help !! X bf owe me lotsa $$ n keep avoiding me now !
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I know a guy friend who lent a sum of money to his ex-gf for an abortion due to an unwanted baby with another guy. To this day, his ex-gf remains uncontactable with the money.
This is according to my guy friend, coz i'm one of them who lent him money to lend her. So far my money i can also say its gone case loh.
Can't be helped, coz my friend so good heart will still borrow money from friends to lend his friends in time of need even if he not enough. But still...hiyah... -
really got this type ah ... if have i really dun mind lor.Originally posted by ratinacage:get debt collectors/thugs to help,only 20% of wateva they get back for u.....
at least i still get back 80%.
but this type will i get intro trouble one or not -
wow! how did you manage to get $8k in the first place?
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If he were to meet up with you one day to return you the money, be it more or less. I seriously will not hesitate to give him one helluva wallop. This kind of b**t**d got every right to burn in hell.
If he retaliates, kick him in the balls. No need to hesitate. Legal action, then see who take legal action 1st. The world would be better off with one less. -
all the money i save since young lor, the ang bao $$ my hard earn money save when i work ... all gone lor.Originally posted by AzRaeL:wow! how did you manage to get $8k in the first place?
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poor thing,bloody guy..
to me the 20% thingy is kinda gd option for me.. -
nanako .... i had the same experience like u b4
i loan to him abt 10k (3 seperate time)
til nw i cant reach him
i tried calling his hse no ( line terminated)
went to his hse (his family member said he hasn't gone home for long time)
email him (no responds)
left a note for him (no replies)
called alll his pal and buddy (dunno where he went to)
i nv regret of loaning him the money
i loan him because of *qing*
nw i had learnt a good lesson ... -
Sorry ar, off topic a bit.
If the person is your brother how? Living in the next room only? How to confront nicely?
He borrowed money from me, then say will return. Of course its bs. Then i also found out he stole money from my drawer, i don't wanna spoil relation with him but i want to get back what rightfully belongs to me.
Check with the MLM company where he go? Maybe he still there then at least can find him. -
most probably u wont get it back liao... try call police or search his address... or get ah long to help u search....
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ok...its quite difficult.....
its all up to ur own.....
1) go his hse to look for him. talk to him about this matter....tell him dat u've help him and u need help. by telling u dat both of u have broke up liao...that is not an excuse....$$ is different issue....
2) get few guy friends with you to his hse...remember...no violence. of cuz...get someone who can talk with leadership and brains....
3) make him sign a letter of IOU with a witness/referree. a letter stating him oweing u $$. that will be a proof to the police.
4) his mum said its between u and him....dats nonsense and lame excuse. he came out from his mum, sure his mum can do someting....
5) get someone to break his leg....make sure he is one legged...of cuz.....dun let anyone noe u r the mastermind. treat it as u dunno....if he owe u $$, it means he oso owe other ppl $$....so the leg breaking part can be done by other oso mah...dis will pay his price for lending so much $$ and not returning....
6) if u can't bear him to suffer such fate on leg kana broken, den u suffer lor... -
my ah lao always tell me... if want to lend pple money,,, can write off the debt immediately liao... if d $$ comes back.. it's a bonus!!
feel sorry for you
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OMG...mostly very hard to get it back le,well..did u try calling up his house? or just go up to his house and wait for him lor,at the same time tell his family about this,and see what can they do...Originally posted by nanako:my x bf still owe me lotsa $$ which he borrow from me..
he owe me 8k + , all my hard earn money..
keep calling him can't find him.
he's avoiding me ..
wat should i do..
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Originally posted by nanako:my x bf still owe me lotsa $$ which he borrow from me..
he owe me 8k + , all my hard earn money..
keep calling him can't find him.
he's avoiding me ..
wat should i do..
Once its ex bf....
Once its lots of money...
You are almost guaranteed that you wouldn't get back the money.
I really feel for you nanako because its almost impossible to detect such scenario especially if you had entered a long relationship with him. (Astro mode on: Probably affliction in 2nd house and bad placing of Venus. Synastry may show afflictions between Neptune, Jupiter and Venus).
MLM COMPANIES!!!!!!!!! Argh, had friends who were sucked into it as well.
To everyone here: All MLM companies promises alot about good pay and prospects, heed the following phrase: If it's too good to be true, then it's too good to be true.
Cheers -
Save a miracle, if he grows a little conscience... and some manhood... but u noe better that it's gonna be a 1 in a 1,000,000th longshot.Originally posted by nanako:my x bf still owe me lotsa $$ which he borrow from me..
he owe me 8k + , all my hard earn money..
keep calling him can't find him.
he's avoiding me ..
wat should i do..
So better to bite the bullet, write down ur losses and move on. Ur young; u can earn back the money.
