How do you forget a person in the shortest time?

• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 15:50

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  wow.. then i'd turned willowy if another 5kgs are gone.. not a bad deal.. but hope the fats won't go at all the wrong places....... nonetheless, eating my baked rice now..

  ah yeah not a bad deal, but then i wasn't really eating.... i even went without food for 3 days at one stretch... because i simply din feel like eating...
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 15:52

  Originally posted by Fuqua:

  Ur siggy .. U2 fan?
  The trick is of course how to maintain or improve ur current weight now that ur happy. Takes much discipline. I wish u luck.

  not exactly a fan but i like that song...
  uh now that im happy i added 3kg back. hehe
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 15:53

  Originally posted by sleepycat:
  [b]Into the fog, you walk towards my violence
  And, at the heart of the storm, he stalks her in silence. A
  way from the path her pebbles form on which
  he pauses upon her quickened pulse,
  fixes his gaze,
  hurries his heavy steps,
  mazes through the haze and
  into her frenzy -
  HE
  stops.
  [/b]

  nice...
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 15:53

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  btw, where is your mary jane?
  

  
• sleepycat

  15 Sep 04, 16:28

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  You had done most of the hardwork when you made the decision not to see him again. It becomes more difficult if you are unsure about leaving himÂ…it will be like hanging on a thread hoping things will turn out right finally. So congratsÂ…you are on your way to better things in life... I am still looking high and low for mary jane..

  you hit the nail ya! no wonder u r said to have more power.. the hardest part was over so now comes the difficult part.. hahaha! then again, with each day that passes, with each encouragement that comes along my way, it sure feels so goooooood doing something realli ggrreaat for myself again....
  
  hope u find her soon.. she muz be somewhere waiting for her hero too!
  
  
• sleepycat

  15 Sep 04, 16:31

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  .... i even went without food for 3 days at one stretch... because i simply din feel like eating...

  this is very very very familiar to me... glad we're eating again... cheerzZz! so have u finished packing?
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 16:34

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  this is very very very familiar to me... glad we're eating again... cheerzZz! so have u finished packing?

  cherly im not so glad im eating again... i felt pretty nice when i lost 5kgs... ah packing is more or less done.
  ah... sigh.... im going to a place where...... i be very near to that someone whom im still going thru eternity for....
• sleepycat

  15 Sep 04, 16:45

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  ah... sigh.... im going to a place where...... i be very near to that someone whom im still going thru eternity for....

  sigh.... did u choose to go there or not by choice? hope u won't get thrown into the swirlpool again.. hmm or hopefully, a miracle would take place for u?
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 17:05

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  sigh.... did u choose to go there or not by choice? hope u won't get thrown into the swirlpool again.. hmm or hopefully, a miracle would take place for u?

  i choose to go by choice, which partially was a choice made because of her, but after we broke, i saw that this place really was meant for me, so i have to go. miracles... i've stopped hoping for one for us. i wish to be able to start anew with someone else.
• sleepycat

  15 Sep 04, 17:12

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  i choose to go by choice, which partially was a choice made because of her, but after we broke, i saw that this place really was meant for me, so i have to go. miracles... i've stopped hoping for one for us. i wish to be able to start anew with someone else.

  tat's d spirit! way to go dude! no turning back... VROOOOoOOoOOM all d way to your goal!
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 17:36

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  tat's d spirit! way to go dude! no turning back... VROOOOoOOoOOM all d way to your goal!

  thanks. well hope u be fine too!
• sleepycat

  15 Sep 04, 17:39

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  thanks. well hope u be fine too!

  7th day... like what pete_parker counted.. & God finished His creation on the 7th day too...
• HENG@

  15 Sep 04, 18:10

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  7th day... like what pete_parker counted.. & God finished His creation on the 7th day too...

  my 410+ +2 day for me.
• sleepycat

  16 Sep 04, 01:50

  (1.34am, 8th day, in a bloggin' mood) .. can't sleep.. work is done & printed.. walked to the kitchen to get a glass of water.. cool night breeze.. nothing but the sound of distant traveling cars and cicadas.. there're times when i feel detached from the world, such is now.. juz like the world had gone ahead of me & i've lost sight of what's really happening & what should happen (e reality in my head is not the one i see).. i'm glad it's nightfall now when i don't need to divide my attention between work and such sharp pangs of alone-ness..
  
  it's not so much abt mr p now and this, i know in a corner of my consciousness.. it's abt picking up the shattered pieces of glass mr p and i had left behind, wrapping them up in a bag carefully without being pricked and stashing them away to be dumped...
  
  by now, mr p should have packed & left for his mind's california & i'm waiting at the transit for the 8th day, with my luggage of un-needed memories..
  
  but.. i do know where i'm heading to..
• HENG@

  16 Sep 04, 01:55

  still awake???
• advanceparty

  16 Sep 04, 01:59

  shoot yourself in the head. no brain cannot remember liao
  
  

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  Context:
  1. No second party should be involved.. means no using of another person in any way (sexual / non-sexual)...
  2. This person whom you're trying to forget used to give you great out-of-the-world sex...
  3. Shortest time = 3 days (Short enough?)
  
