My bf is gonna get married with another girl without love!!
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You really going to believe he is going to be a bacherlor!!
Oh gosh he should be in "The bacherlor 4 liao" 
Aiya refuse to talk or meet him for one month. If he loves you enough, he will have the perseverance to last through that. If he end up with either of that 2 gals...then kiss goodbye to this relationship.
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I place my bet that he's just waiting for the opportunity to knock her out from this round...
Since he mentioned he is going to remain as bachelor, isn't his intention rather quite clear cut? That he wanna have no more relation with you?
Want to know how he's like? Put him to a test.
GO to his house and find him. Did he tell you his parents don't want to see you? GIve him the benefit of the doubt, let's say his parents told him to tell you this, then all the more you should go n verify. Move them with sincerity. Parents love their child, will want their child to find true happiness themselves, not by telling them who they marry and who they should not. It's kinda absurd to me.Originally posted by ashgoh:You really going to believe he is going to be a bacherlor!! Oh gosh he should be in "The bacherlor 4 liao"
Aiya refuse to talk or meet him for one month. If he loves you enough, he will have the perseverance to last through that. If he end up with either of that 2 gals...then kiss goodbye to this relationship. -
you really wanna be with a spineless momma's boy who cant even stand up to his parents on something this important?
shows how much he loves you. -
Originally posted by Farahney:
Yesterday,on my conversation with him....he said now he dont want to hurt both sides (myself & his parents)....so he decided to be a bachelor forever. Now he said, he don't want to see/date both of the girls (as I mentioned in my first story) and any other girls and will not get married for the rest of his life to make every one happy. 
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r u 2 naive?
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i think he jus lying.. tellign so much shit.. drama? i think he is faking.. jus to break up wif u.. sorry if u think i tokign rot.. cos i am not him
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yeah i think it is a pretty lame excuse. he is juz trying to avoid the whole issue...
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I really messed up now.... I can't sleep for 2 weeks already....I also lost 8 kg already....I really miss him....
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hey girl, even if you cannot eat, try...
even if you cannot sleep, try...
even if you cannot forget, try.. go walk around, catch a movie, stuff like that...
it's sad to see another broken heart lead to a broken person...
pray daily for strength to see each day as it comes... give thanks that you are still alive
that helps.. i know it helped for me
if you can, take the time you would have spent with him to do something productive, help out, volunteer at a charity... stuff like that...
you'll get through... somehow...
millions out there on Planet Earth are hurting from broken hearts.. and push on... you can too, yah? just keep telling yourself that
i wish you peace and happiness.... you'll find that one dayOriginally posted by Farahney:I really messed up now.... I can't sleep for 2 weeks already....I also lost 8 kg already....I really miss him.... -
Is it worth it? It's not really because of his decision that you've lost 8 kg..... It's probably because you're in CONTROL of your own LIFE..... Be RESPONSIBLE to yourself... People come, people go... But no matter what happens you'll still need to FACE YOURSELF....Originally posted by Farahney:I really messed up now.... I can't sleep for 2 weeks already....I also lost 8 kg already....I really miss him.... -
I already seek help from his best friend who are currently in UK. He is the only person (his friend) I trusted and the best thing is...my boyfriend always listens to his advice. I hope everything will be back on track soon..... just pray for me .....
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it's good to hear that you're taking steps to sort this out and that you're well...
i'll pray for you...
take care, yah?Originally posted by Farahney: I already seek help from his best friend who are currently in UK. He is the only person (his friend) I trusted and the best thing is...my boyfriend always listens to his advice. I hope everything will be back on track soon..... just pray for me ..... -
Thanks alot Bear....
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you what to date her in open it is ???Originally posted by Devil1976:...... What kinda help do you want?
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GUYS are mostly heartless to woman ....Originally posted by Farahney:My relationship with my boyfriend is already 5 years. My problem is my boyfriend is gonna get married very soon (this year) with a girl whom he does not even really dating yet just bcoz his parents only wanted a chinese girl as their daughter-in-law.
My boyfriend is an engineer working with a German company in Singapore.His name is Wong Hoong Wern.Last night,he confess to me that he really loves me very much but he has to make more friends (girl of course) so that his parents is happy and he is recently dating 2 girls behind me. One of them is preety but jobless and the other one is slim and short but only work as an operator. Me myself is a degree student in one of the private college in Malaysia.
He also asks me to make new friends (boy of course) and try to date them. I really can't do this because everyone I met is not him. Recently, my ex-boyfriend contact me after so long and my bf seems to be jealous.You see...after 5 years of wonderful relationship without any big problem....suddenly this things happen.
But he said if his marriage is unsuccessfull and the same thing also happen to me,he will come back to me because he knows that I love him so much...I love him more than I love my own parents & sibblings....he always knew that....
Lastnight,he said to give ourselves a second chance to go out with another fella and he also wants to get married with any of the two chinese girl to make his parents happy.
Previosly,he agree to convert to my religion because he is a freethinker but now because of his his parents strong objection,he has to do this as he is the eldest son in the family and his younger brother already got married with a girl who is 8 years older than him and now his parents is very very upset. He is doing this only to make his parents happy.
Now I'm really upset and depressed and really don't know what to do to handle this case. I hope freinds out there could help me and give me some advice. Thank you. -
Devil you need to be responsible too... if not you so be like him .... no brainOriginally posted by Devil1976:Is it worth it? It's not really because of his decision that you've lost 8 kg..... It's probably because you're in CONTROL of your own LIFE..... Be RESPONSIBLE to yourself... People come, people go... But no matter what happens you'll still need to FACE YOURSELF.... 
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This is a scene from some drama izzit...
come on lah... your so call bf is just 'finish' with you and finding a way out lah...
Have you ever met his parents? Have he ever bring you home?
How can a guy having a gf and yet can date 2 other gals at the same time.... this is not relationship... its a flirt. -
-_-`~Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:Devil you need to be responsible too... if not you so be like him .... no brain .... -
it's really a difficult decision to make...
maybe he just doesn't want to choose anymore so say that he wants to remain as a bachelor? since you are so affected by him, it's even more difficult for him since his decision affects so many people. Chinese culture places a lot of responsibilities on the eldest son so he is feeling the heat.... tough to be called unfillial... -
Case of black sheep spoil the whole flock I guess....Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:GUYS are mostly heartless to woman .... -
too many black sheep.... 9 out of 10 so you see. Devil also one of the black sheep so all the girl must becareful ... keep your eyes openOriginally posted by KWSW:Case of black sheep spoil the whole flock I guess.... watch out !!!!! -
keep your eye out for those who play around... at the same time, do not blind yourself to those who are truly good just because of your own prejudices, yah?Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:too many black sheep.... 9 out of 10 so you see. Devil also one of the black sheep so all the girl must becareful ... keep your eyes open watch out !!!!!
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Not that bad lah...Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:too many black sheep.... 9 out of 10 so you see. Devil also one of the black sheep so all the girl must becareful ... keep your eyes open watch out !!!!!
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My love life really sucks!!!!
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yr love life dun sucks,u r the one who makes it sucks...is it worth doing all those things for a heartless guy who already dun wana have anything to do wif u but u r still getting him back?even if u got him,doesn't mean u will get his heart...believe mi,u can find a better one though i noe it's kinda hard 2 give up a 5 yrs r/s..but getting hurt now is no matter wat better than getting more hurt in future when u realised he had lied 2 u abt many things?