Ur with him for 6 yrs? Then u really outta be thanking ur lucky stars that u din marry that loser. -
hi ! guess u can totally understand how i feel.Originally posted by jolin80:nanako .... i had the same experience like u b4
i loan to him abt 10k (3 seperate time)
til nw i cant reach him
i tried calling his hse no ( line terminated)
went to his hse (his family member said he hasn't gone home for long time)
email him (no responds)
left a note for him (no replies)
called alll his pal and buddy (dunno where he went to)
i nv regret of loaning him the money
i loan him because of *qing*
nw i had learnt a good lesson ...
becoz of a 'qing' , we lend ppl $ ,yet this is how they repay us.....
but i believe 1 day these bastards will get their retribution. ( thinking on the possitive side)..
n we well definetaly get good benefits... coz we r not the once who did other ppl unjustise. right.
though we still feel very very heart pain abt our $$.
lets hope both of us will get our $ back. . -
find some police fren go his house drink kopi
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
now he oso not in that MLM co. already. Once its ex bf....
Once its lots of money...
You are almost guaranteed that you wouldn't get back the money.
I really feel for you nanako because its almost impossible to detect such scenario especially if you had entered a long relationship with him. (Astro mode on: Probably affliction in 2nd house and bad placing of Venus. Synastry may show afflictions between Neptune, Jupiter and Venus).
MLM COMPANIES!!!!!!!!! Argh, had friends who were sucked into it as well.
To everyone here: All MLM companies promises alot about good pay and prospects, heed the following phrase: [b]If it's too good to be true, then it's too good to be true.
Cheers [/b]
wah ! still got astro mode one ah .. hahahah.
u r the astro expert here rite ..
then u must see for me, how many more stupid guys coming into my life, so that i can avoid them .. hahahahha. -
u r so right .. he not only owe me $$ he still owe his other frens $ too. all becoz of MLM ...Originally posted by Jaws:ok...its quite difficult.....
its all up to ur own.....
1) go his hse to look for him. talk to him about this matter....tell him dat u've help him and u need help. by telling u dat both of u have broke up liao...that is not an excuse....$$ is different issue....
2) get few guy friends with you to his hse...remember...no violence. of cuz...get someone who can talk with leadership and brains....
3) make him sign a letter of IOU with a witness/referree. a letter stating him oweing u $$. that will be a proof to the police.
4) his mum said its between u and him....dats nonsense and lame excuse. he came out from his mum, sure his mum can do someting....
5) get someone to break his leg....make sure he is one legged...of cuz.....dun let anyone noe u r the mastermind. treat it as u dunno....if he owe u $$, it means he oso owe other ppl $$....so the leg breaking part can be done by other oso mah...dis will pay his price for lending so much $$ and not returning....
6) if u can't bear him to suffer such fate on leg kana broken, den u suffer lor...
so ppl here -----> DUN GET CHEATED BY MLM.
i heard from ppl that he like got beated up b4.. -
i think mostly cant get back the money.if realy so, take it as an experience or lesson that u spent $8000 to learn n thats it. nex time mus b careful lor.
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scully i know the guy...Originally posted by nanako:my x bf still owe me lotsa $$ which he borrow from me..
he owe me 8k + , all my hard earn money..
keep calling him can't find him.
he's avoiding me ..
wat should i do.. -
i am luncky i really din marry him ... this type of guy, really loser.Originally posted by MeCanCook:Save a miracle, if he grows a little conscience... and some manhood... but u noe better that it's gonna be a 1 in a 1,000,000th longshot.
So better to bite the bullet, write down ur losses and move on. Ur young; u can earn back the money.
Ur with him for 6 yrs? Then u really outta be thanking ur lucky stars that u din marry that loser.
i really pity his current gf, the gf can still like support wat he do... she damn stupid.!!! he can cheat me of my $$, cheat his fren,he even borrow $ from his grand parents, now i dun noe return already or not ....... so i'm sure he will do this to anyone. -
I thought my $500 bad debt was bad....
I dont like to borrow money.... esp from someone I love. -
so sad....Originally posted by nanako:all the money i save since young lor, the ang bao $$ my hard earn money save when i work ... all gone lor. -
Originally posted by nanako:now he oso not in that MLM co. already.
wah ! still got astro mode one ah .. hahahah.
u r the astro expert here rite ..
then u must see for me, how many more stupid guys coming into my life, so that i can avoid them .. hahahahha. Then again usually if guy always like to borrow money from people/friends (before you enter into relationship with him) - this kind of people usually have financial issues to handle in relationship.
Sekali your guy I know.
Even though he's not in MLM anymore, such huge sum of money - is impossible to get back. Because if he wants to return - he can do away with avoiding.
/me pat pat
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
does that mean that guys who can afford to lend money will not have financial issues? [b]Then again usually if guy always like to borrow money from people/friends (before you enter into relationship with him) - this kind of people usually have financial issues to handle in relationship.
/me pat pat
Cheers [/b]