guy did something terrible
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Originally posted by my_name_is_Natasha:you jialat liao......
If I know someone French Kiss my ah lao, I chop off his mouth,
If she touch his hands I chop off his hand,
If they go to bed, I'll chop off his d***h***
you cham liao.... If you confess, you kana
if you no confess, leong xim kana...
haiz......
whah ... vely the violent ... if all zha bo like u ... then adultery can cut down by alot -
tink u better tell ur wife cos ii she manage to find out in someway, u r dead! how could u let urself in tis situation, the fench kiss tink could be prevented. if ur wife is the 1 out at the pub french kiss wif another guy how u feel?
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some things are best left unsaid....
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she's pregnant with your baby! having tough 9 months!
just when she needed you most, instead of staying at home, you went to clubbing and frenchkiss a girl~ all thanks to u
you reminded ladies that we shouldn't trust a guy much not even a nice guy we thought! couldn't believe you could actually do this. if you don't want these to happen, why go clubbing? -
he's not inviting slaps. he deserve it okay?Originally posted by kyoce:Brother Ding, r u mad, this is just a small thing and trust you go tell ur wife, u r obviously inviting slaps...stupid, u hurt urself and hurt ur wife...
But great to know that u r a nice guy~
small thing?? you never understand when a woman is pregnant and her whole heart is on the man she love and willing to bear him a child, just when that, the man went to kiss a girl and clubbing always.
couldn't believe how your wife could actually forgive u
but let me tell u, 99% is she did it for child! 1% for herself! there will always be a deep mark in her heart and thats for sure! -
Don't let her know lor. Letting her know will only makes her sad. If you love her, don't let her know about it. I'm sure you don't want to burden her with sadness just to relieve yourself from your guilt.Originally posted by Ding Shanben:But how to confess ? maybe must wait for her to be in good mood first and then see how . she also don't like me to go out with my guy friends one but yesterday i lie to her all these ...very confused ..i am an unfaithful hubby
But you must verify with yourselves that you do feel guilty about it. Otherwise, I will look down on you as a low person.
Get it?
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whats the definition of guilty?
lying? hiding something?
he's already being looked down! -
Hmm...I think better for him to feel bad for the rest of his life about doing something bad behind his wife than for his to gain her forgiveness and then maybe next time can easily do another major business with another s.l.u.t lor.
If he don't feel bad after a while, then he sure will suffer retribution lor.
Doesn't mean if he gain her forgiveness then he will change from Xi men qing to Wu Song leh. So, he is not looking for forgiveness for posting in this forum lor...in fact, I think he is looking for a way out to make himself easier to release from his guilty feelings.
Maybe I'm hard on him by saying like this. But you simply don't go to pub by yourself unless you are looking for company lor. -
woo hoo.. nice~ but his wife forgive him le.. still there's scar in her.. so guilty for the rest of your life bah shan ben!Originally posted by parn:Hmm...I think better for him to feel bad for the rest of his life about doing something bad behind his wife than for his to gain her forgiveness and then maybe next time can easily do another major business with another s.l.u.t lor.
If he don't feel bad after a while, then he sure will suffer retribution lor.
Doesn't mean if he gain her forgiveness then he will change from Xi men qing to Wu Song leh. So, he is not looking for forgiveness for posting in this forum lor...in fact, I think he is looking for a way out to make himself easier to release from his guilty feelings.
Maybe I'm hard on him by saying like this. But you simply don't go to pub by yourself unless you are looking for company lor. -
ah cai,Originally posted by shan_cai:I oso dun like my hubby 2 go out wif 1 big grp of guy frenz... Tend 2 b more bold n easily influenced... They ask u do wat, u follow. If u dun do, they say u blah blah blah... Den make u feel left out... Haiz~
Onli let my hubby go out wif his best frenz, they're more trustworthy.
So i can understand y ur wife dun like u 2 even go out wif ur guy frenz...
u dont know guys well, when they go geylang, always with best friend. when they go feng sek kai, with best friends again, when go disco or bar to chong, with best friend again, when your boy boy refuse to chong, who talk him into it, best friend again!!!!! so u only
let your man go out with best friends, hehehehe. good luck. -
wohhhhh fire is hot and ice is coolllll, fireice is evil, wicked, mean and nasty, fierce lei, but i like it, hehehe.Originally posted by FireIce:sin #1 - lie to her go gym
sin #2 - go hua tian jiu di
sin #3 - allow ger to chat with u
sin #4 - allow ger to kiss u
sin #5 - oni think of ur wife after a while
enuf to hang u upside-down by ur dick and whipped
hate this type of guys
u truly changed my impression of u
no use regretting....wats done is done and cannot be undone.....
it will be a lifetime blackmark
bro Ding,
i suggest u dont tell your wife about it la, if she is like fireice, u sure die liao lor, hang u by the dick upside down, dont think u can take it....end of your dick warranty, probaly can sent to scrap yard liao after fireice treatment.
if u tell her now, i think cons more then pro,
it may affect her health
it will cause her pain
it may affect her baby
it may or will affect your relationship
she may not trust u in future
she may kena post natal blues after birth and commit suicide, very scary one lei, some of new mama thought that their hubby dont want them liao la, may jump or throw the baby down when they cannot handle the depression.
and more over i feel that u are not a bad guy ma, at least u still think of your wife when a girl french kiss u, hehee, and u still push her away, strong will, for many man, i think will struggle a bit or never at all but continue kissing, i believe. where got cat dont eat fish one??? some more the fish swim to your mouth for you to eat, dont even need effort to catch the fish, difficult to resist. 
by the way the girl pretty or not???
so dont feel remoseful liao, u not only resist successfully but also u didnot initate it ma, but i think a man like u should not go to this kind of place la. beware ended up with fireice treatment hor!!! -
bro Ding,
Please don tell your wife, no matter how strongly regretful you may feel. Not at this point of her pregnancy. It gives off long term repercussion man.
