China Pros... I am so scared of them...
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chock deeOriginally posted by M©+square:The current forum name is good. keep.
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i really pity your fren and her husband was stupidOriginally posted by Vonderful:Recently, a very close friend of mine just lost her husband to a china pros... Her husband was eating at Geylang when she was away for a holiday when a pros approached him... Initially he rejected, but she just sat down and told him that she's bored, just looking for someone to talk to...
That night they really just talked... But men are still men in some ways, he brought her home and well, you know, on the newly wedded couple's bed... After her wife found out thru his sms and such, she called the woman and pleaded with her to leave her husband...
And the china pros said to her that she won't leave her husband and she told the man that she doesn't mind sharing, but she wants him to divorce and make her the First Wife...
The man is like so head and heels over her and now he is filing a divorce with my friend... And when the pros hit my friend, and my friend pushed her back, her husband sided with the pros...
My friend asked for the flat, not out of greed but she wants to keep the flat so that when her husband gets cheated, (which she stronly believes would happen), at least her husband won't be left with nothing...
But the final statement the man said was," See? Now who wants my money?"
My question here is that why would anyone believe that someone would fly all the way here from China, pick you up from a coffee shop and love you for the rest of her life?
The man said it's Yuan Fen... (faint...)
He has been a good boyfriend for eight years... and his change really scares me... Are the women really so irresistible that you can stop loving the woman in your life altogether in such a short time?
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can i share your mom pls? hahahOriginally posted by missqi:yes.
a 90$ bra set.
she choose for me one!
and i pei her go shopping for pregnancy clothes.
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aiyo.
she very nice one.
not those pros....
tog with my daddy for 5 yrs le.... -
i wantOriginally posted by Vonderful:Come sayang... Me very sweet and sugary... But no money... You want?
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NPNTOriginally posted by FBI:i want (Learn from you all one...) -
ur avartar ish pic ;pOriginally posted by Vonderful:NPNT (Learn from you all one...)
or u saying him ? -
Originally posted by Vonderful:NPNT (Learn from you all one...)
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I asking for his la...Originally posted by molgax:ur avartar ish pic ;p
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good 4 yaOriginally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:Can't believe this happened, what a shame, the guy was losing his head (clearly lust over love)... Sincerely hope that the guy gets cheated off his money, then he will cry and beg the wife for forgiveness.
My dad is having a mistress too and I'll wait a few years to revenge on this, my investments are growing everyday and I'm doing my Masters now, which he is totally clueless about. I don't speak to him, I'm pissed off because he won't change and he don't keep his words. So when the time is riped, I'm going to get a big house just for my mum and myself. =)
I'm not living to chance for fate to punish my dad, I'm doing multiple jobs and biz to ensure it will happen. Sometimes work seems overwhelming but when I think about my future, it's all worth it.
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No Penis No Talk ???Originally posted by Vonderful:NPNT (Learn from you all one...)
Too bad all the good marriagable men in Singapore taken... -
Well the sword cuts 2 ways,obviously the husband has lost all sense of reasoning.And this can happen to both men n women not juz men alone.this is very sad.though most china women who come to s'pore will do anything for money,not all are so unscrupulous.lets not generalise.i feel sorry for her,only thing i can do is include her in my daily prayers.Originally posted by Vonderful:Recently, a very close friend of mine just lost her husband to a china pros... Her husband was eating at Geylang when she was away for a holiday when a pros approached him... Initially he rejected, but she just sat down and told him that she's bored, just looking for someone to talk to...
That night they really just talked... But men are still men in some ways, he brought her home and well, you know, on the newly wedded couple's bed... After her wife found out thru his sms and such, she called the woman and pleaded with her to leave her husband...
And the china pros said to her that she won't leave her husband and she told the man that she doesn't mind sharing, but she wants him to divorce and make her the First Wife...
The man is like so head and heels over her and now he is filing a divorce with my friend... And when the pros hit my friend, and my friend pushed her back, her husband sided with the pros...
My friend asked for the flat, not out of greed but she wants to keep the flat so that when her husband gets cheated, (which she stronly believes would happen), at least her husband won't be left with nothing...
But the final statement the man said was," See? Now who wants my money?"
My question here is that why would anyone believe that someone would fly all the way here from China, pick you up from a coffee shop and love you for the rest of her life?
The man said it's Yuan Fen... (faint...)
He has been a good boyfriend for eight years... and his change really scares me... Are the women really so irresistible that you can stop loving the woman in your life altogether in such a short time?
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of course mahOriginally posted by missqi:i know.
Don't stereotype China women har.
