This good good GAL and its just ME
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yeah...agree totally...but sometimes the situation makes us feel that way...Originally posted by lolsuck:hey bro,sorry to say this. u might not like to hear this..
but i think i have to say it..
u are weak u are too weak u are letting urself becoming more and more sucky.. u will end up with no life and u suck.
sorry about that im no better but i know that i have to get a life and cannot remain this way to become more and more sucky. -
she sms me yesterday and i never replied..
i always replied her sms... but this time
AKey
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u can do it bro....hold on...Originally posted by nightyoung:she sms me yesterday and i never replied..
i always replied her sms... but this time
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you ook bro? didn't see u on d boat tonight..Originally posted by nightyoung:she sms me yesterday and i never replied..i always replied her sms... but this time.. AKey
u had done so well for yourself & hope u're ok.. ya, Akey!
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Keep it up, bro nightyoung... dun u ever dare to beat my record, 5 yrs of wasted time... u can do it... I'm sure u will not regret yr decision to avoid her. From yr replies, I can see that u are somewhat introvert... open up to more friends and activities... trust me, k??? ~~~
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keep it up!!! its only the first day!!
im still hanging on too!! have been 3weeks already for me!
lets get strong together! chhers! -
heheh...u 3 weeks... i broke up on 28 Aug...meaning nearly 31 days loh...Originally posted by lolsuck:keep it up!!! its only the first day!!
im still hanging on too!! have been 3weeks already for me!
lets get strong together! chhers!
hmmmm we broke up on the same week ah???
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Hai..Go listen to Diana Ross If we hold on together..Nightyoung, u can do it one..
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i was on the 29 of Aug... but... last met on 8th Sept..Originally posted by ahmike:heheh...u 3 weeks... i broke up on 28 Aug...meaning nearly 31 days loh...
hmmmm we broke up on the same week ah??? -
OMG...... AKey!!!!
she called me this afternoon using another number and I answered!!
it was she...... she!! we chat for a while and she said yesterday mooncake festival lots of ppl wish her why i didn't.. and i told her i was busy of course..
and.. she called but i never pickup.. she sms i never replied.. she thought i was abroad
she also say.. did i forget about her
then i pretend to ask who's her.. etc.. like joking type..
after the phone call.. she sms me and i sms back...
so... but to square one? what if she ask me out again???
sorry i didn't mean to break the AKey -
is it a sad song>>??Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:Hai..Go listen to Diana Ross If we hold on together..Nightyoung, u can do it one.. -
i am fine.. just that very tired yesterday.. fall asleep at about 7 plusOriginally posted by sleepycat:you ook bro? didn't see u on d boat tonight..
u had done so well for yourself & hope u're ok.. ya, Akey!
OMG... sorry sleepycat.. AKey is broken... sorry..
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first day??Originally posted by lolsuck:keep it up!!! its only the first day!!
im still hanging on too!! have been 3weeks already for me!
lets get strong together! chhers! -
no lah..is not a sad song lah..somehow abit motivating..hai..don't make urself go through the vicious cycle again mah...Originally posted by nightyoung:is it a sad song>>?? -
maybe you just have a crush on her or some deep infatuation. She's attached, get over it. Help her like a friend should and if she's in an abusive or just bad relationship, you should talk to her about it and encourage her to discontinue the relationship...then maybe you'll have the chance to get her...good luck.
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start again pls bro....pls start again....i know u are happy...i would be....but u know and i know wat u must do....i believe we have been thru this enough times already for u to understand. take time to read thru the whole tread and u will understand.Originally posted by nightyoung:OMG...... AKey!!!!
she called me this afternoon using another number and I answered!!
it was she...... she!! we chat for a while and she said yesterday mooncake festival lots of ppl wish her why i didn't.. and i told her i was busy of course..
and.. she called but i never pickup.. she sms i never replied.. she thought i was abroad
she also say.. did i forget about her
then i pretend to ask who's her.. etc.. like joking type..
after the phone call.. she sms me and i sms back...
so... but to square one? what if she ask me out again???
sorry i didn't mean to break the AKey
pls dun fall in again. -
i wasn't that happy.. maybe .. i won;t fall into the trap again..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:start again pls bro....pls start again....i know u are happy...i would be....but u know and i know wat u must do....i believe we have been thru this enough times already for u to understand. take time to read thru the whole tread and u will understand.
pls dun fall in again.
never/... i told myself never... -
I hear tat... the forumers hear tat too... muz stick to yr words n nv fall into the dark bottomless pithole again... we will always be supporting u... ~~~Originally posted by nightyoung:i wasn't that happy.. maybe .. i won;t fall into the trap again..
never/... i told myself never... -
yay yay ... X 2 !!!Originally posted by stupidjoe:I hear tat... the forumers hear tat too... muz stick to yr words n nv fall into the dark bottomless pithole again... we will always be supporting u... ~~~ 
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Give me a five manzzz.... ~~~Originally posted by sleepycat:yay yay ... X 2 !!! -
^5 ^5 !!!Originally posted by stupidjoe:Give me a five manzzz.... ~~~ 
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oh ya... oops... sista.... ~~~Originally posted by sleepycat:^5 ^5 !!!
*.. but me not a man.. * 
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well u already told ur self that , that is good....u can do it....u can do it all nite long...Originally posted by nightyoung:i wasn't that happy.. maybe .. i won;t fall into the trap again..
never/... i told myself never... -
If there's a will, there's a way... ~~~Originally posted by Dodobirdie:well u already told ur self that , that is good....u can do it....u can do it all nite long... 
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hello...
new person here, but been lurking arnd for quite some time liaoz... been reading this thread a lot cuz well it's a lot like wat i'm going thru now...
hope no one minds i share my story...
me - young naive boy of 18 yrs
her - classmate of mine
i told her i liked her during late July... she was still attached... and her bf was not the nice guy type lah - always mistreat her, always make her unhappy... she was constantly vexed over him, everytime wondering if she had got into the relationship too quickly wif him.
for me... well, she was my 2nd best fren in the entire sch lah... so i kinda knew all of this... she also knew abt my problems, and my previous crushes... even tried to help me with them...
essentially i felt that she knew who i am, and accepted me completely without running away from my darker side... and i slowly fell in love with her...
blurted it out during july... she said she was confused over me too... eventually we began to go out, she kissed me, we held hands, essentially dated...
her bf broke up wif her sometime mid august... it was the day before chem prac prelims, so yes it was very bad for her... stood by her side all the way, cared for her, made her happy...
then she went back to him...
was devastated, but eventually i got myself into the black hole again, kept on calling, laughing, went out, etc...
in about a week's time, he broke up with her, again. this time over some rumours that was spread. not too sure abt the details either - but she was pretty mad at him for doing so...
again, i played the mother hen... this time however she said she needed time alone to think abt wat she wanted... gave it to her while watching her ex still go out wif her everyday...
no surprise, they got back together
she told me she still does love me. she told me we could be as we were - still calling, chatting. yet she told me she got back together because she wanted to try again with him - to not break up with him like that. yet she said tt she doesn't think it'll work out wif him...
no logic - if i was still arnd, they'd never work out their differences! but as it is, i tried the arrangement... only made me feel worst and worst... made me feel like i was a third wheel, a 1900 number if u will (someone to call and chat only if she was bored)...
she tells me she loves me, but i dun feel that...
today i told her all of that... she told me she still loves me, but she can't show it for obvious reasons. i really wanted to stay, and wait for her... the sheer idea of a chance wif her... even now still is very powerful...
but i told her i don't want to become a burden... i don't want to make her unhappy. if i did i'd rather go. she told me that i made her confused abt her situation wif her bf... but there was a reason behind the confusion...
still... she said i should go...
and so here i am, after reading abt all ur experiences, sharing mine...
i know, mine seems trivial. after all i'm only 18, not even shave head serve country yet, trying to talk cock abt love and shit... still... it hurts inside lah...
it makes me wonder if those months spent wif her... did she ever love me? even in the end... did she care? i know i still do care abt her... but at the same time, like u guys said - pple cannot be supporting actors all the time... must find their own show to act in...
if she finally breaks with him, should i still be there? should i start going after her properly again?
i left cuz i dun wanna cause trouble for her... and while it hurts, i know i can remove myself completely from her life... already deleted her number, sms, msn... only thing left is a journal i've been keeping...
sigh... can't help but feel like i've wasted my time... sighz...
shrug - yeah
my story...