girlfriend problem
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hey u are wrong!Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:Guys and girls are different ok . What have guys got to lose when having sex in the first place . But i regret my actions that day and hope she will forgive me and i promise to stay true to her forever if she forgives me . Do you people think she will forgive me ? Like how many percent she will forgive me
if protection is used during sex, girls have nothing to lose too!
so dun be selfish, let ur guy frens have sex with her also lah...
maybe she's angry u didn't reciprocate lah, she let u f*** her fren
but u didn't let ur fren f*** her...
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Have to wait and see how,dude. Now probably she n her friend have some friction due to the incident.Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:after thinking so long,i really feel guilty i should not have sex with her friend.If only she will take my call now i will do anything to please her -
Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:after thinking so long,i really feel guilty i should not have sex with her friend.If only she will take my call now i will do anything to please her
think she will be pleased if you take the initative & break up with her -
Pleased ? I don't think so . I guess what she needs now is a little time to get over the whole thing that's all . Breaking up hurts the both of us so i guess she won't do it because she told me she will never leave me no matter what i do and she will forgive me no matter how big the problem is . Let alone this is not something like murder it's onlt a minor mistake that's all . She sent me an sms saying good morning hubby so i think she still treats me as her hubby .Originally posted by epImetheus:
think she will be pleased if you take the initative & break up with her -
Good for you then.Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:Pleased ? I don't think so . I guess what she needs now is a little time to get over the whole thing that's all . Breaking up hurts the both of us so i guess she won't do it because she told me she will never leave me no matter what i do and she will forgive me no matter how big the problem is . Let alone this is not something like murder it's onlt a minor mistake that's all . She sent me an sms saying good morning hubby so i think she still treats me as her hubby .
wish you a long-lasting r/s.
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do you really mean it because you don't sound likeOriginally posted by epImetheus:Good for you then.
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But she still refused my calls even after she sms me . What is wrong with girls what are they thinking . does anyone have a clue what's happening ?Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:Pleased ? I don't think so . I guess what she needs now is a little time to get over the whole thing that's all . Breaking up hurts the both of us so i guess she won't do it because she told me she will never leave me no matter what i do and she will forgive me no matter how big the problem is . Let alone this is not something like murder it's onlt a minor mistake that's all . She sent me an sms saying good morning hubby so i think she still treats me as her hubby . -
One cannot look past the decision that one has made.
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Originally posted by FireIce:well, u got wat u wanted
and she oso see ur true colors....... 
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what do you mean ?Originally posted by jolin80: 
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dun take things for granted... thinking that she will always forgive u all the time...Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:Pleased ? I don't think so . I guess what she needs now is a little time to get over the whole thing that's all . Breaking up hurts the both of us so i guess she won't do it because she told me she will never leave me no matter what i do and she will forgive me no matter how big the problem is . Let alone this is not something like murder it's onlt a minor mistake that's all . She sent me an sms saying good morning hubby so i think she still treats me as her hubby .
maybe she jus need some time to settle her thoughts alone, sms u as a reassurance that she is still with u...she might jus be confuse at the moment...not every1 is so prepared for this situation...be patient -
you mean don't call her now till she cools down ?my gf best friend Cathy says I can count on her she will settle it for me . can i really take her word for it I mean i feel so awarkward even calling that cathy because reminds me of that incidentOriginally posted by Twincat:dun take things for granted... thinking that she will always forgive u all the time...
maybe she jus need some time to settle her thoughts alone, sms u as a reassurance that she is still with u...she might jus be confuse at the moment...not every1 is so prepared for this situation...be patient -
well like i say i dun really noe much between u and ur gal...jus keep things as usual first, any drastic changes often will affect the r/s...wat i mean is dun put undue pressure on her, u can reciprocate sms back to her that u r thinking of her now and then to reassure her as well...u can try to find out wat is happening to her as well to know the root problem...she might have other frens that u know u can always ask them...jus keep things in a low profile yah...Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:you mean don't call her now till she cools down ?
