Cheated on BF with his good friend last night...
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OH MAN, OK I REALLY GOT YOUR POINT.Originally posted by boka:I'M 18 AND I'M NOT BEING A SUPER SAINT.
I HAVE A PERSONAL CODE WHICH I ABIDE TO.
ANOTHER OPTION FOR U IS..
IF ONE DAY YOUR BF HAVE AN AFFIAR OUTSIDE,U MUST FORGIVE HIM AND THAT JUSTIFICATION WOULD STEM FROM YUR PAST ACTIONS.
FAIR?
CUZ I HATE IT WHEN THERE IS NO JUSTICE.
BUT I STILL HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU DEFINITELY DIDN'T ADMIT TO EVERY SINGLE MISTAKES YOU'D DONE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, SO PLZZZZZZZZZZZ DUN SOUND LIKE YOU R SOOOOOO UP FOR JUSTICE LA...
ALRIGHT LET'S STOP THIS...
I WOULD REALLY HAVE APPREACIATED YOUR POSTS IF YOUR CAPS LOCK BUTTON WASN'T DOWN AND DIDN'T QNS MY UPBRINGING.
18 IS STILL A BED OF ROSES LA... WHEN YOU GROW OLDER, YOU KNOW... -
TRUE THAT I DIDN'T ADMIT ALL MISTAKES WHEN I WAS YOUNGER BUT THATS WAS WHEN I WAS IN NUSERY AND PRIMARY SCHOOL.Originally posted by guilt-stricken:OH MAN, OK I REALLY GOT YOUR POINT.
BUT I STILL HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU DEFINITELY DIDN'T ADMIT TO EVERY SINGLE MISTAKES YOU'D DONE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, SO PLZZZZZZZZZZZ DUN SOUND LIKE YOU R SOOOOOO UP FOR JUSTICE LA...
ALRIGHT LET'S STOP THIS...
I WOULD REALLY HAVE APPREACIATED YOUR POSTS IF YOUR CAPS LOCK BUTTON WASN'T DOWN AND DIDN'T QNS MY UPBRINGING.
18 IS STILL A BED OF ROSES LA... WHEN YOU GROW OLDER, YOU KNOW...
YES I'M UP FOR JUSTICE AND MORAL BECAUSE IT IS MY PRIDE AND I LOVE WATCHING HOW EVIL PEOPLE WHINCE IN PAIN AND GUILT WITH THEIR SOUL BEING CORRODED.
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OK LIAO LA...Originally posted by boka:TRUE THAT I DIDN'T ADMIT ALL MISTAKES WHEN I WAS YOUNGER BUT THATS WAS WHEN I WAS IN NUSERY AND PRIMARY SCHOOL.
YES I'M UP FOR JUSTICE AND MORAL BECAUSE IT IS MY PRIDE AND I LOVE WATCHING HOW EVIL PEOPLE WHINCE IN PAIN AND GUILT WITH THEIR SOUL BEING CORRODED.
PLEASURE
BELIEVE YOU... YOU ARE 1/100000000 WHO DOESN'T LIE ABOUT YOUR MISTAKES SINCE YOU PAST 12 YEARS OLD... AND YOU WON'T CORRODE AND BURN IN HELL LIKE WHAT YOU SAID LA... YOU R PERFECT SIA...
GRATZ... I TRULY BELIEVE YOU.
BTW, I REST MY CASE. NOT COMING BACK TO THE THREAD LIAO... -
REALLY PATHETIC SLUT WHO WANT TO GET AROUND WITH EXCUSES.
IT'S NO WONDER SINGAPORE GALS ARE SUCH AN EYESORE TO ME.
DRESS UP EXTRAVAGANTLY BUT POSSESS MANNER AND ACTIONS SO ROTTEN. -
hey boka,
TS made a mistake, we & her all know that it wasn't right. Yes her BF ought to know about it. Assumingly we're in his shoes, we would definately wanna know if our other half isn't cheating right.
I guess TS will tell in due time
Hey TS, from the looks of this R/S, u are the person giving in.....and i guess the reason that the few of us are asking you to break the R/S was the fact that ur BF isn't understanding your needs totally.
I mean TOTALLY......
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She got pwned.Originally posted by de_middle:hey boka,
TS made a mistake, we & her all know that it wasn't right. Yes her BF ought to know about it. Assumingly we're in his shoes, we would definately wanna know if our other half isn't cheating right.
