Can anybody tells me if a gal have a slightest interest in u

• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  6 Oct 04, 03:41

  Moral of the thread so far...
  LOVE IS OUCH
  
  Good luck Loveouch.
• Axelheat755

  6 Oct 04, 03:55

  I think we need more info...
  
  so far all the info Loveouch gave us are all negative ones...probably his own feelings on the whole thing?
  
  1) Girl dun respond to his sms or msn chat
  
  2) Friend won't help him
  
  3) Dunno how to talk to the girl
  
  4) Fears she would freak out if he confess his love for her...
  
  from the signs, i would say in your own heart, u have oredi painted the picture that she dun like you and you cannot expect any help from your friend...But you cannot control urself...
  
  Ask yourself this question... If she rejects you, would you give up on her?
• Axelheat755

  6 Oct 04, 04:06

  With reference to the Title of this thread
  
  Can anybody tells me if a gal have a slightest interest in u
  
  1) u smile at the ger and she smiles back
  
  2) U can chat freely wif her about anything
  
  3) she shares your emotions wif you...
  
  4) she tells u the niffty details of her daily life
  
  5) she ask u out even if its just for ten minutes before her lunch time is over.
  
  etc etc etc...
  
  basically if a gal is interested in you, u should be able to feel it... unless you are as dumb as a log...
• icyprincess

  6 Oct 04, 04:56

  then how to tell if a guy is interested in a girl? any chance he mite lose interest if the girl finally reciprocate?
  
  i.c.y
• the.raven

  6 Oct 04, 06:54

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  then how to tell if a guy is interested in a girl? any chance he mite lose interest if the girl finally reciprocate?
  
  i.c.y

  see if he glances your way now and then when you are close by?
• icyprincess

  6 Oct 04, 07:01

  Originally posted by the.raven:

  see if he glances your way now and then when you are close by?

  he already did all dat...
  even ask me out oledi...
  but i m feeling like he is losing interest...dunno y..just my feeling...
  
  i.c.y
• the.raven

  6 Oct 04, 07:27

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  he already did all dat...
  even ask me out oledi...
  but i m feeling like he is losing interest...dunno y..just my feeling...
  
  i.c.y

  try chatting more with him?
• icyprincess

  6 Oct 04, 08:01

  Originally posted by the.raven:

  try chatting more with him?

  both of us are busy this week...only end of the week got time..
  
  i.c.y
• Axelheat755

  6 Oct 04, 11:01

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  then how to tell if a guy is interested in a girl? any chance he mite lose interest if the girl finally reciprocate?
  
  i.c.y

  1) SMS her a lot
  
  2) Always wanna see her
  
  3) Call her just to hear her voice
  
  4) Wanna know her everything
  
  5) know what happened to her everyday
• sgFish

  6 Oct 04, 12:55

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  well, i plan to confess n tell her on her birthday which is coming soon..i know theres chance that she might reject me but i really cant stop myself liking her.
  actually she a classmate of my frd n i known her for only few mths and i dun really have chance to talk to her but i just missed her more and more.
  
  THts really ouch!

  sounds like infatuation/crush to me...not really love...
• Axelheat755

  6 Oct 04, 13:13

  Originally posted by sgFish:

  sounds like infatuation/crush to me...not really love...

  yup...
  
  love comes oni after u know the person...
• skeujin

  6 Oct 04, 17:40

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  I did not quote babyboy did I?
  I was quoting Axelheat755...and axelheat did not mention the girl being his friend girlfriend right?
  
  DId I say all is fair in love and war...even if the girl is Loveouch's friend's girlfriend. Do read properly next time.
  

  read my quotes of wat u posted.... u r not even certain of wat u hav posted.. stop giving people "advice" wen u r confused about r/s matters yrslf...
• december

  6 Oct 04, 18:22

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  read my quotes of wat u posted.... u r not even certain of wat u hav posted.. stop giving people "advice" wen u r confused about r/s matters yrslf...

