males = perverts?
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This is one misconception that makes life so difficult for nice guys...
Like me...
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i also have. Just don't reply lah what's the big deal
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So many asking the girls to expose the bugger but the girl keep quiet and this condone the sick actions of the real perverts. Then the girl call men = pervert. Which is not fair cause there are lots of guys where who are decent and nice chaps. Look, I had expose a pervert, look up sggirls http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=117098 And really if people wanna think I am mean b!tch, then its their problem but I feel at least I give fair warning to people about this moron.
This is real drama hor and I relate this to people. In another site, there was a bunch of girls who were harassed by perverts. All kept quiet and the pervert used this to his advantage. He went to one after another girl and the girls all thought thay suffered alone. Had they only spoke up, no one would blame them and ther pervert would be talking to the police and sent back to where they came from.
In a dating site NTU once setup (closed down now), there was this guy who kept pestering all the girls that he's a grad of some brit uni, he lived in Bukit Timah and etc. Then one of my friedns agreed to a luch appointment, at the last minute, he changed to a very late night supper. I do not know if she's come to harm cause she would not say but I know she's so shaken she would never date again. (my guess is that she might have been raped! but too ashame to tell me.) I was the only one who contacted the admin for the NTU dating site and told them about this guy. Then the NTU folks came back and said yes, this guy has been hitting on several girls after they checked with them BUT no one reported about him. So he got away doing so much harm to the women! I was THE only one who bothered to take action. Thus, the NTU admin was so sadden by these activities, he closed down the site. Had some of the girls came forward, he would have been nabbed earilier.
So let me say this, if you want to rid of pests, you do not sit down and watch it, like watching ESPN. You participate and take action, call for action and make the bugger understand his behaviour is not tolerated in our site or our society. -
I can also name you someone who goes around hacking into people's mailboxes and feels so proud about itOriginally posted by mistyblue:I don't think so. I can name you one attention seeker who left... -
Originally posted by rainee:I can also name you someone who goes around hacking into people's mailboxes and feels so proud about it
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Sigh....Originally posted by rainee:I can also name you someone who goes around hacking into people's mailboxes and feels so proud about it
I only cre when people know how to put money into my bank account...
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Sigh....Originally posted by rainee:I can also name you someone who goes around hacking into people's mailboxes and feels so proud about it
I only care when people know how to put money into my bank account... -
I repeat...it is not called Private Message for nothing
There is such thing as respecting one's privacy.
I do not reveal my PM unless that person has PMed me umpteen times. And what for want to create so much trouble? If anyone can just ignore those PMs, they will feel bored and stop it after some time. They have the right to PM you, you have the right to just ignore them. Most are just seeking for attention after all, and if you create a thread just to post up their PMs, they will feel as if their wish has just been granted -
Expose those idiots...Originally posted by Sylvia Cai Jia Ying:why do they create accounts with 0 posts and msg girls? i bet u girls out that also had similar encounters. what they say is utterly disgusting. im not going to embarass that particular person so im not annoucning his username. he asked me what i was wearing for at least three times, told me he was only wearing his shorts, being alone at home and all. what the hell is that supposed to mean? in addition to that, he asked for my hp number and msn. i cant believe people who go down to this level of desperateness exists. lacking in maturity, he thinks i'm going to give him my contacts. as if!!
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Attention seekers ???Originally posted by rainee:I repeat...it is not called Private Message for nothing
There is such thing as respecting one's privacy.
I do not reveal my PM unless that person has PMed me umpteen times. And what for want to create so much trouble? If anyone can just ignore those PMs, they will feel bored and stop it after some time. They have the right to PM you, you have the right to just ignore them. Most are just seeking for attention after all, and if you create a thread just to post up their PMs, they will feel as if their wish has just been granted -
absolutely true..Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):males = horny
horny ....not= pervert
pervert= human(male or female) that are sexually sick
males are generally horny bunch, but those pervertic ones are sick..seriously.. -
well.. all i can say is good job mistyblue!! =D.. to hell with bastards like him
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juz put it this way...
never NEVER ever meet up with someone you noe online alone...
if you meet up... ALWAYS go with your real life friends...
arranging to meet an online friend is dangerous...
coz you never noe who the other person is...
whether he/she is really who he/she seems to be...
juz state tat you are a guy...
then nobody will bother you liao...
but with a nick like your's...
its juz crying out for pm lah... -
well.. all i can say is good job mistyblue!! =D.. to hell with bastards like him
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Hi mistyblue
I agree. Many time people tend to keep quiet and suffer alone. But that only cause more people to gone through what they have gone through. Come to think of it, it is kind of selfish. If they could speak up, she could possiblely help and save many others.
