How to forget someone?
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from sex and the city:Originally posted by dReaMsKy:Any one can help?
"it takes as much time to recover from the breakup as u have been together with her/him."
so if u are together for 1 year, then it takes one year before u really forget about her. if u are together for 8 years, good luck..... -
don't hate urself la. learn to love urself. u must be good in something. remember the small successes and work and work. u need to have plans and targets.Originally posted by dReaMsKy:Zz. I think my life sux. now its holiday and im staying at home staring the the monitor. my frens all in relationship or not free. hai. then my studies also gone case.. Zz..
gals are attracted to guys who are handsome or successful. if u not handsome, better work hard at being successful if u want to marry someone pretty. -
right, go to a community centre where other people also busy studying. it will motivate u.Originally posted by OrneryBoy:get out of your house to study.. this the most effective method
environment is very important. ur frens also. be with people who are better than u. last of all, u need to have some fear. fear will drive u to be more successful.
is having a fat ugly gal as ur gf more than fearful enough? than better study hard. -
Very BS leh.Originally posted by jaimeyeo:from sex and the city:
"it takes as much time to recover from the breakup as u have been together with her/him."
so if u are together for 1 year, then it takes one year before u really forget about her. if u are together for 8 years, good luck.....
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Easy. She probably ditch you cause of money and education. The best thing to do is to focus on your career and get rich. Then you change a different lady every day. Hows that for revenge.
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How is the someone related to you?
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That probably ain't gonna change or prove anything in a healthy way...?Originally posted by Xenthar:Easy. She probably ditch you cause of money and education. The best thing to do is to focus on your career and get rich. Then you change a different lady every day. Hows that for revenge. -
its hard....me still trying tooOriginally posted by dReaMsKy:Any one can help? -
There is no way you can forget someone when they are in your heart. It is after a long time whereby you guys dun meet and talk, than you just dun think of him or her. That is all as he or she will forever be in you heart and just not on your mind.
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hihi! i dun think u can forget someone.... u will just have to get used to it. need much time to get used to it. My ex n me broke up for 11 months already n i'm still thinking of him now n then. u cant measure ur love by time. eg: my ex n me r together for only 6 months, but i took very very long to overcome. N until today i still cant forget the happytimes. my friends told me "6 months isnt very long. U will forget him quite fast." But itz bull sH!t! almost 1 year liao still thinking of him... still looking for him, still longing to see him
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u can eat alot , till u're waaaaay overweight and then u've to worry bout slimming down. tat shld take ur mind off tings
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hey! thank you for all of your responses.. i find foga method rather interesting haha.. i thought i had somewhat not to have feelings towards her.. but then when i see her mix around wit other guys.. i get rather jealous.. =(
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aiyo dreamsky , ..hmn what should i write here.. I can't even help myself..
Just bear the below in mind...
It wouldn't be easy to forget someone you love.
The feelings and memories will alway be there troubling you.
Somehow you had to try to stop yourself from thinking about her too often.
But once in awhile you will think of her and you will felt your hearts ache.
It's normal. It's not up to us to decide when to forget her.
You can only hope for yourself not to think of her often.
But you can never hope that you will forget someone you ever love.
It will never happen for someone to totally forget someone he or she ever love.
Just try take it easy , seconds by seconds.
and of cause , million of luck for u ! -
its all in the mind..
just settle all thoughts..
clam your mind and things would be easier. -
i can't forget the person overnight.
wat i did was try not to thinking of him/her so much.
slowly, u'll let go . i dunno know u would do it, but u must do it.
good luck
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it's always esay to say n tell other tt u had forget tt personOriginally posted by dReaMsKy:Any one can help?
in fact u haf not it's berry berry hard to forget someone tt u truely loved before no matter wad he/she may haf set a place in yr heart memories n time spend together will forever stays with u
time wont stop going becos of them life still still goes on so let time heal yr wound n be more socialable n meet more frds occupied yrself with sport n you will slowly recovers
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u 2 mths only. haiz...me longerOriginally posted by dReaMsKy:2 months liao.. hai.. -
its not the duration of the r/s that counts.
3yrs r/s wif nothing much is nothing compared to a 1 wk r/s wif happiness -
how to determine whether or not to woo her back anot.. i very confuse now leh.. aiyoyo.. love thingy very de mafan leh.. =(
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Yup, this is a good way to simulate letting go. Another way is to take a cup of water, lift it up and put it down. each time saying "na de qi, fang de xia".Originally posted by Rad:1. Create a blank file on your computer.
2. Name the file after that person.
3. Drag the file into recycle bin.
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Everyone keeps saying " forget the person". I mean, why should we forget the person we once loved? It is part of our life experience. Do you try to forget your pet which died 5 years ago because it brings sadness when you think that it can't be with you anymore?
Do you try to forget a dead sibling, parent, grandparent (or anyone special to you)? No. You keep them in your heart.
The more you try to forget that person, the more you will think of him/her. NO! Don't forget someone who has made a big impact on your life. You should thank him/her (or to those holy people, thank God) for crossing paths with you.
Ask yourself: you will, and have met millions of people over your lifetime. Why is it that he/she is the only person to make such impact on your life? Admit it. This person is special even if he/she is no longer by your side.
Use your experience to improve yourself. Make sure you don't repeat that bloody mistake that caused you to lose this person.
What we can do is admit that this person will NEVER accept you again, no matter which god you pray to. People who ask for advice on how to forget a person are actualy in a denial stage. They refuse to believe that this person is gone forever!
Ask yourself: do you think you would be able to cope better if you lose this person through his/her death instead of you being dumped?? If the answer is yes, you are still hoping for a reconciliation. As long as you still has this false hope, you will never be able to climb out of this abyss.
Welcome to the real world. -
when a person is reali hav change n yet he cant get wat he deserve . waitin is a road where u hope 2 c her/him halfway when u alone walkin n tis a road is endless
so u must carry on move on prove that she was wrong abt u when she left
She didn't chose that route to walk out on this relationship - its me who made her walk that path -
we are on the same boat. i miss my ex alot also, so everytime on msn i'll click on her. then type hi but no courage to press enter. once i press hi quickly before i hesistated. and i sat there, heart thumping. then "XXX is typing a message" showed. but the message nv came..Originally posted by dReaMsKy:You see arh, liddat the more I want to jio back her. Zz. Esp when in msn, I wanna talk to her, but then i tell myself no. So when she went offline, my whole heart like sank tiao.
And any one can teach me some tips on studying? Like when I use computer, i dun feel like stopping. even thought I am doing nothing but staring the monitor screen. when I try to study, after awhile I will go think of other things or when I might so difficulties I wont feel like continuing liao. Sigh, school reopen is my exams liao.
i realli regretted the way i treated her last time. sigh. -
i dont tink so lor. look at all the pretty girls with the ugly ah beng... they arnt handsome n successful... unless being in gang is considered successful..Originally posted by jaimeyeo:don't hate urself la. learn to love urself. u must be good in something. remember the small successes and work and work. u need to have plans and targets.
gals are attracted to guys who are handsome or successful. if u not handsome, better work hard at being successful if u want to marry someone pretty. -
AHHHh.. I feel like crying.. zz.. how to tell if he/she still got feelings for u har? can any one tell the useless me..