This good good GAL and its just ME
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i think we should forget it..
if she avoids us.. than be it..
lets look forward.. surely there are some other girls will appreciate us more -
i think we should forget it..
if she avoids us.. than be it..
lets look forward.. surely there are some other girls will appreciate us more -
i think we should forget it..
if she avoids us.. than be it..
lets look forward.. surely there are some other girls will appreciate us more -
god doesn't serve food to you on a silver platter. u have to go and hunt for it. nothing is free.Originally posted by lolsuck:i think we should forget it..
if she avoids us.. than be it..
lets look forward.. surely there are some other girls will appreciate us more -
I came back from my biz and trip and I didn't contact her.. she sms me and asked whether i was there... and i replied.. then later i called her...
we chat for a while.. we talked as if nothing has happened to us before...
we just didn't bring up the topic.. after that i wanted to meet her ans she says she tired...
is this gonna end? I alraedy told myself to give up but i felt very sad..
becuase last week i promised to take care of her and she like alraedy agreed.. but comes to this we acted like nothing has happened... my friend says it was my fault too. i shoukd draw the kine between friends.. should not have hug and kiss each other.....
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well meet already then u no loh. but must try lah bro. hold hand, or kiss or hug. must at least try. never try never know.
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i sms her in the morning and she replied.. wait.. no.. it was in the night.. i sms her and she didn't reply becasue she slept already..
I sms her and asked her when she's free but she didn't reply.. then when i got home and called her.. then she ask why i called her.. just a short conversation as she's busy..
i got this feeling that she's trying to avoid me... i feel very miserable after a long week.....perhaps its time to let it go....... and this thread will be closed -
hmmm nightyoung... me a gal.. offering my view k.. think u should stay away from her for a while... she's probably confused and not sure about many things. If you can keep your cool and give her time to think, it'd be better for u two and if things work out, it'd go a long way. Anyway, there are really lotsa fabulous girls who'd return your feelings out there k.. be encouraged.. and sometimes, the best way to love a person is to let go.. not a cliche to me cuz in my own experience, to hang on to a person who's very confused can cause him/her more pain and in the process, we hurt ourselves badly too.. cheers!
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okie.. from tomorrow.. i wont contact her... dun care about her.. give her more and more time and see how...... thanks alot!!Originally posted by sleepycat:hmmm nightyoung... me a gal.. offering my view k.. think u should stay away from her for a while... she's probably confused and not sure about many things. If you can keep your cool and give her time to think, it'd be better for u two and if things work out, it'd go a long way. Anyway, there are really lotsa fabulous girls who'd return your feelings out there k.. be encouraged.. and sometimes, the best way to love a person is to let go.. not a cliche to me cuz in my own experience, to hang on to a person who's very confused can cause him/her more pain and in the process, we hurt ourselves badly too.. cheers!
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hmmm gooooooooooood!
One more suggestion.. if she does sms u or call u.. pick up only at her third call or reply only at her third sms.. hmm this is just to make sure that she was really sure that she wanna contact u and was determined to get to u and didn't contact u out of impulse or just out of confusion.. then for you, it'd send her the message that u're ready to wise up should she go on sending mixed signals.. this will alert her to b more attentive in her behaviour towards u if she genuinely likes u.. hmmm this is solely from a girl's perspective.. best wishes dude! -
finally...after so many postings we finally see a gal give her comments here. at least we get a diff opinion other then my pig ones.Originally posted by sleepycat:hmmm gooooooooooood! One more suggestion.. if she does sms u or call u.. pick up only at her third call or reply only at her third sms.. hmm this is just to make sure that she was really sure that she wanna contact u and was determined to get to u and didn't contact u out of impulse or just out of confusion.. then for you, it'd send her the message that u're ready to wise up should she go on sending mixed signals.. this will alert her to b more attentive in her behaviour towards u if she genuinely likes u.. hmmm this is solely from a girl's perspective.. best wishes dude! -
Not really ... rainbow princess asked me to gave up long time ago.. but ica n't do it..... and i suffered and dragged on.....Originally posted by Dodobirdie:finally...after so many postings we finally see a gal give her comments here. at least we get a diff opinion other then my pig ones. -
somehow it work... i dun know why.. i didn't contact her for the whole day then in the night i received a sms from her... i couldn't help but replied.. i can't bring myself to follow sleepycat's advice.....
we chat over the sms for a short time and ... somehow i just couldn't let go...
its kinda weird.. when i told myself.. i want to let go off everything.. dun contact her and stuffs like that.. she will sms me or call me... then when i try to contact her.. she'll be busy??
does that happen to 'real' couples all the time??
somehow i just dun understand -
I'm sorry, i cannot help it, i have to ask....
