guy did something terrible
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some friends you got...
hopefully, you are able to come out of this without much damage...
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that's what i scare lohOriginally posted by my_name_is_Natasha:skali you tell her, she kana depression... preggy ladies very emotional one.... -
Do some community services. Maybe it will help you feel better. Swear to heaven and earth that this thing will not happen again.
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then she depress tot it's the baby's fault..... poor child, yuan wang ah.... If you ask for vote, me say dun tell her....
btw, I char bor, should stand on her side.... but still think you should not tell her... -
French Kiss?!
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Ya lah!Originally posted by FireIce:u shd not even succumb to their taunting in the first place -
French kiss oso considered doin things sorry 2 his wife liao... Oso considered unfaithful liao... Like i said earlier on, den izit muz wait til he slp wif tat ger den can haf big reaction huh?Originally posted by UandMe:French Kiss?!
Is there really a need for such a big reaction?? -
Lets vote. Should tell or should not. I said you
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Next time,have flings during ur secondary or tertiary days
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Wah laueh! Consider good loh! Just french kiss n u feel guilty! At least u didn't screw ard. Yah lah, u did wrong but at least u admit it ...next time dun do it again lor.Originally posted by Ding Shanben:But how to confess ? maybe must wait for her to be in good mood first and then see how . she also don't like me to go out with my guy friends one but yesterday i lie to her all these ...very confused ..i am an unfaithful hubby -
you should tell her, or else u will feel guilty all your life...
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thought it's just a french kiss, i think that u should be true to ur wife and admit ur mistakes.Marriage is abt trust and being true to each other...Lieing to her will only have negative feelings on the relationship....And please learn how to be more responsible....
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Big Deal. Kissing is just a form of greeting. I don't see the big fuss about it. Even if you did go further, so what? As long as no love is involve.
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Big Deal. Kissing is just a form of greeting. I don't see the big fuss about it. Even if you did go further, so what? As long as no love is involve.
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i think u better stay away from these frensOriginally posted by Ding Shanben:last time friends also scold me chicken never go geylang with them so yesterday keep on pestering me all the way to go clubbin . only say go a while but din't expect accident happens
teach u to be unfaithful to ur wife
wat type of fu(king frens are these
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for the sake of your wife's health, keep it from her first.
humans make mistakes. take it as a lesson learnt.
i personally dun recommend telling lies but in your case, tellin your wife now would make things worst. chan qian you yu zhen. she might take it as u dun find her attractive now since she's pregnant. she'll suffer mental torture and(touch wood) even mental illnessess.
carry it upon ur shoulders like a man. keep the mental torture to yourself. let her know after she's given birth . but you got to tell her.
but then i jus can't help but wanna give it to u left right upside down. your wife pregnant wif your child, needing more care and attention now yet u went out drinking?
u think over it man.Originally posted by Ding Shanben:But how to confess ? maybe must wait for her to be in good mood first and then see how . she also don't like me to go out with my guy friends one but yesterday i lie to her all these ...very confused ..i am an unfaithful hubby -
too late...
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Originally posted by foga:for the sake of your wife's health, keep it from her first.
humans make mistakes. take it as a lesson learnt.
i personally dun recommend telling lies but in your case, tellin your wife now would make things worst. chan qian you yu zhen. she might take it as u dun find her attractive now since she's pregnant. she'll suffer mental torture and(touch wood) even mental illnessess.
carry it upon ur shoulders like a man. keep the mental torture to yourself. let her know after she's given birth . but you got to tell her.
but then i jus can't help but wanna give it to u left right upside down. your wife pregnant wif your child, needing more care and attention now yet u went out drinking?
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Haiz... seriously, emotional control is difficult to master especially when peer influence, pride and lust is strong. We all know the right thing to do at the right time logically, but when we are thrown into that situations, emotions BLIND us entirely and the result turn out to be a bunch of rubbish regrets we feel later on.
You wife is pregnant and while you told her the truth, she kept quiet at first while is BECAUSE....
I) Psychologically giving excuse to defend you. She being pregnant cannot satisfy you sexually. You probably seek elsewhere to get some form of kicks.
II) Being honest scores points. You are honest with her, therefore she cannot take advantage of this. If she found out herself, trust me, hell hath no fury by then.
III) Analysizing current situations about the relationship between the both of you. This is the most important consideration - weighing physical or emotional betrayal. In some sense, the latter is more dangerous and fatal than the former.
These 3 points completely conflicts her mind and heart.
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You only have one option to choose. Love her? Avoid situations where you know you will hurt her. More important, I hope you realise by now avoiding desire is 2nd degree solutions. To prevent future related-similiar crisis, you have to acknowledge that girls will always be around and only yourself can battle your desire because if you land in situations where you cannot avoid - you are alone.
CEASE lying of all form immediately. Censoring of information is no wrong, provided it's reasonable. Love Seventh Law stated: Lying destroy intimacy.
Renew, rebirth, recover.
P.S: Others may be better than your wife, but she is certainly the most suitable for you.
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at least he confessed.
let's jus pray and wish for the best outcome.
god bless,amenOriginally posted by the Bear:too late...
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U R wrong coz U R unfaithful.............
But worst, U R even more wrong coz U still go around telling ppl abt it....
Deserved to be scolded
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don't feel bad, its already done, just don't do it again.Originally posted by Ding Shanben:I french kiss a girl i met in the pub yesterday . i feel so guilty when i see my wife now is this consider ......help
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great that you are repentant. just remember not to repeat offense. but don't ever tell your wife or you are gonna die like a piece of shiit, man. she'll never trust you again. and even if God knows you are repentant and deserves another chance, she will never forgive or forget. you just keep this to yourself and remember the guilt and consequences in store. but in case you find hard to forgive yourself, i don't mind helping you by french kissing your wife, then you both even already. but you don't angry lah.Originally posted by Ding Shanben:i intend to confess to my wife even she she slaped me hard because i am in the wrong . I lie to her allthese but got any better solutions or not ? I know i am a bastard to do such a thing
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Brother Ding, r u mad, this is just a small thing and trust you go tell ur wife, u r obviously inviting slaps...stupid, u hurt urself and hurt ur wife...
But great to know that u r a nice guy~