This good good GAL and its just ME
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hiya bro..
exactly the same situation i'm in here at the moment.. only diff is dat she n i both knw dat we like each other.. juz dat she still can't get over her ex.. i been waiting for her for slightly over a year now..
Good Luck to us both.. *cheers*
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Originally posted by edseeker31:
somehow this has become my personal blog with good ppl here to give me advices.. you can see how one hearted and faithful to her.. as to this forum
[b]I dont' believe this... This is still going on...
THIS HAS TO BE THE MOST TALKED ABOUT POST ITS EVER BEEN...
WA... ENVY LEH....
This can be complied into a book already....
If there is ever a prize for the longest, this one is a sure winner... started when I was a teenager and now that I've become lao kok kok, its still going on... If things were going the way of this chap, he'd have married the gal and have some kids by now... [/b] -
Yesterday night.. i dreamt that we cannot be together in the dreams and i creid in my dreams.. when i woke up.. tears also flowed..
this morning.. i took half day leave just to see her again..although we promise not to contact each other for a week.
i try to tell her how i feel again.. and also i told her i will be leaving for biz trip so its gonna be more than a week...
i told that i had lost her once before and i can't lost her this time,,
but she still say i promised to give her a week.. ya.. that's what i promised her.. i accompanied her to her workplace that time .. i so happy to see her but when i returned to office after my half day leave was over, i couldn't concentrate at all.. its very miserable.. i tried to act strong but somehow i am different inside out
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take care my nite young bro
i`ve gone way beyond words wat i need to say and feel for u -
Hi DodoBirdie... I really like your straight to the point and direct approach...
For our brother here, after 1 week when u meet her
Just tell me .. and like what bro Dodobirdie said... hold her hand and if not kiss her straight on the lips and tell her that "I really really love you alot"...
The rest up to fate already lah -
Day 1.. another miserable day for me
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bro...i know that waiting can be a very painful thing. i've been thru it. it hurts like hell. the feeling of can but cannot. cant think but still thinking. but there's one thing i learnt from all of it. that is the more u think the worst u feel.Originally posted by nightyoung:Day 1.. another miserable day for me
there was once that i managed to do this. was so hard up over my last gf that every weekend was a horror. then my friend intro me to this other gal and we hitted off quite well. although we didn't get together, i was able to put my mind else where and it didn't hurt cos i wasn't thinking of her.
moral of the story, get something or someone to get ur attention for this week. the more attention u spend there, the less u hurt.
*everything in life is like math. math is also reflected on a weighing scale. everything is a balance that equals to the value 1. if one side is too big or heavy, the other will not balance. -
bro, i feel for him and cant bare to see another man go thru it. been there done that. hence i feel the best advise i can give him is direct, to the dot instructions.Originally posted by freeod1e:Hi DodoBirdie... I really like your straight to the point and direct approach...
For our brother here, after 1 week when u meet her
Just tell me .. and like what bro Dodobirdie said... hold her hand and if not kiss her straight on the lips and tell her that "I really really love you alot"...
The rest up to fate already lah
but not everyone likes that. not even me. just pray he understands wat i'm saying and get to the end pt soon. -
the end pt??
I dun know.. where's the end pt...
today i almost cried for 2 times already... -
currently u are at a T junction. take either roads its still goin to be difficult. only thing is that one(the one u try to get her back) has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.Originally posted by nightyoung:the end pt??
I dun know.. where's the end pt...
today i almost cried for 2 times already...
the end pt is the end of either roads. either get over it by using someone or something to take ur mind off her or go with ur heart, play the cards rite and u score. -
Originally posted by edseeker31:
You sure this the longest post in the forum this year???
[b]I dont' believe this... This is still going on...
THIS HAS TO BE THE MOST TALKED ABOUT POST ITS EVER BEEN...
WA... ENVY LEH....
This can be complied into a book already....
If there is ever a prize for the longest, this one is a sure winner... started when I was a teenager and now that I've become lao kok kok, its still going on... If things were going the way of this chap, he'd have married the gal and have some kids by now... [/b] -
Thanks.. what do you mean by:Originally posted by Dodobirdie:currently u are at a T junction. take either roads its still goin to be difficult. only thing is that one(the one u try to get her back) has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.
the end pt is the end of either roads. either get over it by using someone or something to take ur mind off her or go with ur heart, play the cards rite and u score.
has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.
