Relationships and it's endings.......
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absolut vanilla.. check!
to me, vodka is vodka after about 3 drinks
never tasted the infused stuff except for pepper (YUCK!!) and citrus (yum)
Originally posted by Lingos:Oh you're a bloody legend.. which is better?
I wanted to go with the fancy pansy absolut vanilla.. But i bought the normal one instead..
So probably i'll go with absolut vanilla this time it'll be like creme soda.
woohoo...
BTW johnny howard is our pm again. -
thanks
Originally posted by DXuan:It was meant for you Live life to the max now... What matters is you and you alone. Well maybe your current half too
Enjoy your life girl... Life's a bitch, That's why I curse and swear everyday -
no wonder so excited abt the trip eh Originally posted by the Bear:shhh shhhh!!!
i'm going to melbourne in 3 weeks you know? -
rooted?
okay okay.. i don't wanna knowOriginally posted by Lingos:AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA
Yeah i think this tree is deeply rooted. hahahahaha -
wohhhhh coool!!! i can't do that in SG since i don't have my own place *pout*
weedfree? sure sure...Originally posted by Lingos:Yeah man, it bloody helps.
I'm gonna have a sex and the city night.
Just girls getting tanked in pyjamas running around my .. i hope weedfree backyard.. hahahahahhahahaah.. I hope it happens! -
too much vodka lah!!! should have had some tequila or JD too Originally posted by Lingos:No i have pure weed.. ain't no special one. If i did he||.. i'd be raking it in man, need i bother with CPA certification? ahahah..
I told you we had too much vodka.. geez.. 3 people.. 3/4 bottle from midnight onwards.. it was all good. -
live webcast too eh? Originally posted by Lingos:hahah.. F**k i would have paid to watch that!!!
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Ahh... even if you bump into him..Originally posted by the_don:thanks ling...
u r right, the current r/s is great. never have i found more peace and he is just wonderful.
abt the change in environment... as long as i don't end up in sydney, i should not bump into that ex
do what my melbourne ex did to me.. hahah he opened the door to this restaurant, saw me.. i saw him.. he took a run for it. HAHAH it was so funny. I'm like.. god grow up lah.
Even if you do.. i don't know.. it's up to you. Pretend that you saw nobody significant.. which he isn't anyway by the sounds of it.
See... peace.. mmmMMMmmmm... things happen for a reason lah. If he didn't do what he did. You wouldn't have gone .. or ya know..
It's like sometimes i look at my life.. the chain of events is just incredible. The regret i have is.. i didn't take up another job in a big firm when i should have. hahah.. Hey it's like sliding doors lah. But.. i just try to ignore it. haha.. -
eh.. why i always missed nelstar's posts......
anyway.. thanks nelstar...
Originally posted by Devil1976:Nice...
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PEPPER?!?!?Originally posted by the Bear:absolut vanilla.. check!
to me, vodka is vodka after about 3 drinks
never tasted the infused stuff except for pepper (YUCK!!) and citrus (yum)
I thought i could do a vanilla coke thing hahaha..
I dunno..
citrus is yuck? I hate to imagine what the blackcurrant is like.
But you're right.. after a while it's just like.. yeahhhh.. get me some more. I can't believe i got a swig out of the bottle.. now that tasted disgusting. -
Must be the p-membership.Originally posted by the_don:eh.. why i always missed nelstar's posts......
anyway.. thanks nelstar...
It's telling me I became insignificent! -
is it
i don't know lah... Originally posted by Lingos:AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA
Yeah i think this tree is deeply rooted. hahahahaha -
okie wat do i not know again Originally posted by the Bear:rooted?
okay okay.. i don't wanna know -
Don't have that at home. ahha.. can't be bothered getting myself out of the house.Originally posted by the_don: too much vodka lah!!! should have had some tequila or JD too
I've already spent the whole day with my laundry and weed killing spray hahaha..god i hate having a 'garden' -
Dude, i so don't want to know either! hahahaOriginally posted by the Bear:rooted?
okay okay.. i don't wanna know -
nah.. citrus was yum
pepper was yuck
swig outta the bottle? been there.. done that.. i think... it was all an alcoholic blur
i've tortured my liver enough for a few lifetimes already.. time for moderationOriginally posted by Lingos:PEPPER?!?!?
I thought i could do a vanilla coke thing hahaha..
I dunno..
citrus is yuck? I hate to imagine what the blackcurrant is like.
But you're right.. after a while it's just like.. yeahhhh.. get me some more. I can't believe i got a swig out of the bottle.. now that tasted disgusting. -
i think he (da ex) would be the one doing the ignoring game. he has this "it's everyone fault, never mine" attitude
i guess u were right, but the strings of events nearly took my life... way too dangerousOriginally posted by Lingos:Ahh... even if you bump into him..
do what my melbourne ex did to me.. hahah he opened the door to this restaurant, saw me.. i saw him.. he took a run for it. HAHAH it was so funny. I'm like.. god grow up lah.
Even if you do.. i don't know.. it's up to you. Pretend that you saw nobody significant.. which he isn't anyway by the sounds of it.
See... peace.. mmmMMMmmmm... things happen for a reason lah. If he didn't do what he did. You wouldn't have gone .. or ya know..
