haha.. u wionner lehz.. no time then dun reply lahz... no need wite message to say u got no time to reply.. so farney.. rather u use that 1 min for another min of sleep.. dun wanna u lose beauty sleep... reply onli when u got time.. mi put up mi prob here is for ppls to view their points which hopefully will help mi solve mi problem or at least guidance lohz... reallie do not wish to pressurise anione to reply one lohz.. but thanx for the thot...Originally posted by t|rEd:grandsenior: sollee leh...me really wanna reply, but i noe i'll type alotta crap which i just lash out one lo...
so i cannot post nething....coz i really got no time to......sleping time for me liaoz ma......solleee!!!!!
Hope you don't mind me giving my opinion again (don't worry this time I will think b4 I type):Originally posted by Babyacid:cast aside J for this while, do u guys tinhk it's rightful for me to like someone else and use him as a partial reason for me to gif up on R? i feel as if i'm cheating on either side.... but if there's no other guys, reallie wonder if there'll b ani other reason i'll gif up on R...
dearest hanabishi,Originally posted by hanabishi:Hope you don't mind me giving my opinion again (don't worry this time I will think b4 I type):
So the question I always ask myself is : Am I waiting, or am I afraid of moving forwards ?
dearest cuddly uncle bear,Originally posted by Bear:Think it's better that u really like that person or at least show some interest in that person before u use him as a reason to gif up R. At least, it's out of infatuation that u r wif the person. It's lessen the cruelty, than just say u just take this person, whom u have no feelings for and used him. That will be a very wrong move. Coz it's gonna hurt urself and the guy esp in the end.
sorry la, it was da one big major bad experience in my life lo....sorta like a dark part of my life as yet......dun really wish to talk bout it now lo....haven't gotten over it totally...still in the final stage i guess....newae, chen nian wang shi, hai ti lai gai ma ne? thou' my problem is till to-date not exactly totally solved, but it's better than b4 lo....Originally posted by Babyacid:dearest t|red,
u mentioned u were in similiar case a few yr ago... wah, din knoe u tat premature sial~ so young then so involved with feelings~ hmmz.. mind telling me wat happen in the end, as in the sense wat u did?
That's a good piece of news.. Well, at least u r showing that u r able to think logically. At least u r still keeping in mind how the other person will feel. Deserve some commendation..Originally posted by Babyacid:dearest cuddly uncle bear,
well said and u can also rest your heart assured.. coz i won't like a person tat easily, let alone at the expense of giving a person i love so deeply up... he will b a guy who i have feelings for and who i'm sure we'll b able to love each other someday~ hurting a person in the process of mi getting out of my pain is not what i will like to do... u'll bet i'll tink a lot b4 i'll jump into a relationship wif someone~
hmmz.. though i say mi thin skinned and stuffs, i've been a socail butterfly and it wasn't hard for mi to knoe frenz... in fact, it's harder to stop mi from knowing frenz all around ( as quoting my friends )... though i have a wide circle of frenz and have, well, quite a lot of choices.. maybe it's bcoz of mi outgoing nature tat's why tend to attract more attention to myself.. but guess chemistry doesn't cum in tat easily... i hafta admit i have crushes veri easily.. but consequently, i'll quickly dismiss the liking for infatuation.. dun worry, i'm not robbing myself from possible chances but these r definitely those that i knoe won't result in anything ( tho no one know the future, somehow some people r juz so not meant to b... u knoe u knoe )...Originally posted by Bear:On there other hand, I'm not asking u to jump into a r/s, but do give guys a chance... well, since u mention that u dun quite like J as in being ur bf, but I'm sure ur life doesn't just surround these 2 pple only.. I'm sure there are still others. Even if there isn't, I guess it's time for u to be more open and receptive to pple already. No harm getting to know more frens then after that who knows wat.
tho this is creating quite a headache for mi, i dun wan things to go into the extent tat i haf to lie to him.. despite mi wishing for the thing to b solved as soon as possible, i believe one lie always causes more lies to b said to cover up that one... tho it's temporary relief on mi side, things might hurt more in the long run, for both him and mi lohz....Originally posted by Dreamlord:nah .. the more you force yourself to be introverted, the more you`ll feel depressed. You gotta be yourself, cheerful, bubbly, optimistic, both inside and outside.
anyhow, the more friends you have, the more likely you`ll meet someone you like .. well, also the more people who are interested in you, but whom you are not interested in.
if it gets too difficult, just tell the guy you`ve decided to turn lesbian, if you really don`t want to see him again.
well, maybe it was reallie wrong of mi to go out wif him, coz might b giving him the wrong impression.. but i din ask him out.. we hapen to bump into each other.. i rejected him but he insisted... maybe i shoudl have been more persistent.. *sighz*Originally posted by Don:Hmm.....being hovering around my final year project, so did not chip in for a discussion these few days. Nevertheless, I do notice something in well, girls, they claimed something but heart or rather mind say another.
"I don't want to give blar blar blar a wrong impression"
Let mind control emotions and not emotions controlling mind. Want to have a clean break of things that you think you have decided, JUST DO IT! Nike slogan. Never "tuo ni dai shui" Going out also mean something, please I hope that guy, if he ever have that impression, better not say he is a guy, throw guys' face on this earth!
p/s: What is love, 10 years down the road, one will surely exclaimed,"What the f*** am I wasting my youth just like that on L*V*E?"
Should have done more meaningful things during my youth day. Play Hard, Study Harder, that's make a memorable youthhood.
yep, you have to drum it into his head that its not going to happen between you and him, and that you treasure his friendship, and that you hope you can be good friends, but thats it.Originally posted by Babyacid:tho this is creating quite a headache for mi, i dun wan things to go into the extent tat i haf to lie to him.. despite mi wishing for the thing to b solved as soon as possible, i believe one lie always causes more lies to b said to cover up that one... tho it's temporary relief on mi side, things might hurt more in the long run, for both him and mi lohz....
i wish for things to b solved peacefully, as in the sense both sides will b satisfied wif the ending.. tho i tink in this case, ti is quite impossible... but surely there's alternatives apart from lying rite?