why doesn't she ever know just how much i care for her?
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hafing almost the same problem with u bro... was on very good terms with tis gal toward the end of last yr... all the way to jan... same thing lah buy for her wat she like to eat.. surprise her with things she like... she even ask mi wat happen if she fall in love one day... tis is the turning point of the r/s... i thk i back up.. coz i was not sure whether i m really into her or just wan a gf for a sake of gf.... then when her sch start i never contact so much with her... till last month.. she decided to becm the gf of a guy who had been chasing her for yrs.....
at tat time i was at lost.. really lost.. i was asking myself whether i m feeling sad becoz i lost what i cant get.... by then i finally wake up n realise tat at tat time i shld not just back off... coz i really wanto be with her, share everything with her... but i m too wishy washy...but watever everything is too late.. so being a guy or gentleman i wish both of them well.... although it hurt alot saying tos words to her
when i was about to let go.. two sundays ago she msg mi asking mi whether wan to come out n chat... at once i agree... we chat,, then i realise tat her bf was not tat commited into the r/s, he even tell her tat the r/s had only two yrs warranty... after two yrs maybe the warranty will expire maybe will extend... n when he shout at her for no reason, she wanted to knw the reason but he just said wait till later then tok about it(which is one wk later on tat sunday)
by that time her heart already become to that r/s... so she called mi out n accompany.... as i m the only one she knw tat will be awake at tat time.... when i heard all tis i was really disappointed with myself for not grabbing the chance last time, n sad tat she met accept someone who is not commited at all.... i tell myself tat i m difinitly better...
after we had fun n cheer her up tat nite( not xxx we just jog ard at 1am plus barefooted) she told mi she felt so free to be able to be single again... as for mi i really tat whoever up there for giving mi a second chance.. but the next day her bf do not wish to break up... coz since they knw each other so long, he said there if they break up they cant even be friends again(why do some guys such a faggot cum mutherf#@ker)... as she always value friendship she decided to just carry on with the r/s... saying since her bf r not commited n almost non existence sometime.. so whether he is tat anot no different just a bf name...
i was so upset at that time really coz i wanted a second chance i wanted to prove to her tat i can be the one treating her better.. n for her stubborn character no matter how her bf is, she would not get too close to another guy.... unless he is the one initiate break up.. i was so lost so so lost tat time tat i just decided to let all help break lose n go call her when she n her bf were chatting.. making her bf fustrated(so childish of myself) now i cool dwn abit but i really dread tat why i never get a second chance... would i get tat second chance again i duno i leave it to fate
now i m just going for a break to clear my tots....
sorry for the long story bro thanks for reading it till tis point -
I can feel your joy that night when you were with her.Originally posted by ahmeng:hafing almost the same problem with u bro... was on very good terms with tis gal toward the end of last yr... all the way to jan... same thing lah buy for her wat she like to eat.. surprise her with things she like... she even ask mi wat happen if she fall in love one day... tis is the turning point of the r/s... i thk i back up.. coz i was not sure whether i m really into her or just wan a gf for a sake of gf.... then when her sch start i never contact so much with her... till last month.. she decided to becm the gf of a guy who had been chasing her for yrs.....
at tat time i was at lost.. really lost.. i was asking myself whether i m feeling sad becoz i lost what i cant get.... by then i finally wake up n realise tat at tat time i shld not just back off... coz i really wanto be with her, share everything with her... but i m too wishy washy...but watever everything is too late.. so being a guy or gentleman i wish both of them well.... although it hurt alot saying tos words to her
when i was about to let go.. two sundays ago she msg mi asking mi whether wan to come out n chat... at once i agree... we chat,, then i realise tat her bf was not tat commited into the r/s, he even tell her tat the r/s had only two yrs warranty... after two yrs maybe the warranty will expire maybe will extend... n when he shout at her for no reason, she wanted to knw the reason but he just said wait till later then tok about it(which is one wk later on tat sunday)
by that time her heart already become to that r/s... so she called mi out n accompany.... as i m the only one she knw tat will be awake at tat time.... when i heard all tis i was really disappointed with myself for not grabbing the chance last time, n sad tat she met accept someone who is not commited at all.... i tell myself tat i m difinitly better...
after we had fun n cheer her up tat nite( not xxx we just jog ard at 1am plus barefooted) she told mi she felt so free to be able to be single again... as for mi i really tat whoever up there for giving mi a second chance.. but the next day her bf do not wish to break up... coz since they knw each other so long, he said there if they break up they cant even be friends again(why do some guys such a faggot cum mutherf#@ker)... as she always value friendship she decided to just carry on with the r/s... saying since her bf r not commited n almost non existence sometime.. so whether he is tat anot no different just a bf name...
