This good good GAL and its just ME
-
YeahOriginally posted by winnerss:Let the past past; u noe wat i mean ....
Live forward towards the future
Be at peace with withurself
..
Happy VDay!
2 More hours to go!! -
Hmm.. i don think you can call it LOVE yet. If you really love her, you want her to be happy, even if you will take up the position of a "meantime guy". You will still be there as a friend for her, as someone to catch her when she falls.
Thinking of her when she's not with you and being sad when she's gone doesn mean you love her. in fact, it's because she is not yours, that you actually have this kinda feeling. Its more of an infatuation i guess
Meanwhile, since she is attached all you can do is WAIT. you give me the feel that you want to tell her to see how she'll react and you want someone here to give you to give some support but i guess not dude
if you really love her, just stay by her side. pick her up when she falls.
of cos don end up becoming a rebound guy.
just my five cents worth, feel free to correct -
Very true...Originally posted by puppylove:Hmm.. i don think you can call it LOVE yet. If you really love her, you want her to be happy, even if you will take up the position of a "meantime guy". You will still be there as a friend for her, as someone to catch her when she falls.
Thinking of her when she's not with you and being sad when she's gone doesn mean you love her. in fact, it's because she is not yours, that you actually have this kinda feeling. Its more of an infatuation i guess
Meanwhile, since she is attached all you can do is WAIT. you give me the feel that you want to tell her to see how she'll react and you want someone here to give you to give some support but i guess not dude if you really love her, just stay by her side. pick her up when she falls.
of cos don end up becoming a rebound guy. just my five cents worth, feel free to correct
Stay by her side till she falls?
Sounds like my previous gal I like...
Maybe its just infatuation
I thought the previous one gal i like was admiration..
So now the bottom point is i don't know what love is now..
I am getting confused.. -
Vday is over!!!
Yeah!!!
Yahoo!!
You know I learned something today..
It doesn't matter who you be with or for how long..
Just be happy with it..
Happy is the keyword...
If unhappiness or suffering is all it takes to love a person so why bother if you're not happy?
-
Love, cannot be defined i guess, cos everyone seems to have different views to it. I feel that love is, even when you've gone through your life with many other people and different relationships.. yet at the end of your journey, the person you'll be thinking of is him/her. That's love i guess, cos no matter what you do, the person somehow still finds a place in your heart
and of cos, love is being self-sacrificing, you maybe in pain all the time, but you are just happy when he/she is happy, so your whole life devotes to making him/ her happy i guess. but plainly feeling sad when she's not around and happy when she's around doesn define love, becos this can be so in cases of like, crushes, admiration, infatuation.
love is true to, means that in front of the person you love, yu show ur true colours, and not appear to be someone else. you are to be true to the person too -
That's a GOOD attitude : )
Learn to make the most of wat u haf... If u're single, live it up, achieve ur goals, paint the town Red, haf ur coffee, pple watch, etc etc etc.
If u're in a r'ship, give it ur all : )
Life is too short to mope ard & wallow in self-pity. Do somethg tt u'll be proud of yrs down the rd : )
RPOriginally posted by nightyoung:Vday is over!!!
Yeah!!!
Yahoo!!
You know I learned something today..
It doesn't matter who you be with or for how long..
Just be happy with it..
Happy is the keyword...
If unhappiness or suffering is all it takes to love a person so why bother if you're not happy? -
okie....
Now i am trying to adjust back my normal lifestyle..
I've been missing lots of sleep already..and
its terrible to live the night as if I am in the day
and sleep in the day..
Cheers
-
+1Originally posted by nightyoung:okie....
Now i am trying to adjust back my normal lifestyle..
I've been missing lots of sleep already..and
its terrible to live the night as if I am in the day
and sleep in the day..
Cheers -
im still having this day nite problem... for very long already..Originally posted by nightyoung:okie....
Now i am trying to adjust back my normal lifestyle..
I've been missing lots of sleep already..and
its terrible to live the night as if I am in the day
and sleep in the day..
Cheers -
Sighed// me haven't adjust yet..Originally posted by lolsuck:im still having this day nite problem... for very long already..
yesterday slept at 8 pm then woke up at 2 am and stayed up the whole morning.. went to sleep again in the afternoon at 2pm then wakes up..
Life \'s like that!!
-
-
Evil Clown strikes again
-
haiz... seems tat many ppl share the same problem (me too)...
maybe sometimes its better to be juz frenz... at least tat way u still have each other... ever after i told her i like her she started to avoid me.... tis is so sad.......... -
Originally posted by ReConCrap:
she avoided you again?
[b]haiz... seems tat many ppl share the same problem (me too)...
maybe sometimes its better to be juz frenz... at least tat way u still have each other... ever after i told her i like her she started to avoid me.... tis is so sad.......... [/b] -
Maybe you can try giving her some time-out? Just a suggestion, you dun have to listen to me, just passing by, dun have experience in solving BGR problems. Chill.Originally posted by nightyoung:she avoided you again? -
let me introduce you to Uncle Kwek pictured above...he love gals too but he too friendly lah...always hugging and kissing 'new frens' that he made in lifts...so you cannot blame when the gals get too excited and start screaming and running out when the door open mah...
so...morales is...watever u do...do it rite...