I dun understand your meaning..... -
Hai...back to my problem...Now she seems to distance herself away from me...She used to call me almost every night to chat but laterly she doesn't do that anymore...I wonder is because she is tired from work or she started to distance herself from me...Kind of feel empty when she stop looking for me...
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same thing is happening to me.. or rather had happen to me once.. but things arent too bad.. although its not good either..
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but feels so different lor...i guess got used to it liao...
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Miserable Day 2 and tomorrow will be leaving for biz trip
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ok...ok...i know that that sentence was alot too far off..Originally posted by nightyoung:Thanks.. what do you mean by:
has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.has a thinny lane take makes it easier only prob is that u have to be skillful and careful to stay on it.
I dun understand your meaning.....
this is the english version of the above
if u play ur cards(skill and method) rite, getting her wont be as diff as u think. but without the right cards its going to be back to journey to the west. -
bro, that kinda sounds like a tactic i used to use on girls during my younger days. can talk for hrs on the phone abt everything and anything. everyday. then one day i would just all of a sudden disappear from the face of this earth. then they will realise that i had become part of their life already and without me, everyday was not complete. after i show myself after a week or so, they will start to jio me out, hold my hand, hint me to jio them or jio me themselves.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:Hai...back to my problem...Now she seems to distance herself away from me...She used to call me almost every night to chat but laterly she doesn't do that anymore...I wonder is because she is tired from work or she started to distance herself from me...Kind of feel empty when she stop looking for me...
but if urs is not the above( theres good and bad) then i suggest either u call her or just forget abt it. -
bro, go have fun. visit the night life. have fun with a girl or 2. yah i noe its diff but when u pay for it its not so diff. but pls remember try not to be with ur self or else u will be thinking how it would be like if u were on a holiday or honeymoon with her.Originally posted by nightyoung:Miserable Day 2 and tomorrow will be leaving for biz trip -
she has already become a part of my life that i hold dearly but can never hold truly...hai...don't know lor...this been bothering me for the first few days of this week already...Coming to the weekend soon...duno will she contact me or should i contact her...Originally posted by Dodobirdie:bro, that kinda sounds like a tactic i used to use on girls during my younger days. can talk for hrs on the phone abt everything and anything. everyday. then one day i would just all of a sudden disappear from the face of this earth. then they will realise that i had become part of their life already and without me, everyday was not complete. after i show myself after a week or so, they will start to jio me out, hold my hand, hint me to jio them or jio me themselves.
but if urs is not the above( theres good and bad) then i suggest either u call her or just forget abt it. -
I can't do that..... i am always very faithful to her..... day 3..... miserable day... i missed her dearlyOriginally posted by Dodobirdie:bro, go have fun. visit the night life. have fun with a girl or 2. yah i noe its diff but when u pay for it its not so diff. but pls remember try not to be with ur self or else u will be thinking how it would be like if u were on a holiday or honeymoon with her. -
well its up to u. if u have ever read thru any female mag now adays. they keep saying that sex is a physical thing. that emotions need not be involved in sexual pleasures. gang bang, and shit like dat.Originally posted by nightyoung:I can't do that..... i am always very faithful to her..... day 3..... miserable day... i missed her dearly
but as u have said, i quote :"i am always very faithful to her"
she wil be doin it with her bf while u keep saying that to ur self. and besides she's not ur gf.
how i look at it, my case, i'm now single, not dating, i can do wat ever i want as long as i want to and as long as i dun kill anyone even if my heart still belongs to another as i would be surprised if she is doin the same. (i suggest u read wat i just said a couple of times cos i'm too physically and mentally tired from work today to re-construct the whole thing) -
its kinda hard to tell wat u should go next cos there is nothing solid to work on. but i would say to call her and meet her and survey the situation first before deciding to guess on wat she is doin.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:she has already become a part of my life that i hold dearly but can never hold truly...hai...don't know lor...this been bothering me for the first few days of this week already...Coming to the weekend soon...duno will she contact me or should i contact her...
another way is to ask her straight forward lah...but i advise not. -
wat i am afraid of is that she is distancing herself from me...Originally posted by Dodobirdie:its kinda hard to tell wat u should go next cos there is nothing solid to work on. but i would say to call her and meet her and survey the situation first before deciding to guess on wat she is doin.
another way is to ask her straight forward lah...but i advise not. -
ask her lohOriginally posted by *Lord Kang*:wat i am afraid of is that she is distancing herself from me...