chinese new yr coming... feeling depressed...

• tranquilice

  21 Jan 04, 12:36

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  dunno y.. chinese new year coming. instead of feeling upbeat and joyous i feel a unexplained wave of sadness and depression.
  
  anyone feels the same way as me?

  I think your sadness and depression has got to do with your work. (Remember that thread?) Cheer up, CNY holidays will be over soon.
• Ah Ma

  21 Jan 04, 12:39

  actualy i dn feel new yr mood..is jus a 2 day holiday for me...in my thinking
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 13:17

  Originally posted by shan_cai:

  Ya... Hope u can try 2 brighten up abit... Dun let ur mood affect dis joyous occasion...

  actualli, its almost impossible tt my mood can affect the occasion. who am i to do tt?
  
  never mind..
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 13:19

  Originally posted by tranquilice:

  I think your sadness and depression has got to do with your work. (Remember that thread?) Cheer up, CNY holidays will be over soon.

  actualli ... yeah.. a large part of it.
  
  glad someone actuali remembers..
  
  i noe only i can determine wat i feel - and hence if i wil njoy tis festive season or not. i wil try not 2 dwell on the bad things lah.. although its likely to be hard.
  
  thanks for all the kindness shown here.
• BÃ¥seline

  21 Jan 04, 13:36

  Cheer up Wuming78.
  
  Mine is probably a calm before a storm. It's gonna be a very busy week when the following Monday comes after some deserved break during CNY.
  
  So, you too deserved some good rest and enjoy the company of friends and loved ones.
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 13:38

  Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:

  Cheer up Wuming78.
  
  Mine is probably a calm before a storm. It's gonna be a very busy week when the following Monday comes after some deserved break during CNY.
  
  So, you too deserved some good rest and enjoy the company of friends and loved ones.

  dun tok abt work to someone who has zero passion and sense of ownership and satisfaction to his work.
  
  someone like me.
• tranquilice

  21 Jan 04, 13:53

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  dun tok abt work to someone who has zero passion and sense of ownership and satisfaction to his work.
  
  someone like me.

  I agree. It's no point if a person isn't interested.
  
• tranquilice

  21 Jan 04, 13:55

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  actualli ... yeah.. a large part of it.
  
  glad someone actuali remembers..
  
  i noe only i can determine wat i feel - and hence if i wil njoy tis festive season or not. i wil try not 2 dwell on the bad things lah.. although its likely to be hard.
  thanks for all the kindness shown here.

  Try your very best.
• DeadPoet

  21 Jan 04, 16:12

  What I do is whenever I step out of the office I tell myself I am no longer the staff anymore. I am ME! Throw everything about works behind.
  
  That is why whenever I leave the office, I make it a point not to look back.
  
  You are not alone, I am also suffering from CNY Blue.
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 16:20

  Originally posted by DeadPoet:

  What I do is whenever I step out of the office I tell myself I am no longer the staff anymore. I am ME! Throw everything about works behind.
  
  That is why whenever I leave the office, I make it a point not to look back.
  
  You are not alone, I am also suffering from CNY Blue.

  wat is causing ur blues?
• shawnsh

  21 Jan 04, 16:37

  haha.....
  i thought need to give ang bao then got blue, other then those married, the rest should be enjoying right?
  anyway, it's CNY, may all the bad go and all the best come...
  Happy New Year all~~
  Cheers...[/img]
• WrX_STi

  21 Jan 04, 18:38

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  dunno y.. chinese new year coming. instead of feeling upbeat and joyous i feel a unexplained wave of sadness and depression.
  
  anyone feels the same way as me?

  ya... feeling same. grandpa juz passed away last oct.. feeling weird having reunion dinner without him..
  
  its not the same anymore.
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 18:43

  Originally posted by WrX_STi:

  ya... feeling same. grandpa juz passed away last oct.. feeling weird having reunion dinner without him..
  
  its not the same anymore.

  hey.. my grandpa passed away last oct too.. well...
• kAdEn

  21 Jan 04, 18:44

  well guys....i may not be the wisest around here, but i think new year is an opportunity for everyone to put away all the unhappy things that had happened before and to try and look forward and be optimistic about it.
  
  Make some resoulutions, try to work towards some ambitions or dreams that you may have or want.
  
  I'm all aone this lunar new year but i'm still trying to make the best out of it
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 18:51

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  well guys....i may not be the wisest around here, but i think new year is an opportunity for everyone to put away all the unhappy things that had happened before and to try and look forward and be optimistic about it.
  
  Make some resoulutions, try to work towards some ambitions or dreams that you may have or want.
  
  I'm all aone this lunar new year but i'm still trying to make the best out of it

  yeah... agree.
  
  but alone does not mean lonely.
  
  and not alone does not mean not lonely.
  
  oh well..
• kAdEn

  21 Jan 04, 18:56

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  yeah... agree.
  
  but alone does not mean lonely.
  
  and not alone does not mean not lonely.
  
  oh well..

  those words are very true
  
  Anyway me will propably just go have fast food for dinner then meet up with friends at the wine bar tonight.
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 18:56

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  those words are very true
  
  Anyway me will propably just go have fast food for dinner then meet up with friends at the wine bar tonight.

  actualli i rather do wat u wil be doing! i rather this is jus another public hol when i can do watever i like.
• kAdEn

  21 Jan 04, 19:00

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  actualli i rather do wat u wil be doing! i rather this is jus another public hol when i can do watever i like.

  
  Can't you do that? I mean....just have dinner with your folks and then tell them you've got plans....
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 19:01

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  
  Can't you do that? I mean....just have dinner with your folks and then tell them you've got plans....

  frens all not free. so sian.
• kAdEn

  21 Jan 04, 19:05

  Oh....
  Well...you could join me if you want...
  wine bar is open to the public
• wuming78

  21 Jan 04, 19:07

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  Oh....
  Well...you could join me if you want...
  wine bar is open to the public

  i can join any party tts open to pubilc.
• WrX_STi

  21 Jan 04, 23:38

  wuming78.. live life to da fullest..
  
  i'm slowly getting back on.. but 1st year of CNY w/o him is so diff.. guess onli time will heal..
  
  tk kare dude..
• laurence82

  21 Jan 04, 23:50

  Hey wuming,
  
  gotta tell you although I have 1001 problems in my mind (u can ask Neontetra) , i am still in new year mood. Dont sweat the small stuff, dont let short term problems affect your mood and health
  
  WISHING YOU
  GONG XI FA CAI, WAN SHI RU YI
  
  gong xi gong xi
• christine79

  22 Jan 04, 00:29

  im very sad n misery even wan to end my life cos the one i love has break up with me
• InVaa

  22 Jan 04, 00:37

  cny is a waste of money and time(mayb)