May i suggest, repent, move on and stick to your wife dude. Stop all that clubbing my man... take this opportunity to stop going for all those invitation, try to spend more time with your wife lah.. Enroll on those antenatal classes together man..
After she gives birth also dun tell, cos there's a common thing call post-natal blue and believe me working in a female dominant vocation my colleagues quite many of them get this even though their husband didn't cheat on them. So please bear with this guilt and wait till she is much much more stable after delivery.
Let your wife have a happy pregnancy and delivery experience with your full support. That's the way my man! -
Don't understand you people, incident pass so long already still want to bring up about it and talk again? jia ba liao chao eng ah? Then bring back topic just to grill Ding Shang Ben some more. Bloody fun is it? Guy feels bad enough already. What's more he has already told his wife. Let the couple sort their relationship out. And please, stop being mean to people!!!!!
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You have a warped perception of life. Hope you're just not enforcing your prejudices because of your own poor personal experiences. Probably too much time on your hands as well.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:she's pregnant with your baby! having tough 9 months!
just when she needed you most, instead of staying at home, you went to clubbing and frenchkiss a girl~ all thanks to u
you reminded ladies that we shouldn't trust a guy much not even a nice guy we thought! couldn't believe you could actually do this. if you don't want these to happen, why go clubbing? -
Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honorable reason and for the benefit of others.
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So for example:Originally posted by ForumGod.:Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honorable reason and for the benefit of others.
A guy kills your most beloved and says he didn't do it, its for a good and honourable reason and for the benefit of others?
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u should haf sex with her, b4 u feel gulity....
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Come on u guys..
to err is to be human.. since he`s repentent plz give him a chance..
nv look down on ppl unless u`re helpin him up..
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kaoz...
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Maybe I am the only person here with good reading comprehension. But from what I read in his post, it was that girl who initiated the kiss. Then he pushed her away because he was married and didnt want to cheat. So he did right thing. Good on you, Ding. Tell your wife, she should be proud of you.
Ignore the morons in this thread. -
thanks for your information..Originally posted by SmallPanda:
Maybe I am the only person here with good reading comprehension. But from what I read in his post, it was that girl who initiated the kiss. Then he pushed her away because he was married and didnt want to cheat. So he did right thing. Good on you, Ding. Tell your wife, she should be proud of you.
Ignore the morons in this thread.
enlighten me please.. he stopped and pushed the lady away WHEN he thought of his wife..
he didn't want to cheat but he cheated his wife that he went to gym though..
she didn't feel proud, slapped him~
one right thing which im really proud of him is he at least pushed the lady away didn't went too far.. and let his wife know everything~ -
He knew right from wrong and didnt go further. He is to be commended. His wife had no right to assault him and if I were him I would go to the police if she does it anymore. Ding, grow some balls man. Don't let people hit you without giving it back to them with a thousand times more force. You really should start considering whether this is the type of wife you want. Do you want to tolerate this type of behaviour from her for the rest of your life? I know what I would do if I were in your situation but you should at least consider a divorce.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:thanks for your information..
enlighten me please.. he stopped and pushed the lady away WHEN he thought of his wife..
he didn't want to cheat but he cheated his wife that he went to gym though..
she didn't feel proud, slapped him~
one right thing which im really proud of him is he at least pushed the lady away didn't went too far.. and let his wife know everything~ -
this is your assumptions. she's pregnant and its a huge blows to her though.. he deserved the slap. after it, its over ok..Originally posted by SmallPanda:He knew right from wrong and didnt go further. He is to be commended. His wife had no right to assault him and if I were him I would go to the police if she does it anymore. Ding, grow some balls man. Don't let people hit you without giving it back to them with a thousand times more force. You really should start considering whether this is the type of wife you want. Do you want to tolerate this type of behaviour from her for the rest of your life? I know what I would do if I were in your situation but you should at least consider a divorce.
don't indulge him the thinking of divorce just because of the slap
this behaviour isn't wrong from her. okay, he did pushed away but still, he did it.
divorce her just because this guy kissed other girl and got a slap from her wife? who will agree?
she's with his kid okay, how much she's given in to her husband..? couldn't divorce her just for a slap and get this clear, he lied to his wife that he went to gym while he went to clubbing okay, he step into this and got this mess. so what if he didn't deserve slap as he kissed other girl but he do deserve for lying
isn't it full enough to be the reason for his wife losing her temper, pregnant woman couldn't control her temper well and she forgiven him, its already great news to shanben lor -
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