I was rejected .....cuz of my damn figure
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most people do look a lot different in photo and in person... so can't blame her...Originally posted by Mel Carter:i am 1.76 m but somehow I find her very hypocrite cuz I told her I am like that on the phone but she says she don't mind anything and willing to be with me but after the first meeting that's it ......end of game ....She told me if you become big size then I go with you with a .......you know that kinda look ....eyes on the head -
skinny n fat both have hard time trying to change body shape.... fat pple wanna lose weight...skinny pple wanna gain them....haiz....i give up trying to change myself....u should be e same....be confident with who u r.... at least u dun look like a heavy weight wrestler who shrunk to e miserable height of 1.67m.....
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everybody has a certain standard or criteria that they look for in terms of appearance or other things... so u people shdn't criticize her as being shallow or superficial...
it all depends on ur preferences and wat u deemed as important...
take for example a girl A who choose an ugly guy over others as her bf, giving the reason that he is less likely to stray around or betray her... is she considered as a person with a lot of depth then? is she truely in love with the guy in this case? or just simply wants security?
wat's the difference if i say i want a gf with big breasts? am i more superficial than girl A?
at the very least i am still attracted by my gf's breasts ok!
girl A might not even like her bf! -
eat much exercises much sleep much drink milk
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Maybe
she cheated by a *bambo-stick male previoulsy ...
that's why now SIAM such people...
It should be just her mindset la...
Well, in a forest there are may trees la ... dun despair
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Or maybe she was robbed once, and her thin bf couldn't help her .....Originally posted by winnerss:Maybe she cheated by a *bambo-stick male previoulsy ...
Anyway, she's entitled to her own opinions. She just wasn't tactful enough when putting the message across.
She'll learn .... -
you sound like me... but i dun haf a life... so i never had a gf...
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at least u dun look like a heavy weight wrestler who shrunk to e miserable height of 1.67m.....
Oh god... wrestling... do you people watch that rubbish with the fantasies that one day you will also grow that big and strong and macho?you sound like me... but i dun haf a life... so i never had a gf...
Same
A fat bf would not be able to chase aftet the robber. A thin bf would be able to and be more agile in fighting.
Or maybe she was robbed once, and her thin bf couldn't help her .....
You people put too much emphasis on size, size does not matter, it is experience and wisdom in using your body that counts! -
Originally posted by men_@_arms:A fat bf would not be able to chase aftet the robber. A thin bf would be able to and be more agile in fighting.
You people put too much emphasis on size, size does not matter, it is experience and wisdom in using your body that counts! ANd you should not worry too much if you get rejected based on your figure, a figure is something you can change. Some of us get rejected because of our race. -
yeap true... infact nobody can guard against armed robbers anyway... cos singapore dun allow us to carrry guns around?
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Mel Carter,
I am 168cm and 47 kgs, I bought protien and carbo 2 tubs each, 1 set at home and 1 set in the ofiice, mix both and drink after lunch and dinner for 2 weeks I put on 3 kgs, but I stop during SARS.
Don't worry over skinny, from 15yrs old till now I never run out of girlfriends though they complain I skinny but I always got free treat from them because they want me to look better to suits them.
So please look at the bright side, think positive and be cheerful show them your other good points, I sure you won't want other to just know you are skinny, no confident and negative thinking.
try my method fro 3 month non stop, 4 tubs a month cost you $160 at GNC, I think 3 month later you will come to forum to complain you too fat no girls want you. -
be careful how u eat also
wait stomach grow rest of body never change
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eh? thin not good mehz? hhahaha..my boyfriend also very thin...168cm...55kg?
thin is so damn sexy.
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[color=red][size=large]Too skinny ?
Too fat ?
Take a look at this standardisation !
Height..........Ideal Weight
1.5 m.......... 39 kg
1.6 m.......... 49 kg
1.65 m.......... 54 kg
1.70m............59 kg
1.75m..........64 kg
1.80m..........69 kg
Formula : Take heights in metres form , and minus off 1.11 !