RegardsOriginally posted by mistyblue:So many asking the girls to expose the bugger but the girl keep quiet and this condone the sick actions of the real perverts. Then the girl call men = pervert. Which is not fair cause there are lots of guys where who are decent and nice chaps. Look, I had expose a pervert, look up sggirls http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=117098 And really if people wanna think I am mean b!tch, then its their problem but I feel at least I give fair warning to people about this moron.
This is real drama hor and I relate this to people. In another site, there was a bunch of girls who were harassed by perverts. All kept quiet and the pervert used this to his advantage. He went to one after another girl and the girls all thought thay suffered alone. Had they only spoke up, no one would blame them and ther pervert would be talking to the police and sent back to where they came from.
In a dating site NTU once setup (closed down now), there was this guy who kept pestering all the girls that he's a grad of some brit uni, he lived in Bukit Timah and etc. Then one of my friedns agreed to a luch appointment, at the last minute, he changed to a very late night supper. I do not know if she's come to harm cause she would not say but I know she's so shaken she would never date again. (my guess is that she might have been raped! but too ashame to tell me.) I was the only one who contacted the admin for the NTU dating site and told them about this guy. Then the NTU folks came back and said yes, this guy has been hitting on several girls after they checked with them BUT no one reported about him. So he got away doing so much harm to the women! I was THE only one who bothered to take action. Thus, the NTU admin was so sadden by these activities, he closed down the site. Had some of the girls came forward, he would have been nabbed earilier.
So let me say this, if you want to rid of pests, you do not sit down and watch it, like watching ESPN. You participate and take action, call for action and make the bugger understand his behaviour is not tolerated in our site or our society. -
Hmm...mebbe I should dig out the PMs in my mailbox now...Originally posted by varatare:Hi mistyblue
I agree. Many time people tend to keep quiet and suffer alone. But that only cause more people to gone through what they have gone through. Come to think of it, it is kind of selfish. If they could speak up, she could possiblely help and save many others.
Regards
Will be a very interesting read indeed -
I am sure U gt loads of it...Originally posted by rainee:Hmm...mebbe I should dig out the PMs in my mailbox now...
Will be a very interesting read indeed
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I think I have up to...15 pagesOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:I am sure U gt loads of it... And wait till you see the perverted things they wrote and when I told them to f-off, they started to flame me 
If I post here, this thread will stretch forever lor... -
believe you have one or two post from me too. Lucky not perverted one. Originally posted by rainee:I think I have up to...15 pages And wait till you see the perverted things they wrote and when I told them to f-off, they started to flame me
If I post here, this thread will stretch forever lor... -
hahaOriginally posted by varatare: believe you have one or two post from me too. Lucky not perverted one. -
U can forward the pms to me...Originally posted by rainee:I think I have up to...15 pages And wait till you see the perverted things they wrote and when I told them to f-off, they started to flame me
If I post here, this thread will stretch forever lor... -
it is alright, actually there is one of them who has gone overboard towards me, I was really tempted to post it up but I didn't because of the privacy issue...I don't even know why I bother to respect people who don't respect me back...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:U can forward the pms to me... 
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post them here???Originally posted by rainee:it is alright, actually there is one of them who has gone overboard towards me, I was really tempted to post it up but I didn't because of the privacy issue...I don't even know why I bother to respect people who don't respect me back...
we all wanna see how perverted ppl can be... -
hmm. since i do not pm u.. then i am not a pervert.
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Expose him...so we can laugh at him...flame him if he dare reply...Originally posted by rainee:it is alright, actually there is one of them who has gone overboard towards me, I was really tempted to post it up but I didn't because of the privacy issue...I don't even know why I bother to respect people who don't respect me back...