This good good GAL and its just ME
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300th REPLY... V
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bro...no offence ah...but before i slap the shit out of u...pls wake up ur idea. i dun u read thru all the 13 pages here first. tell me, if u were anyone of us how would u feel.Originally posted by nightyoung:Do you guys think its ok to let her know about this thread when i leave??
i dun mind giving u advise and such but pls do realise one thing. u are putting ur self into this situation. like i told u many posts ago, u have 2 choice. to grab her or to let her go. choose.
love is blind and selfish.
let me tell u my story.
i used to have a gf for 4 years. we suffered thru her studying overseas for 1 and a half but both of us still remind faithful to the other. sex was a 1 in every 4-6 mths thing.
after she came back, things were very diff. hence we decided to part. i wasted all that time when i could have had a new one when she was away, but nevermind.
after awhile, my heart was torn into many pieces and i couldn't do with out her. she for some reason has managed to move on. still meet her often for coffee, supper and movies as she stays only 5 mins from me.
i had a choice, to try to get her back or to just let it be. i was really suffering. still am. but she once told me this. quote "1 person suffer better then both suffer together" i dunno whether she is suffering but i know i am. but i do not want her to suffer. so i keep it to my self and move on.
that was my choice.
the moral of the story is that u have to realise that the mind and the heart are not sync. making ur self do the rite thing may not always be wat ur heart tells u to do.
so pls decide and pls keep to it. the mind can do wonders. i'm telling you, i have been reading this thread long enough to know that u can get her if u want. there is no use telling her u love her and want to be with her. u can tell her 101 times and its not goin to change shit. ur actions are the ones that count.
i have moved on, enjoying the fact that i pick up girls every weekend. but still with that empty feeling in me.
move on.
oh yah...go read "who moved my cheese" its a damn solid book, and it changed me after i read it.
and i really hope you are screwing her or else all of this actions and feelings are really a waste. -
Thanks dude..... and all the guys... i met her today and told her everything...
everything... but i haven speak the 3 words.. she knows it already.. and she cried.. i think maybe i did it all wrong... i dun know... and we chat for quite long till 2am....then i gave her the farewell kiss...
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so what? means what?
hey u!! why never say?????
man no wonder dodo will want to slap u!!
i also want to slap u.. the 3 words hard to say meh? hm.. its just a thin line there lor if u cant say i love u, than say i hate u.. that makes ur life better trust me.
infact, u dash all the way till 47% and than u stop there.. u failed again.
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its kinda of indirect way of saying.. she knows it already.. but now i dun know.. hahaOriginally posted by lolsuck:so what? means what?
hey u!! why never say?????
man no wonder dodo will want to slap u!!
i also want to slap u.. the 3 words hard to say meh? hm.. its just a thin line there lor if u cant say i love u, than say i hate u.. that makes ur life better trust me.
infact, u dash all the way till 47% and than u stop there.. u failed again.
today i sent her messages that i want to meet her but she called and said will be late.. about 2am.. but it was going to rain.. and the thought of my mind just keep saying that she will be back so at around 10 plus i leave the house with an umbrella waiting...after a while she called and we chat. for to short while.. and i am meeting her again for dinner with her friend at the workplace tomorrow...
when she said dun wait for her she going to be late.. i was very confused.. i thought she didn't want to see me again.. and i thought i can't go without her.. then i package supper for my parents and on the way home..saw those mini cake selling at 7-eleven.. those mooncake in the plastic case one.. so i bought it and went to her house and hang it on the bicycle near the door..
I am in already.. no turning back
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You the counter?? 1...2.3....300?Originally posted by Devil1976:300th REPLY... V -
its like paying $ for studies..
option 1. dont start at all
option 2. if u start.. and go all the way.. regardless of pass or fail.. u still went for all lesson and took the exam.. no win or lose..
option 3. if u start half way and decided to withdraw from school.. u will not be given back your money and u will lose out..
so since u are in the middle of it.. go all out man!!! please!! -
today i was supposed to meet her and her friend but in the end.. her friend cannot make it and she wants to cancel the meeting.. but i sms her saying that i want to meet her.. but then my sis they all join in.... it was like so weird ... hahaha any way, we had a good time and i accompanied her back to classes.. and waited for her class to be over.. i send her home..
on the way back we talked alot.. she asked me if the two of us were to go hongkong will i go.. then i say.. if i can take leave and i will go..
then on the way back.. she said why i like reaction so slow.. before she go.. i said wait.. and she shy like want to laugh.. i think maybe she thought i want to kiss her but i pass her something.. oops. i forgot to kiss her.. but i love her -
so romantic. i was in similar situation like few mths back. she had a bf of 3 yrs almost abt to break etc. then my fren ask me jio her or smt. then i tried, turns up that my that fren double cross me. -_- end up blardy confusing. lol.
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which friend double cross you???Originally posted by tSuYOshi:so romantic. i was in similar situation like few mths back. she had a bf of 3 yrs almost abt to break etc. then my fren ask me jio her or smt. then i tried, turns up that my that fren double cross me. -_- end up blardy confusing. lol. -
the fren hu ask me to jio the ger. he was my FYP group member. n we were like known each other since yr 1 etc. same class etc.
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Hmm.... your friend ask you to jio the ger.. and what is it that double cross you?Originally posted by tSuYOshi:the fren hu ask me to jio the ger. he was my FYP group member. n we were like known each other since yr 1 etc. same class etc. -
he went to jio the ger oso. n pretend like nothing happen when we c each other in sch everyday.