She is really very very nice.
at ist liddat mah,can wan to curry favor frm u mah -
me gt share anotOriginally posted by Vonderful:Come sayang... Me very sweet and sugary... But no money... You want? -
i really pity your friend...
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Timely wake-up call to all Singapore women who like to take things for granted..........
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there are intially good eating places with lots of customers thus the chicks go there, easier to get business ma..Originally posted by alexkusu:Have you noticed..
red light districts are good eating places? -
the guy is mad.
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You all play scissors paper stone first... More than three play o-ar-bi-ar-som...Originally posted by Chelzea:me gt share anot -
Originally posted by FBI:can i share your mom pls? hahah
You also want the $90 bra set?!?!?!?!?!?! 
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I don't discrimate china women, incl the pros... Some of their sob stories are true I believe... It takes a lot for omen to lose their pride this way...
The ones i am afraid of are those who would go all out to snatch... Sometimes even if you are the best wife on earth, you can also lose your husband to another woman because of lust... This is rather sad...
If a wife is not doing her duty well and the husband goes for a better choice, in this case, its a suck thumb situation... But when it's coz of a moment of folly and heat... It's really unfair to a wife who probably spent all her golden years with her hubby...
I know not all of them are bad, but I am just scared... Scared that I'm not that good, or my future's husband not that mentally strong... Things that are beyond my control freaks me out...
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Hey you green little thing... Cute... Pass you...Originally posted by kopiosatu: -
Originally posted by Vonderful:I don't discrimate china women, incl the pros... Some of their sob stories are true I believe... It takes a lot for omen to lose their pride this way...
The ones i am afraid of are those who would go all out to snatch... Sometimes even if you are the best wife on earth, you can also lose your husband to another woman because of lust... This is rather sad...
If a wife is not doing her duty well and the husband goes for a better choice, in this case, its a suck thumb situation... But when it's coz of a moment of folly and heat... It's really unfair to a wife who probably spent all her golden years with her hubby...
I know not all of them are bad, but I am just scared... Scared that I'm not that good, or my future's husband not that mentally strong... Things that are beyond my control freaks me out...
*** Thinking & worrying too much... But cant' help it... *** If someone wants to stray, he/she will stray even if there isn't a suitable candidate involved as a catalysis for straying.
If love isn't a question, this wouldn't even be a doubt. Your fear will materialise as reality if love is already a question in the first place.
It's not because he has met a slattern woman from China; it's because of his desire to stray. The same story can be retold by changing the identity of the woman and you would have the same effect.
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Hmm... so do you mean that if a man won't stray, even if a pros tempt him, and i'm talking about those ith really nice skin, face and figure... he still won't stray?Originally posted by Yunhaier: If someone wants to stray, he/she will stray even if there isn't a suitable candidate involved as a catalysis for straying.
If love isn't a question, this wouldn't even be a doubt. Your fear will materialise as reality if love is already a question in the first place.
It's not because he has met a slattern woman from China; it's because of his desire to stray. The same story can be retold by changing the identity of the woman and you would have the same effect.
Cheers
(Actually my fears exist coz i have seen real pretty ones.. And i even joked with my friends," I wanna be pros also cannot, see they so pretty, sure no business...") -
Originally posted by Vonderful:Hmm... so do you mean that if a man won't stray, even if a pros tempt him, and i'm talking about those ith really nice skin, face and figure... he still won't stray?
(Actually my fears exist coz i have seen real pretty ones.. And i even joked with my friends," I wanna be pros also cannot, see they so pretty, sure no business...") Art of seduction speaks about stirring needs - if there isn't a pseudo-need created by the seducer, there will be no 'market' for her to tap upon.
You are measuring love based purely on physical attractiveness and if your man's love can easily vacillate because of that factor, then I doubt his love is even geniune in the first place because there will always be better looking ladies around.
So what if the relationship was eight years?
It probably took her that number of years to realise that side of him, which I am quite certain she probably has seen that 'side' before, but casted that notion aside because it belongs to the 'unthinkable'.
The truth is that love doesn't change overnight - there are gnawing dissatisfaction trapped within his psyche, which soured the love he has for her and this is unknown to the wife. The wife probably reckon that their relationship must be loving because it has been eight years, but failed to understand the reality of the man's love for her.
Length of relationship speaks NOTHING about the relationship.
The slattern woman is merely a catalysis and in order for the catalysis to have any effect, he must be in that condition where he is receptive and reactive to the catalysis. If that isn't present, the catalysis has absolutely no effect - somewhat like oil and water - there do not mix.
Cheers