I guess TS will tell in due time
Hey TS, from the looks of this R/S, u are the person giving in.....and i guess the reason that the few of us are asking you to break the R/S was the fact that ur BF isn't understanding your needs totally.
I mean TOTALLY...... -
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nv tell you bf about this! Trust me ... If you are not going to do it again anymore ... DUN NOT TELL HIM! Think of the bright side, at least nothing else happened. (s3x)
White lie. But it will be hunting you forever. Jia you! NEVER do it again.
If i am ur bf and i know this, 2 outcome
1 - We will break off
2 - i say nvm, dun do it again. But the real thing is it will be always there hunting me and i will completely lost trust in you! Next time i go oversea travel again, my mind will any run and things will eventually turn bad. Break. -
Just laxing laxing la. Your words look better when not in caps.Originally posted by boka:She got pwned. -
boka, have u served the army yet? If u tell the truth in the army sometimes, u can get killed before u know it. And using caps locks is definitely not the way to talk or argue. It puts u in bad light before others, and it does not get your point across perfectly.
To TS:
Somehow this sounds reasonable
The number 2 is a very strong point. He knows that he cannot satisfy ur sexual needs because u told him so, and admitting it will definitely put a very very very big dent on his ego. Just the mention of getting a vibrator has already made him mad, what about this...? But then again, if you bf neglect ur needs time and again, would it think it that way?Originally posted by Rustyhong:If i am ur bf and i know this, 2 outcome
1 - We will break off
2 - i say nvm, dun do it again. But the real thing is it will be always there hunting me and i will completely lost trust in you! Next time i go oversea travel again, my mind will any run and things will eventually turn bad. Break. -
I have not serve the army.Originally posted by eagle:boka, have u served the army yet? If u tell the truth in the army sometimes, u can get killed before u know it. And using caps locks is definitely not the way to talk or argue. It puts u in bad light before others, and it does not get your point across perfectly.
To TS:
Somehow this sounds reasonable
The number 2 is a very strong point. He knows that he cannot satisfy ur sexual needs because u told him so, and admitting it will definitely put a very very very big dent on his ego. Just the mention of getting a vibrator has already made him mad, what about this...? But then again, if you bf neglect ur needs time and again, would it think it that way?
Sorry i'm not a super saint but i believe in justice which is part of the personal code i adhere to and even thought my code is rigt,people like this gals will never admit to their actions.
If i do something wrong then i myself will seek to be punish.
Get killed?
don't matter i will have my way of telling the truth and getting that person back. -
Biatch!!
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Get killed and not even knowing who "killed" u, or even if u know, it might be some big shot that if u try to get back, u will suffer more...Originally posted by boka:I have not serve the army.
Sorry i'm not a super saint but i believe in justice which is part of the personal code i adhere to and even thought my code is rigt,people like this gals will never admit to their actions.
If i do something wrong then i myself will seek to be punish.
Get killed?
don't matter i will have my way of telling the truth and getting that person back.
U must be flexible to survive in this world. Being totally truthful does not help in our competitive society
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Vonderful?
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agreed.Originally posted by eagle:Get killed and not even knowing who "killed" u, or even if u know, it might be some big shot that if u try to get back, u will suffer more...
U must be flexible to survive in this world. Being totally truthful does not help in our competitive society -
Not me
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Phew.... i almost got drowned in capslock... gd to see smaller prints now...
To those who understand how i really feel, you would understand my dilemma...
Decision would be much more easier if i don't love him anymore... coz i can simply tell him what happened without bothering how he would feel or think about me and our relationship in future and get on with my life, leaving him to rot on his own...
But fact is, i love this man. I am sorry and by telling him, i know that things will never be the same again... It's a very sticky situation regarding to tell or not to tell...
We all know that honesty is the best policy, but how many can deny that sometimes, honesty can break you too...
I am not trying to justify my decision to keep it from him, in fact, i really have the urge to kneel down in front of him to say im terribly sorry...
But i have already hurt him (silently) with what i had done, i really don't know how to hurt him further with the cold hard truth... (Ok i know someone's going to say im trying to sound like im doing my bf a favour by keeping it from him...)
Like i said, it would be so much easier if i had a change of heart and don't want to be with him anymore... Then perhaps i can just admit it and even get away with a nonchalent manner," So what? You can't give me so i get from someone else lor..." -
I noe of many friends who cheated but all males lah...
Anyway, since u have already made yr decision, then I guess u wont risk hurting yr bf anymore... A great deal of yr sacriface though...
