...
whatever race, watever nationality...
but i feel, singaporean guys are over protective, esp chinese....
some very immature even in their twenties.
regarding sex, once u started it, u will only ask for more...agree? -
to a certain degree of the agruement, i agreed with you especially on the sex part.
Maybe we guys have to show more respect to the ladies interm of this area. Sex should be willing on both parties, then can enjoy the process ( making love ) , else it just a motion ( sex )
However i disgree on the point of chinese being immature, you are pointing at those that you met? -
well..........
i said some ma.......
in fact quite alot la......
u din been through ns? -
ORD, now waiting for ROD.
Those you refered to NS, come on, some of them can't even tell what is love and like. A bunch of kid trying to think they are adult and having sex, make the man. Boy will be boys. That is the different of this. -
quite true...
but singaporean still very over protective lor...
i do encourage more to go out of singapore and expose themselve -
expose themself ?? in wat sense ?? travel more ?? or ???? hai...
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Har har har... I might as well go retire in da swamp. Tink they choose us? we oso choosing leh! Kaoz! I feel sorry for guys... (no I dun feel sorry for myself... nth to feel abt...)Originally posted by MagicOne:No one is going to flame anyone
Face it, the singaporean ladies in singapore are totally putting us guys into their last choices.
Only when they hit the "age", then do they consider singaporean guys as life parther. Their golden years are spent to find the so called Dream Guys from some where.
So we became spare types to them, only no choice then find us. -
I do... for now... but see how da SG gals behave... I tink somehow shaken da guys liao...Originally posted by Peppermint:erm that makes sg guys sound so pathetic...haha
but please are sg guys putting sg girls as their 1st choice? it goes 2 ways. -
Well at least U bother to try to make SG guys look good... in a sense make known to "those" gals dat we r not as bad as they assume us to be... keep it up! I m begining to regain confidence liao...Originally posted by MagicOne:No, Singaporean Guys are not in a sorry state. It just that some ladies just don't find us gd ( vise versa ).
I confidence that singaporean guys are just as romance and caring as any ang mo, interm of looks singaporean guys althrough not very gd looking but still presentable.
It just ladies trend to look for oversea "goods", to fillin their vain feeling. -
Deja vu...Originally posted by MagicOne:MCP = Male Chauvinist Pig... Attitude of superiority towards opposite sex......( From Previous thread ) -
Wat U r suggesting is a good 1... but UNFORTUNATELY how many can tink da wae U did? not many... so dats y they gone da HARD wae b4 finally back to local... its like a cycle...Originally posted by MagicOne:That the stupid of the whole thing, singaporean ladies look for oversea husband and singaporean guys look for oversea ladies.
In the end, after a wild goose chase, they still have to look for potentionl parther in local community.
Why can't we be more down-to-earth and understand that flaw is in everyone of us, love the feeling not the physical. ( Profound )
Rest My Case -
I tink they need more soul-searching......Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:quite true...
but singaporean still very over protective lor...
i do encourage more to go out of singapore and expose themselve -
How many people these days would want to soul search when they have so much fun, partying, playing games, wasting time, getting depressed.Originally posted by loneryu00:I tink they need more soul-searching......
It is true that only a small proportion of people will soul search. The rest of them will continue as they are. Finding small pleasures or BIG problems in their life. What do you think of this? -
Sad but true...Originally posted by Klactovak:How many people these days would want to soul search when they have so much fun, partying, playing games, wasting time, getting depressed.
It is true that only a small proportion of people will soul search. The rest of them will continue as they are. Finding small pleasures or BIG problems in their life. What do you think of this?
read my siggy can liao......
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Hahaha.... can form The Lonery Club ! It's better to call itOriginally posted by loneryu00:Sad but true...
read my siggy can liao......
"Club Solitude" sounds more class and more Superman.
I know you're not worried so keep it that way. Whatever happens will happen whether we worry or not.