i was so upset at that time really coz i wanted a second chance i wanted to prove to her tat i can be the one treating her better.. n for her stubborn character no matter how her bf is, she would not get too close to another guy.... unless he is the one initiate break up.. i was so lost so so lost tat time tat i just decided to let all help break lose n go call her when she n her bf were chatting.. making her bf fustrated(so childish of myself) now i cool dwn abit but i really dread tat why i never get a second chance... would i get tat second chance again i duno i leave it to fate
now i m just going for a break to clear my tots....
sorry for the long story bro thanks for reading it till tis point
But also,
I can feel your disappointment about being one step late.
I can feel your heartbreak of coming so close,yet so far.
I can feel your pain of missing out yet again
So how is the situation now? What is going on between the two of you? -
Wah how come so many sad ppl these days ah...hmm...well actually it depends whether u all can let go or not...sure it's not easy...it took me abt 1.5 to 2 yrs time before to get over a gal whom I liked in sec sch....now kena such a thing again....wonder how long it will took me this time...
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thanks Doenitz, well i just left them alone.. since she is avoiding mi after her bf refuse to let go... n she doesnt wan to lose him as a friends.....
all i m thking now is taking a break.... but i really hope tat her bf would buck up abit to treat her better..... -
keep ur options open still... give her time and dun bug her too much... not being her bf yet simply means that u need to back off the gas a little so as to let her take time to absorb whatever care and concern u provide... dun hold too high hopes but do take appropriate action as and when u think it's suitable... dun over do stuff, u might freak her out...
there's nothing wrong telling her that u have feelings for her, judging by how she reacted, it seems that she's lost herself... cause she may be thinking that she might have sent out signals in the wrong direction to u... so communication frequency's compromised... i'd been snubbed a few times too...
dun feel down... if u're blur bout things urself, who can be clearer? emotions will soon mild itself... dun think too much, things are not as difficult as u think they are...
worst case, if really u 2 cannot be a couple in time to come, do remain as friends still... do talk with her or write her a letter or email her to sort things out... sometimes it's better off to be friends... crap around and stuff...
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sigh... new day...new weather...but still,really hard to forget her...
shucks..all my mind is thinking right now is "whats she doing now?" "Is she aright?" etc etc...here i am, eating my heart out for someone... and noone knows...yet, i can only blame myself for all these problems..its funny though...put it this way... I'm feeling hurt from problems i created myself... cos she never liked me in the first place 
..argh i gotta buck up man...continue thinking of these stuff and i'm a gonner...well Doe, Harry, cheer up...i hope.. 
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i finally stopped eating...damn i think i ate all my favourtie food stuff on this island..now i'm really lost..wat else can i do?
Oh i can sense it now...
the memory of her is coming back... 
oh no... argh not again -
can understand how u felt life^stop
i too was trying hard not to thk of her... time will heal.... -
it sux when u love someone n e person does not love back...it's like having a knife plunged into ur hart....pain...pain.... sobbing as i type...... i try to drown myself w work but it only makes me more miserable...... i am not as strong as i am....u know that no matter what u do...it might not be good enuff n that sux....Originally posted by life^stop:i finally stopped eating...damn i think i ate all my favourtie food stuff on this island..now i'm really lost..wat else can i do?
Oh i can sense it now... the memory of her is coming back... oh no... argh not again -
n it felt more worse when u knw tat u can do much more better then someone she like....Originally posted by harryryan:it sux when u love someone n e person does not love back...it's like having a knife plunged into ur hart....pain...pain.... sobbing as i type...... i try to drown myself w work but it only makes me more miserable...... i am not as strong as i am....u know that no matter what u do...it might not be good enuff n that sux.... -
Wake up your idea man! It is sad to see you at such a pitiful stage as because of a gal! Get busy living!Originally posted by life^stop:i finally stopped eating...damn i think i ate all my favourtie food stuff on this island..now i'm really lost..wat else can i do?
Oh i can sense it now... the memory of her is coming back... oh no... argh not again -
she say see wate future holds loh....if she keeps forgiving him than wat future will we have?i can treat her better....that's for sure.....but she says that she cannot leave him just bcos i treat her better than her bf.....Originally posted by ahmeng:n it felt more worse when u knw tat u can do much more better then someone she like....
if like that than what can i do? she cheats on him n she forgives him ....n this is at least second time liao.... if like that she also can forgive than what chance i have? -
sheilds life^stop... u might never know how we feel cos we love too deep..... not everyone can love with their everything.Originally posted by Doenitz:Wake up your idea man! It is sad to see you at such a pitiful stage as because of a gal! Get busy living! -
It takes 2 people to make a relationship work.