May this thread and yr incident be forgotten then >< -
no intercourse. no matter.
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If he doesn't know, you have not hurt him yet. One day, even you will forget about this incident. It is probably easier to tell him so that you do not feel so guilty. The act of telling him is probably more cruel than your indiscretion. Please don't make a mountain out of a molehill and deal with this wisely, calmly and objectively.Originally posted by guilt-stricken:But i have already hurt him (silently) with what i had done, i really don't know how to hurt him further with the cold hard truth... (Ok i know someone's going to say im trying to sound like im doing my bf a favour by keeping it from him...) -
OK SO NEXT TIME FEEL FREE TO COMMIT ANY WRONG ACTS-HAVE AN AFFIARS,MURDER,STEAL AND THEN TELL YOURSELF IT'S OK,IGNORANCE IS A BLISS.
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Kids nowadays.... still in a bed of roses...... Honestly your comments are not called for here coz i dun take you seriously like an adult... you do not think like one...Originally posted by boka:OK SO NEXT TIME FEEL FREE TO COMMIT ANY WRONG ACTS-HAVE AN AFFIARS,MURDER,STEAL AND THEN TELL YOURSELF IT'S OK,IGNORANCE IS A BLISS.
And yeah, im not perfect...
As much as you wanted to appear upright, mature in your decisions and stuff, ironically, you are the only one i do not respect here.
So say what you want to say, coz i had been 18, and i know what comes out of the mouth of an 18 Just coz you passed the legal smoking age doesn't mean anything, dude...
When your attitude sucks, people only hear your attitude and not what you say, so why bother typing when all i can read are capital letters and not words?
Relax child, you dun have to get so unnecessarily tensed.
If you want to be treated like an adult, first, talk like one at least. -
I change my language to the different audiences.Originally posted by guilt-stricken:Kids nowadays.... still in a bed of roses...... Honestly your comments are not called for here coz i dun take you seriously like an adult... you do not think like one...
And yeah, im not perfect...
As much as you wanted to appear upright, mature in your decisions and stuff, ironically, you are the only one i do not respect here.
So say what you want to say, coz i had been 18, and i know what comes out of the mouth of an 18 Just coz you passed the legal smoking age doesn't mean anything, dude...
When your attitude sucks, people only hear your attitude and not what you say, so why bother typing when all i can read are capital letters and not words?
Relax child, you dun have to get so unnecessarily tensed.
If you want to be treated like an adult, first, talk like one at least.
So don't expect me or anyone is any case to offer u respect.
U did something wrong and u cheated on your guy.
Putting it in a hideous way,your a SLU.T
And there's really no need to use your age as a bargaining chip because i don't see how number equates to responsibilty and intelligence.
if responsiblity and intelligence is wholey related to age then you must be lying about your god dam age since u tunnel your way around excuses.
Your respect,the lack of it is of no concern to me.
Spare me the disgust of being respected by someone so dirty as you.
I don't care wheather u read my post or not,my main point is t get it across to the other readers so they will know what ugly upbringings u have. -
LOLOriginally posted by boka:I change my language to the different audiences.
So don't expect me or anyone is any case to offer u respect.
U did something wrong and u cheated on your guy.
Putting it in a hideous way,your a SLU.T
And there's really no need to use your age as a bargaining chip because i don't see how number equates to responsibilty and intelligence.
if responsiblity and intelligence is wholey related to age then you must be lying about your god dam age since u tunnel your way around excuses.
I don't care wheather u read my post or not,my main point is t get it across to the other readers so they will know what ugly upbringings u have -
lol..l tink what u say abt her is a bit too much la...-_-"Originally posted by boka:I change my language to the different audiences.
So don't expect me or anyone is any case to offer u respect.
U did something wrong and u cheated on your guy.
Putting it in a hideous way,your a SLU.T
And there's really no need to use your age as a bargaining chip because i don't see how number equates to responsibilty and intelligence.
if responsiblity and intelligence is wholey related to age then you must be lying about your god dam age since u tunnel your way around excuses.
Your respect,the lack of it is of no concern to me.
Spare me the disgust of being respected by someone so dirty as you.
I don't care wheather u read my post or not,my main point is t get it across to the other readers so they will know what ugly upbringings u have.
but at least she is honest enuf to admit her faults, and l tink that is sumtinz to be praised of..
u can juz offer ur own opinions, but dun make it into flamin ppl, okays?