The balance should be the ideal weight of man only ! Woman has their own standard ! Cheers ! -
CIALAT .... i'm 1.8m and i'm 75kgs ... i guess my friend is correct about me .... fat ass ......Originally posted by Poolman:[color=red][size=large]Too skinny ?
1.80m..........69 kg
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Me too thin also.
But heck care what others think. It's not your problem, it's their problem.
you're happy , they're not.
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I am 1.80 and 74kg. I don't feel fat, but looks like I have to go on a diet.Originally posted by eutjin:CIALAT .... i'm 1.8m and i'm 75kgs ... i guess my friend is correct about me .... fat ass ...... 
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Thin or fat is not god-act one ! It's likely related to family's gene !
As long as one leads a healthy life-style , less alcohol , less curry-fish head , less night-lifes , less cigarettes , no drugs please.....so what they're thin ?
And more exercise will help too !
Most important....[color=red]LOTS OF SEX ! [/i] -
hi bro mel, dun worry...me also very skinny. 171cm and 55kg. last time worst, only 45kg. just keep on eating and training....i put on 10kg in 3yrs. (but thk now stagnant liao)
i know how u feel, we are on the same boat... also kanna rejected by girls because too skinny, worse still, not very good-looking and dun even know how to sweet talk. Anyway, dun be inferior, be more confident. A guy with confident can overcome lots of obstacles. Train for urself not for others, forget abt her. girls are ofter realistic...
Frankily speaking, i dun even have any gf before., not even now......just take it easy... its not the end of the world. sooner or later, fate will approach.... -
Take more protein-induced food and exercise. Ur mass will improve after a while.
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the thing is, she may love you, but having sense of security or not is another issue.
my thinking is, for a girl to feel such in a guy, he should either be well-built or rich, having both is perfect.
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The real thing you should do
Is ask yourself if you want a girl like that?
what if somewhere along the way
she complains your too fat? -
damn.... some guys have all the luck... regardless of what i try, i'm still stuck in this pudgy figure....Originally posted by Mel Carter:I recently met a girl on the internet and we get along on the phone very very well and we chat non stop you know ..We exchange picture she is not bad looking and she says I am good looking in the pic ....And one day we decided to meet , ha ha this thing happen she seems very disappointed but kept quiet but I can tell ....She agreed to be my GF on the phone and well ...you know.....She says I am too skinny and she got no sense of security being with me .......Oh no what have I done wrong please can anyone tell me ? I know I am skinny and I am only 51 kg you know I feel so inferior of myself for being so skinny I wanna cry ..She really broke my heart that time ....It still hurts now help Do girls really go for looks ??? But how can I gain weight no matter what i eat i am still so skinny like a stick
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Originally posted by edseeker31:
What do you mean huh ??? I am in luck ?? You must be kidding I am so skinny and normally skinny have no say in the crowd only those big and muscular guys have the say ...Hey I am skinny and I know that ok
[b]damn.... some guys have all the luck... regardless of what i try, i'm still stuck in this pudgy figure.... [/b] -
[color=red][size=large]Skinny and so call fat or mascular people has one thing very different - Skinny people tends to be longer or bigger when erected !
Agree ? Skinny people ?
[b]This is something when I went Army then I know ! You know la , army time , when we bath , all bath together , right ?
So came one day , one cold rainy day , when we bath , we tends to tease each other , see who has the longer "version' when erected ( it's easy to get erected base on the weather ! )
So , guess the results ? The Pex A , so call fit fella , like 4D result , all came "Consolations" and "Starters" , the Top-3 happened to be our Skinniest Lobo cum Bobo shooter , second one is so skinny that he can do 12 Pull-ups without sweat , 'cos he's so light-weight ! The third , hmm-hmm.......
So , that gal , tsk tsk tsk...she will regret !