NS Officer proposing marriage to GF in National Stadium
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and OCTs. And yes i've heard of NSF Lts getting booked for that as well.Originally posted by ditzy:The rules as far as I know, only applies to recruits.
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Romantic mah.
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I think SAF always got this "Abuse authority" problem. How come CPT can do such things in the public. Somemore in front of national TV? And a simple NSF or normal specialist can't do that in the public? Why? becos government spend money on them training them to become leader of tmr so that they can abuse authority? If everything like what you guys say things should be given some levy way, why they never seems to give NSF any of them? I mean if you do it not in front of national TV still ok. but What you telling the citizen of Singapore? That SAF got no Regimental? Officer can kiss in public and even in front of national TV? while NSF cannot? Then GOM fark one loh. Can just burn it and drink it liao. How come anything disadvantage to them will just not mention. I think all these regulars deserve to be hanged sometimes. I'm not saying all of them. But a lot of them. They either brain left it at home or never even exist after they join SAF. Doing such things in front of national TV and still so proud of it. Where all the regimental implement on NSF gone to? only apply to NSF only?
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X2Originally posted by shandower:Romantic mah. 
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threadstarter not happy sia
must be his EX gf -
is tt gal ur ex gf??
y sOo angry?
i kinda find it romantic lo..although abit paisei fer the gal la.. no need sOo angry one ma.. 
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you find that hor...hes quite unsually angry about this?Originally posted by Princess livia:
is tt gal ur ex gf??
y sOo angry?
i kinda find it romantic lo..although abit paisei fer the gal la.. no need sOo angry one ma..
machiam like he shold be the one lidat -
Let's see it another way.
He knows that he may get into trouble for making his proposal at the said time, place and using said equipment and he still went ahead. Takes a lot of guts to do that. Besides, National Day is a special occasion to celebrate our nation's birthday. He's heeding the nation's directive to get married and hopefully have more kids. Nothing wrong right? -
Originally posted by StarPuppy:you find that hor...hes quite unsually angry about this?
machiam like he shold be the one lidat -
I bet you if it was an NSF with the rank of PTE, his application for the exact same events will not even get through his immediate superior.
Unless, he was some general's son. But then I doubt he might even be involved in any ndp preparations if he was a general's son to begin with. -
LOSER !!! Get a life man... you are just jealous that someone is brave enough to do it. Since government is promoting marriage & family life, he is showing his leadership by "lead by example". Only LOSER will criticise one's honour and bravery.Originally posted by lookforfreedom1:What kind of nonsence is that for a Infantry officer to propose marriage to his girlfriend in National Stadium?
You are wearing an army No 4 uniform, commisioned by Mr. President. Although, you are involved in helping out in the dance display for National Day, that does not give you an extra priviledge to display your marriage proposal and telecast over the big screens in the National Stadium.
As an officer, you should lead your man with your good leadership, be an example for your man.
What kind of message are you sending to your man? You are kissing your girlfriend in public with your CPT rank.
Wheather is it intentionary to be telecast over the television news or strait times, I feel that you have no respect for National Day. People are putting efforts into making a national day a successful one.
Did you put in effort in making the national day a successful one? Would you be that confident that your GF would not reject you without keep thinking that you fail?
SAF should do something on this!
LOSER !!! Get a life man... you are just jealous that someone is sending a message of love and family.
LOSER !!! Get a life man... you are just jealous that someone is confident enough to know that his GF will not reject him. In military, confident is a must. Fail is not an option! Only a LOSER without confident will think failure.
LOSER !!! Get a life man... i never see a person anymore LOSER that you do and i bet you don't have a GF to propose to... oh even if you do, they won't be 50,000+ people to cheer for you! hahaha... LOSER!!! -
I think it's romantic. BUT, what if everyone follows suit?
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Proposing to GF in public.. - most welcome to
..On N-day television.. - no prob
..in uniform - BIG prob.
If he gets away with it, it'll be a blatant case of double standards, rules not applied across the board. Equality my foot. So if you're somebody or know a somebody, if u're rich, or if u're high ranked, the rules don't apply to you?
Bullshiiaaat. -
everyone do something..
other either condemn it or praise it..
might as well keep comments to yourself...
he wear uniform.. then he proposed to his gf..
get into trouble also his problem what.. why u all bother so much about
his well being?
even if he don't, maybe like national stadium,
30+years down the road,
his marriage also get wrecked by others.. -
somehow i juz think most of the d**kheads who rejects and doesn't like this are guys..and maybe u guys don't have a gf..?
i think it's the same for all guys..if u wan to try and propose..u would do anything to secure a sure-accept situation...
and in the girl's or lady's view...pls...use ur brain...would any girl wish that her guy would juz propose without anything special..?i mean..u wan to ask ur girl to marry u with juz a casual question ah..?i think she will slap u..~lolz..~
and i seriously don't think it's disgraceful at all...nsf, nsman, regulars....all of them are humans...they get married too...it kinds of shows how romantic and lovely men in singapore -who is in or gone through army, can be....