  Thanks & genuine, applicable advice/tips/suggestions pls..

• HENG@

  16 Sep 04, 02:00

  Originally posted by advanceparty:

  shoot yourself in the head. no brain cannot remember liao
  
  

  ouch. bad idea. although i've very much considered it b4
• Fuqua

  16 Sep 04, 08:46

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  (1.34am, 8th day, in a bloggin' mood) .. can't sleep.. work is done & printed.. walked to the kitchen to get a glass of water.. cool night breeze.. nothing but the sound of distant traveling cars and cicadas.. there're times when i feel detached from the world, such is now.. juz like the world had gone ahead of me & i've lost sight of what's really happening & what should happen (e reality in my head is not the one i see).. i'm glad it's nightfall now when i don't need to divide my attention between work and such sharp pangs of alone-ness..
  
  it's not so much abt mr p now and this, i know in a corner of my consciousness.. it's abt picking up the shattered pieces of glass mr p and i had left behind, wrapping them up in a bag carefully without being pricked and stashing them away to be dumped...
  
  by now, mr p should have packed & left for his mind's california & i'm waiting at the transit for the 8th day, with my luggage of un-needed memories..
  
  but.. i do know where i'm heading to..

  Lady, u need a RIDE?
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  16 Sep 04, 09:09

  Originally posted by sleepycat:

  (1.34am, 8th day, in a bloggin' mood) .. can't sleep.. work is done & printed.. walked to the kitchen to get a glass of water.. cool night breeze.. nothing but the sound of distant traveling cars and cicadas.. there're times when i feel detached from the world, such is now.. juz like the world had gone ahead of me & i've lost sight of what's really happening & what should happen (e reality in my head is not the one i see).. i'm glad it's nightfall now when i don't need to divide my attention between work and such sharp pangs of alone-ness..
  
  it's not so much abt mr p now and this, i know in a corner of my consciousness.. it's abt picking up the shattered pieces of glass mr p and i had left behind, wrapping them up in a bag carefully without being pricked and stashing them away to be dumped...
  
  by now, mr p should have packed & left for his mind's california & i'm waiting at the transit for the 8th day, with my luggage of un-needed memories..
  
  but.. i do know where i'm heading to..

  
  In the dead of the nightÂ…sleepycat is entangled in a web of lonelinessÂ…she triesÂ…but her mind drifts into the pastÂ…. A past filled with images of her broken relationshipÂ…an un-completed romantic tapestryÂ….Is she contemplating weaving a happy ending in the final chapter?
  
  Hi Sleepycat, what would be a happy ending to your current predicament? Would you consider starting a new romance or have you been scarred to the point of forsaking love forever?
  
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  16 Sep 04, 09:19

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  my 410+ +2 day for me.

  That is more than one whole year ago
  Poor Heng.....
  I hope things get better for you in London..
  One of my classmate in school went to Newcastle and came back with a HongKong born British citizen. Newcastle mind you...I would guess London to be more cosmopolitan. Go get them and like sleepycat said.....Vrooooooooom to you goal.
• HENG@

  16 Sep 04, 09:37

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  That is more than one whole year ago
  Poor Heng.....
  I hope things get better for you in London..
  One of my classmate in school went to Newcastle and came back with a HongKong born British citizen. Newcastle mind you...I would guess London to be more cosmopolitan. Go get them and like sleepycat said.....Vrooooooooom to you goal.

  uhhh... yeah over a year ago.
  heh thanx.
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  16 Sep 04, 09:52

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  uhhh... yeah over a year ago.
  heh thanx.

  you are welcome....
  Hey, isn't your flight just 2 days away? All you bags are pack and you are ready to go?
• sleepycat

  16 Sep 04, 12:16

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  ouch. bad idea. although i've very much considered it b4

  glad we're still sober & not self-destructive (yet?)
• sleepycat

  16 Sep 04, 12:18

  Originally posted by Fuqua:

  Lady, u need a RIDE?

  hmmm thanks.. will go on walking though, enjoying e strange scenery here...
• sleepycat

  16 Sep 04, 12:25

  Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:

  In the dead of the nightÂ…sleepycat is entangled in a web of lonelinessÂ…she triesÂ…but her mind drifts into the pastÂ…. A past filled with images of her broken relationshipÂ…an un-completed romantic tapestryÂ….Is she contemplating weaving a happy ending in the final chapter?Hi Sleepycat, what would be a happy ending to your current predicament? Would you consider starting a new romance or have you been scarred to the point of forsaking love forever?
  

  of course i'm contemplating on how a happy ending could be weaved.. who isn't? except peter parker cuz with greater power cums greater responsibilities & hence great sacrifices... hehe sorry, feeling crappy cuz it's almost time for lunch break....
  
  but it'd a happy ending without mr p.. tat's how d script will go.. i'm no oracle so i dun see new romance but there isn't fear to love again.. someone said once u loved before, u'll always always love again bah.. chillz