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he did it before you?? or is it he ask you then you got no reaction then he thought you dun want so he take the actionOriginally posted by tSuYOshi:he went to jio the ger oso. n pretend like nothing happen when we c each other in sch everyday. -
haha bastard act..
my good once good friend.. whom i often help him on school stuffs told me he will help me to get close to the ger i like and even called her infront of me to ask her to a movie on behalf of me..
end up he try to jio the ger also.. then the ger came to tell me hahaha..
this kind of good friend.. end up good friend snatch your girl first..
i think that when u help a person, u indirectly harming another person.. and that another person might be urself. -
today..she msg me.. and asked me to called her..hehe
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the world not so innocent as u tink leh -_-'. he still noes i after her. yet he wans to go after. to think sometimes i seek his advice.Originally posted by nightyoung:he did it before you?? or is it he ask you then you got no reaction then he thought you dun want so he take the action -
today i said i want to meet her but she said she very tired.. then i went to sleep... while i was trying to sleep.. she sms me to meet her at her block.. she pass me a few things she won in the lucky draw and i pass her the book for keeping a record of words she encountered and wants to check the dictionary and record it down .. it was A-Z divided.. inside the letter L .. i wrote Love-a strong feeling of fondess for another person...
and i just ask her to flip to that page when she's free.. -
U ARE REALLY SLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by nightyoung:today i was supposed to meet her and her friend but in the end.. her friend cannot make it and she wants to cancel the meeting.. but i sms her saying that i want to meet her.. but then my sis they all join in.... it was like so weird ... hahaha any way, we had a good time and i accompanied her back to classes.. and waited for her class to be over.. i send her home..
on the way back we talked alot.. she asked me if the two of us were to go hongkong will i go.. then i say.. if i can take leave and i will go..
then on the way back.. she said why i like reaction so slow.. before she go.. i said wait.. and she shy like want to laugh.. i think maybe she thought i want to kiss her but i pass her something.. oops. i forgot to kiss her.. but i love her
ok i suggest that u follow my words to the word and do them.
1) the next time u meet her, as u walk, just hold her bloody hand willya. she will hold on for only a short while but will let go soon. she will bring it up later in the question " y did u hold my hand" answer along the line, cos i wanted to and dun ever want to let go.
2) as u find a place to sit and talk (which i believe u have always been doing) inch ur self closer and closer to her. once u cant get any closer face also become closer and closer. then wait for the moment then kiss her. dun be a dick and pull out cos ur balls are in ur mouth.
3) walk her up. she might tell u no need. tell her u want to. in the lift pls hug her and kiss her. dun chicken out.
4) this one is a risk but u weigh whether can take. if u have already done 1 and 2 this one confirm can do. but must see situation. hug her as u are waiting for some shit or has she is standing over a railling or something. from the back ah.
5) lastly, if u have been able to complete at least 3 out of 4, when u send her to her door step, hug and kiss her, tell her u cant bare to part with her, and cant wait to see her again. based on her response, ask her to be ur gf. tell her u want to be with her forever, ur heart is aching just knowing that this wonderful day is coming to an end, cant bare to ........ u know wat i mean.
bro,
pls. if u do all of this and she doesn't return in kind, then you know wat to do.
oh ya, dun expect her to give you a direct answer to the qns of gf, tell her dun need to give u an answer now and that u can wait as you have been already waiting all awhile.
then the next time u meet her, do the above steps 1-4 again. if the results are positive she is already urs.
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last sat we met and i already confessed. she told me she already brought up the topic of breaking with her bf.. but her bf dun want and she wants her to give her a week's time... she said one week dun contact her.. dun see her..
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She is just seeing which option works out for her.
If she and her current bf can work things out, you will be left out of the equation. But if she and the bf don't work things out, then she might just consider you....but on a rebound...which is kind of dangerous. I think you should just cool things down alittle...and let your life return to normal and don't let it revolve around her cause if she stops seeing you, you got to learn to live without her...thats a fact. Why don't you try to let her live without you...see how she feels, if she don't feel a thing....then I guess theres no point in carrying on with her.... -
sorry to burst your balloon, but i think shes sorting things with her boyfriend,if things can work.. you will be left out. Else she will come for you. Does she really love you or she just enjoy you to love her and dote her and accompany her when she needs you? i dont know for you to find out bro.I hope she really loves you.
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wat the other bros say has truth in wat they say but to all, pls note that quote : she told me she already brought up the topic of breaking with her bf.Originally posted by nightyoung:last sat we met and i already confessed. she told me she already brought up the topic of breaking with her bf.. but her bf dun want and she wants her to give her a week's time... she said one week dun contact her.. dun see her..
i feel very bad...
thats the key sentence.
in other words she already wants to break up with the loser bf for a reason. whether its for our bro here we dun know. only she will know.
actually most gals wont break up with their bfs for small reasons. and usually when the bf doesn't want to let go, they will just give in, not forcing their way thru.
bro nightyoung,
give her the week she ask for. if she doesn't call u, you got ur answer, if she does, dun need to ask wat happened, she will either tell u her self or u can go with my advise in my last posting.
other fellow bros, in my opinion, if the bf breaks up with her, then she wants to work things out with the bf then when things dun work out then she goes for our bro here, then he really is a rebound. but she is the one whom wants to break. hence the situation is not so simple in my view. -
this my first so called love life and i didn't expect it to be so complicated
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I dont' believe this... This is still going on...
THIS HAS TO BE THE MOST TALKED ABOUT POST ITS EVER BEEN...
WA... ENVY LEH....
This can be complied into a book already....
If there is ever a prize for the longest, this one is a sure winner... started when I was a teenager and now that I've become lao kok kok, its still going on... If things were going the way of this chap, he'd have married the gal and have some kids by now...