NightYoung....how old are you??? -
thought i answered someone before that i am 24?? hahaOriginally posted by Himbo:I'm sorry, i cannot help it, i have to ask....
NightYoung....how old are you??? -
You grow up pri school and sec school and jc/poly all boy's school issit? then after army went to an all male university??? So this is your very 1st contact with the female speciment issit?Originally posted by nightyoung:thought i answered someone before that i am 24?? haha -
you can say that..... but i didn't join the all boy schools.. it was all mixedOriginally posted by Himbo:You grow up pri school and sec school and jc/poly all boy's school issit? then after army went to an all male university??? So this is your very 1st contact with the female speciment issit? -
hmmmm nightyoung, if u're often and always too readily available at her beck and call, that won't stir her to be serious and do something about the situation. Right now, she's the one who needs to decide which way she wants to go with either you or the other etc.. I reckon there're many things she need to sort out and it doesn't help if you get all soft-hearted and wishy-washy cuz you're not helping her and yourself. It's not about dishing ultimatum, it's really about gaining her respect even if things don't work out your way. Remember, you don't want her to see you or remember you as someone who can't control his emotions completely, you don't want her to know you as a doormat right? From a girl's point of view and frankly so, no girl would really love any guy they can't respect. Strangely, girls learn to respect guys who don't make them the priority of their lives. nightyoung, there're times to be thoughtful to her feelings but there're surely times to be elusive and stay controlled. All the best again..
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bro,Originally posted by nightyoung:somehow it work... i dun know why.. i didn't contact her for the whole day then in the night i received a sms from her... i couldn't help but replied.. i can't bring myself to follow sleepycat's advice.....
we chat over the sms for a short time and ... somehow i just couldn't let go...
its kinda weird.. when i told myself.. i want to let go off everything.. dun contact her and stuffs like that.. she will sms me or call me... then when i try to contact her.. she'll be busy??
does that happen to 'real' couples all the time??
somehow i just dun understand
going back to my earlier postings. i have said b4, when u cant let go and keep trying, u will give off the impression that you are desperate. and if u were to disappear for awhile, she will realise that u are missing. well figure it out ur self. u can go reference wat i have said b4. my advise is similar to wat sleepycat is saying to you. -
Just let go, bro.
Most likely she is just using u as a harbour.
U r not likely to develop a relationship.
Forget about her n move on.
If u don't, u will be stuck with her forever n she will never be yrs. -
yesterday.. i dreamt of something bad.. and i sudden got worried about her and send her a sms.. then in the afternoon next day.. i asked her how is she.. she's going for lunch sohave no time to chat with me...
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seems like she is moving on. time for u to do the same bro.Originally posted by nightyoung:yesterday.. i dreamt of something bad.. and i sudden got worried about her and send her a sms.. then in the afternoon next day.. i asked her how is she.. she's going for lunch sohave no time to chat with me...
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Eh, wake up lah, this girl cares about NOTHING for you lah! Wah piang. You how many months ago whine whine till now already. You are the sucker in this case man. You are the spare tyre which she can crap on. Wake up.Originally posted by nightyoung:yesterday.. i dreamt of something bad.. and i sudden got worried about her and send her a sms.. then in the afternoon next day.. i asked her how is she.. she's going for lunch sohave no time to chat with me...
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Don't be too hard on nightyoung lah.. he's just too caught up in the web.. But, Himbo, you do think yah..Originally posted by Himbo:Eh, wake up lah, this girl cares about NOTHING for you lah! Wah piang. You how many months ago whine whine till now already. You are the sucker in this case man. You are the spare tyre which she can crap on. Wake up.
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there are many breeds of man. himbo(thats if he is male) is just one of those kind got got, dun have dun have kind.Originally posted by sleepycat:Don't be too hard on nightyoung lah.. he's just too caught up in the web.. But, Himbo, you do think yah..