so u d**kheads who rejects or don't like that...go get a condom and cover ur head..don't disgrace men of Singapore..~~
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+1Originally posted by harrymushroom:somehow i juz think most of the d**kheads who rejects and doesn't like this are guys..and maybe u guys don't have a gf..?
i think it's the same for all guys..if u wan to try and propose..u would do anything to secure a sure-accept situation...
and in the girl's or lady's view...pls...use ur brain...would any girl wish that her guy would juz propose without anything special..?i mean..u wan to ask ur girl to marry u with juz a casual question ah..?i think she will slap u..~lolz..~
and i seriously don't think it's disgraceful at all...nsf, nsman, regulars....all of them are humans...they get married too...it kinds of shows how romantic and lovely men in singapore -who is in or gone through army, can be....
so u d**kheads who rejects or don't like that...go get a condom and cover ur head..don't disgrace men of Singapore..~~
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Typical pathetic Sillyporeans...so uptight and straight-laced about such minor issues like proposing to gf at National stadium in No.4
No wonder the country cannot progress....frankly, I think its sweet and nice to propose to one's gf during National Day...Like I always say..tyo each his onw and its things like this that makes life more interesting and more unique...What rules has he broken...I'm sure he serves the nation with pride and protecting the stupid butts of all these critical Sillyporeans from all threats...so why can't he be allowed some leeway to express his love...
What about the time honored tradition of getting married in No.1 with an arch of swords by fellow officers....C'mon...how about the many soldiers after WW2 kissing their loved ones in public to celebrate V-E day or V-J day...
Again I say...pathetic pathetic singaporeans...don't know when to let loose and only know how to complain...no wonder I am getting out of here...One-dimensional and one-track mind to all those who complain about proposing in National Stadium -
Next national day we see 20 marriage proposals made at the padang.Originally posted by newcomer:I think it's romantic. BUT, what if everyone follows suit? -
got chance at it happening at istana?Originally posted by ditzy:Next national day we see 20 marriage proposals made at the padang. -
I don't see why proposing in his uniform is a problem. He has NOT disgrace his uniform or the SAF. In the matter of fact, he has shown his leadership by showing that behind the strong, cold and disciplined militarymen, there is a warm hearted, romantic and sensitive human being.
Don't use the National Day or the uniform as an excuse to condemn his honour and bravery.
For all of you who condemn him just because he dare to be different, be ashamed of yourself because you DISGRACE Singapore men for being petty and loser. -
Yup...right on...disgraceful to those who complain....petty and narrow minded...
In fact...I want all men to propose to their gf in uniform...heheh....it will be a sight.... -
Should have charge him for indecency while wearing a No. 4
it will make headlines if he is escorted out by MPs -
Ooooh, how touching, makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, oh gimme a break!!!Originally posted by mark_docent:I don't see why proposing in his uniform is a problem. He has NOT disgrace his uniform or the SAF. In the matter of fact, he has shown his leadership by showing that behind the strong, cold and disciplined militarymen, there is a warm hearted, romantic and sensitive human being. -
Indecency ??? is he naked when proposing? Since when wearing a uniform became "indecency"?Originally posted by Kenashi:Should have charge him for indecency while wearing a No. 4
it will make headlines if he is escorted out by MPs -
Wah tyhis topic very debatable sia... altho i myself nvr see the actual news but i heard it over the tv while playing games. Bear with my lengthy story here.
From a normal person who hasn't gone tru NS b4 will consider him as a very romantic guy. He's kinda lucky to have propsed in front of the whole nation on national tv and also it was the last yr that the stadium will be around. Good memorable proposal. From a girl's point of view, she couldn't possibly ask more, a CPT earns quite alot in SAF, so future is secured. Proposal of marriage such a memorable 1, hard to reject. That CPT certainly has a win-win situation here under his control. Yes true that he displayed a good leadership by setting an example of getting married fast to have kids which is what those guys in white has always been promoting.
Now here comes the bad part of the proposal. How come only recruits are affected by the wearing uniform no holding hands or kissing in public? Apart from the rank difference, aren't recruits also wearing the SAF uniform? or are they wearing some kind of alien uniform that makes them different from others? To most guys in the SAF serving BMT now, will start to wonder if the "unwritten rule" exists in the 1st place or not. I do not think recruits as the lowest life form on this earth but i do admit they stink whenever they book out. Guys u all were recruits once, so does that mean u were also the lowest life form on this earth??? kinda funny hearing some1 scolding himself that u know.
back to the CPT. Such high risk he is taking might get him in trouble. He might get demoted on 1 hand but wins a wife on the other. He might be charged to detention for not respecting the uniform especially N-day.
After this incident, some ppl might envy him, some might congratulate him, some might even hate him. But for all i know its takes alot of guts to pull that kind of stunt and for that i salute him as a man. but risking his career over a proposal, this is an act of stupidity. Never go tru any deep thoughts. i might not know if he has alrdy discussed this over with the commanding officers on this stunt. Well if he hasn't, lets wish him good luck that nth bad will happen to him ba.