-
Last sunday, she called me.. surprisely.. its been a month or so since we last met..
We went to the library and spent some good time together.
This time i was so enthu in meeting her.. in fact, i wanted to call if off but .. i just met her.. i think if other friends asked me out, i would have not agreed.
As usual, she's late.. but she looked prettier than before.. dun now.. somebody says that ppl in love tend to look prettier.. now i know what that means.. Haha.. she even showed her boyfriend and her neo print photo... wow.. hehe
We spend good time at the library, shopping and chatting...
Hmm.. then after i gone back home.. i got the virus again..
She just keep appearing in my mind when i closed my eyes or i just want to keep my mind blank.
This time.. i am doomed... i think i really like her....
I dun think i want to say anything that will hurt so i will just befriend with her.
Okie.. maybe she can read this thread a year later and know how i feel.. haha
anyway.. its dawn,,,
That's all for now -
U know Y ur plans always cant work out well???
let me tell u the answer...You dont need to plan to woo a girl...
Just use ur heart..follow ur heart..listen to what it wanna say..
and then...u will succeed...Love needs no planning...It comes and It goes without u even Noticing it...
Thats y LOVE IS BLIND~ -
Oh i see.. thanks.. I got it!Originally posted by Lightinwaltz:U know Y ur plans always cant work out well???
let me tell u the answer...You dont need to plan to woo a girl...
Just use ur heart..follow ur heart..listen to what it wanna say..
and then...u will succeed...Love needs no planning...It comes and It goes without u even Noticing it...
Thats y LOVE IS BLIND~
-
oh wad a joke, i read this story in an email b4. to think that every1 here got tricked hahaha
-
Haha... this shows that its common to happen to any guy out there.. i am not the only one.. you see..Originally posted by VivId CrItiQuE:oh wad a joke, i read this story in an email b4. to think that every1 here got tricked hahaha -
i just read this whole thread and i tell u this kind of things happen to me too..
so i moved on got myself a gf, but how can u forget a gal u liked for 4 yrs already... from frens to best frens to now she calls me her bestest best fren... i liked her since so long ago, let her know abt it... everytime she cries i lend her my shoulder everytime she breaks up i offer her advices. everytime i just wan to be there for her...
it hurts that she doesn't choose to be with u, but den is the frenship worth giving up cos u are persistant in making her your gf? will u be happy den? i chose a yr ago to try to forget and just be frens. of cos there are the occasions at night when u got nothing to do and just start to thinking abt her and the two of us... reading this thread also makes me wonder if i shld have been more persistant... but i didn't wan to make her have to choose. not choosing btw me and her gf but more of chooing btw continuing to accept my nonsense as a fren or give it up...
den one day i realise taht she started getting intimate with her bf.. guess how much that hurt? i mean who is this guy who u barely have been with for 6 months and hardly knew for more den a yr... i have been waiting for her for the past 7 yrs! thats how long i have carried the torch for her.. and not once did think of sex...
alot of pple will say that i am just eating the sour grapes and so on.. maybe i am but i guess only those who experinced this would know how it feels...
just ignore me and just treat it that i'm just bitching... -
+1Originally posted by stuupid:i just read this whole thread and i tell u this kind of things happen to me too..
so i moved on got myself a gf, but how can u forget a gal u liked for 4 yrs already... from frens to best frens to now she calls me her bestest best fren... i liked her since so long ago, let her know abt it... everytime she cries i lend her my shoulder everytime she breaks up i offer her advices. everytime i just wan to be there for her...
it hurts that she doesn't choose to be with u, but den is the frenship worth giving up cos u are persistant in making her your gf? will u be happy den? i chose a yr ago to try to forget and just be frens. of cos there are the occasions at night when u got nothing to do and just start to thinking abt her and the two of us... reading this thread also makes me wonder if i shld have been more persistant... but i didn't wan to make her have to choose. not choosing btw me and her gf but more of chooing btw continuing to accept my nonsense as a fren or give it up...
den one day i realise taht she started getting intimate with her bf.. guess how much that hurt? i mean who is this guy who u barely have been with for 6 months and hardly knew for more den a yr... i have been waiting for her for the past 7 yrs! thats how long i have carried the torch for her.. and not once did think of sex...
alot of pple will say that i am just eating the sour grapes and so on.. maybe i am but i guess only those who experinced this would know how it feels...
just ignore me and just treat it that i'm just bitching... -
so fast.. another week gonna gone.... hmm.. she asked me out.. should i go out with her??
-
Whether she is attached or not, as long as she is not married, every eligible guy can court her. The main issue is whether she wants to be with u and how you gonna convince her that you can give her happiness and a future.
Even if she not with u in the end, at least you have this wonderful memories and you have tried, as with William Pung. Live without regrets!