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thanks for your advice but i hope she will close one eye to the whole incident and treat as if nothing happen.Just like before we have outings with her best friend Cathy to the beach all day long .Originally posted by Twincat:well like i say i dun really noe much between u and ur gal...jus keep things as usual first, any drastic changes often will affect the r/s...wat i mean is dun put undue pressure on her, u can reciprocate sms back to her that u r thinking of her now and then to reassure her as well...u can try to find out wat is happening to her as well to know the root problem...she might have other frens that u know u can always ask them...jus keep things in a low profile yah...
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u r welcome...really hope that too...but to be the same and treat it as if nothing happen , i think it will be a bit hard... hope u gain some knowledge and be a better person yah...Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:thanks for your advice but i hope she will close one eye to the whole incident and treat as if nothing happen.Just like before we have outings with her best friend Cathy to the beach all day long .
cheers....
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Best advice given so far. Most sensible. Troy, hope everything goes well for you.Originally posted by Twincat:well like i say i dun really noe much between u and ur gal...jus keep things as usual first, any drastic changes often will affect the r/s...wat i mean is dun put undue pressure on her, u can reciprocate sms back to her that u r thinking of her now and then to reassure her as well...u can try to find out wat is happening to her as well to know the root problem...she might have other frens that u know u can always ask them...jus keep things in a low profile yah...
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Hello Troy, why don't you go and visit your girlfriend? If she really means alot to you, go ahead and look for her at her place. Explain everything to her personally of what you have told us in this forum on how you feel about her and the entire affair. Sure it will give you a better result than whining about it in this forum. Be a man and settle it for yourself.Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:you mean don't call her now till she cools down ?my gf best friend Cathy says I can count on her she will settle it for me . can i really take her word for it I mean i feel so awarkward even calling that cathy because reminds me of that incident
To put it bluntly, why ask her best friend to settle it for you? Do you really hope that somebody will clear up your mess? I'm sure after what has happened, asking her friend to approach your girlfriend will only end up making things worse...your girlfriend might think that you are closer to her best friend than her because you would rather approach her best friend and tell her about your troubles than her.
Everybody will make mistakes in life, how you make up for the mistakes will let her know how sincere you are to her and how special she is to you. Don't wait for tomorrow, go and look for her before your relationship expires.
Hehehe...go and make us guys proud!
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I called her just now and i was so happy that she picked up the phone finally . But she says she find it so hard to accept it that I had sex with her friend and she needs some time to think over the whole matter . We chat less than 15 mins so any girls out there knows what is she thinking now please advicxe me now please I don't wanna lose her
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Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:do you really mean it because you don't sound like
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Its goodbye to the relationship! Face it for tt is the fate awaiting for u ahead. Theres no need for u to deny u did sth wrg.Originally posted by Troy Bayliss:I called her just now and i was so happy that she picked up the phone finally . But she says she find it so hard to accept it that I had sex with her friend and she needs some time to think over the whole matter . We chat less than 15 mins so any girls out there knows what is she thinking now please advicxe me now please I don't wanna lose her -
he's hitched with the other gal oredi!Originally posted by setokaiba:Its goodbye to the relationship! Face it for tt is the fate awaiting for u ahead. Theres no need for u to deny u did sth wrg. -
wah kaoz...
and he thinks he is right?
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I gave her chance to come already but she needs time to think and keep patronizing me so well play hard to get ok bye bye . I don't have much patient after allOriginally posted by FireIce:he's hitched with the other gal oredi! -
Dear Troy, i went thru this entire thread and i only got this to say to you.
You totally screwed your own r/s big time. Its too late to expect anything good to come out from it now. Get on with life.
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what do you mean screwed up big time ? I gave her a chance but she refused itOriginally posted by ditzy:Dear Troy, i went thru this entire thread and i only got this to say to you.
You totally screwed your own r/s big time. Its too late to expect anything good to come out from it now. Get on with life.