  I chasing this girl. I dunno whether she has interest in me or not
  We rarely meet.
  On the phone i told her i am very scared to sms her or else i will think of alot of things if she nv reply.
  Den she reply that she also scared of sms me.
  But if i ever sms n asking where she is, who she going out with, guy or ger going where. SHe will promptly tell me all the ans i want to noe.
  If i ask her to meet me, she will always say she busy.
  Den will suddenly stop replying, den i will send a sms to her that how much i wan to go out with her and adding a I MISS U at the back.
  SHe will apologise n say she was busy n no mood to meet me.
  She rarely sms me but if she did, was always to ask where i am.
  If for like 2 to 3 days nv sms hor, den at nite i sms her good nite n tell her how much i miss her, the next day she will msg me.
  Got once we chat in the morning n she said will call me back asap. But she didnt. I also nv sms until at nite i send her another good nite msg n miss u.
  She will immediately sms me say she was busy tt y nv call me back.
  If i told her that she was the only ger i contact, she will say how many gers number i have in my SIM card, even pointed out one of her friend's friend number i saved in my SIM card.
  
  So does she has a slightest interest in me or not ? I also very fan over this !
• BaByBoY

  6 Oct 04, 18:29

  hey guys chill out,
  
  we`re here to help the person in need..
  not to confuse him w other stuff..
  if i had not been clear enuff
  let me rephrase the words
  
  if the gals is not attached..
  plz go ahead and wooo her
  
  if she`s attached..
  it`s highly discouraged from wooing her
  
  We do not do what we don`t want others to do to us
  
  apologise if i`ve any ambiguity in my posts
  
  well i just hoped the gal ain`t attached and the thread starter goes ahead w his plans..
  tt`ll be perfect!~~
  
  cool off dudes!!~
  
  
• LoveOuch!

  6 Oct 04, 19:18

  Thanks guys... ... i sort of sms her to hint her i have liking for her. after that she never reply when on msn and she wont even look at me in school...i think she trying to stay away from me.
  
  this is not love definately but this is not just a crush
• LoveOuch!

  6 Oct 04, 19:23

  BTw i never go out with her before
• 'm back

  6 Oct 04, 21:02

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  I really like this girl but she seem no interest in me n i do not wish to lose a friend by confessing.. actually she my frd's frd.

  sorry you cannot tell although there are many sayings and as the saying goes....girls are very good actresses.
• LoveOuch!

  7 Oct 04, 00:45

  Well u pple r great... some of u "sort of bring me down" and some of u bring me up .. well all of you have ur points.. maybe i will not give up becos i know this is the first time a girl ever attract me so much.. n shes not a beauty but shes the most special made creature in the world
• LoveOuch!

  7 Oct 04, 00:49

  What u mean by girls good at acting?.. y r they acting??
  
  what if shes not acting n wat if i continue .. n she may get irritated..
  
  OUCH!
• Axelheat755

  7 Oct 04, 01:26

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  BTw i never go out with her before

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  im not good at expressing myself when im with her

  
  
  contradiction...
  
  sorry.. but i cant help but notice it... makes me confused...
• LoveOuch!

  7 Oct 04, 01:35

  Sometimes i sort of meet her in school.. n we just talk a bit thats all
• Axelheat755

  7 Oct 04, 01:43

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  Thanks guys... ... i sort of sms her to hint her i have liking for her. after that she never reply when on msn and she wont even look at me in school...i think she trying to stay away from me.
  
  this is not love definately but this is not just a crush

  she is in ur school?
  
  that was a bad move...
  
  hinting her when she hardly knows you and showing signs of disinterest in u...
  
  u should have start by getting to know her better, den start from there..
  
  u may have blown ur chance...
  
  BTW, not love, not crush... infatuation?
• Axelheat755

  7 Oct 04, 01:48

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  Well u pple r great... some of u "sort of bring me down" and some of u bring me up .. well all of you have ur points.. maybe i will not give up becos i know this is the first time a girl ever attract me so much.. n shes not a beauty but shes the most special made creature in the world

  wow, u give me the feeling that u adore her...
  
  well if she's unattached, give it all the best u got~!
  
  if she is attached, den its best not to touch her...
  
  Love does'nt have to be possession, as long as she is happy can liaoz..
• Axelheat755

  7 Oct 04, 01:52

  Originally posted by LoveOuch!:

  What u mean by girls good at acting?.. y r they acting??
  
  what if shes not acting n wat if i continue .. n she may get irritated..
  
  OUCH!

  continue what?
  
  SMS her stuff like "i like you?"
  
  from all ur post, i sense that u know she dun like you. The only way would be be her friend. know her better and let her know u better. BGR should start later when she can accept you...
• LoveOuch!

  7 Oct 04, 01:53

  the problem with me i dun have confidence, i dun express well, dun talk well,...
  n i dun really know how to woo her... ..and of cos im not handsome... i think shes like trying to stay away from me sometimes.. ..after all im just a classmate's frd