It's like sometimes i look at my life.. the chain of events is just incredible. The regret i have is.. i didn't take up another job in a big firm when i should have. hahah.. Hey it's like sliding doors lah. But.. i just try to ignore it. haha.. -
time to renew lah!!! go go go!!Originally posted by Nelstar:Must be the p-membership.
It's telling me I became insignificent! -
let it grow then... tt's wat i did and got HUGE spiders Originally posted by Lingos:Don't have that at home. ahha.. can't be bothered getting myself out of the house.
I've already spent the whole day with my laundry and weed killing spray hahaha..god i hate having a 'garden' -
Oh .. i don't know what i was thinking. ahhaha.Originally posted by the Bear:nah.. citrus was yum
pepper was yuck
swig outta the bottle? been there.. done that.. i think... it was all an alcoholic blur
i've tortured my liver enough for a few lifetimes already.. time for moderation
It is disgustinggggggg... i should get a bottle of tequila for spur of the moment drunk rampages.
BUt do you get totally sick the next day? I always manage to drag myself up and do stuff without aid of panadol. hahaha.. my friends hate me. -
Speaking of huge spiders..Originally posted by the_don:let it grow then... tt's wat i did and got HUGE spiders
One crawled across my windscreen.
ON THE OUTSIDE thank goodness.. i was flicking the water and the wipers man. But i missed hahaha.. -
ahh.. when you come over i'll show you what a great place Melbourne is. hahaha.. especially with me back on the party circuit.Originally posted by the_don:wohhhhh coool!!! i can't do that in SG since i don't have my own place *pout*
weedfree? sure sure...
Was retired for about.. oooohh.. i dunno 8 mths. -
i was hungover for 2 days once...
could not even remember how i got back into my room in the uni hostel... seriously.. (the drinking session was at the Prahran Town Hall and hostel is in the edge of Armadale near Malvern...)
my other 2 roommates were wasted off their faces but were lucid enough to figure i had disappeared and went looking for me.. they decided to give up and go back to the room.. and found me there... so off the went to do more major damage to their livers
i woke up the next day with that killer hangover.. and the throbbing headache continued the next day!
i don't like tequila...
and as for dragging my sorry carcass off, i can.. and mustOriginally posted by Lingos:Oh .. i don't know what i was thinking. ahhaha.
It is disgustinggggggg... i should get a bottle of tequila for spur of the moment drunk rampages.
BUt do you get totally sick the next day? I always manage to drag myself up and do stuff without aid of panadol. hahaha.. my friends hate me. -
Originally posted by the_don:
is there a reason or reasons to why relationships end?
There would be at least one reason as to why a relationship ends...
do we have to understand why a relationship didn't work before we move on? does understanding why things go awry really that important?
No... It's not really necessary for you to know why a relationship didn't work out before you can move on... Though how important it is to find out the real reason before moving on would be subjective to an individual's character and mentality...
Understand that sometimes things might not be clear up so soon... Or you might not even be able to find out the truth forever... But life would still have to go on... And having just experienced a break up (especially when you feel you're at a lost and hurtful end), would often set you in a trapped ground... Making it very difficult for you to see alot of things...
Sometimes understanding why things don't go well would help (more like psychological and human's instincts)... But often than not, it's not of utmost importance unless you're in a hurry to go into a next relationship... Which in that case, importance would be subjective to the reason(s)....
If problem lies with yourself, it would of course be good if you can change for the better... And hence it would help in future relationship(s)... If the problem lies more with your partner or external factors... Then a certain level of understanding might help to an extent... But also only helpful to that certain extent....
in a few days, it would mark a year to the day i boarded a jet plane, leaving behind the man i thought i would marry, bringing home a heart too shattered to mend. I still don't understand why things turn out the way they did, why i was so blind to hang on to him and why he has to hurt me so. Whenever i try to think back, and find the answers to my question, my emotions, my mind just spiral downwards. For him, i've experienced the darkest times of my life. i don't want to go back to those days of sorrow and pain but now i wonder if i have to in order to truly let go and be over him.
i have to move on, cos after him, i had other heartaches in my life to sort out. i see getting over my ex and my past as the way to start the healing and end the pain. i want to be able to give my current other half what he deserves - my heart as a whole, beating healthily, not longer bleeding.
what show i do now? this sucks..................
Personally... Handling your own current problems would be of utmost importance because of their priority.. And also, having problems with them would probably give you more headaches which would slow you down in your ability to handle your past and accumulates your stress in the present....
Trying to understand why someone did something to you in a relationship... One of the 1st obstacles I've faced in my 1st relationship... Understand that a human's complex... And because of this complex nature and the many motives, it's often not very useful to understand why someone did something to you in the 1st place... Especially when the person's no longer with you...
Last piece of advice... It's never wise to let your past haunt you... Especially one not of its worth.. And if your current relationship's already as good as it is... There're people asking why they can't have a good relationship... Even you probably were one who had asked in the past... Now that it's here... Why don't you just treasure it...? Instead of hanging on to something awful? Doesn't matter what happened... Sometimes we have a choice... Just that we often just give it a miss...? -
thanks devil... that made senseOriginally posted by Devil1976: