This good good GAL and its just ME
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trying to rest it. just as long as i dun hear, see or know can liaoz..Originally posted by sleepycat:if that someone does come, she'll not only replace ya ex, she'll be much more..
meanwhile, birdie.. take it easy on yourself.. let your heart rest..
thx cat, maybe someday we can find our other half....
hint to all...sometimes that person might be standing right infront of u but u just cannot see it. -
she just came to my mind again today.......
i did a weird thing while i was at the Giant Supermarket..
i did a rough count of what ppl have in their baskets...
keep myself busy.. and she also appear when i saw the neoprint machine while outside Giant..
i really hate this feeling......
maybe i shouldn't go out with her last sat.....
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It takes time... slowly... do not rush... let yr heart mend its hole n heal completely... ~~~Originally posted by nightyoung:she just came to my mind again today.......
i did a weird thing while i was at the Giant Supermarket..
i did a rough count of what ppl have in their baskets...
keep myself busy.. and she also appear when i saw the neoprint machine while outside Giant..
i really hate this feeling......
maybe i shouldn't go out with her last sat..... 
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wisejoe is right...
slowly slowly.. and perhaps, you're right? give yourself some time away from her?Originally posted by stupidjoe:It takes time... slowly... do not rush... let yr heart mend its hole n heal completely... ~~~ -
hi all again,
again. that is the key word this time.
today i decided to give her a call after 2 months of not talking to her. oh man i made the wrong decision. after talking to her, it felt like it was all back not normal. hell i knew i was lying to myself. was suppose to drop something off at her place which is just a lane away. but then she decided to come over and get it her self. when i saw her i was so happy. i fell into my comfort zone again.
now i'm here missing her all over again. missing her presence by my side. but after going thru this so many times, the signs are so clear. its as though i could see it a mile away.
advise to all fellow bros, u know when its coming again. prevent it from happening again. -
But something when mend to happen..It will also happen..That what we called fate ba..It is all fated i guess..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:hi all again,
again. that is the key word this time.
today i decided to give her a call after 2 months of not talking to her. oh man i made the wrong decision. after talking to her, it felt like it was all back not normal. hell i knew i was lying to myself. was suppose to drop something off at her place which is just a lane away. but then she decided to come over and get it her self. when i saw her i was so happy. i fell into my comfort zone again.
now i'm here missing her all over again. missing her presence by my side. but after going thru this so many times, the signs are so clear. its as though i could see it a mile away.
advise to all fellow bros, u know when its coming again. prevent it from happening again. -
I suppose this is how it will end...It has been a memorable 6 mths...This was the closest I ever been with her since knowing her for a couple of years...We go out together, we had fun together...This was what I have been dreaming of and finally my dream did came true...But just like the fireworks, it was beautiful for a moment in time but now it is over...
After we graduated, she found herself a job...And I got my own committments to fulfill...We sort of went our separate ways but we never fails to meet up with each other as often as possible...This went on for a couple of weeks and i thought we can stay that way for quite some time, but i was wrong...People do change and changes did take place...I sense that she has changed...Changed to someone that I don't really know anymore...I also felt that she has grown up...So i guess she doesn't need me around to take care of her anymore...
As for me, I guess I am still going around in circles...Not much changes have take place in me and i guess that was what pulling us apart...Now life seems so empty without her...My own circle of friends is small and they have their life to live too...Every weekend seems so lonely without her and without my other friends to keep me company...
So I guess this will be how it ends...I should have seen it coming in the first place...Good things never last forever...Fairytales only belong in storybooks...Don't ever believe that the prince and princess will live happily ever after...Because that is just a story cooked up by human to deceive themselves of reality...Now i guess she is busy with her work and back to her bf whom love her and she love alot...And i guess is time for me to move on and get used to not having her around anymore... -
Your thinking is the same as mine.. my guess .. for my case.. we can never be together although i missed her badly..Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:I suppose this is how it will end...It has been a memorable 6 mths...This was the closest I ever been with her since knowing her for a couple of years...We go out together, we had fun together...This was what I have been dreaming of and finally my dream did came true...But just like the fireworks, it was beautiful for a moment in time but now it is over...
After we graduated, she found herself a job...And I got my own committments to fulfill...We sort of went our separate ways but we never fails to meet up with each other as often as possible...This went on for a couple of weeks and i thought we can stay that way for quite some time, but i was wrong...People do change and changes did take place...I sense that she has changed...Changed to someone that I don't really know anymore...I also felt that she has grown up...So i guess she doesn't need me around to take care of her anymore...
As for me, I guess I am still going around in circles...Not much changes have take place in me and i guess that was what pulling us apart...Now life seems so empty without her...My own circle of friends is small and they have their life to live too...Every weekend seems so lonely without her and without my other friends to keep me company...
So I guess this will be how it ends...I should have seen it coming in the first place...Good things never last forever...Fairytales only belong in storybooks...Don't ever believe that the prince and princess will live happily ever after...Because that is just a story cooked up by human to deceive themselves of reality...Now i guess she is busy with her work and back to her bf whom love her and she love alot...And i guess is time for me to move on and get used to not having her around anymore...
I wanted to called but forbid myself from doing so..
Everytime when i glance at my watch. i will wonder where she's at and what she's doing... especially thursday..
Its been... a few days..
trying to be AKey again..... Sorry Sleepycat. i will improve my typing
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i used to believe in fate but then someone spiritual told me that there is no such thing.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:But something when mend to happen..It will also happen..That what we called fate ba..It is all fated i guess..
like the phrase.."god doesn't serve u on a silver platter" if we do not go out and fight for wat we want, then we will never get it. this applies to everything in life. -
most of us become depentant on the other wif out realising it. and we take for granted wat we have before us till its too late.Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:I suppose this is how it will end...It has been a memorable 6 mths...This was the closest I ever been with her since knowing her for a couple of years...We go out together, we had fun together...This was what I have been dreaming of and finally my dream did came true...But just like the fireworks, it was beautiful for a moment in time but now it is over...
After we graduated, she found herself a job...And I got my own committments to fulfill...We sort of went our separate ways but we never fails to meet up with each other as often as possible...This went on for a couple of weeks and i thought we can stay that way for quite some time, but i was wrong...People do change and changes did take place...I sense that she has changed...Changed to someone that I don't really know anymore...I also felt that she has grown up...So i guess she doesn't need me around to take care of her anymore...
As for me, I guess I am still going around in circles...Not much changes have take place in me and i guess that was what pulling us apart...Now life seems so empty without her...My own circle of friends is small and they have their life to live too...Every weekend seems so lonely without her and without my other friends to keep me company...
So I guess this will be how it ends...I should have seen it coming in the first place...Good things never last forever...Fairytales only belong in storybooks...Don't ever believe that the prince and princess will live happily ever after...Because that is just a story cooked up by human to deceive themselves of reality...Now i guess she is busy with her work and back to her bf whom love her and she love alot...And i guess is time for me to move on and get used to not having her around anymore...
all we can do it blame it on us for not realising it earlier and make sure it doesn't happen again.
u can do it, just like how i have. -
ya..i guess i became very depentant..I always thought that i was an indepentant person..But it turns out otherwise..Ya lah..I agree..People normally will not cherish the things or person they have now..Only after losing them, then they will realise their importance..Originally posted by Dodobirdie:most of us become depentant on the other wif out realising it. and we take for granted wat we have before us till its too late.
all we can do it blame it on us for not realising it earlier and make sure it doesn't happen again.
u can do it, just like how i have. -
duplicated post...
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bro Klang, nightyoung, dodobirdie n everyone out there... this is life... we tumble n fall along the way... that's how we learn from our mistakes too... let's continue to look forward and learn from our mistakes... most importantly, cherish all our loves one around us... not juz yr beloved gal, yr parents, siblings n friends as well. Cheers! ~~~Originally posted by *Lord Kang*:ya..i guess i became very depentant..I always thought that i was an indepentant person..But it turns out otherwise..Ya lah..I agree..People normally will not cherish the things or person they have now..Only after losing them, then they will realise their importance..
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wise words from wisejoe...
this is life and we ain't perfect... we will fall and falter... but the test of humanity is that we can choose to stand up again and again... and if we make the effort, we can succeed...
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Picking urself up is quite tiring..Most importantly is whether is there someone beside u,encouraging u while u start all over again..
Hai..Life is certainly getting kind of boring laterly sia... -
mundane as it is.. it's better than a brainful of chaos & endless doubtsOriginally posted by *Lord Kang*:Picking urself up is quite tiring..Most importantly is whether is there someone beside u,encouraging u while u start all over again.. Hai..Life is certainly getting kind of boring laterly sia...
cheers Lord Kang & cheer up to a better script comin.. who knows.. your female lead may be lurking at just ard d next corner? -
hmmm... bro Klang, maybe the female lead is already lurking just around u liao... ~~~Originally posted by sleepycat:mundane as it is.. it's better than a brainful of chaos & endless doubts
cheers Lord Kang & cheer up to a better script comin.. who knows.. your female lead may be lurking at just ard d next corner? 
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666 = Haha! I broke it!!
This one is nice.. I like this story very motivating...
Let this story remind you that you can do it!!
Anything!!
THE PEBBLE STORY
> > > > >>Many years ago in a small Indian village, a farmer had
> > > > >>the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a
> > > > >>village moneylender. The moneylender, who
> > > > >>was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful
> > > > >>daughter. So he proposed a bargain. He said he would
> > > > >>forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his
> > > > >>daughter.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the
> > > > >>proposal. So the cunning money-lender suggested that
> > > > >>they let providence decide the matter.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>He told them that he would put a black pebble and a
> > > > >>white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl
> > > > >>would have to pick one pebble from the bag.
> > > > >>If she picked the black pebble, she would become his
> > > > >>wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she
> > > > >>picked the white pebble she need not marry
> > > > >>him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But
> > > > >>if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be
> > > > >>thrown into jail.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>All the villagers were standing on a pebble strewn
> > > > >>path in the farmer's field. As they talked, the
> > > > >>moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that
> > > > >>he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into
> > > > >>the bag. He then asked the girl to pick a
> > > > >>pebble from the bag. Now, imagine you were standing in
> > > > >>the field.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>What would you have done if you were the girl? If you
> > > > >>had to advise her, what would you have told her?
> > > > >>
> > > > >>Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:
> > > > >>
> > > > >>1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>2. The girl should show that there were two black
> > > > >>pebbles in the bag and expose the money-lender as a
> > > > >>cheat.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice
> > > > >>herself in order to save her father from his debt and
> > > > >>imprisonment.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above
> > > > >>story is used with the hope that it will make us
> > > > >>appreciate the difference between lateral and
> > > > >>logical thinking.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>The girl's dilemma can not be solved with traditional
> > > > >>logical thinking.
> > > > >>Think of the consequences if she chooses the above
> > > > >>logical answers.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>What would you recommend to the Girl to do?
> > > > >>
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> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > >> Well, what she did was :
> > > > >>
> > > > >>The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a
> > > > >>pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it
> > > > >>fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately
> > > > >>became lost among all the other pebbles.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if
> > > > >>you look into the bag for the one that is left, you
> > > > >>will be able to tell which pebble I picked."
> > > > >>
> > > > >>Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be
> > > > >>assumed that she had picked the white one. And since
> > > > >>the money-lender dared not admit his dishonesty,
> > > > >>the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation
> > > > >>into an extremely advantageous one.
> > > > >>
> > > > >>MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a
> > > > >>solution. It is only that we don't attempt to think
> > > > >>
> > > > >>
> > > > Impossible is a word only to be found in the dictionary of fools.
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hey..thanks sleepycat..haha..my female lead is lurking around ar??Then can her pls pls come out now??I really want to meet her..haha..Then make it wait here alone anymore..Aiya, hope everyone has found or already have their other half..It feel so lost without someone..Originally posted by stupidjoe:hmmm... bro Klang, maybe the female lead is already lurking just around u liao... ~~~ -
Hey guys...i also have this story to share...Don't know whether u all have read before or not...But it is really meaningful..Take a minute and read it...Hope it will help u in anyway possible...
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate? Can you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answer) Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don't you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't picked up any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn't go back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember "Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life partner, your suitable career or business, therefore the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity that you have now, don't waste time! -
Nice storyOriginally posted by *Lord Kang*:Hey guys...i also have this story to share...Don't know whether u all have read before or not...But it is really meaningful..Take a minute and read it...Hope it will help u in anyway possible...
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate? Can you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answer) Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don't you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't picked up any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn't go back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember "Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life partner, your suitable career or business, therefore the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity that you have now, don't waste time!
But the problem is how do i know am i in the field? -
Well..Everybody is in the field already..It just whether have u start walking along the field, in search of ur own grass..Right??Time to take a stroll down ur own patch of field and look for ur own piece of grass..
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*sleepycat starts d engine of her newly bought lawn mower...*
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wah...Don't want any more grass ar??So hen xin ar??Originally posted by sleepycat:*sleepycat starts d engine of her newly bought lawn mower...* -
I got a great touching but sad story to share too... maybe u guys hv read it b4 somewhere...
>>Peter and Tina are sitting in the park doing
>>nothing, but just gazing into the sky, while all
>>their friends are having fun with their beloved
>>half.
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>>Tina: I'm so bored. Just wish I have a boyfriend
>>now to spend time with.
>>
>>Peter: I guess we're the only leftovers. We're
>>the only person who isn't with a date now. (both
>>sigh n silence for a while)
>>
>>
>>Tina: I think I have a good idea. Lets play a
>>game
>>Peter: Eh? What game?
>>
>>Tina: Eem..It's quite simple. You be my
>>boyfriend for 100 days and I'll be your
>>girlfriend for 100 days. what do you think?
>>
>>Peter: Oookay..Anyway I don't have any plan for
>>the next few months.
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>>Tina: You sound like you aren't looking forward
>>to it at all. Cheer up. Today will be our first
>>day and our first date. Where should we go?
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>>Peter: What about a movie? I heard that there is
>>a really great movie in theater now.
>>
>>
>>Tina: Seems like I don't have any better idea
>>than this. Lets move. (went to watch their
>>movies and sent each other home)
>>
>>Day 2:
>>Peter and Tina went to a concert together, and
>>Peter bought Tina a keychain with a star.
>>
>>Day 3:
>>They went shopping together for a friend's
>>birthday present. Share an ice-cream together
>>and hugged each other for the first time.
>>
>>Day 7:
>>Peter drove Tina up onto a mountain and they
>>watch the sunset together. When the night came
>>and the moon glowed, they said sat on the grass
>>gazing at the stars together. A meteor passed
>>by. Tina mumbled something.
>>
>>Day 25:
>>Spend time at a themepark and got onto
>>rollercoasters, and ate hotdogs and cotton
>>candy. Peter and Tina got in the haunted house
>>and Tina grabbed someone's hand instead of
>>Peter's hand by accident. They laughed together
>>for a while.
>>
>>Day 67:
>>They drove pass a circus and decided to get in
>>to watch the show. The midget asked Tina to play
>>a part as his assistant in the magic show. Went
>>around to see other entertainments around after
>>the show. Came to a fortune teller and she just
>>said "Treasure every moment from now on" and a
>>tear rolled down the fortune teller's cheek.
>>
>>Day 84:
>>Tina suggested that they go to the beach. The
>>beach wasn't so crowded that day. They have
>>their first kiss with each other just as the sun
>>is setting.
>>
>>Day 99:
>>They decided to have a simple day and is
>>deciding to have a walk around the city. They
>>sits down onto a bench.
>>
>>
>>1:23 pm
>>Tina: I'm thirsty. Lets rest for a while first.
>>
>>Peter: Wait here while I go buy some drinks.
>>What would you like?
>>
>>Tina: Eem...Apple juice will be just fine.
>>
>>
>>1:43 pm
>>Tina waiting for about 20 minutes and Peter
>>havent return. Then someone walked up to her.
>>
>>Stranger: Is your name Tina?
>>
>>Tina: Yes, and may I help you?
>>
>>Stranger: Justnow down there on the street a
>>drunk driver has crashed into a guy. I think its
>>your friend.
>>
>>Tina ran over to the spot with the stranger and
>>sees Peter lying on the floor with blood over
>>his face and her apple juice still in his hands.
>>The ambulance came and she went to the hospital
>>with Peter.
>>Tina sat outside the emergency room for five and
>>a half hours. The doctor came out, and he sigh.
>>
>>
>>11:51 pm
>>Doctor: I'm sorry, but we did the best we could.
>>He is still breathing now but God would take him
>>away from us very soon. We found this letter
>>inside his pocket.
>>
>>The doctor hands over the letter to Tina and she
>>goes into the room to see Peter. He look weak
>>but peaceful. Tina read the letter and then she
>>burst into tears. Here is what the letter said.
>>
>>Tina, our 100 days is almost over. I had fun
>>with you during all these days. Although you may
>>be greedy sometimes and less thoughtful, but
>>these all brought happiness into my life. I have
>>realize that you are a really cute girl and
>>blamed myself for never taken the time to
>>knowing that. I have nothing much to ask for,
>>but I just wish that we can extend the day. I
>>want to be your boyfriend
>>forever and wish that you can be beside me all
>>the time. Tina, I love you.
>>
>>11:58
>>Tina: (sobbing) Peter. Did you know what was the
>>wish I made on the night there was a meteor. I
>>asked God to let us last forever. We were
>>suppose to last 100 days so Peter! You can't
>>leave me! I LOVE YOU, but can you come back to
>>me now? I love you Peter. I LOVE YOU.
>>
>>As the clock struck twelve, Peter's heart
>>stopped beating. It was 100 days.
>>
>>NOTE*
>>Tell the guy or girl that you love them before
>>its too late. You never know whats going to
>>happen tomorrow. You never know who will be
>>leaving you and never return.
~~~ How many of us really do tat in real life... nv regret before it's too late... ~~~