If 1 side does not want to have anything to do with the other, nothing in the world is going to change the fact that it's doomed to failure.
love is blind
and lovers cannot see
the follies they commit
I think Shakespeare wrote that... Love has its own reasons which will always be inconsistent with logic.
good luck with life... we all need it
Originally posted by harryryan:she say see wate future holds loh....if she keeps forgiving him than wat future will we have?i can treat her better....that's for sure.....but she says that she cannot leave him just bcos i treat her better than her bf.....
if like that than what can i do? she cheats on him n she forgives him ....n this is at least second time liao.... if like that she also can forgive than what chance i have? -
different pple had different view on love.. some may get out of it fast some may not... but still need to walk out of that heartbreak sooner or later.....
just make sure life^stop dun do anything stupid can liao -
I understand how it feels.I didnt talk to a single person for two days after I found out she was attached.Originally posted by harryryan:sheilds life^stop... u might never know how we feel cos we love too deep..... not everyone can love with their everything.
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Those who don't love easily will love too much.
There are more out there like that than people think
Originally posted by harryryan:sheilds life^stop... u might never know how we feel cos we love too deep..... not everyone can love with their everything. -
Funny how sometimes the people we like and care for the most just don't realise that or worse, don't even bother...honestly, i hate myself for everything that i have done...its like bringing all these problems to myself and she doesn't even know, much less bother...oh...its painful...really painful...yet the price to pay for being sad is nothing just to see that someone u like so much be happy... a gift, breakfast from mac donalds (not happy meal though) ,an sms with concern...shucks u just wan to know how shes doing and whether or not shes happy to know u care...yet u feel sad cos deep inside u, u know the answer is NO..
So contradicting... but than again, who can give the perfect answer? Time i guess? -
its true we have to get a life... but sometimes, just sometimes, just dwelling on the sad event and reconstructing the things that u did for her does bring out tears..tears of not just sadness...but tears that make u fall back to earth and realise that u can do everything and anything...but if its not meant to be, its not meant to be...i believe in this term,..yet is still finding hard to accept it...
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That's life.... in all its weird, sometimes tragic, sometimes wonderful glory
Imagine, if you are doing this for someone and are despairing her lack of reaction, and not even realising you exist, and how much hurt it causes.
Then imagine.. just a while.. what if.. just if.. someone out there is doing the same thing for you... and you just do not realise it.
take it easy yah?Originally posted by life^stop:Funny how sometimes the people we like and care for the most just don't realise that or worse, don't even bother...honestly, i hate myself for everything that i have done...its like bringing all these problems to myself and she doesn't even know, much less bother...oh...its painful...really painful...yet the price to pay for being sad is nothing just to see that someone u like so much be happy... a gift, breakfast from mac donalds (not happy meal though) ,an sms with concern...shucks u just wan to know how shes doing and whether or not shes happy to know u care...yet u feel sad cos deep inside u, u know the answer is NO..
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Gee bear... i wish that someone was doing the same to...except that i can't think of any... really...if i can think of someone whos doing the same, i'll be blessed...
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think we can go set up a heartbroken pple club n start hanging out together....haiz....Originally posted by life^stop:Gee bear... i wish that someone was doing the same to...except that i can't think of any... really...if i can think of someone whos doing the same, i'll be blessed... -
hmmm...i guess so...but than again, i rather everyone else are not feeling the same as us than set up this club huh?
Yup..the feeling...argh...really bad...shes drifting on my mind now u know? hmm..wonder hows she doing...
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I don't give a damm what she's doing now! Hahaha!!!Originally posted by life^stop: hmmm...i guess so...but than again, i rather everyone else are not feeling the same as us than set up this club huh?
Yup..the feeling...argh...really bad...shes drifting on my mind now u know? hmm..wonder hows she doing...
well, its just u and me at the moment i guess pal... -
For the broken hearted.. a song they can identify with... take it easy everyone
(I'm Gonna) Cry Myself Blind - Primal Scream
Nothin' lasts forever
It's so sad to lose your love
I've been crazy since you left me
I'm sorry for what I've done
Why did you go, why did you go
Have you ever had a broken heart
Have you ever lost your mind
Have you ever woke up screamin'
'Cause you're so lonely you could die
Why did you go, why did you go
I'm lonely baby
Cry, cry, cry